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Serial: Meet Your New Podcast Addiction

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If you're already a podcast fan, odds are you spent the weekend getting hooked on Serial and telling all your friends to get hooked on Serial. If you're not into podcasts yet, this is the reason you should be.

The new This American Life spin-off tackles one story a season. With a new, free episode every Thursday, season 1 follows reporter Sarah Koenig deep into the mysterious tale of Adnan Syed. Accused of killing his high school ex-girlfriend, Hae Min Lee, back in 1999, Syed has been in prison for the last 15 years.

Lee's murder was particularly gruesome: Her body was found in a Baltimore park, strangled and buried in a shallow grave. From the start, Syed maintained his innocence, claiming he had no reason to kill her. Friends and family corroborate he had no ill will toward Lee, with whom he was still friends. Furthermore, Syed was an exceptional kid — a golden boy, even. He got good grades, volunteered at his family's mosque, and had a solid group of other good-kid friends. Listening to his conversations with Koenig, recorded via collect calls from a maximum-security prison, Syed does come across as sincere and rational.

But, Koenig's investigation exposed a host of new questions, with every answer more perplexing than the last. With each new episode of Serial, we meet new voices, pick up more clues, and come closer to answering the question at hand. Koenig tracks down Asia, a friend of Syed's who provided him with an alibi, but never made it to the trial. Then, another friend Jay completely negates her story. We even hear from Lee, as Koenig shares curious excerpts from the deceased's diary, chronicling her relationship with Syed in girlish, gushing prose.

One of these people is lying. One of these people has been lying for a very long time. Who is it?

Perhaps, even more thrilling is that no one knows yet — not even the Koenig. "Sarah is still reporting on this story," producer Julie Snyder tells us. "It is very much alive."

The first episodes cover information Koenig gathered in the last four to six months, but as the season progresses, there is very little lag time between investigation and reporting.

"Every time we write a new episode it effects the episode coming after it," says Snyder. The team is aiming for approximately 10 or 11 episodes, but the resolution remains mysterious. "It's a little unclear as to where it will all lead us. We have a general idea, but we don't completely know how it's going to end."

That's what makes Serial so thrilling. It's a potent combination of investigative reporting, crafted storytelling, and the unknown. All we can be certain of is that 15 years ago a teenager was killed, and another one went to prison. Someone knows the truth, but he or she is not telling. Now that thousands of people are listening, will they finally speak up?

"Nothing is etched in stone," says Snyder. "That's for sure."

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A Butternut Squash Recipe To Replace Your Typical Side Dish

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Fall, my favorite season, is rapidly approaching. I am eagerly looking forward to cooler temperatures, stunning sunsets and especially — fall produce. After spotting an early display of butternut squash at the market, I immediately purchased one with thoughts of this recipe in my head. Roasted butternut squash with sweet spices, chile, and lime is a perfect side dish to transition from summer to fall.

The earthy squash is brushed with olive oil, home ground cardamom, allspice and flaky sea salt then roasted until tender and creamy. The sweet spiced squash is then arranged with lime slices, serrano chiles, cilantro, and a cool yogurt-tahini dressing. The contrasting flavors and textures of this dish are just spectacular. Continue reading for an early taste of fall.

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Roasted Butternut Squash With Sweet Spices, Chile, And Lime
Adapted from Plenty Vibrant Vegetable Recipes from London's Ottolenghi.
Serves: 4 - 6

Ingredients
2 limes
Flaky sea salt
4 tbsp olive oil, divided
1 medium butternut squash (about 2 pounds)
2 tbsp green cardamom pods
1 tsp ground allspice
1/2 cup Greek yogurt
2 1/2 tbsp tahini
1 tbsp lime juice
1 serrano chile, deseeded and thinly sliced
Cilantro leaves
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Instructions
1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees Fahrenheit.

2. Using a small, sharp knife, trim off the tops and bottoms of both limes. Stand each lime on a cutting board (flat side to the board) and cut down the sides of the fruit, following the curve, to trim away the skin and pith. Discard the skin and pith. Quarter the limes from top to bottom then cut each quarter into thin slices (about 1/8 inch thick). Place slices in a small bowl and sprinkle with a little flaky sea salt. Add 1 tablespoon of olive oil, stirring to combine. Set aside.

3. Cut the butternut squash in half lengthwise, scoop out the guts (seeds and strings) and discard. Cut each half lengthwise (now you have quarters). Cut the quarters widthwise into 3/8 inch thick slices. Lay the slices on a baking sheet lined with a silpat or parchment paper.

4. Place several cardamom pods on a cutting board. Using the flat side of a large knife, rest the knife on top of the pods then give it a good thwack with the palm of your hand (be careful here! never hit the sharp part of the knife with your hand). This will allow you to easily get the seeds from the pods. Repeat this process with remaining cardamom pods until you have extracted all of the seeds. Discard the pods.

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5. Place seeds in a mortar and grind with a pestle until you reach a rough powder (or use a spice grinder). Transfer to a small bowl and add allspice and remaining 3 tablespoons of olive oil, stirring to combine. Brush the mixture evenly over the butternut squash slices. Sprinkle the slices with a little flaky sea salt. Place in the oven and cook until fork tender (an inserted fork meets little resistance, about 16 minutes). Remove from the oven and set aside to cool. Once cooled, peel off the skin.

6. While the squash is cooling, prepare the dressing. Whisk together the Greek yogurt, tahini, lime juice, 2 tablespoons of water, and a pinch of flaky sea salt. Continue adding water until the sauce reaches a pourable consistency (I added a few more tablespoons).

7. To serve, arrange the butternut squash slices on a large platter. Drizzle with yogurt sauce. Spoon over lime slices and their juices. Top with sliced chiles and cilantro leaves.

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8 Celebrity-Approved Photo Booth GIF Poses

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At the Michael Kors event last Thursday to celebrate the new photo book by Claiborne Swanson Frank, Young Hollywood, the ladies who make up the club of 60 up-and-comers profiled within the tome had access to a little something we're all too familiar with: The Party Photo Booth. You know the kind, operating in the corner at that weekend wedding reception, office party, or chi-chi industry event, complete with a pile of props outside to really make your four-frame GIF truly gram-worthy. The problem? Your refrigerator and Insta feed cannot handle another deer-in-the-headlights moment where you and your friends awkwardly resort to a panicked kissy-face for lack of preparation. This time, go in with a game plan, and let Olivia Thirlby and co. help.

For women who make their money mugging for a lens, these celebs really know how to turn it on for the photo booth. Candid, charming, and funny, these poses don't play into cliches (See, Hear, Speak No Evil, anyone?) or force you to go unphotogenic for the laughs. And sure, fine, these ladies might have an edge on us: They were decked out in full Michael Kors regalia and had beauty specialist Brett Freedman on hand for touch-ups using Michael Kors beauty products right outside the photo booth, while we just have a mustache on a stick to hide our three-martini fade. But, the point still stands. Let us learn from these goddesses and ramp up our own photo-booth game. Your eight new go-to poses, ahead.

Isabel Lucas and a friend recreate that awkward hello when you see an acquaintance at a party you kind of know, and then you both wave even though you're just a foot apart, then mutter something like, "Is the bathroom over there? It was so good seeing you, catch you on the dance floor!"

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Zoe Kravitz wants to give you KISSES. Muah! Another kiss for you!

It's....KIERNAN!

Elizabeth Henstridge and her friend know who's the more angelic of the two.

Michelle Salas demonstrates proper hair-flip technique.

Olivia Thirlby and her pop-up partner show that when all else fails, just start bouncing.

Harley Viera Newton swaps her Thumb Love for Laura Love. Props to Deuces Dude for his commitment to the pose.



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Your OOTD Could Win You A Fall Shopping Spree

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While there are a handful of new trends we’re dying to try this season, nothing can replace those traditional fall staples — sweaters, riding boots, peacoats, and the like always find their way into our cool-weather wardrobe. This year, how you style those pieces could get you a $1,000 shopping spree, courtesy of Nordstrom Rack.

Entering to win is fairly simple: Just snap a pic of how you plan on updating your favorite fall classics for the coming season — whether it’s with avant-garde silhouettes or crazy color combos — and upload that baby to Instagram with the hashtags #RackStyleContest and #ContestEntry by October 20. This is the time to get creative: We’ll review the entries and pick a winner based on uniqueness and quality by November 7.

The bonus? Even if you don’t end up scoring the grand-prize shopping spree, you have a shot at being one of nine runners-up, all of whom will receive a gift card worth $200 (still enough to do some damage). All 10 winners will also be featured on Refinery29. So, check out the contest here, follow @nordstromrack, and get 'gramming! Your ticket to epic fall shopping awaits.

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No purchase or payment necessary to enter or win. A purchase will not increase your chances of winning. Contest is open to persons who are legal residents of, and physically located within, the 50 U.S. states or D.C., age 18 or older. Void where prohibited. The contest begins at 8 a.m. PDT on October 6, 2014, and ends at 11:59 p.m. PDT on October 20, 2014.

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Amanda Bynes: "I'm Engaged"

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Amanda Bynes has been having a rough time lately. But, there's finally some good news coming from the actress. She told In Touch Weekly that she's engaged to her 19-year-old boyfriend. His name is Caleb, and he lives in Costa Mesa, California. He works at a bait shop.

"I am very needy for friendship and I hate men. I want to f--- them, but I can now say I’m engaged — get away from me. I want to be married and I want to be away from people," Bynes, 28, told a reporter from In Touch yesterday.

Once they tie the knot, Bynes hopes to relocate Caleb to New York because, she told the tabloid, she likes walking and riding her bike. In California, you have to drive everywhere. "I really do not enjoy driving," Bynes said. "I don’t like the way I look in a car. The lighting is very bad."

Amanda and Caleb have yet to choose a date for their wedding, but they have selected a location: the London Hotel in Los Angeles. Although Bynes has been attending classes at the Fashion Institute of Design and Merchandising in California for the past few months, she has no desire to design her wedding gown. "I’m so particular about how I look that I cannot imagine not designing it," she told In Touch.

In Touch even got Bynes to open up about having children. She wants boys — as many of them as possible. But, no daughters. "I don’t want a gorgeous girl around. Then I [would] feel way jealous. Ew," she said.

Although we're inclined to take this entire story with a massive grain of salt given the precarious state of Amanda Bynes' mental health lately, we do hope she and Caleb are happy together. She's the girl from The Amanda Show! Bounce back, Bynes. We're rooting for you. (In Touch Weekly)

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The Most Popular Snack In America Is…

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Snacking is big business these days, with global snack-food sales totaling $374 billion annually, according to Nielsen’s recent Global Survey of Snacking. And, when it comes to snacking healthy, it looks like America is a bit behind the rest of the world.

According to the survey, chocolate, fresh fruit, and vegetables are the most popular snacks around the world. But, the top three snacks consumed in the U.S. — in decreasing order of popularity — include chips, chocolate, and cheese. Fruit placed fifth in the U.S., and vegetables eighth. Yep, it's good ol' potato chips that reign supreme in the States.

The online survey polled 30,000 consumers in 60 countries between February and March of this year. And, while the world’s love affair with chocolate is no surprise, it seems that sweet snacks may be on the decline. The survey notes that sales of savory foods (including crackers and pita chips) and meat snacks (like jerky) are on the rise, with the latter growing 15% in North America, perhaps due to the current obsession with all things Paleo.

While chocolate is reported as the most consumed, when participants were asked what one snack they would choose, the top answer was fresh fruit (followed by, you guessed it, chocolate). As Susan Dunn, executive vice president of global professional services for Nielsen, points out in a press release, it's a dichotomy: Consumers want to eat healthy, yet the indulgent options are still the most consumed.

But, looking for healthier options is a growing trend. The polled snackers want less sugar, salt, and fat in their between-meal foods, and they want to see more fiber, protein, and whole grains. Plus, snackers ranked all-natural ingredients as the most important health characteristic. Another diet aspect influencing snack preference is gluten; roughly one-fifth of global participants ranked gluten-free options as very important.

The survey also finds that women consume more snacks than men, and it identified three "types of snackers" that suspiciously sound like "groups to market to"— planners (they eat the snack at home and stick with a few favorites), purposeful (the people who prefer food with sustainably sourced ingredients), and spontaneous (they enjoy snacking alone, and are more adventurous in trying new options). Perhaps the inspiration for our next personality quiz will be the office snack drawer?

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30 Of The Most Headline Generating Instagram Posts So Far

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Since its launch in October 2010, Instagram’s footprint has permeated the virtual landscape, creating headlines, spawning viral campaigns, establishing trends, getting folks arrested, and, of course, reaffirming our most base human desire for acceptance. A recent poll suggested that 51% of 2014 high school graduates use Instagram daily.

Denying the ascent of Instagram — it now boasts nearly 200 million monthly users— would be like denying the use of sports-enhancing drugs if you happened to be Lance Armstrong. Ahead, we decided to delve into the underbelly of Instagram to suss out 30 of the biggest moments so far on this nearly four-year-old social app.

Oprah Winfrey

There have been some entertaining ice bucket challenges (shout outs to Amy Schumer, and Chris Pratt), but none can even enter the locked-door kingdom of superwoman Oprah Winfrey. Startlingly adept at social media, Oprah schooled the children posting her 15-second #ALSIceBucketChallenge video complete with loud shrieks and long drawn-out heaves of “suffering.” The best way to optimally enjoy the video? On repeat, naturally.

Grandma Betty

Zach Belden started posting pictures and videos of his great-grandmother to demonstrate his love for her and help ease the pain of her battle with lung cancer. She loved it and said it made her feel like a celebrity each time someone new followed her. Tragically, Grandma Betty passed on in early August, but her mark on the world and the Instagram community will live on. Her account has accumulated over 650,000 followers, including Pharrell Williams and Cara Delevingne.

Kim Kardashian

Kim Kardashian — you’ve heard of her right? She’s got a decent following (read: thick sarcasm), clocking in at over 19 million followers, 2.3 million of whom not only viewed her wedding kiss to Kanye, but chose to give it that double tap love, becoming the most liked photograph ever on Instagram.

Bethany Townsend

Former model turned make-up artist Bethany Townsend made headlines when she posted a photo of her lounging in a bathing suit. It wasn’t the teeny bikini the 23-year-old was rocking that got people talking, but rather the visibility of the two colostomy bags on her lower abdomen, fitted because of her 20-year battle with Crohn’s Disease. The photo, a testament to her valor, has been viewed over nine million times.

Samm Newman

Nineteen-year-old Samm Newman posted a picture in her bra and underwear with a series of hashtags including #effyourbeautystandards, #honormycurves, and #bodypositive. The photo was hastily reported and removed from Instagram. Not having any part of it, Samm responded telling both Instagram and the ‘grammers that “by deleting non-suggestive photos of women of size, you are telling women that their journeys don’t matter, that THEY do not matter,” and pleaded with users to “end size discrimination on Instagram.” It worked! The photo was restored and Samm received an apology from Instagram.

Cara Delevingne

#freethenipple is not an entirely new concept — the Twitter account dates back to April 2012 — but the “campaign” picked up major steam when Rihanna got booted (we’ll get to her shortly) for showing off hers and then celebrity spawn like Rumer Willis and Ireland Baldwin jumped on board. Tits were out for the boys (and the rest of the world) when Delevingne added her high-profile face to the coven, censoring her freedom-fighting lady parts for the photo and captioning and hastagging it.

Mimi Hecht and Mushky Notik

Mimi and Mushky, co-owners of Brooklyn-based boutique Mimu Maxi innocently re-posted a photo of a customer wearing one of their designers — standard for their social media efforts. That the customer, Summer Albarcha, runs the popular Hipster Hijabis Instagram was merely an aside. Until users started trawling, calling the photo "insensitive" and "appalling" given the recent violence between Israel and Palestine, even threatening to boycott Mimu Maxi. Through the unexpected backlash, the co-owners remained defiant, taking to their Facebook page to call her look "modest, feminine, and beautiful,” and reminding their followers that modesty is considered a "mitzvah.”

Erin Wasson

Model Erin Wasson was just “liv[ing] a little” when she made headlines after posting this photo of her in nothing but a black bikini bottom in a field overlooking the ocean. “Gross” commented one user, while another suggest she “buy a burger.”

Adam Richman

The man of Man v. Food, Adam Richman, had a much more formidable foe in the public from the backlash that resulted when he (perhaps innocently) posted a selfie with the hashtag #thinspiration — a term used on websites promoting eating disorders. He lashed out at a user questioning his actions, telling her: "Seriously grab a razor blade & draw a bath. I doubt anyone will miss you.” He released an apology (too little too late) and had his new show, Man Finds Food, postponed indefinitely as a result of his moronic behavior.

Beyoncé

Eight months ago Beyoncé posted a video with the caption “Surprise!” The “mini-trailer” served as the official announcement that not only would B be dropping a new album, but she had — right then. The internet exploded— as is wont to do with matters relating to the Queen— and thus ushered in a new era of Yoncé’s indubitable reign.

LeBron James

LeBron’s big announcement that he would be coming home to Cleveland rocked the sports industry, creating a media firestorm, leaving many wondering if he’d maintain his Miami Heat number (6) or reinstate his Cleveland Cavaliers number (23). Lebron himself undecided, took to his Instagram to find out what the people wanted, asking simply, “6 or 23?”. Days later he returned to Instagram revealing he’d reassume number 23, doing his best to mediate his love for all, captioning the picture, “23 it is! It's only right I go back. 2·3=6 We still family 6. #HomeTeam #StriveForGreatness”

Michael Tatalovich

Michael Tatalovich was finishing up his junior year of high school when he was diagnosed with Ewing's Sarcoma (a form of cancer inside his femoral head). He decided to use Instagram as a means to reveal the realities of his cancer diagnosis. Michael’s mother warned him against posting the above photo, saying that he looked too sick. Michael said, “This is how I look all the time. It’s an actual representation of what’s going on.” What’s going on these days: Michael received the good news from his doctor that he is in recovery with no evidence of disease. He plans on attending the University of Texas in Austin this fall to study environmental chemistry. His hair grew back. He dyed it lavender.

Justin Bieber

When he’s not posting pics of himself creepishly procrastinating at the gym or wrapping his arms around Kris Jenner’s waist with captions asking her youngest daughters “who’s [their] daddy?”, Bieber is often seen doing what he does best: making music. “If you don’t have something nice to say…” Bieber teased in this Instagram post, one of 11 videos the singer posted to his account offering snippets off his latest yet-to-be-released album.

Nick Cannon

Mr. Mariah Carey entangled himself in a typhoon of internet backlash after donning “white face” for a photo he posted on his since-deleted account back in March. Meant in jest to promote his album “White People Party Music,” Cannon brushed off the controversy tweeting, “Hold up… What the f#ck is “White Face”??? Did I just create a new term??? Nice!!! LOL”.

Mariah Carey

The ubiquitous elusive chanteuse herself hit the mean, gritty subways of NYC to promote her album (we’re not too clear on the end goal here, either). Donning a seafoam blue dress and sunglasses, her hands bandaged, Carey is seen sitting alone on an orange seat, before purring, “So…This is perfectly normal.” Then, a deep, menacing cackle. Scene.

James Franco

So many good Instagram moments for Mr. Franco, how to choose only one? (Hint: we didn’t). The iconoclast who famously got himself in hot water after an Instagram direct message exchange with a 17-year-old fan, followed up those headlines by weeks later posting this now-famous “nude selfie."He explained the move to David Letterman, telling him "Like that Britney Spears shaved-head moment, where it's sort of like, 'All right, you want me? Here, you can have me, but I am going to be really ugly.' You know what I mean?" Sure James, anything you say.

Sonya Sotkin

Twenty-four-year-old Russian soldier Sonya Sotkin recently shared a series of seemingly adorable selfies. The issue? The app's geolocation data showed that those pictures were snapped in Ukraine. His initial location (the village of Voloshino in southern Russia) changed in this and one other pic to six miles away, across the border in Ukraine. These selfies were seen by many as proof that the Russian army has crossed the border into Ukraine despite denials by the Kremlin. Russian Defense Ministry refused to comment on the reports, though they were soon proven baseless.

Kayle Itsines

At 23, Kayla Itsines, the personal trainer with a year-round bikini-ready body, has amassed over a million devoted Instagram followers, all of whom devoutly subscribe to her fitness regimen gospel. Her pairing of workout guides and motivational quotes became so popular she decided to release a training program and nutritional guidelines e-book (for women only) with the promise of a bikini body in 12 weeks or less.

Lil Bub

Few #catofinstagram have clawed their way into users’ hearts quite like that of the teeniest of the Bub’s, Lil Bub (“a lady, and a magical one of a kind space kitty”). Bub is a “perma-kitten” (meaning she’ll stay this adorable for life) with a tongue that always hangs out due to her short lower jaw and toothlessness. Just how popular can an Instagram cat get? Try nearly half a million followers, a book deal, calendars sold at Urban Outfitters, appearances on The Today Show and The View— and, at this point of course, a documentary that premiered at TriBeCa Film Festival — where she got to meet Bobby D.

Elliot Tebele

The man behind Instagram’s @fuckjerry, Elliot Tebele, is a thinner — but no less funny — Jew (@JewHead on Twitter, if there was confusion to his faith). Fuckjerry, ostensibly a less popular companion to @thefatjew, has everything from “Air Bud in the club getting tipsy,” to an actual couch potato. And, of course, the Louis Futon.

The Fat Jewish

If laughter is the best medicine, Fat Jew’s Instagram account is a virtual pharmacy, with an array of expertly-captioned ‘grams that are everything from a “sorry 4 being basic” birthday cake to a guy eating an entire slice of a pizza with chopsticks. Plus motivational quotes like: “My neck, my back, my Netflix, and my snacks.” This Rick Ross/Precious mash-up wasn’t bad, either.

Madonna

She’s placed swastikas on projections of politicians, hung from crosses, pissed off the Vatican, dropped the f-bomb on live television, and literally released the book of Sex. So it surprised no one (actually a lot of people, that’s the odd thing about people’s capacity for shock) when Madonna rang in the New Year with her 13-year-old son Rocco, his two buddies, plus a bottle of Tanquery and two bottles of Belvedere. Addressing the outcry of “scandal!!!!!!!!” she captioned a subsequent post: "No one was drinking we were just having fun! Calm down and get a sense of humor! Don't start the year off with judgement!"

Mario Balotelli

Aiming your shotgun at the camera, much less touting your ownership of one so thoughtlessly, not a good idea. Such was the lesson learned for 23-year-old Italian soccer superstar Mario Balotelli. The caption read“big kiss to all my haters” — a “shout-out” to the sea of critics and fans attacking him, often with racist slurs — during Italy’s first-round exit from the World Cup. It was seen by many as aggressively antagonistic and the photo was hastily removed.

Nick Jonas

Where were you when you first saw the Nick Jonas “nude?” Although giving only a semi-monty, Jonas shared an “I never do this but…” picture of him post-workout, shirtless, pants sagging, and expertly manscaped. The consensus: Need. More. Now.

Rihanna

A moment of silence for Rihanna’s Instagram...hiatus (it's apparently back!). Now onward. Rihanna innocently posted a series of photos during her trip to the island of Phuket in Thailand. One post featured the singer holding a slow loris — a protected species — and captioned it: "Look who was talkin dirty to me!" The picture was posted Friday night. By Saturday, Phuket police had raided Bangla Road to hunt down the louts peddling the lorises for pictures with tourists.

Alonso Mateo

He’s an international style icon with a following encroaching on a half-million. He also can’t drink. He can’t vote. He’s six, by the way. Alonso’s Instagram account features his adventures as a pint-sized style icon wearing everything from Dior shorts to Gucci shades to his collection of Little Marc Jacobs. To boot, it garnered him a profile in New York magazine, a personal walk-in closet with one wall entirely dedicated to shoes — plus the opportunity to snag a photo (seen above) with Brad Pitt at the Maleficent premiere.

Channing Tatum

When it comes to their children, celebrities tend to adopt a zero tolerance policy — just ask Dax Shepard and Kristen Bell. To dissuade overeager paps from intruding on their privacy, Channing and his wife Jenna Dewan Tatum decided to reveal a picture of their daughter Everly's first Father’s Day with an intimate pic of the Tatum clan on Chan’s Insta. Extra points awarded for Channing’s Baja hoodie.

Jesper Kjellström

One way to win a Samsung NX300 camera? Enter Samsung’s "Live in the Moment" Instagram contest and submit a Hengki Koentjoro photograph, add a bit of color, and claim it as your own. It seemed to work. He won. Until a month later, a friend of Koentjoro tipped him off that his photo had been stolen. Samsung immediately took down the photo from its social networks and disqualified Kjellström for copyright infringement. Kjellström’s Insta-pology included this choice quote, “I read the rules before I participate and I’m very aware that it was respected.”

Elizabeth Cecil

Photographer Elizabeth Cecil posted a photograph of President Obama dancing at a party at the Farm Neck Golf in Massachusetts, a party attended by Bill and Hillary and closed off to all press. The photo was quickly discovered by Republican National Committee War Room staffer Elliott Schwartz, who posted it to his Twitter account, which in turn got a lot of folks heated, asking why Obama would be partying during such unrest in Ferguson, Missouri.

David Guttenfelder

David Guttenfelder has a robust resume of photojournalism that includes covering wars, elections, and natural disasters in over 75 countries as The Associated Press’ Chief Asia Photographer. He made headlines in 2013 becoming one of the first foreign photographers to be granted access to work in North Korea. His enthralling Instagram account has offered a rare view into this totalitarian nation, earning him TIME’s pick for Instagram Photographer of the Year.



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While the de facto brand of tweendom has been working tirelessly to separate itself from a not-so-great reputation, Abercrombie & Fitch's mission to rebrand hit some pretty major setbacks recently. But, last week, the retailer launched an anti-bullying campaign that shows a new leaf has been turned over at the company once synonymous with the cool-kids-only table.

The "Are You An Ally?" campaign is a multi-platform crackdown on bullying. At the retail level, it brings a line of T-shirts for women, men, and kids, the proceeds of which go to No Bully. Stores will also be offering a "Round Up" program allowing shoppers to round their total purchase to the nearest dollar, with the difference going toward anti-bullying efforts.

Beyond the mall, the brand tapped Lucy Hale to star in a a PSA about bullying prevention, which goes hand in hand with a new peer-to-peer anti-bullying program for middle and high school students. The company also teamed up with the National Society of High School Scholars Foundation to offer 10 college scholarships, for "outstanding students around the world who have persevered academically while experiencing bullying, as well as those who have led the fight against bullying in their schools and communities," according to a press release.

Clearly, Abercrombie's revamp goes far beyond a less preppy aesthetic. There's no distinction between products that are a part of this new campaign and the regular catalog of clothing. Instead of being marked as some kind of special-edition charity piece, the T-shirts are each emblazoned with an affirmation. After all, a simple reminder to "be yourself" can go a long way. Here's hoping these good vibes continue.



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Earlier this month, a groan-inducing story came to light about super-inappropriate comments between colleagues — who also happened to be senators in the U.S. government. Back in 2008, after the birth of Senator Gillibrand’s second child, a male senator told her not to lose too much pregnancy weight because he "liked his girls chubby." Gillibrand wrote about the incident in her memoir, but refused to name names. But, then the New York Times revealed that the man behind the incident was Senator Inouye of Hawaii — a liberal Democrat who passed away in 2012.

The story itself is gross, but the implications are worse: If off-color commentary happens among public figures at the highest levels of government, there’s a pretty good chance it’s also happening at your office. Whether you’re a top politician or a year into your first job, it can be near impossible to know how to respond if and when it happens to you.

Gillibrand said she wasn’t offended — saying that her older male colleagues didn’t know any better because they grew up in a culture when that sort of thing was okay. We aren’t that magnanimous; we think your colleagues do know better. If and when a colleague says something inappropriate, you have every right to set the record straight. Here are 10 all-too-common comments — and how to respond.

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1. The Food Critic
The comment: “You’re eating a salad. Good for you.”

Why it’s inappropriate: There's a 99% chance that this is just small talk, not intended to be mean at all. But! There's also a chance that it still made you feel self-conscious. “We call that unconscious discrimination,” says career coach and business therapist Katherine Crowley. “[Your coworkers] are not aware of what they're doing, and they think that they’re saying something friendly or kind.”

What to do: Just because it’s unconscious doesn’t mean it’s good. Especially if it’s happening regularly, this is the sort of thing that might really start to bug you — and worse, undercut your confidence. The best thing to do is say something nicely, like, “I know you may not have meant it, but it kind of bugs me when you talk about my diet at work.” If it’s really unconscious, that’ll stop them.

2. The Thief
The comment: “So, me and Liz had this great idea….”

Why it’s inappropriate:“We” didn’t have any great ideas —you had a great idea, and your credit-grabbing colleague wants to share your sunshine. It’s a tricky situation because you don’t want to miss the kudos for your brilliance. But, you also really don’t want to look like a selfish jerk who says stuff like, “Actually, I thought of that alone.”

What to do: So, the best course of action here…kinda sucks. “Usually people who do this are chronic offenders, and everyone knows it, so you don’t have to point it out, and you can take the high road and not make a scene,” says career coach and leadership consultant Liz Bentley. Let it go and remember that cream rises. Next time around, make sure you don’t share your great idea with anyone but your boss. The only exception here is if the idea is so Facebook-huge that you think getting credit for it would really change your career. In that case, take your boss aside and explain.

3. The Economist
The comment: “I’m surprised you could afford that.”

Why it’s inappropriate: There are maybe two instances when it’s okay to talk about how much money you make at work: when you are negotiating with your boss to get your job, and when you’re asking for that much-deserved raise. Otherwise: nope.

What to do: If someone asks, you can laugh it off (“Oh, God, talking about money never ends well”) or be serious (“That’s not an appropriate question”) — but shut it down. No story about sharing salary info with a coworker ever ends well. And, remember, your salary isn’t a straight-up valuation of your worth. People get paid what they get paid for lots of reasons: what they made at their last job, their experience level, how fiercely they negotiated when they started, etc.
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4. The Office Creep
The comment: “Can’t wait to work late with you tonight.”

Why it’s inappropriate: Work shouldn’t be a place for any kind of sexual comments, period. And, while it’s great to be friends with the people you work with, this rule should be pretty hard and fast. You know the kinds of remarks we’re talking about — anything from, “I love it when you wear that dress” to “Looking forward to working late with you tonight." Even though it might seem innocent, it makes you feel icky and like a line was crossed.

What to do: If you have the wherewithal in the moment, strong statements like, “That’s totally inappropriate, and I’m going to pretend you didn’t say that” should get the point across and nip it in the bud. “The key to these situations,” says Liz Bentley, “is measuring severity and offense.” If the issue is more endemic, this sort of thing is worth bringing to HR. If your company is too small to have an HR department, schedule a minute to talk to the supervisor you get along best with.

5. The Health Expert
The comment: “You look exhausted.”

Why it’s inappropriate: This is code for “you look like crap.” Even the most well-meaning of people who say it are being unintentional jerks.

What to do: Especially if you are tired, you might be tempted to bite back with something like, “What is that supposed to mean?” But, in this case, your best bet is to put on a smile and just say, “I actually feel great!” That’ll diffuse the comment and let that person know that whatever you look like isn’t up for discussion.

6. The Secret Racist (Or Unintentional Ignoramus)
The comment:“So…what kind of Asian are you?"

Why it’s inappropriate: Pretty much any other question about your race, ethnicity or background is just flat-out off limits.

What to do: If you really think your coworker is just a bonehead who’s being insensitive out of ignorance, Liz Bentley recommends answering the question, and then following it up by with a quick life lesson: "You can suggest that some people might be offended by that question, and let them know why.” But, it's not your job to be an educator. If you think there’s even a hint of malice, take this one to HR.

7. The Leap Frog
The comment:“She used to be my intern.”

Why it’s inappropriate: This one's about tone: Is this a factual statement, or a factual statement being used to subtly downplay your current status? If the latter, it's bullying.

What to do: These are the kinds of comments that can really get under your skin, and having the words to deal with them are the high-level interpersonal skills that no one teaches you. Crowley says: “There’s usually some people in the office who are verbally adept — see what they are doing.” Follow the example of someone you think deflects this sort of statement especially well, and then try it on for yourself. But, remember that it takes practice, and it might take some time to find the right words for you to set things right.
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8. Wannabe Joan Rivers
The comment: “Are you wearing that to the meeting?”

Why it’s inappropriate: Talking about a coworker’s clothes (or hair or nails) follows the Thumper rule: “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” But, not everyone gets that. Maybe your cubicle neighbor seems like she’s giving you a once-over every time you walk by, or maybe she makes off comments as you head out to big meetings.

What to do: Criticism of your outfit feel personal, which makes it tougher to internalize. So taking it out of the personal is key. Katherine Crowley recommends being direct: “Going forward, I’d appreciate it if you wouldn’t comment on my outfit.” If it comments happen more than twice, consider going to your supervisor.

9. The Surprise Gynecologist
The comment: “You just have pregnancy brain.”

Why it’s inappropriate: You miss a little deadline, not a huge deal, but then someone blames it on your pregnancy, which is. People are fascinated by pregnancy — and it is pretty damn miraculous — but that doesn't mean it's an acceptable ground for discriminatory comments.

What to do: Liz Bentley recommends you take it off the table for good with a firm but pleasant response like, “Oh, I think I just forgot, thanks" and then a quick follow-up, "But, I think we all forget things every once and a while, right? I don't think it has anything to do with my pregnancy."

10. The Jerk
The comment: “Maybe one day you’ll be good at your job.”

Why it’s inappropriate: You have an office bully, and you don’t know what you did to deserve it. Once in awhile, over the course of your career, you’re bound to come across a colleague who's just mean.

What to do:“You have to make a decision about whether or not you can work with this person,” says Crowley. If it's not causing you too much distress, just ignore it, since a confrontation is unlikely to get you anywhere. If it's really dragging you down, she says, "You can go through professional channels." If you go that route, try to bring records of your incidents with this person since it's likely your word against hers. But, the bottom line? Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself. You work hard, and no one has the right to bring you down.



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What To Talk About When We Talk About Sarah Hyland & Matt Prokop

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UPDATE: The Los Angeles Superior Court confirms to Us Weekly that Sarah Hyland has been granted a three-year restraining order from Matthew Prokop. Per the conditions of the restraining order, "Prokop must stay 100 yards from her, her house, and her dog, as well as not go near her workplace, not own a gun, and not attack or threaten to harm her dog in any way."

This story was originally published on September 24:
Actors Sarah Hyland and Matt Prokop publicly announced their breakup in late August. Reports gave the Us Weekly stock line of “Sarah’s doing fine. It didn’t work out. She’s young. They decided they would be better off as friends.” for the reason why they split

Last night, TMZ broke the news that Hyland had obtained a temporary restraining order against her ex-boyfriend. According to the court documents Hyland filed, she claims Prokop was verbally and physically abusive during the last four years of their relationship, and that she feared for her life.

“The documents filed speak for themselves. Out of respect for the court, the process and all parties, I have advised Ms. Hyland not to comment on the matter. We request that you respect the parties' privacy during this time,” Hyland’s attorney Lee Sherman said in a statement to the New York Daily News. Still, by this morning, the news was everywhere.

The recent cases of domestic violence in the NFL started a long overdue conversation. Tired of the shame that has long shrouded survivors speaking out and the blame assignation in which many media outlets were engaging, Writer Beverly Gooden started the hashtag #WhyIStayed. “When the overwhelming public voice is of shame, you can get lost in the guilt. You can feel voiceless. I want people to know that they have a voice,” Gooden told Mic. #WhyIStayed and #WhyILeft have already been a powerful tool in shifting how we talk about domestic violence. Now that the contents of Hyland’s temporary restraining order have been made public, it's time for the dialogue to evolve even further. It’s unfortunate that a private matter — one that caused Hyland physical and emotional pain — is being discussed so cavalierly in headlines like “Modern Family Star Sarah Hyland: Ex-BF Choked Me…I Fear For My Life,” especially in these crucial first days after taking action.

Hyland’s restraining order request was granted September 19. “The most dangerous time for a survivor is when he/she attempts to leave the abusive partner,"says Atossa Movahedi, special counsel and director of development from the Urban Justice Center’s Domestic Violence Project. "It’s a sign that the he or she is taking control and leaving, which can threaten the abuser and ignite him/her to become extremely violent, even fatal." So, in the interest of granting Hyland privacy during this pivotal time, let's instead turn our focus on spreading information about the "how" in "why I left."

As with the NFL incidents, the fact that it takes a celebrity filing for a restraining order to bring domestic violence into the national dialogue is upsetting, especially when you consider the statistic that one in every four women will experience domestic violence in her lifetime. But, any incident that can trigger a conversation helps spread awareness.

“Whenever there’s media coverage on domestic violence, it definitely increases awareness and opens up people’s eyes to how common it is and that it may even occur amongst people whom we may look up to and even idealize,” Movahedi notes. “Females between the ages of 20 and 24 are at the highest risk of intimate partner abuse, and [at 23], Hyland fits into this age group.”

That Hyland sought out a temporary restraining order shows an inordinate amount of strength, especially because, as Movahedi explains, “the court proceedings in criminal and family court where orders of protection are litigated are open to the public and not closed court rooms.” Meaning that while “you couldn’t just walk into a courthouse and look up a case file,” outlets like TMZ have a way of finding and making them public. Unfortunately, a restraining order is still just a piece of paper. “It doesn’t stop a bullet, and it doesn’t always deter someone from breaking the law,” Movahedi notes. “We always tell the survivor that he/she is the expert of their life. They know their abuser best and can anticipate how he/she may react to being served with an order of protection.” Every situation is unique, and Movahedi stresses the importance of survivors speaking to a domestic violence expert or attorney before filing for an order or protection.

Hyland also sought help from her Modern Family costar Julie Bowen. According to the court documents, she asked Bowen to come to the house she shared with Prokop to help peacefully end the relationship. “Friends and family can be a critical source of support for victims who have often been isolated in the relationship and made to believe that the abuse is normal or deserved,” Movahedi says. It’s important to note that it was Hyland who reached out to Bowen because, she notes, “the survivor needs to come to that determination on his/her own.”

If you think a friend or loved one is experiencing domestic abuse, be supportive. “A judgment-free response can be difficult but critical,” Movahedi stresses. “There’s a tremendous amount of shame that survivors often carry, so listening without questioning or judgment is important.”

In terms of actionable steps, she suggests creating a code word, so if there’s an incident and your friend needs help, he or she can alert you without the abusive partner overhearing. Friends can also keep copies of important documents or an emergency bag in case a survivor needs to flee. “A common reason people stay is that they simply don’t have the support system they need,” Movahedi says. "Promise to be there during and after."

Right now, Sarah Hyland needs the space and support to allow her to take action. This shouldn’t be about making her a face of domestic violence. If a friend or loved one is in a similar situation, get information about how to help from the National Domestic Violence Hotline or call call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233).

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Zola Jesus Talks Taiga, Being Married, & Video Games

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Nika Danilova, a.k.a. Zola Jesus, is an intensely intellectual, reserved singer who happens to possess the pipes of a vocal powerhouse. She's like a modern Siouxsie Sioux — if Siouxsie played video games and had a taste for science fiction. Her latest album, Taiga, is easily her most polished and poppy yet. But, that doesn't mean it isn't ethereal and spooky, a perfect listen for brisk fall nights or burning autumn mornings.

Watching an artist grow can be trying: Listeners don't want the same album, again and again. But, on the other hand, they don't want to feel alienated from the artist they’ve grown to love. This is why Taiga, the fifth album from Zola Jesus, is so exciting. It has the familiar drama-tinged exploration into the dark that we've come to expect, yet comes from a Danilova that's definitely grown up.

So, you're back to being brunette, which is exciting, and also totally different for you!
"Yeah, my hair was very upset. I just needed to bring it back and let it chill out."

That's crazy. Your blonde hair was so much a part of your identity on your last album. Do you feel like your darker hair may be reflecting darker album themes?
"I guess I feel more like me now because I'm brunette naturally."

You recorded the album in a remote locale. Can you tell me about it?
"I wrote and recorded it on Vashon Island, WA. I mixed it and finished producing it in Los Angeles because of my producer, Dean Hurley — who actually worked with David Lynch. I spent three years on it, and it feels like the first time I've ever had time to really think about what I put out in the world. There's a lot of brass on the record."

How do you think your fans are going to react to something so big as brass? “I think some of my fans were kind of surprised by 'Dangerous Days' because it's so... Well, I don't want to say 'poppy,' because I think all my music is pop, but it's kind of an upbeat, up-tempo song. But, once they hear the record, they'll totally understand."

On your last album, Conatus, you had a lot of insects and insect themes because your husband is an entomologist. Does that theme come up on this album, too?
"Yeah, definitely. There is a lot of conversation about man versus nature. I'm interested in how man synthesizes the natural world while simultaneously being alienated from it. I guess, writing it on an island, a very wooded island on the Puget Sound, brought me to that conclusion."

Did you feel secluded?
"Oh, yes, definitely. Yeah, I could only get off the island by a ferry. It was my husband and I. Just two people. We just rented a place. It was amazing, I love it so much."

What is it like being a married, touring musician?
"It's hard. He's going to start coming on tour with me because you need to concede a little bit. I feel like it's very hard for him to be married to someone who's constantly gone. And, I love him very much, and so I'm gonna bring him along! Not going to compromise my goals or my career or life."

He had three years of you...
"Yeah! Totally! And, he's incredibly supportive and just thrilled and proud. And, he's just so wonderful."

Does Taiga have the operatics and the theatrics that have become your trademark? Do you think that your fan base will find it familiar?
"Yeah, definitely. I started studying with my old opera instructor again. I thought that my voice wasn't able to do the things it used to do. I started kind of abusing it on the road, and I needed to touch base with her again and really rediscover my voice. So, this record is all about the voice — no reverb, no echo, no effects, nothing getting in the way. It's definitely a vocal album in that respect."

You once said the hardest song for you to sing was "Lick the Palm of the Burning Handshake." There's so much emotion there. Do you have a song on the new album that you're anticipating being difficult to perform live?
"Yeah, there's one called 'Ego,' which I wrote a cappella. It's a very straightforward song, lyrically.”

How did your total isolation affect this album? What did you do differently?
"Well, definitely my surroundings and my environment, they were the biggest inspiration. I totally removed myself from the civilized world. It allowed me to think about things in a more universal way. I wasn't so caught up in pop culture. That was really neat. I was reading some Norwegian authors, like Knut Hamsun. I read a book of his. I got really into this guy named Kōbō Abe, a Japanese sci-fi writer."

What is the one thing you want people to understand about Taiga?
"I think some of my older fans think that since I wanted to make a really clean album, I cleaned everything that's special off my music. But, I feel like this is one of the most special records I've ever made because without having that straight-jacket — the straight-jacket of effects — I was able to communicate something that felt familiar but refreshing.”

Taiga is out October 7. You should buy it. It is really incredible.



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The Blair Witch Project Turns 15: What You Need To Know

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It's been 15 years since a little movie made on a shoestring budget by first-time filmmakers, starring unknowns, came out of nowhere and changed the game forever. To this day, The Blair Witch Project remains one of the greatest (and most unlikely) success stories in the history of cinema, and its anniversary is making us feel nostalgic. Here are five things you need to know as we look back at the unexpected hit.

It's responsible for the found-footage subgenre of horror film. The film was shot so it looks like raw documentary footage pieced together by amateur filmmakers, capturing their lost-in-the-woods hunt for the titular witch. While it may seem commonplace today, directors Daniel Myrick and Eduardo Sánchez tapped into a style that felt truly groundbreaking at the time.

Most of it was improvised. The three lead actors had nothing but a 35-page outline, and various messages throughout the shoot that would tell them their next location, to work with. For the most part, they were reacting honestly to the many strange things they encountered in the woods — including those teeth.

Those teeth. For the infamous scene in which Heather (Heather Donahue) finds human teeth in a bundle of sticks, Sánchez procured them from his dentist.

The Internet marketing campaign is legendary. Although the web was still in its nascent stages, that didn't stop Myrick and Sánchez from building a basic site that would become the focus of rabid fan theorizing and speculation.

It was a one-hit wonder. No one in the cast went on to have notable careers in Hollywood, and Myrick and Sánchez never recaptured the magic of their first and most famous film.

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The Official Cronut Recipe Is Here

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It's the day foodies have been waiting for. The official cronut recipe is here.

Yes, it's hard to believe that the secret to the buttery croissant-donut hybrid that's had trend-obsessed New Yorkers and curious tourists lining up at 5 a.m. is now available for anyone to make. Well, not exactly anyone— as you might expect for such a delicacy, the list of instructions runs as long as the queue outside the West Village bakery where the treat was invented.

ABC posted the recipe today from Dominique Ansel's new soon-to-be-released (appropriately titled) cookbook, Dominique Ansel: The Secret Recipes. And, with a huge quantity of egg whites, butter, cream, sugar, and two days of prep time, a serving of eight precious pastries can be yours, with no limit per person. Assuming you're up for the challenge, of course.

Click through to get our style director Connie Wang's take on whether it's worth it (yes, she stood in that legendary line), and head here for the full recipe. When you've mastered the first batch in three days or so, you'll find us outside your apartment door.

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Well, it was only a matter of time. Few stars are brighter right now than Kerry Washington, which is why her transition from TV star to full-blown movie star felt imminent.

Washington will star in Is He The One, a romantic comedy from The Best Man Holiday director Malcolm D. Lee. The Scandal star will play a woman on her wedding day who recalls the greatest three loves of her life (in flashbacks, of course).

Who will she end up with? Will it be the fast-talking lawyer with an attitude? The high school sweetheart who left her for the military? Or, the good-natured best friend who's just kind of always been there for her? (Note: None of these rom-com archetypes are necessarily in the script, but they would be if we were writing it.)

Washington's rise to the A-list has been meteoric. Scandal is one of the most talked (and tweeted) about shows on the air, earning the 37-year-old back-to-back Emmy nods for leading actress in a drama. While Washington did have a major role in Quentin Tarantino's Django Unchained, this will mark the first time she'll carry a movie on her own.

With an innate likability and the natural talent to back it, Washington is going to make this whole movie star thing look like a breeze. If she were a stock, now would be the time to buy. (Deadline)

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Hear Me Out: I Don't Hate Looking Kind Of Goth In The Fall

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"And, that's how you do a dark lip without looking goth," every makeup artist on all of our fall beauty shoots has said. In fact, it's starting to feel like you can't throw a rock at a fall beauty story without hitting that "G" word. Usually, it's in the context of avoiding it, like how to make smudgy eyeliner less moody. Whether we're told to dilute them with blush, highlighter, or whatever, witchy fall hues always seem to come with a caveat.

Here's my question: Isn't looking relatively goth just an inevitable byproduct of wearing dark makeup? Maybe, my suburban, emo-kid roots are showing, but I don't mind appearing kind of gloomy and, yes, a little bit goth. I like when makeup disrupts beauty — when lipstick is about making a statement, not being pretty. If there's ever a time to do that, it's in the fall, when the colors are deeper and more mysterious.

Of course, this kind of makeup doesn't make one a goth (goth is a lifestyle, everyone). But, there's a specific, Lorde-esque vibe that comes with it. I like to embrace it. After all, fashion people don't try to soften the effect of all-black outfits — why should beauty people have to minimize the eye-grabbing impact of nearly-black lipstick?

I realize that the grownup goth vibe isn't for everyone. That's fine. I'll just be here in my burgundy lip and leather jacket ("beautiful, but like you might bite someone," as makeup artist Suzy Gerstein once said), not apologizing for it — and definitely not using peachy cream blush or well-placed dabs of highlighter to tone it down. If I wanted to tone it down, I'd do no-makeup makeup.



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For us, about 70% of house-hunting is rifling through Craigslist ads — trying to decipher which listings are legitimate amid the hundreds of too-good-to-be-trues (and avoid broker's fees). Then, we actually view said listings and negotiate terms — crossing our fingers for a room with a view. It's a chore, to put it mildly, and we generally do it in sweats or jeans-and-tee combos. Well, Beyoncé and Jay Z aren't your average homebuyers. The Carters' recent tour of the Parisian real-estate market was a decidedly more fashionable — and less stressful — affair.

For the outing, Beyoncé looked equal parts girly and sporty in a Marc by Marc Jacobs top from Luella Bartley and Katie Hillier's inaugural fall '14 collection. On the runway, the graphic shirt paired with high-top sneakers and heaps of black eyeliner for a grungier feel. Instead, Bey teamed hers with a neon-green pleated skirt and printed baseball cap, giving off a more light-hearted vibe. And, while we'll concede this isn't our go-to choice for making a first impression, we can't help but admire her sartorially adventurous nature.

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Why Not Having All The Answers Is A Good Thing

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In our daily lives, how often do we handle situations on autopilot, in the way we know is best? Probably quite a lot. We do it with people, too, basing our relationships on what we believe we know about the other person.

But, do we really know as much as we think?

Every preconceived opinion we have is either something we’ve been told or based on our own past experiences. We tend to collect this information and store it in our minds as our own “Guide to Handling Life.” And, that’s not surprising. Life is changeable and uncertain, so we naturally search for rules and approaches we view as certain.

What Can We Be Certain Of?
All we really know for sure is what we’ve actually experienced ourselves. So, to be certain of what we know, we have to let go of everything else — everything we’ve been told by others. That’s not to say we shouldn’t value the advice and knowledge of others, but experience is what really matters.

So now, we’re just left with our own experiences. But, our experiences constantly change, so we have to let go of them, too.

That doesn’t leave much. In fact, the only thing left we can truly rely on as certain is the experience of the present moment, which is paradoxically uncertain.

For some, this revelation is a cause for celebration. It’s license to let go of all of that old baggage that holds us back and instead, tackle the world with a new sense of curiosity and wonder. Best of all, we don’t have to pretend that we have all the answers anymore. We know they’re always changing anyway.

For others, uncertainty is harder to deal with. As humans, when we’re hit by problems or fear, we feel an overwhelming desire to think and find a well rehearsed approach filed within the mind to handle it. That becomes our certainty; it feels better than peering into the uncertain chasm of life.

Being Uncertain Is A Good Thing
But, the practice becomes easier once we realize that instead of feeling embarrassment or frustration by not knowing something, we find freedom. Instead of a fixed, rigid mind operated by a set of preconceived ideas, our uncertain mind is curious, interested, reflective and malleable. And by approaching life and the people we encounter within it with genuine uncertainty, we can experience it — and them — as they truly are, at that moment.

Our response to life’s events becomes calm, non-judgmental and entirely considered.

The wisdom of uncertainty doesn’t reject human intellect; it encourages us to understand more. It doesn’t devalue the experience of others; it allows us to embrace their ideas because we’re less set on what we believe.

Learning to be uncertain highlights the importance of understanding through experience. For example, being told or thinking about being content is one thing, but being content is something else altogether. It’s not enough to just believe something. We have to discover it, feel it, and know it.

Meditation teaches us how mindfulness can turn our attention to the present moment. It shows us how to step away from our usual stream of thoughts and just be. Once we’ve mastered this, we can experience true uncertainty — naked awareness — that’s free from thought, judgment, opinion, or analysis.

So, the next time you find your mind flicking through its files to automatically handle a situation, take a step back, welcome a little uncertainty and view life as it unfolds before you, with open eyes.

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This Topshop Choker Is Legitimately Terrifying

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Like clockwork, come October clothing stores fill up with Halloween-themed goods that are more "spooky kid" than super-scary. But, only the most wussy-like squeamish among us would be creeped out by eyeball ankle socks and a zombie George Costanza sweatshirt.

That's why we have to hand it to Topshop for creating this genuinely terrifying choker that makes the wearer appear as if their throat has been fashionably slit. If you're looking to bring nausea and a sense of discomfort to everyone you meet this Halloween season, your go-to has arrived.

Of course, Topshop has been on the choker revival tip for a few months now. And, while we still think they've gotten pretty expensive since the rubber necklaces we used to buy for two quarters from the supermarket vending machine, the horror potential of this one thoroughly justifies its cost in our minds.

Want to do an Isadora Duncan or Anne Boleyn costume, but are useless with a makeup wheel? Consider the hard part of your costume done. Just, please, don't wear it after November 1st, okay? We're not sure we can handle the '90s revival getting this real.

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Your Mani Just Got Spookier (In A Good Way)

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When Halloween rolls around, we tend to get so caught up in coming up with awesome costumes that nails kind of fall by the wayside. And, we're not the only ones leaving our manicures to the last minute: We see the same yawn-worthy spiderwebs and skulls year after year. Luckily, The Huffington Post has convinced us to tap into our dark sides with a roundup of the spookiest nail-art ideas.

Most of the designs are based on the most hair-raising of today's Halloween rituals: scary movies. From a creepy Bride of Chucky mani to blood-spattering Saw tips — complete with the quote "Let's play a game"— they're chilling in the best ways. Whether you're dying to add some horror to your look or craving a clever way to get into the holiday spirit, click over to get inspired for the 31st. (The Huffington Post)


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What Happens When You Actually Read Thug Kitchen

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Thug Kitchen: The Official Cookbook, out today, collects recipes from the eponymous Thug Kitchen site. Created by duo Michelle Davis and Matt Holloway, the vegan cookbook offers readers 100 healthy recipes, all in the extreme, "fuck"-laden voice we've come to expect from the Thug brand. In the world of Thug Kitchen, we're advised to "stop fucking with that deep-fried ramen." We're told to grab a beer, but we shouldn't "get sloppy 'til [we're] done cooking." It's like someone took Vice Magazine, shoved it through a terrible marketing rubric, and then added "lemony red-lentil soup" to the mix. It's the definition of trying too hard.

Much has been written this week about the authors' race (they are white). Vice is quick to point out the troubling implications of these white authors' use of the word "thug" and the general — presumably affected — vernacular in which they write.

But, does the duo behind the elegant aphorism "Eat like you give a f*ck" actually deliver on their culinary promise? Do they actually provide "simple, tasty-as-fuck recipes for the fast-growing community of healthy eaters out there"? To investigate, I employed the extremely scientific method of counting Thug Kitchen's liberal use of very cool curse words and phrases and comparing them to the book's use of typical cookbook language. You know, weak-ass words like "chop,""carrot," or "preheat." What I found is rather illuminating.

Number Of Occurrences In Thug Kitchen
Fuck: 122
Preheat: 1
Kale salad: 0
Soup: 76
Fucking: 50
Spaghetti: 6
Chia seeds: 3
Motherfucker: 31
Taco: 39
Souffle: 0
Dice: 22
Bitch: 12
Bitching: 1
Stir: 125
Chop: 42
Julienne: 0
Blend: 30
Whisk: 23
Ass: 65
Marinate: 3
Veggies: 33
Big ass: 21
Carrot: 68
Shit: 324
Blueberries: 8
Nutmeg: 1
Salt to taste: 2
Shitty: 7
Boil: 19
Thug: 233
Racist: 0

There you have it. If you're on the lookout for a cookbook that (disgustingly) uses the word "shit" literally 321 times more often than the word "marinate," it seems you've met your match. Thug Kitchen is available wherever books are sold.

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