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One Pro Florist Spills Her Secrets On A Pinterest-Worthy Life

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As children, we wanted to be rock stars, astronauts, tightrope walkers — the sky was the limit, albeit often out of reach. But, for Taylor Patterson, her dream job was right in her backyard. Now, a rising floral designer in NYC, Patterson developed her green thumb working alongside her parents, who gardened on their farm in Delaware. She didn't realize her knack for styling blooms could be a real job, but sure enough, a gig selling flowers turned into her full-on career, and she never looked back.

Between running a stand at The Brooklyn Flea and opening her own company and storefront — Fox Fodder Farm (named after her parents' farm) — the style wisdom and business acumen she's developed through her experiences, world travels, and fashion-savvy friends has given this petal-wielding prodigy a brain ripe for picking. So, we got her tips on everything from eclectically decorating a pint-sized NYC apartment and designing flower arrangements (without dropping a bundle) to starting a business and maintaining a work-life balance.

Ahead, check out the creative moments that comprise Patterson's life, and swoon over the home essentials and fall-perfect ensembles from T.J.Maxx that help her make every second count. And, if you find yourself inspired to try your hand at flower arranging, we know of a few desks that could use some sprucing up.

Decorating The Digs
Her must-haves:
Wooden bowl, candle stand, honeycomb vase, side table, and cropped trousers

"My space is simple but eclectic — it's full of items I’ve picked up in my travels, with a few great local buys like this mint side table thrown in. Growing up, our house was full of things my dad had collected during his trips around the world. Those pieces always had crazy stories behind them and sparked interesting conversation. I've always wanted to recreate that in my own home. I'm really nostalgic, so having those mementos around me makes me feel good."

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My Globetrotter Decor Style
"My floral design has been described as dressy but messy. My home has that vibe, too — it’s never going to be too matchy-matchy. I got this miniature horse on a trip to India with my sister about two years ago, and that abstract vase is by one of my favorite floral designers. The few things I didn't get on my travels, like this beautiful wood bowl (inlaid with mother of pearl!) and the honeycomb vase have to feel organic and complement all the meaningful pieces I have."

Wooden bowl, candle stand, honeycomb vase, and picture frame courtesy of T.J.Maxx.

Finding Inspiration
"I have a lot of books by Tage Andersen, who is a big inspiration of mine. He's really into combining unexpected shapes and textures, which I love to do. I look at his stuff when I want to explore something unusual. I think it's really important in any profession to always be a student — to continue to educate yourself on new ways of doing things."

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Eclectic With Exotic Accents
"These blankets are from Peru and Mexico. I like displaying them in this wicker basket because it makes my space feel more intentional, like a little vignette. And, I've had this cactus for years. The trick with succulents is to ignore them. Just put them in sunlight, and don't water them too much — like, maybe ever."

Basket and drawer set courtesy of T.J.Maxx.

On Keeping It Simple
"I'm always drawn to styles that are clean and versatile. At home, I'm most likely to be wearing comfortable pants like these. For me, it's really important to be comfortable but still look put together."

Bookend, mug, and side table courtesy of T.J.Maxx.

Outfit Curation
Her must-haves:
Floral dress, mixed bangles, jewelry display tray, buckled ankle boots

"More often than not, I have to go to the flower market in the morning, which means I'm up at 6 a.m. I actually wake up earlier than I have to, because it's really important to me to have a leisurely morning. Getting ready and picking an outfit is a pretty relaxing part of my day."

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Defining My Style
"I think I've gotten to a point where I know what looks best on me, what I'm comfortable in, and what's going to allow me to do my job. I want to look good, but I'm not trying to attract attention. I think to myself, Will I feel insecure about this later? Will this dress look weird when I sweat?' All those things come into play when I'm getting dressed."

Dress courtesy of T.J.Maxx

Boots Made For Walking (& Working)
"After I get ready, I make breakfast, check my to-do list, and head into the [flower] studio. When I'm on the go, I love a good, durable boot. I'm definitely a boot person."

Shoes, vase, owl candle holders, hat, and backpack courtesy of T.J.Maxx. For a similar style, try:

My Accessorized Abode
"With this pretty wood tray, my jewelry is laid out in a way I really like: so it functions as a decoration and is easy to access when I'm in a hurry."

Bracelets, rings, and display tray courtesy of T.J.Maxx.

At-Home Entertainment
Her must-haves:
Eclectic kitchenware, metal vase, mixed rings, sweater

"I love to cook. It's really relaxing for me. I just have to strategize with a kitchen this small! And, I try to eat organic. I go to the Union Square farmers' market a couple of times a week to get fresh produce. I get flowers there, sometimes, too. I'm really into having one type of flower throughout your house — which, unless you're having it done for you at a flower shop, is way more practical. So, in the fall, I'll put dahlias or tuberose in every room to give the house some romance."

Wine glass and tea kettle courtesy of T.J.Maxx.

My Cheery Cookware
"My kitchen is pretty small, like most NYC kitchens, so I try to limit the amount of clutter. I really only keep as many dishes as I need, but I'll brighten it up with fun, earthy kitchenware. Fortunately, buying things fresh means nothing accumulates."

Yellow bowl, cutting boards, and dish towel courtesy of T.J.Maxx.

Topping The Table
"Dinner parties are a great excuse to have flowers in the house. Personally, my aesthetic has always been about staying true to the flowers and not trying too hard. I love it when arrangements are looser, touchable, and not too perfect. Using different types of flowers in odd numbers helps keep that natural vibe. And, choosing more organic accents, like earthy vases and straw to wrap, makes bouquets feel more approachable, comfortable."

Vases, stool, bowls and jewelry courtesy of T.J.Maxx.

My Hostess Style
"If I'm having a dinner party, I might dress up a little, in something like this sleeveless sweater/dress combo. It's classy but comfortable, and it won't get in the way of my cooking."

Dress, sweater, and kitchenware courtesy of T.J.Maxx. For a similar style, try:

The Art Of Bundling Fresh Blooms
"People are scared of the idea of flower arranging, but anyone can do it. An easy strategy is to choose three elements: one foliage (leafy plant), one big face flower, and one accent flower. For example, I like forsythia foliage with Cafe au Lait dahlias and black scabiosas or cosmos. And, fall is a great time to depend on foliage: maple, forsythia, magnolia, and beech are a few favorites. When I'm pulling it all together, I avoid big, bulky jewelry — it gets in the way of my work. So, I'm a fan of layering more delicate rings and bracelets."

Rings courtesy of T.J.Maxx.

Getting Down To Business
Her must-haves: Metal flower pot, crisp sweater

"My biggest challenge every day is being comfortable with the facts that I’m a business owner and that I don’t always know what I’m doing, but that’s okay. But, there are so many different points about this job that I find inspiring and rewarding. I love the people we work with. I love working with my hands. I love that it’s creative."

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Investing In Double-Duty Staples
"I need my work clothes to be able to take a beating yet nice enough for a meeting. I'm all about clothes that are straightforward but not too delicate. I tend to buy a few nicer things rather than a bunch of trendy pieces I'll wear once. Once I've stocked up, I won't buy anything else for a while. A sweater like this white one is easy to dress up, but I could also wear it with jeans to run to the market or set up an outdoor event. And, this skirt is really comfortable, which is paramount when I'm working."

Sweater courtesy of T.J.Maxx. For a similar style, try:

A Practical Approach To Potting Plants
"When it comes to sourcing flower pots, I don't really have a strategy. I'll pick up whatever catches my eye. I buy things at the flower market, but it's not really calculated. I love a good metal bucket, though. You can put them anywhere."

Metal flower bucket courtesy of T.J.Maxx.

Bringing A Vision To Life
"Creating an arrangement for someone, especially on an occasion like their wedding, is a delicate thing. It's always a conversation. I'll talk to a bride about the aesthetic, color palette, shapes the couple likes. You can sort of tell within a few minutes of talking to someone if they're the kind of person who'll want an all-white bouquet — really clean and simple — or something with bold, bright colors."

My Work-Life Relationship
"It's really impossible to be a business owner and not have your work take over your life. But, if you love what you do, having it spill into the rest of your life isn't such a bad thing. I've learned the importance of asking for help. I know I can't do everything, and that's why I have a team. The best advice I can give anyone who wants to start their own business is just to do it. You're not going to get everything right. You have to put one foot in front of the other and be open to everything that comes your way."

Metal bucket courtesy of T.J.Maxx.



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Watch Every Episode Of Are You Afraid Of The Dark? For Free

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Halloween just came three weeks early.

If you grew up in a time when 'N Sync was everything — let's just call it, oh I don't know, the '90s — then you'll likely recall a show called Are You Afraid of the Dark?

The anthology series ran until 1996 on Nickelodeon, and was revived for two more seasons at the end of the decade. Are You Afraid of the Dark? followed a clandestine group of imaginative teens who gathered around a campfire to basically scare the bejesus out of one another with hair-raising tales of the macabre. Think: The Twilight Zone for the tween set.

Now, an intrepid Reddit user has discovered that every episode of the cult Canadian series is available on YouTube, and he cataloged them all here.

So get in your jammies, pop some corn, and turn out the lights. And, if you think that ghost stories made for kids aren't scary for your mature horror palette, think again.

Added drinking game bonus: Are You Afraid of the Dark was a Canadian production and gave some of Canada's biggest Hollywood imports their star. Take a shot if you spot any one's whose names rhyme with the following: Bryan Fosling, Meve Bampbell, Gia Hirshner, and Jayden Gristensen. Good luck! (Mashable)

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Headed To H&M? Here's What To Buy With $50 Or Less

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As if we didn't have enough reasons to shop this weekend (Columbus Day sales, anyone?), H&M's new-arrivals section is making the prospect even more tempting with its graphic knits, leather midi-skirts, and bucket bags — all of which could easily pass for high-end.

The good news is, most of the offerings are under $50, making them pretty much the definition of "bang for your buck." If, like us, you find yourself unable to wait until the H&M x Alexander Wang collaboration hits stores on November 6, the slideshow ahead will help tide you over — without putting you over your spending limit.


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Why Brandy Melville Should Rethink Its Look-Alike Staff

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Having a strong brand identity is a goal for any savvy business; that's Marketing 101. At Brandy Melville, one of those, customers know they'll get made-for-Instagram California-girl separates sold by big-on-Instagram California-girl sales associates, and it doesn't take a super-shopper to know what an American Apparel employee looks like. But, brands don't always get there organically. Practices now referred to as "look policies" treat floor staff as spokesmodels and brand ambassadors, and have used discriminatory screening processes to get there.

A new study published in the Journal of the Academy of Marketing Science found that when a sales staff has a homogeneous appearance, customers tend to get turned off, make few purchases, and have an all-around more negative experience. Clearly, these "aesthetic labor practices" could be bad for business. (Whether or not they're ethical is a whole different story.) It all has to do with empathy. If you don't happen to have mermaid-length hair and a one-size-fits-all body or a makeup-free, "all-American" look, you have a harder time perceiving that a store's staff is there to help you.

On the flip side, if a store's workers vary in terms of their body shape, ethnic diversity, and other physical attributes, their wearing a cohesive outfit and grooming style actually reinforces customer empathy. That's pretty logical: The staff itself proves that the clothing is accessible to a diverse set of people, rather than seemingly made for a select few.

But, do positive and negative feelings have anything to do with sales? After all, we can think of many a time when we've bought something after feeling intimidated and insecure while shopping. This study doesn't go into the numbers, but one of its co-authors, Kate Pounders, states in the press release that if a brand's practices are seen as unethical, its business could suffer. The assistant professor of advertising at The University of Texas at Austin says, "We've seen companies like Abercrombie & Fitch come under intense scrutiny and criticism for some of their policies, and I believe it has had a negative effect on their brand image and played a role in declining sales." If inclusivity isn't reason enough to change these hiring practices, perhaps the bottom line will inspire such companies to play nice.

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How Two Fashion Industry Leaders Are Changing The World

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I’ve never really “lunched.” Yes, I’ve always dreamed about perching at a corner table in some fancy bistro, gabbing away while twirling my strands of pearls, but, realistically, that’s never really fit into my life as a working adult. That is, until recently, when I attended Fashion 4 Development’s fourth annual First Ladies Luncheon during the UN General Assembly. Okay, this clearly wasn’t so much the sipping-Champagne-over-frivolous-convo kind of lunch (far from it). The event brought fashion industry leaders together with first ladies from around the globe in the name of diplomacy, fashion, and the greater good of women and children.

Two of the most noteworthy honored guests were designers Donna Karan and Stella Jean, who raise awareness about positive social change by empowering talented women worldwide to build their collections. “[Fashion 4 Development] is so important because it’s everything I believe in from the point of view of working with artisans all over the world," Karan said. She added that it's "not just giving people money, but giving them a platform...for what they are so brilliant at, which is creativity.” And, that’s exactly what she does with her line Urban Zen, and what Jean is doing with her namesake collection. Click through to learn more about how these two designers are changing the fashion scene for the better and shop their goods for a good cause, too.

Urban Zen

Donna Karan launched her Urban Zen line (part of her foundation of the same name) to empower and enrich Haitian artisan commerce. Using talent within the developing communities she aims to support, she has created a line of ethically produced and totally wearable dresses and sweaters.

Urban Zen Oversized Speckle Sweater, $1,895, call 212-206-3999 to purchase.

Urban Zen Simple Graduated Necklace, $345, call 212-206-3999 to purchase.

Urban Zen Bias Twisted Dress, $1,495, call 212-206-3999 to purchase.

Stella Jean

The Italian designer uses fabrics she first saw while working on her Ethical Fashion Initiative in Africa. The talented craftspeople she encountered in Burkina Faso have been a source of inspiration for her label since she launched in 2009, and her organization seeks to enrich and uplift others throughout Africa and in Haiti.



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Get Sporty With Coach Karl Lagerfeld

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Forget Equinox — we're ready to join Chanel's sports club. On Thursday, Bergdorf Goodman celebrated the label's fall/winter 2014 collection by unveiling its latest display: A gym à la Lagerfeld. Customers can shop the line's ready-to-wear, handbags (we have our eyes on that neon green one), sunglasses, jewelry, and, of course, the ultimate street style piece, tweed sneakers. Outside, check out the coordinating window displays entirely dedicated to Chanel. Benches, lockers, and barbells have never looked more couture.

Pop by Bergdorf's to see the installation in person (on display through October 19), or click through now for the swoon-worthy highlights. Sorry, Kanye, but we're going to try Karl's workout plan.



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Put Marina And The Diamonds' "FROOT" On A Loop This Weekend

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Fruit is supposed to be one of the staples of our diet, but let's be real: not everyone eats it on the daily. Perhaps more people would if fruit tasted as good as Marina and the Diamonds' new song "FROOT" sounds.

Gone are the days of Electra Heart, the punny, home-wrecking alter-ego of Marina Diamandis; she killed her off over a year ago. And, though her follow-up to the wildly underrated debut album The Family Jewels, never took off stateside, FROOT could be just what she and her Diamonds need to break free of cult status. The album's title track of the same name has received nothing but praise on YouTube (read: "yaaaas,""EVERYTHING,""slay queen.")

And, rightly so. Electra Heart was riddled with lofty concepts that, though lyrically strong, failed to come together as one solid sonic idea. "FROOT," on the other hand, combines the tongue-in-cheek wordplay of The Family Jewels with Electra Heart's decidedly danceable production. It's 21st century Copacabana luxury laced with hairspray. Now all that's needed is a mirror ball and a dance floor.



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The Treatment That Wants To Be Your Gym

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Even though I fancy myself a healthy person, when given the choice, I will gladly take a nap over exercise. This is because I am sane. So, when I heard about a full-body spa treatment that claims a 60-minute session is on par with taking a 10-mile brisk walk, I couldn't run there fast enough. Except, I didn't actually run because of, you know, that whole unnecessary exercise thing.

The treatment is called Pure Flow, and it's being offered at The Erno Laszlo Institute in Soho. From the waist down, you're strapped to a device that compresses your legs and pulses in sync with your heartbeat. Before my appointment, the Institute sent me a packet describing what my visit would entail, which read like a lazy girl's dream: It stimulates blood and lymphatic flow through counterpulsation technology, energizing you and helping with post-workout recovery. Okay, so it's not a workout in and of itself, but it could help you feel better and boost circulation.

They had told me to wear leggings, a loose top, and wire-free undergarments so that the compressions wouldn't hurt me. I felt like I was ready for a snooze — and then my technician showed me the bed I'd be sprawled across for the next half hour. Suddenly, I was nervous. I'm not a person who enjoys feeling trapped, and here I was about to have my legs strapped down for 30 minutes. My technician told me to relax, and that she'd come check on me throughout my session.

I laid down, and she secured the device around me. She also adhered three heart monitors to my torso to dictate the compression speed and ensure my body wouldn't have a funky reaction. (Since this treatment involves your heart, you're required to sign a waiver ahead of time.) I was free from the waist up, so she told me that I could read a magazine or use my phone. "Truthfully, most people fall asleep," she told me.

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Once she turned on the machine, I felt like sleep wouldn't be in the cards. The compressions were unlike any sensation I had felt before. They kind of reminded me of a time when I was younger, and had somehow squeezed my younger brother's swimmies onto my arms. My legs jerked around so much that I texted my friend: "The lower half of my body looks like I'm having an exorcism." Eventually, tucked under the blanket, I began to feel cozy and safe. Sure enough, in a matter of minutes, I was asleep.

When the tech woke me up, I felt like I'd just come out of the deepest, most restful sleep of my life. As she unstrapped me, I noticed that my legs and butt felt a little sore, but she assured me that was normal. After helping me upright, she went over the rules for the next 24 hours: Drink plenty of water, and don't drink too much alcohol (the effects would be doubled, since everything's moving so fluidly through your system).

Rules memorized, I gently got up — and realized I felt incredible. It was like I'd just finished a rejuvenating yoga class, except I wasn't sweaty or disgusting. After leaving The Institute, I grabbed a liter-and-a-half bottle of water and walked from Soho to my apartment on the Upper East Side — a nearly five-mile trek that takes about an hour and a half. I felt like I was bionic. When I finally settled into bed for the best night of sleep I'd had in months, I wasn't the least bit tired.

Will I be working Pure Flow into my routine? Probably not, seeing as membership at The Institute isn't exactly cheap, and regular treatments won't replace the strengthening and muscle-toning benefits of a good workout. (Sigh.) But, this was a happy reminder that your body is a pretty incredible mechanism. Sometimes, you need to be strapped to a bizarre machine for a half hour to remember that.



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In the five days since announcing her pregnancy in the world's most perfect, golden hour-timed photo, Blake Lively has already become the queen of Pinterest-perfect maternity celebrations. Luckily, she has a ready-made platform for it in the form of her lifestyle site, Preserve.

In two new posts, "Bringing Up Baby" and "Preserve Celebrations: Falling for Family," Lively documents her gorgeously rustic, autumn-themed baby shower.

"With a new baby on the way there is so much to do!," Lively writes in "Bringing Up Baby.""But before experiencing the joy of 3am screams, seemingly impossible amounts of poop and having a favorite shirt covered in reflux…there are presents to open, onesies to dye, there is cake to serve, advice to be shared and all around celebration to be had."

Eat cake, share advice, and tie-dye onesies they did indeed. The pictures Lively shares on Preserve are nothing short of an L.L. Bean catalog photoshoot set in the world's most beautiful orchard — and then some. Everything is beautifully matching in soft oranges and autumnal reds. There are decorative gourds, sheaves of wheat, carrot cake, and clotheslines for cute baby clothes. This is the eternal fall in which we want to live.

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Pumpkin Sweets You Won't Be Able To Control Yourself With

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Now is the time to emphatically declare your love for all things pumpkin. We certainly have no apologies for our enthusiasm. In fact, you might become annoyed at how often we at R29 will be posting about orange-hued food dishes this fall. But, 'tis the season. To kick things off right, we're starting with the best first — namely, melt-in-your-mouth desserts.

San Diego-based food blogger Averie Sunshine recently released a sweet-tooth collection of 50 recipes — from homemade spiced lattes to brownies with fudgy ganache. There are options you can recreate no matter your culinary skills. Plus, lots of love for vegans, too. And, oddly enough, it just so happens there are 51 days until the end of November, so if you make one recipe a day starting tomorrow, you'll get to enjoy all of them before the end of pumpkin season. Ahead, three of our favorite recipes, which we'll be whipping up in our own kitchen this weekend.
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Vegan Chocolate Chip Pumpkin Muffins
Yields 1 dozen medium/large muffins

Prep Time
10 minutes. Bake time 18 minutes.

Ingredients
1 cup & 2 tbsp all-purpose flour
2 tsp baking powder
1 tsp cinnamon
1 tsp pumpkin pie spice
1/2 tsp allspice
1/2 tsp nutmeg
1/2 tsp ground cloves
Pinch salt, optional
3/4 cup granulated sugar
1/4 cup light brown sugar, packed
3/4 cup pumpkin purée
1/3 cup coconut oil, melted (vegetable or canola oil may be substituted)
1/4 cup unsweetened plain or vanilla almond milk (other milks may be substituted, including coconut, soy, cow)
2 tbsp mild or medium molasses
1 tbsp vanilla extract
1 cup mini semi-sweet chocolate chips (regular-sized chips may be substituted, use about 1 1/4 cups, or use 6 to 8 oz chopped dark chocolate)

Instructions
1. Preheat oven to 400°F. Spray a nonstick 12-cup standard muffin pan with floured cooking spray, or grease and flour the pan; set aside.

2. In a large bowl, whisk together the flour, baking powder, cinnamon, pumpkin pie spice, allspice, nutmeg, cloves, and salt, if using, to taste; set aside.

3. In a separate large bowl, whisk together the sugars, pumpkin, oil, milk, molasses, and vanilla until combined.

4. Pour the wet pumpkin mixture over the dry ingredients, and stir until just combined; don’t overmix. Batter will be quite thick; if yours seems too thick, add an additional small splash of milk to thin it.

5. Fold in the chocolate chips.

6. Divide batter equally among wells of the prepared pan. Each well will be just under three-quarters full (don’t exceed three-quarters full or they could overflow). When pouring batter into muffin wells, use a quarter cup measure that’s been coated with cooking spray; the batter will slide right out.

7. Bake for 18 minutes, or until tops are domed, puffed, and a toothpick inserted in the center comes out clean, or with a few moist crumbs dangling, but no batter.

8. Allow muffins to cool in pans for about 10 to 15 minutes before removing and placing on a rack to cool completely. Muffins will keep airtight at room temperature for up to 5 days, or in the freezer for up to 6 months.
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Pumpkin Whoopie Pies With Maple Buttercream
Yields 6 generously stuffed pies

Prep Time
10 minutes. Bake time 12 to 14 minutes.

Cookie Ingredients
1 cup light brown sugar, packed
1/2 cup canola or vegetable oil
3/4 cup pumpkin purée
1 egg
1 1/2 tsp vanilla extract
1 tsp cinnamon
1 tsp ground ginger
1 tsp pumpkin pie spice
1/2 tsp ground cloves
1/2 tsp allspice
Pinch salt, optional
1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1/2 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon baking soda

Maple Buttercream Ingredients
1/2 cup unsalted butter, softened
2 tbsp real maple syrup (or 1 tsp maple extract)
1 1/2 tsp vanilla extract
1/2 tsp cinnamon
2 1/2 cups confectioners’ sugar, sifted
1 tbsp cream or milk, optional

Instructions
1. Preheat the oven to 325°F and line two baking sheets with nonstick silicone baking mats or parchment paper; set aside.

2. Make the cookies. In a large mixing bowl, combine brown sugar, oil, pumpkin, egg, vanilla, cinnamon, ginger, pumpkin pie spice, cloves, allspice, and salt, if using, to taste, and whisk until smooth.

3. Add the flour, baking powder, and baking soda, and stir until just combined. Batter will be soft and on the runny side, more like cake batter than cookie dough.

4. Using a quarter-cup measure sprayed with cooking spray, scoop mounds of batter onto prepared baking sheets, six mounds per sheet. Alternatively, use a plastic food-storage bag with the corner snipped or a pastry bag with a large round tip.

5. Bake for 12 to 14 minutes, or until tops have set. Cookies will be very soft and may look underdone, but will firm up as they cool. Allow cookies to cool on baking sheets for at least 10 minutes before moving them to a rack to finish cooling. Allow cookies to cool completely before filling them.

6. While cookies cool, make the buttercream. In the bowl of a stand mixer fitted with the paddle attachment, beat butter on high speed for 1 to 2 minutes. Stop and scrape down the sides of the bowl.

7. Add the maple syrup, vanilla, and cinnamon, and beat on high speed until incorporated, about 1 minute; stop and scrape down the sides of the bowl.

8. With the mixer running on low speed, add the confectioners’ sugar slowly, about ½ cup at a time, and gradually increase mixer speed to high. Beat for 3 to 4 minutes, or until sugar is incorporated and frosting is fluffy. If necessary to achieve desired frosting consistency, you may need to add a splash of cream and adjust the sugar ratio slightly.

9. Apply a generous dollop of frosting to 6 cookies. Sandwich them together with the remaining unfrosted cookies, creating 6 whoopie pies.

Whoopie pies are best fresh, but extras may be stored airtight in refrigerator for up to three days. If you plan to store these at room temperature, the frosting may be made with vegetable shortening instead of butter.
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Baked Cinnamon-Sugar Pumpkin-Spice Mini Doughnuts
Yields about 1 dozen mini doughnuts

Prep time
10 minutes. Bake time 10 minutes.

Doughnut Ingredients
1 3/4 cups all-purpose flour
1 1/2 tsp baking powder
1 tsp cinnamon
1 tsp pumpkin pie spice
1/2 tsp ground nutmeg
1/2 tsp allspice
1/4 tsp ground cloves
Pinch salt, optional
1 egg
3/4 cup pumpkin purée
3/4 cup low-fat buttermilk
1/3 cup canola or vegetable oil
1/2 cup light brown sugar, packed
2 tbsp granulated sugar
2 tbsp vanilla extract

Coating Ingredients
1/2 cup (1 stick) unsalted butter, melted
1/2 cup granulated sugar
1 tsp ground cinnamon
1 tsp pumpkin pie spice

Instructions
1. Preheat oven to 350°F. Spray mini doughnut pan and doughnut hole pan (or mini muffin pan) with floured nonstick cooking spray; set aside.

2. Make the doughnuts. In a large bowl, combine the flour, baking powder, cinnamon, pumpkin pie spice, nutmeg, allspice, cloves, and salt, if using, to taste, and whisk to combine; set aside.

3. In a medium bowl, combine the egg, pumpkin, buttermilk, oil, sugars, and vanilla, and whisk until smooth. Slowly pour wet ingredients into the dry, and stir until just combined. Batter will be lumpy and thick. Don’t over-mix to try to smooth it out.

4. Spray a small spoon with nonstick cooking spray (this will help the batter slide off easily), and spoon the batter into the doughnut pan wells, filling each about two-thirds to three-quarters full. The pan is small and there is no easy way to do this without spattering.

5. After all the wells are filled, I go back around with a paper towel or my finger to wipe off any excess batter.

6. When filling the doughnut hole pan (or mini muffin pan), fill each well to about three-quarters full. Fuller wells create more domed and globe-like donut holes.

7. Bake donuts for about 10 minutes, and donut holes for about 11 to 12 minutes, or until they have domed, puffed, and are springy to the touch. Cooking times will vary based on pan sizes and fullness of the wells. Allow doughnuts and doughnut holes to cool in pans for about 5 minutes before turning out onto wire racks.

8. While the doughnuts cool, make the coating. Melt the butter in a small microwave-safe bowl, about 1 minute; set aside.

9. In a separate small bowl, combine the sugar, cinnamon, and pumpkin pie spice, and stir to combine; set aside.

10. After the doughnuts and doughnut holes have cooled enough to handle, quickly dip them, one by one, into the butter and dredge in the coating mixture. Serve immediately.

Doughnuts and doughnut holes are best enjoyed fresh, but will keep airtight at room temperature for up to three days. If you don’t plan to consume the whole batch at once, only dip and coat what you intend to consume to extend shelf life and prevent sogginess.

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At 45 years-old, Jennifer Lopez knows a thing or two about life. She knows how to come out the other end of a divorce, ostensibly unscathed. How to work and mother twins. How to shake that famous booty. How to sing (duh). And, now, add to that how to pull off a red leopard mini dress on the red carpet — without looking tacky. Yep, we can learn something from this latest achievement.

At Variety 's Power Of Women luncheon earlier today, J.Lo sported a short, fiery leopard-print dress, but somehow kept it chic and appropriate. We think it's all thanks to that simple and sleek ponytail — and equally minimal styling to match. Got a standout dress? Try solid, all-black accessories. One detail that really helped keep this look in the realm of the awe-worthy and achievable? The collar. It's this subtle-yet-important touch that makes the dress feel well-rounded, drawing attention up to the face, instead of to that rear end. This (unfortunately) wasn't a music video shoot, after all.

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Major Fall Haircut Inspiration, From Bobs To Undercuts

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Backstage at Fashion Week, a reporter asked legendary hairstylist Orlando Pita what he thought the "haircut of the moment" was. In response, Pita practically recoiled: "I am so sick of magazines telling women that they need to look like one thing in particular. I would never answer that question. Hair is all about individuality."

The remark was met with more than a few smiles, because, in our age of tapping everyone from Jennifer Lawrence to Siouxsie Sioux for inspiration, he couldn't be more correct. Why try to define a generation when beauty is finally — albeit slowly — becoming more democratic?

Following Pita's philosophy, we decided to create a fall haircut story that was neither definitive nor preachy, but rather, fun and (hopefully) inclusive. Here, you'll see singers, models, and other stars who've won us over with their bold — or not-so-bold, but still beautiful — cuts.

Click through the slideshow to see who made our edit. Then, let us know in the comments who else you'd like to see on the list. Next week, we'll update it with your suggestions — so stay tuned for more.

Georgia May Jagger's hair is so beautiful — we're pretty sure it's those impeccably blended, face-framing layers, or that gorgeous honey-caramel blonde color. But, her bangs are the best part: We love how the shortest pieces soften her visage and add an easy, casual vibe. Notice that the bend in her hair starts just shy of her cheekbones: You could mimic that for a '60s feel, or you could curl your fringe in line with the eyes to open up your face.

If you've got long, gorgeous curls, take a cue from the likes of Rihanna, Solange, and Lady Gaga, and rock what your momma gave you. The queens have spoken: Volume is in — way in.

According to Motions celebrity stylist Ursula Stephen, the ubiquitous bob — in all its iterations — is still going strong. "The longer, blunt bob cut [is] definitely trending this season," she says. "You've seen it on everyone from model Jourdan Dunn [shown] to Kristen Wiig. It's edgy and makes for a manageable style for the cooler months." To cop Jourdan's cool-girl waves, "just go over your natural texture with a curling wand, paying special attention to the pieces around the face," she says, adding that curlier types should let their hair air-dry with a leave-in conditioner for maximum bounce.

"Shorter hair, like bobs and other variations, [is] very fresh," says George Northwood, a renowned U.K. celebrity stylist whose clients include Rosie Huntington-Whiteley and Alexa Chung. Jennifer Lawrence's demure baby bob, as we've called it, is one of his favorites right now.

Riawna Capri, co-owner of Nine Zero One and stylist who tends to the tresses of Miley Cyrus and Emma Stone, sees something new popping up on the West Coast. "I like to call it the 'fresh long,'" she says. "It's a mid-length haircut with piece-y texture and no layers." She cites Vanessa Hudgens, with her brand-new red ombré (rombré?), as inspiration.

"A new crop is a great way to change up a career and reinvent yourself," says editorial hairstylist James Pecis, who spotted lots of shorter 'dos backstage during Fashion Month. This sentiment is appropriate for Rosamund Pike, who revealed a peekaboo shaved patch during a red-carpet appearance for Gone Girl, her much-anticipated blockbuster. "Short styles have tremendous versatility, so play with it," Pecis says. "See how many ways you can wear one cut, and push the limits of your length."

Before the red-carpet premiere of the actress' new movie, Camp X-Ray, stylist Giannandrea gave Kristen Stewart a fresh crop that took short to a whole new level. "I wanted a chic and effortlessly stylish new cut; something that perfectly reflects her personality," he says. "The proportions are extremely important with short cuts — I wanted to preserve the femininity while still bringing an edge. I used a combination of thinning shears and a razor to achieve this balance."

Pushing boundaries even further is none other than Amber Valletta, the supermodel who manages to look nothing short of super — even with an androgynous 'do. "It's fearless," says celebrity hairstylist Peter Butler. "It's the grown-up version of the Miley chop for a confident, stylish woman — preferably with great bone structure."

"Bangs are definitely back," notes Laurent Philippon, Bumble and bumble's global artistic director. "Whether [it's] worn thick and above the eyebrows, or thin and long around the eyes, a good fringe can be a great tool to frame a face that's square, or add structure to a rounder shape." Case in point: the Bey bangs, which the icon debuted in New York during the Global Citizen Festival a couple of weeks ago.

At first glance, you may think top model Freja Beha is rocking another take on the long fringe you saw on Queen Bey. But, not so fast, insists Matt Fugate, a stylist at Sally Hershberger Downtown. "It's a long shag," he explains. "It's good for almost all face shapes, and especially works well on women with prominent foreheads." The separated, blunt fringe mimics her cut's choppy layers and lends a softness to the edgy style. If you fear going straight across, Fugate suggests side-swept bangs, which "will help accentuate the contours of your face and bring out your cheekbones."

The shag is the go-to 'do for Edie Campbell, the it-Brit model of the moment. "Edie always leads the cropped-hair trends," says Pecis. And, Northwood adds: "Try something longer at the back — a bit mullet, if you dare! Shorter, deconstructed styles suit most face shapes. Just keep it soft and choppy. Rough-dry the hair into the shape you want to keep it messy and undone, and then add a little bit of a powder dry shampoo, like Redken's, for texture."

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Pop music gets a bad rap because it's too often seen as being easy and unintelligent; it's formulaic and pop stars are often fed songs rather than writing their own. And, sure, many of them do, but that doesn't mean it's dumb.

Hell, often times the simplest thing is the hardest thing to create. Charli XCX, pop's forthcoming force of nature, knows this to be true and sounds off in a new interview with Cosmopolitan.

"I think it's all genuinely clever, good music," she says, responding to a question of whether she sees pop music as a guilty pleasure. "When I say that about Britney Spears, some people are like, 'What? Are you serious?' Have you heard her albums? They're so intelligent. The way her songs are crafted is really amazing. I think that music is really interesting and clever."

Charli has a point here. If sarcasm is, as Oscar Wilde said, the lowest form of wit but the highest form of intelligence, so too must be pop. It takes a lot to craft an earworm, after all. The most successful example of this, she says, is Rihanna's "We Found Love"— a track with "amazing poetry" and a beat that "goes off."

If it's something you "can sing along to," it's pop. Perhaps that can be unpacked further to say pop is something you can sing along to for days — no, years — on end. But, can that thought transfer to other forms of media, like the movies? Is Mean Girlsa carb pop? By Charli's philosophy, it sure is. Grool. (Cosmopolitan)

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Just over a week after receiving a DUI in Los Angeles, Amanda Bynes has been put on psychiatric hold in Pasadena, according to reports from Us Weekly and TMZ. She was apparently on her way back to the city when a car picked her up at LAX on the premise of transporting to her to a hotel, but then brought her to an unnamed psychiatric facility at the request of her parents, who had previously arranged the pickup.

Bynes' parents have been publicly speaking out about her apparently unstable condition for several days, urging her to come back into their care. Earlier today, Bynes accused her father of sexually abusing her as a child on Twitter, a claim which her mother has refuted. Bynes later retracted the statements in a further Tweet.

This is the second time Bynes has been placed on psychiatric hold and, after her first stay, her parents took on a temporary conservatorship that ended in early September. Holds of this kind last between 72 hours and 14 days. Right now, no official statements have been made by the family or Bynes' representatives. (Us Weekly)

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From Marilyn Monroe's signature scarlet smirk to Rihanna's bombshell pucker to Angelina Jolie's pillowy pout, full lips will always be on trend. Recently, there's been a ton of buzz surrounding Hollywood’s most recent lippy lady, Kylie Jenner. The youngest Kardashian made headlines with her statement lips, giving the media reason to question if her exaggerated pout was injection-induced or just expertly executed makeup application. Faking a full lip is really just about accentuating your natural lip line with the right tools and techniques. Below, my top five tips for creating your own Kylie-inspired plump pout.

Hydration
This is key; hydrate your lips to keep them soft and plump. Choosing a lip balm that actually penetrates and hydrates the lips will work to increase lip volume. My go-to's are Nivea's Lip Butter and Avene's Lip Moisturizer.

Pick Peppermint
Peppermint has a heating and cooling effect that naturally plumps lips. Choose lip products with peppermint and capsicum, such as eos Lip Balm in the peppermint flavor.

Exfoliate
Exfoliating the lips stimulates cell production. Make sure you exfoliate at night in order to allow your lip cells to regenerate while you sleep. Before bed, exfoliate and then follow with a generous lather of lip hydration. My go-to is the Lip Scrub by Sara Happ, especially the Sparkling Peach and the Peppermint flavors.
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Match Your Lip Tone & Lip Pencil
Outline the outer perimeter of the lip including the corners of the mouth with a long- wearing lip pencil that matches your lip tone. Then, fill in your lip with the pencil, leaving the center bare for added depth. Nude and flesh tone shades with a satin to glossy finish are the best choices for amplifying your lip size. I love Bobbi Brown's Sheer Lip Color in Tutu and Summer Nude.

For Bold Lips, Choose Contrasting Colors
When creating a full, bold lip, choose a contrasting lip pencil in a slightly deeper tone to fill in the lip. Opt for a slightly brighter lipstick and apply on the bow and center of the bottom lip. The effect gives a 3-D ombré-like dimension to the lips. My favorite combo is MAC Cherry Liner with MAC Lady Danger Lipstick.

Putting It All Together
Start by moisturizing and hydrating your lips with your favorite balms and glosses. Second, neutralize your natural lip line with a touch of your foundation. This will erase your natural lip shape in order to create a blank canvas for your full pout. Next, prime the lip before applying your long-wearing pencil. My must-have lip primer is MAC's Prep + Prime Lip. Finish by drawing on lipstick. After you've drawn the line, set the new lip shape with a translucent setting powder and add lip color afterward.

Lip-Plumping Products
I know many of us are drawn to the seemingly magical properties of lip plumpers. However, you should be wary of over-the-counter lip plumpers that only work for a few minutes. I always suggest going the fake-it-with-makeup route, but if you're in the market for a plumping product, my choice is YSL's Top Secret Re-Plumping Lip Balm. As opposed to one of those glosses that stings the lips to make them noticeably plumper, this is more of a hydrating product that fills out the natural fine lines on the lips by moisturizing.

Paired with a flawless complexion and lush lash, a perfectly plump pout appears both polished and powerful, and it's a look that anyone can master.

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In news that will surprise no one who's seen a fashion show this season, The Fashion Spot reports that designers still have a long way to go in bringing racial diversity to the runway. TFS analyzed 151 shows in New York, London, Milan, and Paris, and found that overall, a whopping 82% of models cast were white. Black and Asian models made up 6.8% of the castings each, while Latinas comprised a mere 1.8%.

TFS further broke down its analysis by city, and found that New York runways were the most racially diverse — with "only" 79% of its runway models being white. For a deeply multicultural city like New York, where the majority of the population is not white (just under 44%, according to a 2013 American Community Survey), these are obviously disappointing statistics.

Some designers who bucked the trend included Zac Posen and Peter Som, both of whom cast more than 50% models of color (you know, like how the actual world is), while designer Ashish Gupta made a major statement by casting only Black models at his presentation in London.

We'd like to say that it's fashion's move, but few in the industry are unaware of the problem, which has, after all, been brought to its attention before. But, despite the activism of Bethann Hardison's Diversity Coalition, and numerous high-profile reports everywhere from The New York Times to Jezebel, our runways remain overwhelmingly white, while designers and casting directors pass the blame back and forth. At some point, you have to wonder if most people in the industry care — excluding, of course, all those models of color waiting to get their big break.

Click over to The Fashion Spot for lots more info, including the designers who barely even tried. Here's hoping this is one runway trend whose time will pass very, very soon. (The Fashion Spot)

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For a brief moment in time, years ago, I was a part of the Victoria’s Secret family. I answered the phone when you called; I took your nervous, low-spoken orders. I recommended thongs in lilac and lace garters, and I told men what women wanted. I had just turned eighteen.

Working at Victoria’s Secret Catalogue is nothing like working at the namesake store in the mall. The VS shops are tawdry explosions of pink satin and taffeta curtains. Near the cash registers, they sell cinnamon mints in the shape of tiny, pursed lips. They are full of buxom young women, confused, hopeful men, and overly made-up saleswomen.

The Victoria’s Secret Catalogue headquarters, on the other hand, is sophisticated and proper; specifically, it's operated out of a remote, sprawling complex on the outskirts of an Ohio suburb. Like all of Les Wexner’s buildings that I’d driven by — he, the faceless owner and multimillionaire behind Victoria’s Secret, Abercrombie & Fitch, The Limited, Bath & Body Works, half of Ohio, probably your car — it is a monolith of steel and black modernistic construction. Even though Victoria’s Secret spells catalogue the British way — which always made me believe that a puffy, British fifty-something woman of great means and greater sexual proclivity was behind the empire — it is made, manufactured, and headquartered in Ohio.

It was Lisa Bevilaqua’s idea that we work there over the summer. I was flattered when she asked me to join her. Popular, with a beautiful albino streak through her honey-blond curls, Lisa was one of the few non-Catholics at our sainted high school. She also had a car and had exhibited the perfect amount of sex appeal. (In my experience, the stereotypes are absolutely true: All Catholic schoolgirls are either easy or are desperately trying to become easy.) She tried to prepare me for giving blow jobs: “It’s like eating vanilla ice cream with pickles.”

It was our first job that didn’t involve selling orthopedic shoes or carving turkeys at a buffet for the elderly. There were security guards and a gleaming reception desk. We were issued laminated ID badges and our own giant black folders with every recent incarnation of the catalogue, triple-hole punched inside, which we’d scour for the fabled transsexual model, though we never once found an Adam’s apple. If you didn’t want to eat in the spacious employee cafeteria (complete with a fro-yo machine and multigrain breadsticks), you could have your packed lunch at one of the metal tables in the upstairs lounge beneath billboard-sized photos of Stephanie Seymour lounging on satin pillows.

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Before I worked there, I imagined that the customers were wealthy college graduates, professionals with expensive hair and teeth and pinstriped suits taking a few minutes out of their busy days to call the toll-free line and order teddies and satin chemises to pack for their weekends in Tahiti. I had no ideas that so many housewives would call in — or that so many housewives would work the phones. But, working moms made up the majority of the staff that summer, with teens like Lisa and me making up the minority presence.

It didn't take long before I discovered that these mothers knew what women wanted. Unfazed no matter what questions they fielded, they could consult with clients on which bra best fit a double-D or which negligee would be best for a romantic weekend away. They never suggested a customer buy a white suit to wear to a wedding, and so were never reprimanded by said customer.

Despite my nerves and inexperience, I tried to answer every call with a low, sultry purr: “Thank you for calling Victoria’s Secret Catalogue. My name is Nicole, how can I assist you?” I hoped I sounded like a mature, confidant woman who knew what she wanted and how to get it.

I wanted my voice to be everything I wasn’t, but I'm afraid it ultimately betrayed me. By the end of each call — after finding the catalogue the customer had, the page number, discussing sizing, getting the credit card number, and desperately trying to sell five panties for twenty dollars (twenty-five cents commission for every panty sold!) — my nerves would be frayed and my voice so high it sounded more like Minnie Mouse than Marilyn Monroe. “Goodbye!” I’d squeak.

I don't remember the first customer call I ever answered (they're mostly a blur now), but I do remember my first perv call, and the slow, blood-in-your-ears shock when you realize the person on the other end is masturbating. How incredibly, weirdly, intimate. What did they think I looked like? Did they imagine my voice coming out of the girl in the point d’esprit teddy’s lips, the way I once thought the Virgin Mary statue’s lips moved in chapel? Were their bedroom curtains drawn, or were they hunched down on the living room floor, with Jeopardy! muted in front of them?

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You could hang up on perv callers (in the same way you could hang up on people who refused to give you a credit card number up front), but sometimes I’d stay on the line. There was an old man who liked to rap about panties and pussy; I’d compliment him on his rhymes (what else did he have?), and just when I had gotten used to the random prank callers, something new would throw me. Like the time I couldn’t understand what the male customer was asking and put him on hold to ask my manager: “Which thong do we recommend for ‘tucking’?”

Or my first female perv call. Sure, it was odd that she just murmured, “Mmm, huh,” as I enthusiastically described my favorite push-up bras and teddies. But, it made it easier to read the special features I always forgot to mention (“And, the best thing about the see-through lace bodysuit? It’s crotchless!”). Then she asked me what I was wearing, and I could feel my heart pound in my ears anew.

What was I wearing? Certainly not the same things as this beautiful family of women who cavorted in these glossy pages — though I longed to. “You need to get in touch with your sexuality,” said Lisa. “You need to be an animal.” We were in high school. We idolized Sharon Stone, though we weren’t old enough to see Basic Instinct. I wanted the catalogue model’s bodies, smiles, and hair. If only I could be one of those bronzed girls, lounging against a white-washed wall in a blue-sky utopia that represented either Greece, Bali, or Baja — anywhere but Ohio. Maybe my life would look more like that in college. For now, as a quick fix, I used my employee discount to order a nightie, but when it arrived, it didn't fit right. The cotton was rough against my breasts, which poked out embarrassingly against the material like science-class volcanoes. No bras I ordered ever inspired wonder.

At parties though, Lisa and I were popular. And, my job that summer made me appear interesting to others. Flocks of boys would crowd around us while we to pretended to answer the VSC phone. I can’t say I learned about love or sex from the catalogue, but I learned to mimic some of the postures. I could bite my lip just so, lower my voice just right. I could close my eyes and imagine myself on a beach in Tahiti, as warm as Ohio nights.

Even today, men and women who are intelligent, politically astute, and proud to call Ira Glass a sex symbol melt when I say I used to work at the Victoria’s Secret Catalogue. They beg me to “answer the phone.” (Hell yes, I’ve gotten laid using my old phone voice.) And, now I can work the underwires, easily recreate the catalogue poses: a finger against the lips, a tilt of the hips. It’s easy and fake and fun and horrible, and sometimes it’s hard to let go. I wonder if the real models face this dilemma: When they actually fall in love and someone sees them up close and in person, what do they do? First moves: open your eyes, take off the bra.

This post was authored by Nicole Ankowski.

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Regardless of how good you've been with your skin care regimen, it's brewing on your chin — a big 'ol zit. You've done the facial peels and made sure your moisturizer is oil-free, but we all get a spot here and there. The trick is to know what product to pull out to make sure it's handled quickly. That's when we turn to the experts (and our pals) over at Rank & Style.

The site uses customer reviews, editors' picks, and overall buzz to figure out which products are going to work the hardest for you without bruising your bank account. Consider its authors beauty lovers with a penchant for math. And, after crunching the numbers, Rank & Style has named Kate Somerville's EradiKate Acne Treatment as the clear-cut winner.

EradiKate has a trifecta of wins under its belt. Not only does it generate serious buzz, but it has also received top marks as an editor's pick and garners killer customer reviews. On Nordstrom's website, user kayTX claims it is "magic in a bottle! I have never had a product work this well, and I will be a customer for life, unless I am fortunate enough to stop getting pimples altogether."

So, if you feel a zit brewing, slap some EradiKate on it. Pair it with your dark spot removers, and you've got a recipe for spot-free skin. Talk about being #blessed.



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#Fakegeekgirl Targets Comic Con Misogyny

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If you geek out over almost any kind of pop culture genre — comics, sci-fi, horror, music, and yes, sports — you've probably had someone try to police what kind of fan you are and question your fandom. And, unfortunately, that can often be the best case scenario at conventions and other fan-oriented functions. Misogyny and harassment at Comic Con events is an ongoing problem that alienates and scares off female fans, who made up more than 40% of 2013 New York Comic Con attendees.

This year, NY Comic Con is making a strong effort to address issues of sexism and even cancelled an event with an author who said some pretty problematic things about women and diversity in a Flavorwire interview last week. But, costume designers and cosplay royalty Kerri Yount and Sara Jean Maefs, wanted to make a bigger statement. Enter #fakegeekgirl, a hashtag meant to remind everyone that no one is faking being a fan — and attacking women who are fans is not okay. Click through to see their hashtag (in concert with some excellent cosplay).

With season five of The Walking Dead about to chew up our Sunday nights again, this Daryl look is a total #fakegeekgirl DO.

You really don't want to mess with the dark overlord Loki or a woman who loves him so much that she created a horn helmet cosplay in tribute. Seriously, would you mess with this #fakegeekgirl?

Hey Ms. Marvel, you're no #fakegeekgirl, you've been a Ms. since 1968 — three years before the magazine — get it, get it.

While we're still waiting for another Catwoman film — Anne Hathaway's turn in The Dark Knight Rises notwithstanding — this throwback to the deeply spooky Michelle Pfeiffer look in Batman Returns will hold us over. Approach with caution.

Dressed as Thranduil, Elven King in the Hobbit and father to Legolas — played by Orlando Bloom in the Lord of the Rings movies — obvious geek and creative genius Rattle_and_Burn's costume should shut down anyone who questions girls being superfans.

Oh hey, Thor. No, we're not questioning your fandom, we're moving back slowly. Not interested in the business end of the hammer. Have a great Con!



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