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10 Wildly Chic Glitter Polishes To Grab Before Your Next Party

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Imagine your dream holiday party outfit — hopefully what you're wearing this weekend. Maybe it's a simple silk slip dress, strappy heels, and a goldenrod Jennifer Behr braided-velvet headband nestled perfectly at the crown of your head. Now that you're standing out in a sea of candy stripes, you have to make sure the small details — like your fingernails, wrapped around the thin stem of your wine glass — are equally as striking under the twinkle lights.

The eternally en vogue nail trend that's going to be huge this holiday season is — you guessed it — glitter polish. Though not earth-shattering in the least, the glitter manicure has long been seen as youthful, reminiscent of the bright, sparkly polish bottles scattered across the carpet at your middle-school sleepovers. That is, until now.

Ahead, celebrity nail pros break down the best grown-up glitter nail polishes to stock this holiday season. Pick one of these bottles and you can DIY your perfect party manicure, saving yourself a trip to the salon, plus the cost associated with it. Hey, you're saving up for that Jennifer Behr headband, after all.

At Refinery29, we’re here to help you navigate this overwhelming world of stuff. All of our market picks are independently selected and curated by the editorial team. If you buy something we link to on our site, Refinery29 may earn commission.

Fuchsia with Delicate Glitter

If you're not into huge flecks of glitter on your nails, try a bright base color with fine-grain glitter mixed in. "A subtly sparkly fuchsia shade is a great way to dress up your nails for the party season," says celebrity nail pro Michelle Saunders. We're obsessed with Côte's glittery magenta polish — one, because it's fun; secondly, because it's 100% non-toxic.



Côte Nail Polish in No. 105, $18, available at goop

If you're at Target or CVS, Saunders recommends tracking down this Essie polish bottle, in the shade City Slicker. "This polish gives this fun, retro '80s vibe to your DIY manicure, with a softer shimmer finish," she explains.



Essie Concrete Glitter Nail Polish Collection in City Slicker, $9, available at Ulta Beauty

Golden

Try a polish with a clear base and big chunks of gold floating throughout for a truly festive flair. "Smith & Cult’s gold glitter polish in Shattered Souls is my personal favorite, and a must for the holidays," says Saunders.



Smith & Cult Shattered Souls, $18, available at Space NK

If you're a fan of OPI polishes, consider grabbing the glitter shade called Gold Key To The Kingdom. "This rich metallic looks gorgeous over bare nails, giving a touch of shine that reads elegant," says Olive & June founder Sarah Gibson Tuttle.



OPI Nail Lacquer in Gold Key to the Kingdom, $10.49, available at Sally Beauty

Rainbow

Rainbow glitter polish — a clear base filled with an assorted mix of colorful flecks — adds an unexpected sparkle to your holiday mani. "I love the Lauren B polish in the shade, One Night in Weho," says Saunders. "It's festive for the holidays, but still sheer enough to keep in your rotation for the rest of the year."



LAUREN B Nail Polish in One Night in WeHo, $19, available at LAUREN B BEAUTY

The best part about swiping on a multi-colored rainbow glitter polish — like this funfetti shade by Jin Soon — over a naked nail is that it's delightfully resistant to chipping.



JINsoon Nail Polish in Fab, $18, available at Amazon

Heart-Shaped

Glitter is inherently fun in its natural hexagonal-fleck form, but when you bling out a clear base coat with teensy laser-cut hearts, the detail is chic and unexpected. "A manicure bedazzled with hearts is in season," says Tuttle. "I absolutely love the Nails Inc polish in Alexa Hearts." If you can't splurge on the limited-edition bottle, Sephora has a Nails Inc holiday glitter polish set that's a solid alternative.



Nails Inc. Nail Polish in Alexa Hearts (Limited-Edition), $34.99, available at Amazon

Silver

Everyone needs a silver sequin polish in their collection. "You can't go wrong with a true diamond-esque sequin glitter," says Saunders. "Set In Stones by Essie is a glitter lover's dream and looks amazing on every skin tone."



Essie Luxeffects Nail Polish in Set in Stones, $6.89, available at Target

Shimmer Top Coat

When your go-to polish — be it slate gray or pale pink — isn't packing that holiday party-ready punch you're looking for, try layering on a glitter top coat for some pizazz. "I love This Magic Moment by Deborah Lippmann," says Tuttle. "Because it's sheer white mica, you can swipe it over any polish base for a fresh, shiny finish."



Deborah Lippmann Nail Polish in This Magic Moment, $20, available at Deborah Lippmann

If you're rotating though dark, rich base colors this time of year — think oxblood reds and glossy sapphires — a dark-tinged glitter makes the perfect top coat finish. "I love to layer this Crimson and Clover shade on top of a matte red to give a mani that extra festive pop," explains Tuttle.



Deborah Lippmann Nail Polish in Crimson And Clover, $20, available at Deborah Lippmann

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Kim Kardashian Has Two Makeup Rules For North West

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Scroll through Kim Kardashian West 's Instagram on any given weekend and you'll be sure to see: a gigantic floral arrangement, dispatches from a private jet, promo for her latest KKW Beauty launch, and if you're lucky, videos and pictures of her daughter North West playing with makeup and sometimes even roleplaying as her mom's makeup artist.

In an interview with Refinery29 for the launch of KKW Fragrance at Ulta, Kardashian West says that she is all too aware of West's makeup fascination.

"I already know North is into makeup for sure," Kardashian West says. "She had friends over this weekend and some of her girlfriends came and they were just all in her room, giving themselves makeovers. I was like, OK, she’s really, really into makeup. When companies send makeup and I have a lot, I’ll give it to her."

But Kardashian West also wants to enforce some rules for North — who just turned five this summer — and told us she plans to take the same approach as her late father, Robert Kardashian. "I remember when I was 14, my dad for Christmas got me a makeup class," Kardashian West says. "And I went to makeup school. He was like, 'I don't want you girls looking crazy. If you’re gonna wear makeup, I want you to learn to do it in the right way.' That was really helpful and I think I will take a cue from that. I’m definitely going to set guidelines."

Though in the Kardashian West household, those guidelines will be pretty liberal. "I don't think she should wear lashes or too dark of a lipstick," Kardashian West says. But she also recognizes that makeup is about more than just flaunting particular facial features. "It is a form of expression," she says. "So I want her to express herself, but I want her to be appropriate, too."

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15 Unique Subscription Sites That Take The Stress Out Of Creative Gifting

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Over the years, we've come to learn that one is either born to holiday gift...Or not. And for those of us who were skipped by the gifting gene, this season represents a time of idealess turmoil instead of festive shopping sprees. But this year, we won't be throwing in the towel when our creativity banks hit empty. Because this year, the effortless solution of the subscription box has hit an all-time high in creativity and quality.

When you can't figure out how the hell to wrap friends, family members, or SOs up into one thoughtful box with a ribbon on top, there's a service out there to do it for you. These companies all offer a unique range of pre-curated goods that can be subscribed to, for either one-offs or recurring periods, and delivered directly to your (or a giftee's) doorstep. Unsure of what the hell to buy your picky brother? There's a specialty man-scaping box to handle that. How about your dog-obsessed BFF? A themed box brimming with pet products has that covered.

Let the wild, weird, and wonderful subscription sites ahead stand in strong as your missing gifting gene this holiday season. With categories from wellness to fashion, beauty, food, and even sex toys ( ahooga), there's a box to wrap up every character in your life.

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For: A Plant Queen
What: Plant Subscription
Trendy shop The Sill offers up a potted plant subscription service that's specially curated for green thumb beginners — each monthly delivery contains a new easy-to-care-for green friend, potted in an exclusive earthenware planter.



The Sill Plants for Beginners, Monthly Subscription, $35, available at The Sill

For: Wellness Warriors
What: Daily Vitamin Subscription
You may not be a wellness expert, but the skilled team behind Care/of is — treat your health-conscious giftees to a month's worth of daily vitamin packs, personalized for the recipient based off a specialized vitamin recommendation quiz. Plus, you can select from a long list of special affirmation messages to print on each pack for extra dose of oomph.



Care/Of Care/of Personalized Gift Subscription, $30, available at Care/Of

Who: Kinky Giftees
What: Luxury Sex Toy Subscription
We're guessing that someone who says they have everything doesn't have this sexy subscription: A quarterly curated box that comes filled with an assortment of premium adult goods — from vibrators to harnesses, "Magic Babe Balls" with saucy prompts, and even specialty stimulant gels.



Unbound Unbound Quarterly Subscription, $65, available at Unbound

Who: Ice Cream Connoisseurs
What: Pint Subscription
We don't all scream for ice cream, but those who do will absolutely covet a pint subscription gift from Jeni’s — each quarterly delivery includes four signature flavors and a set of four ice cream spades.



Jeni's Ice Cream Pint Club Subscription, $230, available at Jeni's

Who: Quirksters
What: Geek Box Subscription
Show love to your quirky companions with a unique gift subscription that proves getting called a, "geek," is no longer a diss — these limited edition boxes are delivered monthly and include a selection of four to seven geek-themed goods, specially curated by qualified geek experts.



MYGEEKBOX My Geek Box Subscription, $24.99, available at MYGEEKBOX

Who: Indecisive Shoppers
What: Beauty Sample Subscription
Passionate buyers can be a very particular crew, so save these shoppers some time with a subscription built around samples — each month a box filled with the newest and best-selling products from Sephora is shipped out in sample size for at-home testing convenient. Each shipment comes complete with five deluxe makeup, skincare, and hair care samples inside a chic collectible makeup bag.



Sephora PLAY! by Sephora Monthly Subscription Box, $10, available at Sephora

Who: Furry Friends
What: Themed Pet Box Subscription
Whether you gift a BarkBox to your pet-obsessed friend or actual furry friend is up to you — regardless of who you pick, giftees will receive a monthly shipment of innovative toys, all-natural treat bags, and chews from a unique themed collection.



Barkbox Monthly Box Subscription, $35, available at BarkBox

Who: In-The-Know Winos
What: Wine Subscription
Surprise the wine experts in your life with the gift of a trendy monthly shipment — each box contains bottles that are uniquely-sourced from Winc's California winery that are curated to recipient's palate profiles.



Winc Winc Wine Club Gift Card, $60, available at Winc

For: Fragrant Friends
What: Perfurme Subscription
Friends with a lust for fragrances get full control over this monthly scent subscription — each shipment contains one travel-sized spray bottle of the giftee's choosing, filled with luxe options spanning from the likes of Acqua di Parma to Burberry, Glossier, Gucci, and over 400 others.



ScentBird 3-Month Gift Subscription , $44, available at ScentBird

Who: Man-Scapers
What: Grooming Box Subscription
Holiday shopping for male relatives can be a struggle — which is why we're opting for this foolproof monthly grooming box. Each delivery is filled with a deluxe assortment of five grooming samples to keep any man-scaper's game on point.



BirchboxMan 6-Month Subscription Gift Card, $60, available at Birchbox

Who: Self-Carers
What: Self-Care Box Subscription
Talk about creative curation, Lunarly's subscription box is brimming with a luminous assortment of self-care treasures — from wellness items to houseplants and more.



Lunarly Monthly Gift Subscription, $40, available at Lunarly

Who: Serious Snackers
What: Tasting Box Subscription
Let a trained team scout the best-tasting brands out of hundreds for sending to your giftees who are serious about snacking — each monthly box contains tasty goods that are crafted with real ingredients and sans chemicals or artificial flavoring. Plus, the company matches every snack box sent with a meal donation to American families in need.



Love With Food Tasting Gift Subscription, $28.97, available at Love With Food by SnackNation

Who: Tea Lovers
What: Tea Collection Subscription
Why gift one box of tea during the holidays when you can send an entire assortment? TeaBox lines up the festive monthly sachet spreads, filled with 12 flavors ranging from Sparkling Choco to Merry Marshmallow, Fruit Strudel, and more.



TeaBox Monthly Tea Subscription Box, $29.99, available at TeaBox

Who: Makeup Maniacs
What: Beauty Box Subscription
For friends with a constant pulse on the makeup scene, this curated monthly edit of five must-have products is gifting gold — each signature box is specially packaged and filled by the GLOSSYBOX experts with a vetted lineup of high-quality beauty finds.



Glossybox 3-Month Gift Subscription, $69, available at Glossybox

Who: Real Life Zoolander s
What: Fashion & Lifestyle Box Subscription
The opposite of hard-to-shop-for guys are the Zoolander type — when in doubt for what to buy the fashionista guy, go with a stylist-curated subscription box. Each one of these monthly gift shipments comes filled with a selection of five to six premium fashion and lifestyle goods.



SprezzaBox Monthly Gift Subscription, $28, available at SprezzaBox

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Congress Votes To Publicly Name Lawmakers Involved In Sexual Harassment Complaints

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After months of impasse, members of the Senate and House of Representatives were finally able to agree on a bicameral, bipartisan legislation to fix Congress' archaic system for dealing with sexual harassment complaints. Both chambers voted to pass the bill on Thursday, and now President Donald Trump needs to sign the legislation.

Some of the provisions of the deal include holding members personally liable for sexual harassment complaints, instead of allow them to use taxpayer money for settlements; publicly naming lawmakers involved in misconduct cases, instead of keeping the cases confidential; and eliminating some of the roadblocks to reporting.

"This is a bill that fundamentally changes the way sexual harassment cases are handled in the Senate and in the House," Sen. Amy Klobuchar, one of the sponsors of the legislation, told reporters. "The process we have will now protect victims of harassment instead of protecting politicians."

This past year, members of Congress were not immune to the reckoning about sexual harassment and power. Male lawmakers from both sides of the aisle faced their own set of allegations, leading to a swath of resignations. One of the results of the fallout was acknowledging that Capitol Hill's complaint system, which dates back to the the Congressional Accountability Act of 1995, was in desperate need of a fix.

Those who came forward with allegations were forced to spend months in a "cool-off period" involving mediation and counseling with their alleged harassers before being allowed to file an official complaint. The parties involved were also required to sign a confidentiality agreement, which in turn kept constituents in the dark about the allegations against their representatives. If the event that an accuser went ahead with a complaint, they were required to file it in court or ask for an administrative hearing. Lawmakers also could use taxpayer money to settle the cases against them, which former representatives such as Republican Blake Farenthold and Democrat John Conyers took advantage of. (Farenthold, for example, has said he doesn't intend to repay the $84,000 he used to settle a sexual harassment and gender discrimination suit against him.)

The new deal blows everything up, extending protections to accusers instead of the accused. First off, it eliminates allowing lawmakers to use taxpayer money to fund settlements. Instead, members will be personally liable in these cases, even if they eventually leave office, and directs the claims to the Ethics Committee. The legislation also gives accusers to choose whether they want to participate in the cool-off period or pursue action right away. Before, unpaid staff such as interns were not protected by the complaint system, leaving them vulnerable. The legislation changes that. Another important victory for transparency is that awards and settlement will need to be publicly reported, which will include naming the lawmakers involved in complaints.

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It's Official: The Ordinary Is Relaunching At Sephora

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"How to apply magnetic lashes " was Google's official most-searched beauty question of the year, but for skin-care junkies, the biggest question hanging over all of 2018 may as well have been, "Where can I buy Deciem products right now?"

Under the direction of company founder Brandon Truaxe, Deciem's diehard fans found themselves on an emotional rollercoaster-meets-Easter egg hunt when products were yanked from Sephora shelves in June, fueling rumors that Deciem would land at Ulta Beauty instead. (It did not.) Then, in October, Deciem’s own stores were suddenly shuttered after Truaxe claimed in an Instagram video that the entire company was closing... and just a few days later, the stores were open again. In short, followers had to stay on top of a very active Google Alert in order to nab affordable retinol and more from The Ordinary. It was all enough to make a lengthy waitlist look quaint.

But today, the company has announced the guessing game will finally be over. Starting next month, WWD reports, The Ordinary will relaunch at Sephora. In a statement to Refinery29, the retailer confirmed, “We are pleased to once again offer The Ordinary as part of our skin-care product assortment starting this January. Our utmost priority is bringing our clients the most differentiated and most innovative products and brands. The Ordinary delivers this and we are looking forward to a new chapter together.”

Perhaps no one welcomes this new chapter more than the brand’s strong customer base, which has stuck with The Ordinary through all its ups and downs. (Even after a supremely tumultuous year in which Truaxe was eventually ousted by court order, the company clocked its biggest month in November, racking up some $20.4 million in wholesale figures, according to WWD 's report.) With new leadership and a relaunch at one of beauty’s most ubiquitous retailers, The Ordinary is finally finding the stability for which its skin-care products are known — something that will free us up to Google other pressing beauty questions, like when new stock of its beloved foundation will hit Sephora.

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Giving Is Great, But Here Are 10 Ways To Treat Yourself This Holiday Season

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Here's a fun holiday-shopping idea: While you're racing around buying carefully considered gifts for your family/friends/barista/local shaman this December, why not add a little something for number one to the end of your list? 'Tis the season of giving, but that doesn't technically exclude any giving of the you-to-you variety. (Aw, you shouldn't have!)

Plus, a quick jaunt to the ashram might be impossible with your social schedule now, so just think of a chic new bag or oversized scarf as alternate forms of self-care. Ahead, shop 10 pick-me-up J.Crew goods that'll see you through the season's festivities — and the year beyond.

Be the splash of cherry red in a monochrome world.



J.Crew Daphne Topcoat, $228, available at J.CrewDesigned by Vero Romero.

Would look great knotted above a teddy coat.



J.Crew Amber Plaid Cashmere Scarf, $98, available at J. CrewDesigned by Vero Romero.

You'll no longer get that extra wakeup call of being shocked by the icy floor, but then again, you might find it's easier to get out of bed when you have these furry slippers waiting.



J.Crew Fuzzy Slippers, $39.5, available at J.CrewDesigned by Vero Romero.

The bag that gives you options and room for several handfuls of receipts.



J.Crew Harper Mini Satchel, $168, available at J.CrewDesigned by Vero Romero.

Adds a great nubby texture to any outfit.



J.Crew Cashmere Seedstitch Beanie, $79.5, available at J.CrewDesigned by Vero Romero.

The main problem with most winter shoes is that they sacrifice style for function, aka preventing you from face-planting in the snow. Not these.



J.Crew Nordic Boots, $188, available at J.CrewDesigned by Vero Romero.

These are out to challenge the notion that socks are a boring holiday gift. So wrong.



Chup For J.Crew Fika Socks, $35, available at J.CrewDesigned by Vero Romero.

Fun game idea: seeing how many times you can wind this oversized cashmere scarf (in the prettiest lilac hue) around your neck.



J.Crew Oversized Cable-Knit Scarf, $59.5, available at J.CrewDesigned by Vero Romero.

Tuck these texting gloves into your coat pocket, feel elegant every time you take them out.



J.Crew Cashmere Texting Gloves, $59.5, available at J.CrewDesigned by Vero Romero.

In the market for a new, not-dreary beanie? Here ya go.



J.Crew Ribbed Beanie With Faux-Fur Pom-Pom, $39.5, available at J.CrewDesigned by Vero Romero.

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Here's Every Place You Can Don Your Trusty Leggings This Winter

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Out of all the controversial trends out there, leggings have to be the most debated. There's no in between — you either love them, or you really, really hate them. But no matter what your feelings, you still probably wear them time and time again. Whether you're hitting a yoga class and layering to stay warm, there's rarely a better choice for your everyday activities.

Thankfully for us, brands have finally stopped making the same boring black leggings and started getting creative. Now, there are leggings out there for every occasion. So whether you're heading to SoulCycle or jumping on a redeye, there's a pair of leggings in the mix ahead waiting for you.

Face it: you'll probably be wearing leggings for the rest of time. Embrace your fate by getting a pair for every occasion.

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To SoulCycle We Go
Whether you actually make it to that 10 a.m. class or not, you can don bike shorts, a.k.a. super cropped leggings, all day long.



Laer X Always Judging AJ Sporty Biker, $68, available at LaerPhoto Courtesy of Laer.

The Ultimate Travel Companion
Anyone who's suffered through an international flight with jeans strapped to their legs knows very well how much a pair of leggings comes in handy when smushed between a window and an aisle seat.



Lou & Grey Cozy Flipside Leggings, $39.5, available at Lou & Grey

The 2018 Way To Do Office-Appropriate
Say goodbye to the days of pant and skirt suits that constrict you everyday from 9 to 5. These new stretchy work pants are ready to make your day job a whole lot more comfortable.



& Other Stories Side Slit Fitted Leggings, $59, available at & Other StoriesPhoto Courtesy of & Other Stories.

HIIT It Up
Between sprint drills and an ungodly number of lunges, when knocking out a HIIT class, you need a pair of leggings that'll stay in place no matter what.



P.E. Nation Strike Free Zone, $118, available at BandierPhoto Courtesy of Bandier.

Going Out Leggings
Being uncomfortable and going out shouldn't be synonymous. Toss out those super-tight bandage dresses, toe-pinching heels and super-skinny jeans — instead, pull on your trusty leggings.



Topshop Ribbed Leggings, $32, available at TopshopPhoto Courtesy of Topshop.

Layers, Layers And More Layers
We're in the thick of it — winter, that is. And if there's one thing we know about surviving in the cold, it's to always (and we mean always) layer.



Uniqlo x Alexander Wang Heattech Ribbed Leggings, $14.9, available at UniqloPhoto Courtesy of Uniqlo.

Do It For The 'Gram
These are the leggings you want to be wearing when a hike in Malibu or sunset yoga class turns into an all-out Instagram photoshoot.



Girlfriend Collective Red Ochre Compressive High-Rise Legging, $68, available at Girlfriend CollectivePhoto Courtesy of Girlfriend Collective.

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These Are The Best Dandruff Shampoos, According To Dermatologists

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Dandruff is one of those common issues many of us struggle with, yet shy away from speaking about. Having white flakes fall on your black turtleneck has been portrayed in beauty campaigns and commercials as a nightmare, but the reality is that dandruff is super common and doesn't have to prevent you from feeling fabulous in black — or in general. Some cases are mild, and others more severe, but thankfully, with the right regimen, dandruff can be easily controlled.

Stephen Pullan, a trichologist at the Philip Kingsley Trichological Clinic in New York, tells Refinery29 that all dandruff doesn't look the same."It can be thought of as dead skin cells shedding off the top layer of the scalp, [which] happens all over the body," he points out. "The process can speed up, however, creating visible dandruff, or even worse, [symptoms] such as a bothersome form of flakes that adhere to the hair shaft and can create hair loss."

The good news, however, for people living with this annoying issue is that it is treatable and it starts with finding the right shampoo. "Dandruff shampoos work to decrease flaking, normalize rapid cell turnover, hydrate the scalp, and indirectly decrease itching," dermatologist and Dove hair expert Francesca Fusco, MD, adds.

Dermatologist Neil Sadick, MD, of Sadick Dermatology in New York City notes that it's important to pay attention to ingredient labels when shopping for cleansers. "Look for shampoos that have ingredients like ketoconazole or zinc pyrithione," he says. "Both of these are chemical compounds have anti-fungal and anti-bacterial properties that reduce and prevent fungus growth on the scalp."

To help you have a more soothing shampoo experience, we asked the pros for their favorite formulas for ditching dandruff, ahead.

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According to dermatologist Ellen Marmur, MD, of Marmur Medical, treating mild dandruff at home is as simple as adding a drugstore pick into the mix. "This shampoo has dandruff-fighting agents such as zinc pyrithione, selenium sulfide, and zinc carbonate," she says. "These ingredients work together to moisturize and soothe the scalp to prevent further flaking."



Head & Shoulders Classic Clean Dandruff Shampoo, $6.99, available at Target

Dr. Marmur also recommends this formula, which has 0.5% coal tar. It helps thoroughly cleanse the scalp and relieve itchiness and discomfort caused by scalp psoriasis, seborrheic dermatitis, and dandruff.



Neutrogena T/Gel Therapeutic Dandruff Treatment Shampoo, $9.99, available at Walmart

This classic formula is also a great option for scalp relief. It has selenium sulfide solution, a topical medication used for treating scalp dermatitis and dandruff. It's also silicone- and paraben-free for those avoiding these common ingredients.



Selsun Blue Medicated Anti-Dandruff Shampoo, $6.98, available at Walmart

Dr. Fusco recommends the DermaCare Scalp Soothing Moisture Shampoo to her clients with mild dandruff. "In addition to treating dandruff, this is pH balanced and has nourishing ingredients so you can use it as your everyday shampoo," she says.



Dove Soothing Moisture Anti-Dandruff Shampoo, $4.88, available at Walmart

Dr. Sadick recommends shampooing with Nizoral if you experience regular flaking. "This is a good option because it contains ketoconazole, which is anti-fungal," he says. "Some anti-dandruff shampoos can be slightly harsh on hair, so always use a moisturizing conditioner that doesn't leave behind residue after."



nizoral Nizoral Anti Dandruff Shampoo , $14.89, available at Target

You don't have to compromise the appearance of your strands for a soothed scalp, though — especially if your hair is color-treated. Dr. Sadick recommends this Redken formula for anyone with fresh color. " It's formulated with pyrithione zinc, which treats dandruff without fading hair color."



Redken Scalp Relief Dandruff Control Shampoo, $19, available at Ulta Beauty

For an option that's luxurious and efficacious, grab a bottle of this Malin & Goetz formula. It has pyrithione zinc to treat dandruff and seborrheic dermatitis, while tea-tree oil and eucalyptus extract work to soothe itchiness and make your bathroom smell like you're at a spa.



(Malin + Goetz) Dandruff Shampoo, $28, available at Bloomingdale's

Not only will this formula treat dandruff and cleanse the scalp, but it also has nourishing ingredients like jojoba oil to make your strands softer and smoother after one use.



Jason Naturals Dandruff Relief Treatment Shampoo, $6.19, available at Jet

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Hair Bows Are Back — & Hollywood Can't Get Enough Of The Trend

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Everything in life circles back eventually — this we all know — but to be honest, we did not see this one coming: the return of hair bows. On both runways and red carpets, celebs and models alike are finishing off their updos and blowouts with long strands of satin, velvet, and grosgrain fabric.

And unlike designer headbands or nameplate barrettes, these accessories will only set you back a few cents. Even better, they require almost no effort: Just slip one around your ponytail like Kate Middleton, or use one to tie off your French braid like Emily Ratajkowski. The messier and more imperfect it is, the cooler it will look.

Check out our favorite ways to wear the trend, ahead.

Kate Middleton

Even the Duchess of Cambridge is on the bow bandwagon. She was spotted at a memorial service with her strands tied in a loose ponytail and topped with a velvet black ribbon.

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Storm Reid

Hairstylist Nai'vasha Johnson accented her young client's box braids with two suede bows.

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Mandy Moore

Moore is a woman who loves a good hair accessory — or perhaps it's just her go-to hairstylist, Ashley Streicher, who pins them on when she's not looking.

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Emily Ratajkowski

Ratajkowski secured her loose side braid with something delicate last year in Paris — and the result is shockingly cool.

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London Fashion Week 2017

Who said grosgrain has to be girly? During London Fashion Week, a model added a feminine touch to her braids with a coordinating ribbon.

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Tory Burch F/W 2017

Models rocked a center part and a few loose tendrils with their ribbon-tied ponytails.

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Sienna Miller

Miller went for two classics at the Golden Globes this year: a black bow atop her high pony and a strand of pearls.

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Temperley London F/W 2017

Want to combine two trends at once? Tie a ribbon over your head like a headband. It's easy, cute, and can even hide greasy roots.

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Riley Keough

Talk about fast fashion! Keough's glam squad Postmated the fabric used for her bow just in time to send her off to the Golden Globes, according to Vogue.

Photo: Lester Cohen/WireImage.

Marchesa F/W 2017

Marchesa also sent its models down the runway with big bows, glowing skin, and natural-looking brows.

Photo: Gonzalo Marroquin/Patrick McMullan/Getty Images.

Philosophy di Lorenzo Serafini F/W 2017

To make sure your bow doesn't slip off, simply thread it through your ponytail's elastic then make your bunny ears.

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Dove Cameron

The velvety material of Cameron's bow really popped on her blond hair at the 2017 Nickelodeon Kids' Choice Awards.

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Emilia Wickstead F/W 2017

Go long or go home!

Photo: Samir Hussein/WireImage.

Streetstyle F/W 2017

Know your way around a hot glue gun? Affix your bow to a small barrette for a cool update to your updo.

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Jessica Biel

No one loves a hidden updo quite like celebrity hairstylist Adir Abergel — and Biel's wrapped skinny ponytail is no exception.

Sadie Sink

For her first Golden Globes appearance, hairstylist Ryan Richman paired the Stranger Things actress' simple ponytail with the trend of the night: a black ribbon.

Christina Hendricks

The Good Girls star stepped out at the Golden Globes rocking her signature bangs with a peek-a-boo bow to boot.

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Margot Robbie

Thanks to hairstylist Bryce Scarlett, Robbie stunned the A-list crowd at the Critics' Choice Awards with a free-flowing velvet ribbon.

Photo: JEAN-BAPTISTE LACROIX/AFP/Getty Images.

Millie Bobby Brown

To bring some romance to her space buns, Brown tied two black ribbons around each one.

Photo: Frazer Harrison/Getty Images.

Maria Menounos

Menounos accessorized her braided bun with a black silk ribbon for the Oscars red carpet.

Photo: Kevork Djansezian/Getty Images.

Emily Ratajkowski

A trend so nice, she wore it twice: Ratajkowski finished off her messy, I-literally-woke-up-like-this ponytail with a wine-red ribbon that matched her gown.

Photo: J. Merritt/Getty Images.

Emma Stone

Hairstylist Mara Roszak says that Stone's wavy ponytail may just be her favorite style on the star, and we have to agree.

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11 Holiday Nail-Polish Collections That'll Make Your Fingers Feel Festive

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Like drugstore end caps and your favorite coffee chain, as soon as December rolls around, we transform into people who strive for shimmer and relish in anything that makes us feel cozy. We wear sultry reds to holiday parties (and to run errands), a shimmery smoky eye becomes appropriate all day, every day — and nail polish? Well, that’s where the fun really happens.

In the weeks leading up to the holidays, we’ve been replacing our everyday neutrals with reds and glitters, because 'tis the season. In fact, there's a colorful selection of seasonal polishes out now that make holiday beauty all the more exciting. You can pick up Grinch-themed lacquers and advent calendars for gifts, or rack up fun shades for your own collection.

Ahead, we've rounded up some of our favorite holiday nail-polish collections that'll make you feel warm and fuzzy every time you look down at your fingers... which is plenty, now that you'll be wearing gloves on the regular.

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Zoya's Jubilee collection has shades for all your holiday #moods, from cozying up on the couch to holiday-party hostess.



Zoya Jubilee Sampler , $60, available at Zoya

Is it even the holiday season if you didn't wear red nail polish? Pick up this kit, which has two essential crimson colors, in one glossy and one shimmery finish.



Nails Inc. Less Bitter, More Glitter Nail Duo, $15, available at Sephora

All the winter nail-polish colors your heart desires can be found in this Party Animal collection, which comes with nine opaque shades that range from metallic rose gold to bright pink.



Deborah Lippmann Party Animal Nail Set, $45, available at Sephora

Prepare to feel expensive AF when you paint your nails with the Marc Jacobs colors straight off the brand's Fashion Week runway.



Marc Jacobs Beauty Hi-Shine Nail Lacquer Set - Fall Runway Edition, $28, available at Sephora

Treat yourself throughout the month by popping open one of these Ciaté colors each day. It includes 20 minis, one full-sized bottle, and a nail treatment.



Ciaté Mini Mani Month Nail Set, $59, available at Sephora

The last thing you'll be is a Grinch this year once you pick this set up as a gift. It has eight fun shades from green to multicolored shimmer that'll make even the grouchiest folks smile.



China Glaze The Grinch Micro Mini Nail Lacquer Kit, $17.5, available at Ulta Beauty

The only thing we love more than this 20-piece nail-polish set is its $20 price tag.



e.l.f. e.l.f. Holiday Nail Color Set , $20, available at Target

For the dedicated Nutcracker fan in your life, pick up this OPI set, which features four wintery shades that are 100% Sugar Plum Fairy-approved.



OPI Nutcracker Nail Lacquer Mini 4 Pack, $14.5, available at Ulta Beauty

This limited-edition offering is like an expensive pair of gold stilettos for your nail-polish collection. One coat of the rich gold flecks will instantly make all your outfits more festive.



Christian Louboutin Goldomania Nail Colour, $50, available at Sephora

The two pastel bottles in this limited-edition set are dressed in winter-white accessories almost cuter than the polish shades themselves.



Deborah Lippmann A Winter Romance Nail Duo, $12, available at Sephora

This kit comes with six different metallic shades to keep your fingers festive.



Julep Hypnotic Frenzy 6-Piece Mini Nail Set, $24, available at Ulta Beauty

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What Ivanka Did This Week: Added Another Name To Her Burn Book

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Ivanka's schedule has not been made public, so each week, we will do our best to cover the public events and forums she attends, the meetings she has with lawmakers and government officials, and her social media presence.

Sunday, December 9

Ivanka Trump has started speaking up more against human trafficking in recent weeks. This is one of the many issues she has in her sprawling White House portfolio. On Sunday, she celebrated the passing of a bill which aids survivors of child pornography.

It remains to be seen whether Ivanka will advocate for Cyntoia Brown, a trafficking survivor who was convicted at the age of 16 in the murder of a a 43-year-old man who solicited her for sex. Brown, now 30, is back in the news because a judge ruled must serve 51 more years before she can be considered for parole.

Ivanka also shared some pictures of her children taking a tour of first lady Melania Trump's Christmas decorations at the White House.

Monday, December 10

A new report alleged that Ivanka and her husband Jared Kushner had a hand in forcing out embattled White House Chief of Staff John Kelly, who will leave his post by the end of the year.

Tuesday, December 11

As part of the White House portfolios, both Ivanka and her husband have been working on criminal justice reform. On Twitter, the first daughter celebrated that Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell finally agreed to bring the FIRST STEP Act, a prison reform bill that passed the House earlier this year, up to the Senate floor for a vote.

Wednesday, December 12

The first daughter praised a tax break she helped push earlier this year called "Opportunity Zones." The Associated Press reported that Ivanka and Jared could potentially benefit financially from the program — another example of the blurring lines caused by the couple refusing to divest from their real estate investments when they joined the administration.

The AP said Jared held a stake at a company that's about to build several properties through the program. His family's firm also holds at least 13 properties in these zones, which would make them qualify for the tax breaks. "[They] could profit even if they don’t do anything — by potentially benefiting from a recent surge in Opportunity Zone property values amid a gold rush of interest from developers and investors," AP reported.

Thursday, December 13

Quartz reported Ivanka's weekend getaway to the Caribbean in August cost taxpayers about $58,000 in security costs.

HuffPo reported that President Donald Trump is considering Jared as his new White House chief of staff. Ivanka has remained mum.

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Dr. Pimple Popper's Holiday Special Was Glorious — Here's Everything You Missed

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When contemplating which holiday classic to binge watch tonight (an installment of the Harry Potter series, or The Holiday, perhaps?), we're going to go ahead and put in our recommendation for the Dr. Pimple Popper holiday special. In case you're behind on your popaholic news, the hour-long episode aired tonight, and should already be available for your streaming pleasure on TLC.

If you want to get a better idea of what you're in for before you hit that "play" button, all you really need to know is that the episode features 12 pimple-popping procedures in a festive dermatological play on "The Twelve Days of Christmas." Not only is the hour filled with a dozen shocking skin abnormalities — like one 55-year-old ear blackhead, which has ballooned out to a huge charcoal-colored crater, and a mysterious snowman-shaped squishy lipoma on one guy's arm — but Dr. Lee works in holiday puns throughout every step of the craziness, bringing it all together into one freaky, festive fever dream.

If you're looking for a good Friday-night drinking game, take a sip of whatever red wine you have on hand every time Dr. Lee somehow manages to turn a pimple into something seasonally appropriate. So bottoms up — and check out the recap, below.

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The first pop of Christmas: Jaila and her ear-keloid ornaments
When Jaila was two years old, she suffered a botched ear piercing, which resulted in lobe trauma and two growths that just kept getting droopier — ending with 20-year-old keloids, which Dr. Lee calls "her bauble ornaments" (drink). In surgery, Dr. Lee is able to slice off both keloids with two clean cuts, one on each ear. And with that, Jaila can hear the jingle bells, instead of wearing them.

The second pop of Christmas: Justin and his snowman-shaped lump
Justin travels all the way from North Carolina to see Dr. Lee about the tri-lump formation popping out of his upper arm. Dr. Lee compares the skin configuration to a lumpy snowman (drink). The best part is when Justin, in his deep Southern accent, tells the camera: "I don't know what's in there, but it sure ain't snow." In the surgery, Dr. Lee cuts deep into Justin's skin and begins squeezing the sides of the protruding bump, and a fountain of white pus spills out — and it doesn't look unlike a melted snowman.

The third pop of Christmas: Christina and her neck blisters
Dr. Lee immediately diagnoses Christina's field of little blister-like neck lumps as steatocystomas, which is a kind of benign cyst that secretes oily material. This one's a speedy surgery — all Dr. Lee has to do is squeeze each bump between her thumb and forefinger, and a buttery string of pus spills out of the skin. Dr. Lee loves popping these buggers so much, she proclaims them to be "filled with Christmas cheer." (You know what to do.)

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The fourth pop of Christmas: Farrah and her cheek cyst
A facial cyst is worse than any other because it's the first thing people notice when they look you in the eye — and fourth patient Farrah, with her confidence-wrecking cheek cyst, is proof. In surgery, Dr. Lee slices into the cyst with a scalpel, and with a single squeeze at the edges of the cut, a bullet of pus squirts out. Gummy white liquid continues to spill out as Dr. Lee keeps squeezing. She compares the facial cyst to an iceberg, because the tip is just the beginning, and there's so much more buried underneath. It starts as a snowball, and with one squeeze, the pus explosion becomes a full on Nor'easter. Drink.

The fifth pop of Christmas: Dorris and her 55-year-old ear blackhead
Dorris has traveled all the way from Ontario, Canada, to have Dr. Lee treat an ancient ear blackhead she's carried with her since 1963. Dr. Lee calls it the unicorn of dermatology, the dilated pore of Winer, which is another word for a giant blackhead that has grown so big it's actually stretched out the pore. To excise the aged blackhead, Dr. Lee first rips off the hardened exterior — which she compares to a hardened lump of coal (sorry). Then, she uses a pair of pliers to pull the rest of the deep-rooted gunk from the gaping skin hole.

The sixth pop of Christmas: Randi and her under-eye bags
Upon meeting Randi, Dr. Lee immediately diagnoses her with xanthelasma, a rare but benign condition wherein yellowing bumps form around the eye area, usually related to high cholesterol. It's scary to have knives and needles around the eyeball area, but Dr. Lee handles the thin skin and delicate area like a pro. There's even a soft "Carol of the Bells" ringing in the background as she takes us through Randi's bump drainage.

The seventh pop of Christmas: Kenneth and his back bulge
Kenneth has had a bowling ball-sized bump growing in his left shoulder for the past ten years. To get rid of it, Dr. Lee slices into the squishy mass and, using two hands, begins to squeeze Ken's lump. The bugger is stubborn, requiring some yanking and tugging at the sticky gunk to remove everything from under Ken's shoulder. In the end, after a lot of wrestling, Dr. Lee defeats the bulge.

The eighth pop of Christmas: Connie and her face & back steatocystomas
Connie comes to us from Miami and says she's dealing with chronic pimples that sprout up all over her face and back — that her family members have taken to popping for her. Dr. Lee finds that the bumps are deep steatocystomas (the same condition Christina was diagnosed with). Using her fingers, Dr. Lee squeezes the bumps, and butter-like spirals spew out from each one.

The ninth pop of Christmas: Felix and the bump on his head
Felix has a 25-year-old golf ball-sized lump sticking out of his upper forehead, which he's tired of hiding with a hat. After touching the skin around the lump, Dr. Lee diagnoses the lump as a pilar cyst, a condition that typically occurs at, or close to, the scalp. After cutting into the skin, Dr. Lee pops the chestnut-like clump out from Felix's face.

The 10th pop of Christmas: Jean Marcus and his 14 lipomas
Jean Marcus has a compilation of spongy lipomas growing all over his body — mainly on his arms and chest — which have tripled in abundance over the past few years. Following the brief consultation, Dr. Lee diagnoses him with familial multiple lipomatosis, an inherited condition that both his sister and his dad also have. These lipomas are benign, but are kind of an eyesore — and Jean Marcus has a lot of them. In surgery, Dr. Lee speedily squeezes all fourteen blubbery lipomas out from under his skin, and Jean Marcus walks out lump-free.

The 11th pop of Christmas: Jennifer and her skin tags
Jennifer believes that the array of skin tags covering the front of neck are a byproduct of her polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS). After consulting her medical books, Dr. Lee explains that Jennifer may have been misinformed, because there's no concrete link between skin tags and PCOS. Instead, Dr. Lee thinks it's more likely a result of insulin resistance, which can be controlled. "It's not uncommon for people to demand a definitive diagnosis," says Dr. Lee. "But sometimes dermatology is more nuanced — a true Christmas mystery." Bottoms up to Jen's successful skin-tag removal.

The 12th pop of Christmas: Santa Claus
And just when you thought that Dr. Lee had forgotten about the twelve drummers drumming, she brings out the final holiday patient. Yes, to finish off the marathon of popping, Dr. Lee gets a surprise appearance by Jolly Old Saint Nicholas himself. It's a fitting ending to an extremely festive special — one that we hope got you just buzzed enough to not be traumatized by Santa's skin condition.

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20 Holiday Steals That Gift Like Luxe Home Goods

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The major seasonal sales may have come to a close, but our holiday bargain hunt isn't over yet — especially where gifting's concerned. Instead of paying full price on last-minute present purchases, we're going to save some extra cash by shopping the best slashed-price finds. And here's your Paperless Post to join us.

Ahead we're outlining our hit-list of 20 buys from across the web that shop like a stylish steal and gift like a luxe home good. Whether you're shopping for a coworker, in-law, S.O., friend, or family member, the unique items ahead are equipped to delight both your giftees and your bank accounts. Keep your most dangerous bargain-hunting game alive by scrolling on into a land of discounted neon, "killin' it," signs, Himalayan salt lamps, beaded pillows, faux fur throws, quartz cheese boards, and much more.

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Use this glass paperweight with a digitally-printed, raised-gold eye motif as a stylish desk or coffee table accessory.



Jonathan Adler Muse Paperweight, $39, available at Barneys New York

This punchy coffee table book is filled with artist Jason Mecier's reinvention of iconic popculture characters rendered from reclaimed scraps.



Chronicle Books Pop Trash, $24.99, available at ModCloth

Brighten up a blank space with this delicate, gilded-iron and star-shaped mirror.



Rivet Modern 3-D Star Shaped Metal Mirror, $33.25, available at Amazon

Wrap yourself (or your couch) in a little sea-blue, faux-fur luxury.



Nordstrom At Home Faux Fur Throw, $89.4, available at Nordstrom

We can't decide whether to use this beauty of a porcelain-finished and speckled baking pan for cooking or stylish decor purposes.



Golden Rabbit Swirl Baking Pan, Black/White, $33.99, available at One Kings Lane

This beautiful, die-cut vase is constructed artfully from a water resistant paper.



MoMA Store Paper Vase, $8.94, available at MoMA Store

Add a little personal flair to your coffee table with these smooth, brushed-copper and white-marble alphabet coasters.



Oliver Bonas Marble & Copper Alphabet Coaster, $8.75, available at Oliver Bonas

Light up a special someone's work space and life with this motivational, neon table lamp.



Urban Outfitters Killing It Neon Sign Table Lamp, $49.99, available at Urban Outfitters

If the most magical of fairytales could be distilled into a pillow, this brilliant beaded and embroidered find would be it.



Anthropologie Ollie Pillow, $49.95, available at Anthropologie

Graphic designer Stephanie Deangelis is capturing our big winter moods with this stylish wine print inside a sleek black frame.



ban.do wine down art print - black frame, $52.99, available at ban.do

Made from 100% pure Himalayan salt, the rocks in this lamp were hand-carved in Pakistan.



Levoit Cora Himalayan Salt Lamp, $12.79, available at Amazon

This chic home gift serves double duty as a useful small-space storage solution.



The Braided Rug Utility Basket - Chili - Large, $55, available at Amara

Modern minimalists need holiday gifts too — so hit them with this sleek, monochromatic twist on a classic wall clock.



Adam Schwoeppe 16" Metal Clock, $87.99, available at AllModern

Let loose change and delicate accessories live a luxe life inside this glass bead-embellished pouch.



Anthropologie Embellished Sun Pouch, $14.95, available at Anthropologie

Change up the cheese board gifting game with this glamorous agate board, handmade from layers of quartz crystals by artisans in Brazil.



Cost Plus World Market Agate Cheese Serving Board, $52.49, available at Cost Plus World Market

Give a giftee a hand with stylishly organizing their lives in 2019.



Urban Outfitters Daily Planner Journal, $20, available at Urban Outfitters

This vintage-inspired decanter set with a gilded geometric design can make even tap water look fancy AF.



Fitz and Floyd Five-Piece Geometric Decanter Set, $38.99, available at Saks Fifth Avenue

Take your collection of books from disorganized to sophisticated with a set of bookends handcrafted from solid block onyx.



Designs by Marble Crafter Zeus Bookends - Light Green Onyx, $68.98, available at Hayneedle

Let your giftee decide whether to use these eclectic cotton and tasseled towels as stylish blankets, sarongs, or table cloths.



HAMMAMAS Set of two striped cotton towels, $96, available at Net-A-Porter

Gift this statement pillow with a design inspired by, "the colors of the California sunset."



Lulu and Georgia Tunilla Pillow, $55, available at Lulu and Georgia

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File this under the stuff no one tells you about being a grown-up: Getting mail isn't fun, it's just bills and credit card offers and random furniture store flyers. And for that reason, we'll gladly pay to make the experience a little less dreadful. It's something oodles of start-ups have banked on with subscription beauty boxes. But as the number of beauty box options exploded over the past few years, so did the mailings spattered with off-brand beauty samples and mystery trinkets. With that, we're back to hating the mail again.

Thankfully, a handful of players have risen above the fray, providing more thoughtful curation and full-sized products. For example, after getting into the subscription box game this fall, Sunday Riley began sending quarterly mailers stuffed with the kinds of things we'd pick out of the world's coolest gift shop. The Detox Market provides clean beauty options so covetable that its boxes sell out just about every month. Birchbox, an OG in the field, offers the chance to pick out exactly what we want ahead of time.

Now, splurging on a subscription for ourselves or others doesn't just make getting the mail exciting — some of the boxes ahead are good enough to inspire unboxing videos on Insta Stories, too.

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Moonbox

Best For: Your Day-One Who Needs Grounding

Your over-scheduled bestie is working to be more mindful, and practically everyone else you know lives among city lights that dim the moon. This box, curated to help you reconnect with the lunar cycle via beauty products may be just the thing to bring a sense of calm to your people in 2019.

The monthly mailing is filled with indie beauty products that are self-care driven (essential oil blends, eye serums, bath bombs, body oils, hydrosols) and wellness essentials (like crystals, tea blends, and sage). Along with it comes digital resources for step-by-step rituals using the goods inside, guided meditations, a read on the month’s lunar cycle, and a plug-in for your Google calendar that reminds you of the cosmic happenings.



MoonBox MoonBox Monthly Subscription, $34, available at MoonBox

The Tory Burch Foundation Seed Box

Best For: The Future Park-Avenue Philanthropist

This well-appointed gift isn't so much a monthly subscription, but a one-shot box that speaks to your entrepreneurial friend's fine tastes and love of giving back. The limited-edition holiday package is filled with the kinds of things we imagine refined powerhouse Tory Burch using herself: skin-care products made with ingredients grown on a family farm in Arizona; bagless, dissolvable tea; all natural, ethically produced shea butter; handy coconut oil packets — all created by women entrepreneurs and housed in the chicest of packaging. The best part? Every penny of its proceeds go to the Tory Burch Foundation, which empowers women entrepreneurs.



Tory Burch Tory Burch Seed Box, $98, available at Tory Burch

Sephora Play! Box

For: VIB Rouges in Recovery

When's the last time you walked into Sephora and bought what you came for — and not a single item more? Let's see... never? That's why we're giving the store's monthly subscription box to our sisters who are resolving to step down their impulse beauty purchases in 2019. Each month the Play box facilitates that need for new beauty discoveries with five deluxe samples housed in a little makeup pouch. And if they're compelled to re-up on a full-size purchase? Sephora offers 50 bonus insider points for doing so.



Sephora PLAY! by Sephora Monthly Subscription Box, $10, available at Sephora

Sunday Riley Subscription Box

Best For: The Cool Girl

When Sunday Riley got into the subscription box game this year, it could have thrown a selection of their beloved skin-care products in a mailer and had a hit on its hands. Instead, the company opted to create something even more lust-worthy: a quarterly subscription box stuffed with some of the most desirable — and useful — gear out there. Its first collection focused on wellness and included a Bkr water bottle, Thinx period-proof underwear, Smith & Cult nail polish, IGK styling cream, crystal towers, palo santo, a Headspace gift card, and a mini Sunday Riley Good Genes — and not a throwaway item in sight.



Sunday Riley Sunday Riley Subscription Box, $95, available at Sunday Riley

Birchbox

Best For: The Control Freak

The OG of subscription boxes is as solid as ever, thanks to a deep bench of editor and fan-favorites for hair, skin, scent, and complexion. After receiving the first installment of a three, six, or 12-month subscription, you're able to customize the contents of boxes by setting personal preferences and choosing specific deluxe-sized samples from brands like Oribe, Sand & Sky, Stila, and Ouai.



Birchbox Birchbox Monthly Subscription, $10, available at Birchbox

The Detox Box

Best For: The Clean Beauty Fiend

In the Venn diagram of those who love clean beauty but hate environmental waste, overlap abounds. The folks at The Detox Market know this, so they created a monthly subscription box that showcases the very best in clean beauty, loading mailers with more than $90 in picks from a single brand that you'll actually use. Full-size products from Tammy Fender, Pai, Odacité, Innersense, Osea, and Skin Owl have been featured in months past. The assortment gives recipients a true taste of what these brands have to offer without any unwanted filler items that eventually find their way to the waste bin. No wonder these editions sell out on the regular.



The Detox Market The Detox Box, $55, available at The Detox Market

Scentbird

Best For: The Soul Searching For A Signature Scent

We've found soul mates in less time than a signature sent. If one of your loved ones is still searching for the one that will bring joy with every deep inhale, embody one's true spirit, and feel like home no matter what time of year — yes, we're talking about fragrance here — then why not play matchmaker with a fragrance subscription? Each month, the recipient can choose from more than 450 scents (including options from Glossier, Tom Ford, and Juliette Has a Gun) before receiving a 30-day supply to fall in love (or like) with before trying another option next month.



ScentBird Scentbird Subscription, $14.95, available at ScentBird

Fabfitfun

Best For: The Woman Who'd Rather Pick Her Own Gift

With quarterly mailings offering 8-10 full-size products at a savings of 75% and control over what's inside, FabFitFun may have perfected the subscription box art form. Beauty-centric collections include skin care, hair care, makeup and nail care from brands like Klorane, Dr. Brandt and Deborah Lippmann. Subscribers can select exactly what they want or opt to keep contents a total surprise. Add in an accessory or two (such as scarves, jewelry, or clutches), and you've got a substantial gift that feels like you're being treated to a shopping spree.



FabFitFun FabFitFun Box, $49.99, available at FabFitFun

Love Goodly

For: The Devout Vegan

We fully support our vegan friends, but still manage to order the occasional shared appetizer made with a hidden animal fat. Oops. This bimonthly box ensures the same thing doesn't happen with their holiday gift. Each edition is cruelty-free, vegan, nontoxic, and certified palm oil-free, through and through. It's not just the brands inside that are socially conscious: Each Love Goodly box purchased supports a like-minded organization, such as L.A.'s Farm Sanctuary, the country's first shelter for farm animals.



Love Goodly Essential Bi-Monthly Subscription Box, $34.95, available at Love Goodly

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Sephora's 50% Off Holiday Sale Is Your Reward For Procrastinating

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There are plenty of people out there who have already finished holiday shopping and wrapping their gifts (and love to talk about it every time you see them). But joke's on them this year — because, for once, it pays to procrastinate.

For all you last-minute shoppers, Sephora just slashed prices on some of its most tempting holiday releases and year-round staples — and we're not just talking about a few dollars here or there. How about half off an eyeshadow palette stocked with staple shades that every makeup wearer should have? There's also a deal on NARS lip colors, which almost never go on sale, along with a few dope kits from Bite Beauty and GlamGlow.

In other words, the time for procrastination is over. Find some of our favorite deals, ahead.

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Since December hit, we've been wearing nothing but Tannin (a poppy red shade) on our lips — and have racked up so many compliments, we wonder why we didn't start earlier in the year. The color and three others (including a limited-edition light brown called Date) are housed in a tin so sexy, you won't want to give it away.



Bite Beauty Four Little Bites Amuse Bouche Lipstick Set, $15, available at Sephora

This buildable foundation is used in film to give complexions glow without covering up freckles, which explains why some of its 43 shades are already selling out fast.



Make Up For Ever Ultra HD Invisible Cover Foundation, $19, available at Sephora

Is this gorgeous collection of four glitter liquid eyeshadows too pretty to break apart? Probably. But we'll be divvying up the contents of this kit among our girls as a pre-game present on NYE.



Stila Aura Alight Glitter & Glow Highlighter Liquid Eyeshadow, $30, available at Sephora

This limited-edition palette is chock full of eye-brightening shades, but what we really love is the included eye topper, which adds a wet finish to shadows.



Jouer Making Magic Ultra Foil Eyeshadow Palette Set, $36, available at Sephora

If heavy creams put a damper on your curls' bounce, try a soufflé. This one is lighter than most creams and oils, but still defines curl patterns while adding a hit of moisture. Also, it's not the only thing from this trusted hair brand on sale right now: You can stock up on shampoos, conditioners, and leave-in treatments, too.



Madam C.J. Walker Coconut & Moringa Curl Whip Styling Souffle, $13, available at Sephora

For that teen in your life who only rolls her eyes at you a little bit, why not hook her up with blush, highlighter and bronzer — everything she needs to make sure her complexion is lit.



Sephora Collection Mara Hoffman for Sephora Collection: Kaleidescape Cheek, $19, available at Sephora

Show all those people who winter in Tulum that there's more than one way to get a glow. This mousse made with organic ingredients builds color to two to three weeks — all without the typical self-tanner stench.



Vita Liberata pHenomenal 2-3 Week Tan Mousse, $27, available at Sephora

Velvet Matte Lip Pencils are the stuff of legend because they feel featherlight, but drench lips in color. The only bummer is that these bad boys never go on sale — until now. Score two neutrals and two bold shades for a few bucks more than the regular price of one.



NARS Manic Velvet Matte Lip Pencil Set, $36, available at Sephora

Our editors love the purifying power of this flash mask, which features bentonite and kaolin clay to clear your pores, witch hazel for toning, and aloe vera and licorice root to brighten. Ditto for this glow-inducing tinted moisturizer, making this kit a no-brainer for your friend who just wants to be J.Lo. (Is that too much to ask?)



GlamGlow Forget the Filter Instamud Set, $35, available at Sephora

Fishing for a blanket gift to give just about anyone in your life? A solid collection of neutral matte eyeshadows cannot be fucked with (but grabbing one at half off makes it even better).



Smashbox Photo Matte Eyes Palette, $24.5, available at Sephora

We love the party vibe that confetti beauty products bring. After the merriment, you're left with an ultra-hydrating moisturizer that helps make complexions bright.



It Cosmetics Confidence in a Cream Mini Confetti Popper, $8, available at Sephora

Pack these in your carry on for when a snowstorm inevitably delays your flight — you'll be dreaming of the tropics while your dad checks the boiler pilot light (again).



Tarte Let's Flamingle Brush Set, $25, available at Sephora

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A Week In Denver, CO, On A $70,000 Salary

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Welcome toMoney Diaries , where we're tackling what might be the last taboo facing modern working women: money. We're asking millennials how they spend their hard-earned money during a seven-day period — and we're tracking every last dollar.

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Today: a senior paralegal who makes $70,000 per year and spends some of her money this week on spring rolls.

Occupation: Senior Paralegal
Industry: Legal
Age: 45
Location: Denver, CO
Salary: $70,000
Paycheck Amount (2x/month): 1,813.35

Monthly Expenses
Mortgage: $2,350 (My roommate pays me $800.)
Car Payment: $350
HOA: $59
Car Insurance: $63
Train Parking: $42
Train Pass: $100
Electricity: $100
Water: $25
Health Insurance: $524, with a stipend of $360. (For me and my son.)
Dental Insurance: $75
Vision Insurance: $18
Cell Phones: $120 (for me and my son)
Netflix: $11.99
Sling: $30
Gym: $50 (My membership comes with unlimited hot yoga classes.)

Day One

7 a.m. — I wake up with my girlfriend, A., who spent the night last night. I immediately head downstairs and make us coffee with our flavored creamer so we're able to function. We watch the news while scrolling through emails and checking Facebook. Then we shower (together), get dressed, and get my son off to school for the day. Afterwards, we decide to go out for breakfast, since there's not much to eat at my house. A. has work at 9:30 and I should be catching the 9 a.m. train into work, but we've heard that breakfast is the most important meal of the day, so we decide to eat and be a little late to work. We stop at our local favorite breakfast joint and order bagel sandwiches (turkey sausage with egg and cheese on toasted jalapeño bagels). So good. We split a coffee, as my hands are already shaking from my earlier coffee. A. pays, since I bought our dinner last night.

12:30 p.m. — Work is sort of slow, and I catch up on calls and emails before heading upstairs to the cafe. I usually bring my lunch and eat at my desk, but on Wednesdays, my inner 12-year-old wants chicken strips. I get a salad and a few chicken strips for good measure ($4.50). Then I eat at my desk and catch up on all the day's smut: According to the internet, Tristan and Khloe are trying for baby #2. Really? Hopefully Scott can talk some sense into KoKo. This is upsetting me, but my chicken strips are helping. $4.50

2 p.m. — After eating my salad and fried foods, I decide it's a great time to order some bathing suits for my upcoming trip to Cabo with A. and some friends. I start looking on Amazon but quickly lose focus and get off task, watching videos on YouTube of baby giraffes. Then I order a copy of the Money Diaries book. After using my Amazon Reward points, it's pretty cheap. $7.49

7 p.m. — I make it home after a busy day of work, and my mom is there with my son. She picks him up after school for me and usually watches him until I get home from work. His homework and reading are done, so we play a few games of Rummikub, and my mom and I drink some wine by the fire. It is getting cold outside, but still no snow. My mom heads home, and I make breakfast tacos for my son and me for dinner. It's early to bed for him (8 p.m.) as he has to be on the ice tomorrow morning at 5:30 a.m. for hockey practice. Does anyone really get up that early to go exercise? I talk to A. before I go to bed and watch an episode of Hollywood Medium With Tyler Henry. I find this show fascinating.

Daily Total: $11.99

Day Two

4:30 a.m. — Time to wake up and get the kiddo to his early morning ice hockey practice. It is so early, even my French Bulldog stays in bed. Good thing my son is easy to wake up. He pops up and gets dressed for hockey. I grab a coffee, some muffins for him, and a Clif bar for me and we are out the door by 4:55.

8:45 a.m. — After hockey, we go home to shower and get ready for school and work. I fix our second breakfast of the morning (waffles for him, and eggs and toast for me). He tries to do his daily reading but ends up falling asleep in his book on the floor. I let him sleep for 30 minutes while I do laundry. Then I wake him up and we're out the door again by 8:40. After dropping him off, I head to work and swing into Starbucks for a nonfat White Mocha to get me moving. $5

12:30 p.m. — I eat lunch at my desk, since I was fairly organized last night and was able to pack lunches. I have a turkey and cheese sandwich with a strawberry Bubly water. Work is steady, and I am able to get quite a bit of stuff checked off my list. I check US Weekly and TMZ to make sure I'm not missing out on anything. Cardi B is single.

5:30 p.m. — Since hockey practice was so early, we have a free night. Yay for free nights!! We decide to head to our favorite pho restaurant and order some crab and cheese wontons, spring rolls, and two bowls of pho. The perfect dinner on this cold and dreary night. $25.45

Daily Total: $30.45

Day Three

4 p.m. — I pay my attorneys to defend a motion in my custody case. I adopted my son on my own almost nine years ago and was married to my ex for two and a half years. Somehow the judge found she was a parent, even though I never gave her any rights. Anyhow, it has been a long, drawn-out, and expensive fight, and I need to refill my balance with the firm I have retained. Good times! $1,202.50

6 p.m. — My son and I play Rummikub with Grandma, have a frozen pizza for dinner, and walk the dog. I do some laundry.

8:30 p.m. — I put my son to bed at 8. We are both exhausted. Then I talk with A. for an hour about our weekend plans before finally falling asleep around 9:45.

Daily Total: $1,202.50

Day Four

7 a.m. — I wake up, shower, and get ready for work while my son gets ready for school. He has hot cereal for breakfast, and I make avocado toast before we head out the door. After dropping him off, I take the train into work and then ride a Bird scooter ($1.45) the few blocks to the office instead of walking from the train. I justify this since I have a hockey game later tonight and need to save my legs for skating (either that, or I am being lazy). $1.45

12:30 p.m. — Work has been pretty steady this morning. I eat my sad sandwich and Cheetos at my desk. My coworker gets mad at me for taking bites of my string cheese and not peeling pieces of it like I'm supposed to.

5:30 p.m. — I meet up with a few friends after work for happy hour since my son is spending the weekend with my ex. We have wine, sushi, and appetizers ($25). The food is good, but I don't want to eat a lot since I have to go skate in a few hours. It's good to catch up with my friends. I leave and run home to see my dog for a bit before grabbing my hockey gear and heading out again. My team usually meets before each game at a nearby brewery for a pregame beer. $25

8 p.m. — I have two beers with my team before our game, which is close by. It's fun, and we win 5-4. I have a goal and an assist, and despite being 45, I played pretty well. (Thanks, alcohol!) I head home afterwards, shower, and go straight to bed at 11. $10

Daily Total: $36.45

Day Five

7:30 a.m. — I get an email reminder that my son's school lunch account is low and needs to be refilled. I put $50 in his account and get charged a $2 fee ($52). He usually gets hot lunch once a week, but he also gets snacks. I also get an email that a hockey jersey I sold on Mercari has gone through, and they have placed $23.20 in my account after taking out the selling fee ($3.30) and the shipping fee ($6.50). It is my son's hockey jersey, so he can eat more snacks at school. Go wild, young man! $52

9 a.m. — My son's hockey practice was actually a scrimmage between the parents and players, and it was a lot of fun to be on the ice with the kids. After saying goodbye to my son, I head to Starbucks because I am starving, and order a nonfat White Mocha and a turkey sausage breakfast sandwich. I head home and shower. $10.83

1 p.m. — I head to my hair appointment, where I get a cut and a partial highlight so I can look pretty, especially after playing all this hockey lately. It's $95 and I tip my gal $20 plus another $20 for the Christmas season. $135

4 p.m. — I stop by the grocery store before I head to A.'s house. I get chicken, breadcrumbs, cheese, salad, and ice cream for dessert. She texts that she has wine and not to get any. I drive the 40 minutes to her house and bring my Frenchie with me. Fun Fact: A. also has a French Bulldog (or so she says). Her dog is 40 pounds and looks like a mid-size bloodhound, and my girl is 15 pounds and looks and acts (sleeps a lot) like a Frenchie. $22.30

8 p.m. — We have a great night — eat dinner, walk the pups, watch a little TV ( Narcos: Mexico on Netflix), and head to bed around 10:30 p.m.

Daily Total: $220.13

Day Six

7:30 a.m. — A. and I wake up, fool around, and shower together to save water. We eat a quick breakfast, and she heads out. I head back home, as my son has a hockey game at 9:30. I stop and get gas on my way. $44.01

11 a.m. — The game goes well, and they win 3-2. After his game, I go out for an early lunch with my dad and stepmom, since they came to watch their grandson skate. We catch up over sandwiches and salads at Panera. They pay ($18).

2 p.m. — I head over to a friend's house who is going to watch my dog for me while A. and I are in Cabo in a few weeks. My dog meets with her two sweet dogs and there are plenty of belly rubs all around. Everyone is happy, and I head home to watch football, do laundry, and nap before my son gets home. I cannot wait to see him.

5 p.m. — I head to the grocery store and get ground beef, potatoes, and salad to make a meatloaf dinner for my son — his favorite dinner. The weekends he is gone are very long and hard, and I am excited to have him home again. I also get bread, creamer, milk, eggs, avocados, and some snacks for his lunches this week. $34.73

8:30 p.m. — After dinner, we get everything ready to start the week again. Lunches are made and bags are packed for the morning. We watch Planet Earth, and then I tuck him in for the night. I talk to A. on the phone and then finally head to bed around 10:30 p.m.

Daily Total: $78.74

Day Seven

7 a.m. — Although I woke up on time, I stayed in bed drinking coffee, watching the news, and looking at Mercari for Christmas presents, and now I am behind schedule. I can't help it. My bed is so warm and comfy. I finally shower, and we get out the door on time for school and work. I forgot to eat breakfast, so I pick up a breakfast burrito to hold me over until lunch. $4

12:30 p.m. — I meet my my old coworker for lunch. She gets a BLT, and I get a cup of chicken tortilla soup. She pays, as my soup is only $4. We talk about our upcoming trip to Cabo. We can't wait to get out of the cold and be by the ocean for five days.

6 p.m. — My son has hockey practice after school, and I head directly there from work, as my mom has dropped him off at the rink for me. He has an hour on the ice and then an hour of conditioning off the ice. I have a few beers with the hockey dads, and we tell stories and rip on one another (our usual routine), while our sons skate on the ice and do their conditioning off the ice. I also order chicken strips and fries. My son wraps up practice and I drive him home to shower and eat before bed. $24

Daily Total: $28

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What do the average woman’s calendar come December and the last train home on a Friday have in common? They’re both packed to the rafters. Somewhere between the leaves beginning to fall and the NYE ball dropping, everyone and their mother has something you simply have to go to: after-work drinks, a weekend brunch, a festive party, a festive "not a party, more of a casual drinks," a house party, the list goes on.

With so much on your plate, the last thing you want is a beauty routine that feels arduous. You want to be able to glide from event to event without breaking a sweat and be able to switch from day to night faster than you can say Prosecco. In honor of that, we’ve rounded up a few skin-care and makeup tips and tricks to help you mentally prepare for the party season (because you're always prepped), easing you in without a hitch…

Go Back To Basics

The foundation of great makeup is happy, healthy skin — but achieving an effortless glow needn’t be, er, effortful. Enter: YourGoodSkin, a targeted, tailored range of skin-care solutions designed to fit into the busiest of routines with minimal work. Each offering has selected active ingredients to make sure the results are all killer, no filler. Here are our sneaky hacks:

1) Massage Your Moisturizer In With Upward Strokes

We’re sure we don’t need to tell you that you should be applying moisturizer — in these arctic climes, you’d be more likely to give up coffee than lotion. But instead of just slapping it on and hoping for the best, applying in upward, massage-like strokes can help encourage blood flow to the area, helping melt away any residual puffiness and giving you a perkier-looking complexion.

2) Cleanse With Cooler Water

Coming in from the cold, it can be so tempting to really crank up the heat and go for an extra-hot face wash. But actually, lukewarm water is much kinder to your skin because it doesn’t cause the same inflammation that hot water does, meaning your skin’s natural moisture barrier is left intact. The result? Your skin will feel much softer, and you might even find yourself needing less moisturizer.

3) Keep Up The SPF

With the days short and the skies overcast, layering up on sunscreen is probably the last thing on your mind. Even when it’s not actually hot out, UV rays are still breaking through and reaching your skin, so a good rule of thumb is that if it’s not so dark outside that you need a torch, you need sunscreen. The reason being because UVA rays can cause skin damage — even when you’re not getting burned. Adding a moisturizer with SPF into your routine is the fuss-free way to stay safe in the chillier months.

Refresh Your Toolkit

They say that only a shoddy workman blames his tools, yet we’re not sure Michelangelo would have done such a hot job on the Sistine Chapel if he’d been finger-painting, you know? Enter: MASQD. With its pro-quality brushes and tools at a fraction of the price, they take all the guesswork out of getting ready, leaving you more time to down a mulled wine and fire up your favorite festive playlist. Here are the must-knows:

1) Use A Spoolie Brush Pre-Tweeze

Using a spoolie before you tweeze to neaten your brows will ensure you get the most precise results possible, as you'll see the shape and unruly hairs more clearly. Because, after all, we’ve all had the experience of thinking we’ve picked up every last hair and then realizing there are loads we’ve missed.

2) Peel Your Nail File

This hack will let you skip manicures altogether. Use a peelable nail file instead of a regular one for a fresh surface when you tidy your nails every single time.

3) Revive Your Base With Translucent Powder

No time to reapply your foundation pre-party? No problem. Simply dab some translucent powder with a Face Powder Brush (it comes in a set) over the areas where you have the most shine for an instant refresh.

Make Smoother Moves

In the dead of winter, the temptation is to care for only the parts of your body visible from underneath the mohair cocoon you’ll be in until April. But with so many special occasions around the corner, you need the speedy yet luxe bathroom routine that is Soap & Glory in your life. The whole range is both delicious-smelling and ultra-nourishing, meaning you can have a moment’s bliss while getting your slightly scaly parts ready for a night on the town. Here's what to do:

1) Moisturize Damp Skin

Getting out of the shower feels like an injustice of Herculean proportions in winter. But did you know that you can both speed things up and better hydrate yourself by applying body butter while your skin’s wet? It’ll maximize hydration, so lotion up to your heart’s content, and enjoy more supple skin ASAP.

2) Layer Scented Products

Want to smell fabulously scented at your soiree but feel perfume melts off of you in seconds? It’s time to layer up. Apply a body scrub and butter with the same scent, and you’ll find the aroma clings to you much better. Plus, it’s two stages already in your routine, rather than in addition to, so it's super easy to incorporate into your routine.

3) Slather On Heel Cream

A pedicure in the depths of winter is probably very low on your priority list, but this season’s most covetable party shoes are slingbacks and mules, and baby, that’s a whole lotta heel. Skip the comprehensive DIY routine; instead slather your feet with heel cream before bed, and then pop some socks on. Your soles will drink it all up overnight, so you’ll have the softest feet come morning.

Mix Up Your Makeup

CYO is all about making your life easier when it comes to makeup — something that we couldn't need more of than during party season. Sure, it's the time to embrace the fact that more is more, but that doesn’t mean you have to spend hours methodically recreating a smoky eye tutorial from YouTube. Instead, try these quick tips to take your work look from zero to hero in an instant...

1) Amp Up Your Eyes With Molten Shades

Blending a metallic shade onto your lids with your fingertips will give a cool, slept-in finish with a punch of pigment. The warmth from your fingertips will help you smooth on the shadow effortlessly, meaning foolproof blending.

2) Choose To Hero One Feature

Pressed for time and got someplace special to be? Instead of attempting a whole face revamp, focus on either your lips or eyes. A bold red lip or berry shade, or adding colored liner to finish your lids, will draw all the attention to the right place. Plus it takes about a third of the time.

3) Swipe On Serious Glow

Give your skin a bit of party oomph with the addition of a little shimmer. A highlighting stick (instead of a powder and brush) is the fastest way to sculpt and define. Add a swipe to the inner corners of your eyes (did someone say eight hours of sleep?) and to your cheeks for glowing skin that pops better than Champagne.

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No one’s expecting you to give them a brand-new TV or surround-sound speaker system for the holidays, right? (Or if so, do you have any friend openings?) But even if you're not the presumed giver of big-ticket items, you can still bestow some great tech gifts upon your friends and family this year.

Tech is such a rewarding category for gifts, even with a budget less than $50. The idea here is that you can give others the kind of fun gadgets and accessories they don't need, but would really enjoy playing with. These don't make people feel like you've got the wrong idea about who they are (the way a misjudged beauty or fashion gift might). At the same time, they don't feel super impersonal like that peach candle. We see absolutely zero fake sing-songy "thank yous" in your future.

Another great reason to give tech this year: the variety — from adorable stocking-stuffer phone accessories for those teenage cousins to a rather useful portable speaker for your partner (because this is the winter you plan to get them to love your musical tastes). Well, no one said gift-giving had to be completely selfless, did they?

There's always one more room in a house that doesn't yet have music access. The bathroom? The backyard? The motel room you two will be sharing at your friend's wedding? Fix that problem with a sleek portable speaker.



Cambridge Soundworks OontZ Angle 3 Ultra : Portable Bluetooth Speaker, $39.99, available at Amazon

If you're buying for someone who doesn't absolutely have to be on the cutting edge of all technology, but might enjoy commanding their own robot anyway, you're in luck. The older, 2nd generation Echo Dot is available for just $19.99. (The newest version is $10 more).



Amazon Echo Dot - Smart speaker with Alexa - Black, $19.98, available at Amazon

Want your person to spend less time staring at their phone and more time staring into your eyes? Or less time saying, "Have you seen my phone?" Flic is a really attractive little button you can stick somewhere in your home and program to do anything from find your phone to order in Seamless to control the volume of your music.



Flic Flic -The Wireless Smart Button, $34.99, available at Amazon

With everyone taking breaks from social media these days, it's time to go back to an era when we actually printed our photos and had to view and comment on them in person. This photo printer is surprisingly inexpensive and might even inspire you to take more pictures.



HP HP Envy 5055 Wireless All-in-One Photo Printer, $49.99, available at Amazon

It's not fun to be that person who runs into a room begging someone for phone charger because you're about to lose your connection to the world. That's why a person can never have too many power banks. Especially cute ones with animal ears.



ModCloth Feline Prepared Portable Charger, $16, available at ModCloth

Most people already have their favorite go-to headphones, but they deserve to have a playful back-up pair too, don't they? You can go with a retro pair that look like they went with you mom's Sony Walkman, or a pair that will double as earmuffs for the winter (from Flying Tiger). Maybe in this price range they're not music-studio worthy, but they work!



JLab JLab Rewind Wireless Retro Headphones, $19.98, available at Target

Help that friend who is always pulling a tangled mess of headphones out of her purse by gifting her a stylish earbud holder that will encourage her to stay (a little bit more) organized in 2019.



Etsy Cable Organizer, $10, available at Etsy

Is it weird to give someone a light bulb as a present? Maybe. But this smart bulb, which you can control through Alexa or Google Assistant to change the mood and color of a room, is a really awesome party trick.



Lumos eufy Lumos Smart Bulb By Anker, $24.99, available at Amazon

Speaking of parties, here's another way to make any gathering just a little more memorable: a portable karaoke mic with a built-in Bluetooth speaker. It just requires the user to download any karaoke app onto their phone — and to convince others that the time is right for an impromptu performance of "Love on Top."



The Grommet Karaoke Mike, $17.95, available at The Grommet

Do you have a parent who still hasn't made the switch to streaming on their television? Or a friend who just got a not-so-smart TV as a present? Be their hero, but on the cheap, with a handy little Fire Stick.



Amazon Fire TV Stick with Alexa Voice Remote, $24.99, available at Amazon

Then again, you may also have that friend or family member who can't or won't get an actual TV but still loves to watch videos on their phone. This retro TV phone magnifier will improve their viewing experience.



Uncommon Goods Smartphone Magnifier, $30, available at Uncommon Goods

When you live with other people, the chances of grabbing the wrong phone out of the charger are high. Solve this problem in the most adorable way possible with these little cable biters, available in an assortment of colorful critters.



Urban Outfitters Cable Bite, $6, available at Urban Outfitters

Using all this tech can have an impact on your health, unfortunately. Show your people you care, or at least want them to get a good night's sleep, with a pair of stylish blue-light blocking glasses.



Quay Eyeware Women's Walk On Blue Light Round Glasses, 49.5mm, $50, available at Bloomingdale's

For the friend who wants to stop using their phone as an alarm clock, this retro-looking alarm clock will ensure they make it to work on time.



Lexon Flip Alarm Clock, $39.95, available at Nordstrom

The perfect gift for that person in your life who's watched every single episode on Netflix...twice.



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We're smack dab in the middle of the season of giving, and odds are you're probably overwhelmed: Maybe you're still buying last-minute(ish) for others, itching to do something nice for yourself, catching up and celebrating with old friends at fancy dinners out, planning a big vacation for the new year, or all of the above. But, well, you're going to want to prioritize some of that precious time for this: the retail gods have granted us with one last big sale season before 2019, and it's going on right now.

Every big retailer, from Reformation to Net-a-Porter, is slashing its prices as we say goodbye to 2018 with BOGO, site-wide discounts and more. So before you let 2018 end with serious regrets (for not shopping these deals), take a look at our guide for maneuvering through the madness of end-of-year sales.

Kick back, relax and prepare to be amazed at all the deep discount finds you can snag before the ball drops on December 31.

At Refinery29, we’re here to help you navigate this overwhelming world of stuff. All of our market picks are independently selected and curated by the editorial team. If you buy something we link to on our site, Refinery29 may earn commission.

H&M
Dates: Now
Sale: Select styles up to 60% off
Promo Code: None

H&M Mohair-Blend Sweater, $99.00 $49.00, available at H&M.
H&M Double Breasted Jacket, $49.99 $29.99, available at H&M.



H&M Premium Quality Down Jacket, $44.99, available at H&MPhoto Courtesy of H&M.

Net-A-Porter
Dates: Now
Sale: Up to 70% off
Promo Code: None

Ganni Julliard Mohair And Wool-Blend Sweater, $450.00 $270.00, available at Net-a-Porter.
Staud Grace Satin Tote, $250.00 $150.00, available at Net-a-Porter.



Calvin Klein 205West39NYC Oversized Prince of Wales Checked Wool Blazer, $960, available at Net-A-Porter

Calvin Klein 205West39NYC Prince of Wales Checked Wool Mini Skirt, $396, available at Net-A-PorterPhoto Courtesy of Net-a-Porter.

Need Supply
Dates: Now
Sale: $25 off orders of $250+; $100 off orders of $500+; $200 off orders of $800
Promo Code: None

Acne Studios Floral Bouclé Coat, $1550.00 $929.99, available at Need Supply.
Trademark Sybil Calf Hair Bag, $648.00 $309.99, available at Need Supply.



Maryam Nassir Zadeh Venus Leather Boot, $285.99, available at Need SupplyPhoto Courtesy of Need Supply.

Reformation
Start Date: 12/13
Sale: Up to 40% off select items; Free shipping
Promo Code: None

Reformation Jordi Kick Flare Jean, $128.00 $90.00, available at Reformation.
Reformation West Jacket, $148.00 $104.00, available at Reformation.



Reformation Finley Dress, $90, available at ReformationPhoto Courtesy of Reformation.

Everlane
Start Date: Now
Sale: Choose what you pay
Promo Code: None

Everlane The Day Heel, $150.00 $113.00, available at Everlane.
Everlane The Wool-Cashmere Waffle Square Crew, $130.00 $91.00, available at Everlane.



Everlane The High-Rise Hipster, $12, available at EverlanePhoto Courtesy of Everlane.

Shopbop
Start Date: Now
Sale: Up to 70% off select items
Promo Code: None

Sandy Liang Essex Dress, $750.00 $255.00, available at Shopbop.
Truss Embellished Party Bag, $325.00 $97.50, available at Shopbop.



MSGM Sequin Skirt, $225, available at ShopbopPhoto Courtesy of Shopbop.

Saks Fifth Avenue
Start Date: Now
Sale: Up to 60% off designer selections
Promo Code: None

The Volon Cindy Feather Velvet Bucket Bag, $940.00 $658.00, available at Saks Fifth Avenue.
Elizabeth & James Josette Bouclé-Knit Sweater, $365.00 $146.07, available at Saks Fifth Avenue.



Acne Studios Leather Lace-Up Platform Ankle Boots, $420, available at Saks Fifth AvenuePhoto Courtesy of Saks Fifth Avenue.

Eberjey
Date: 12/14
Sale: 20% off site-wide
Promo Code: MISTLETOE

Eberjey Pima Goddess Thong Trio, $48.00 $38.40, available at Eberjey.
Eberjey Frida Whip Stitch Long PJ Set, $138.00 $110.40, available at Eberjey.



Eberjey Agnes The Boyfriend Top, $62.4, available at Eberjey

Eberjey Agnes The Boyfriend Shorts, $52, available at EberjeyPhoto Courtesy of Eberjey.

Target
Dates: Now
Sale: 20% off coats and jackets
Promo Code: WARMUP

Dates: Now
Sale: Buy one, get one 50% off sweaters
Promo Code: None

Who What Wear Combie Coat, $69.99 $55.99, available at Target.
A New Day Wrap Sweater, $24.99, available at Target.



A New Day Plus Size Leopard Print Crew Neck Cardigan, $24.99, available at TargetPhoto Courtesy of Target.

Topshop
Dates: Now
Sale: 50% off going out clothes
Promo Code: None

Topshop Spot Satin Frill Dress, $98.00 $78.00, available at Topshop.
Topshop Diamante Drip Jumper, $100.00 $82.00, available at Topshop.



Topshop Peggie Pearl Tote Bag, $45, available at TopshopPhoto Courtesy of Topshop.

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The Best Movies For Getting Over Your Ex

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Listen. Our goal here is simple: to help you curate the perfect Rolodex of movies that will help you deal if or when things with your loved one fall apart. And, to help us in our quest for catharsis, we’ve consulted the very academic Kübler-Ross model of handling grief, which divides the process into five stages: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance (because, above all else, we here at Refinery29 are nothing if not academics, of course).

There are many different types of breakup movies: the ones that are actually about breakups in the literal sense and the ones that deal with the different stages of breakups metaphorically. For instance: (500) Days of Summer. That’s about breakups. The Hours, on the other hand, is about handling grief, an emotion that occurs after any loss — especially the loss of a relationship. Because a list of breakup movies exists around every corner of the Internet, we’re digging deeper into the films that will help you cope with those separations in a far less overt but no less helpful way.

Movies, above all else, are therapeutic. The best ones allow us to relieve, relive, or re-evaluate our most tender experiences in a way that no other art form can. Click through to see our picks for the films that will aid you in getting through every one of those five stages — and straight on to renewal.

Here are the top films to get you back on your feet.

Eighth Grade (2018)

Why not relive a painful middle school past to distract you? If you got through your brace-face teenage years, you can get through this.

Chocolat(2000)

Chocolat, the story of how a woman's chocolate shop shakes up a conservative French town, is the kind of escapist fare necessary for when reality is too much to bear. Watch with a box of Ghiradelli truffles next to you.

Silver Linings Playbook(2012)

There’s nothing sadder than watching someone refuse to accept the end of a relationship, but that’s what makes the burgeoning romance between Bradley Cooper and Jennifer Lawrence’s manic lovebirds so darn powerful. It's only once Cooper’s character learns to let go of the woman who abandoned him that he can see the woman who’s standing right in front of him.

Photo: Courtesy of The Weinstein Company.

She-Devil(1989)

Imagine the premise of The Other Woman, except, instead of the pretty and palatable Cameron/Leslie/Kate trio, you have a maniacal Roseanne Barr with an angry mole. After being treated horribly by her husband, Barr's Ruth goes after her husband's four assets — home, family, job, and freedom — taking down the campy, WASP-y Meryl Streep (who is in true comedic form), who stole her husband. Brutal, evil, and demonstrative that hell hath no fury.

Photo: Courtesy of Orion Pictures.

My Best Friend's Wedding(1997)

Watching Julia Roberts play a woman who wants what she can’t have is like watching a cow go swimming. It’s not supposed to happen. But, as a lifelong careerist pining for her best friend as he plans his, duh, wedding, Roberts convinces us that falling in love with the wrong person is just as hard as it sounds.

Photo: Courtesy of TriStar Pictures.

An Unmarried Woman(1978)

Another man-leaving-for-a-younger-woman tale, this snapshot of New York in the '70s doesn't just address the end of a relationship but the sexual liberation of women as well. Jill Clayburgh, who was nominated for an Academy Award for this role, goes through the same five stages of Kübler-Ross outlined here, but she emerges from the other side empowered — and sexually fulfilled.

Photo: Courtesy of 20th Century Fox.

Heathers(1988)

"I just killed my best friend."
"And, worst enemy..."
"Same difference."

Of course, we aren't advocating any sort of accidental-murder crime spree here, but Heathers is the perfect reminder that sometimes the people stuck in your life are the ones who are the most poisonous. And, nothing feels better than Winona Ryder telling the psychopathic Christian Slater that all she wants is "Cool dudes like you out of my life."

Photo: Courtesy of New World Pictures.

The First Wives Club(1996)

Yes, this movie does work on the premise that, after a certain age, your husband will probably leave you for a younger woman, which kind of sucks. But, it also affirms the power of a womanly bond and what happens when determined, strong women focus on something other than men.

Photo: Courtesy of Paramount Pictures.

(500) Days of Summer(2009)

Who else but Zooey Deschanel's crush-worthy manic pixie dream girl could take a man’s heart and totally pulverize it? In Marc Webb’s refreshing take on the rom-com, that man is Tom (Joseph Gordon-Levitt), a hopeless romantic who must suffer the pains of a disintegrating relationship, before he emerges clear-eyed on the other side.

Photo: Courtesy of Fox Searchlight.

Postcards from the Edge (1990)

Adapted from Carrie Fisher's true life story about getting clean and heading back to acting, Suzanne (Meryl Streep) has to sober up in order to continue with her film career, which means confronting sleazy producers, coming to terms with her overbearing mother, and dealing with addiction. Messy Meryl is both earnest and darkly dry. The film has a wise assumption: Many of us have dysfunctional relationships with our mothers, and the sooner we realize it, the sooner we can start laughing.

Photo: Courtesy of Columbia Pictures.

Desperate Living(1977)

Within the first half-hour of this grating, disgusting, absolutely filthy John Waters film, Mink Stole curses out children, kills her husband, and goes on the lam with her lesbian lover. This pic teems with an urgent sense of discomfort and proves that bad guys get what's coming to them, often up their own butts. Literally.

Photo: Courtesy of New Line Cinema.

Great Expectations (1998)
Yes, in the end, Finn and Estella end up together, kind of. But Finn spends his entire life being punished by Paltrow's Estella and the Miss Havisham-styled Anne Bancroft, and he leads himself to incorrectly believe he can make himself be what she wants. In this version of Great Expectations, Finn denies that Estella is only there to break his heart, and it's true: Estella is only won when no one else wants her.

Photo: Courtesy of 20th Century Fox.

Chasing Amy(1997)

Ben Affleck's Holden ends the movie by actually bargaining with his best friend and his girlfriend, offering a pretty stupid solution for all of the tension between them. And, the thing is, you can't persuade anyone — especially yourself — to accept the one you love.

Photo: Courtesy of Buena Vista Pictures.

Forgetting Sarah Marshall(2008)

Yes, this is the one where Jason Segel gets naked. But, he bares a lot more than his private parts as a lovelorn sound mixer forced to get over his famous girlfriend (Kristen Bell). He kicks and screams and begs and pleads for her back, before finally realizing they were never meant to be. How does he get there? Two words: Mila Kunis.

Photo: Courtesy of Universal Pictures.

The Hours(2002)

One of the things this Oscar-nominated film does so well is depict the complex, isolating nature of depression. And, not just depression, but, particularly, feminine depression. Three different women, three different time periods, and one emotion connecting them all. The film is a deft reminder that, despite any perceived evidence to the contrary, no one is really alone.

Photo: Courtesy of Paramount Pictures.

Beaches(1988)

Sometimes, during a break-up, you just need to cry a lot, and rid your body of bad toxins and negative emotions. Watching Beaches, a melodramatic movie about a decades-long friendship, is a sure-fire way to start crying. A lot. You'll want to grab all of your friends and give them a big hug — which, coincidentally, is another good way to recover from a break-up.

Scott Pilgrim vs. the World(2010)

When the movie starts, 22-year-old Scott Pilgrim (Michael Cera) is the bassist of a garage punk band called Sex Bomb-omb, and is dating a weird high-schooler named Knives Chau (Ellen Wong). His life comes into focus when the blue-haired Ramona Flowers (Mary Elizabeth Winstead) waltzes into Toronto. But before getting Ramona, he has to literally fight off her horde of ex-boyfriends, who each come after Scott like supercharged villains. Scott Pilgrim vs. the World is a reminder that your exes may follow you in spirit, but they can be vanquished.

Girls Trip(2017)

You get by with a little help from your friends. When you're recovering from a break-up, it's best to surround yourself with your clan, like the women in this hilarious, raunchy film do. Ryan (Regina Hall), Sasha (Queen Latifah), Lisa (Jada Pinkett Smith), and Dina (Tiffany Haddish) travel to New Orleans for the annual Essence Festival, and hijinks follow.

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Four Weddings and a Funeral(1994)

Charles (Hugh Grant) is at the age when all of his friends are getting married. At one wedding, he meets an American woman named Carrie (Andie MacDowell), but she has to leave for the States the day after their affair. The movie follows Carrie and Charles' crises in timing, and reminds us that the path to love is long and winding. Who knows what could happen?

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Kubo & The Two Strings (2016)

Magical animated movies about family and folk tales are good for any time in your life. But Kubo' s emphasis on forgiveness and new beginnings will be an especially healing message during this time. In the film, young Kubo discovers that the tall tales his mother has been telling him his whole life are actually true, and now he must defeat the villains from her stories — who happen to be his own aunts and grandfather.

John Tucker Must Die(2006)

After three women discover they're all dating the same human trashcan, John Tucker (Jesse Metcalfe), they band together to break his heart and take him down. Watch this movie if post-breakup vitriol is coursing through your veins.

Mamma Mia(2008)

Aside from time, salted caramel chocolate bars, and lots of sleep, Meryl Streep singing ABBA on a Greek island is all you need for a pick-me-up.

Hot Fuzz(2007)

As Hot Fuzz shows, friendship's the most important ingredient in getting over anything, whether it be a move to a provincial British town, or a break-up.

Moana(2016)

Moana's not your childhood's Disney princess. The intrepid leader of her people, Moana ventures to sea to end the curse plaguing the crops on her Pacific Island home.

She befriends a demi-god. She learns to sail. She saves her people. And the best part? There's not a prince in sight.

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Walking and Talking(1996)

The most essential part of a breakup cure? Good friends. In Walking and Talking, Amelia (Catherine Keener) is pettily jealous when her best friend, Laura (Anne Heche), moves out to live with her fiancé. As Amelia's life gets more complicated, she has to swallow her envy and turn to her best friend. Let '90s friendships swaddle you.

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Lovely & Amazing(2002)

Jane Marks (Brenda Blethyn) already has two grown daughters. When she's in her 50s, she adopts an 8-year-old Black daughter. In Lovely & Amazing, Jane and her three daughters navigate their lives, their neuroses, and each other, with doses of humor and dysfunction.

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High Fidelity(2000)

As record store owner Rob Gordon (John Cusack) narrates his ex-relationships with equal parts charm and self-loathing, you'll be reminded why relationships are such a drag in the first place.

Thelma and Louise(1991)

Let these heroines remind you who the most important relationship in your life is: your best friend.

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Before Sunrise(1995)

The plot of this acclaimed Richard Linklater film is as simple as they come. On his way to Vienna, an American named Jesse (Ethan Hawke) becomes smitten with a Celine (Julie Delpy), a French student going home to Paris. Jesse convinces Celine to go to Vienna for a night with him, and the movie tracks their wandering and their conversation. It reminds you of the adventures just around the corner if you follow your impulses. Think of all the great conversations in your future.

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Amelie(2001)

In this acclaimed French movie, Audrey Tatou plays an imaginative and mischievous waitress who decides to interfere (and hopefully improve) other peoples' lives. Bursting with whimsy, this movie will remind you that the world is still full of magic and a new beginning's just a choice away.

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Sliding Doors(1998)

In one version of reality, Gwyneth Paltrow’s character makes it onto a subway car by a second. In another version of reality, she misses the train. Following her down both paths, the movie envisions how her lives go on different tracks from that split-second instance. It’ll remind you of life’s unpredictability, and how this period of pain might be paving the way for something better down the line.

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The Reader(2008)

Hey — at least your ex wasn't a former Nazi guard who finds herself on trial for the murder of hundreds of innocent people.

Crazy Stupid Love (2011)

When life throws you a lemon, toss it, and go make out with Ryan Gosling.

To Have Or Have Not (1944)

Channel your inner Lauren Bacall and go out on the town. You don't need anyone to tell you what to do.

Fifty Shades Of Grey (2015)

Take heart in the knowledge that though you may be single, you aren't dating a sociopath with a penchant for painful sex.

Pride & Prejudice (2005)

Any version of this Jane Austen classic will do the trick, but we suggest the 2005 adaptation starring Keira Knightley as Elizabeth Bennett and Matthew Macfadyen as a very broody, very sexy Mr. Darcy.

The Graduate (1967)

Breakups are tough. But the guy you're seeing cheating on you with your mother? That's some heavy shit.

2 Days In Paris (2007)

No matter how painful the breakup, it's probably better than introducing your non-French speaking American boyfriend to your sexually-liberated parents and a slew of exes.

Sometimes, schadenfreude is the best remedy for heartbreak.

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Bridesmaids (2011)
If spending time with your best friends is a crucial part of getting over an ex, then why not spend it with a group of fictional characters who are sure to distract you from your pain for at least two hours? Plus, if you just got out of a crappy relationship, it's helpful to see what a good one looks like. (Sup, Chris O'Dowd?)

Photo: Moviestore Collection/REX/Shutterstock.

Brooklyn (2015)
Sometimes, the hardest part of a breakup is starting over. It's learning how to get up in the morning and not talk to your former partner and how to make plans that involve only yourself. As such, this can also be the most depressing part of a split. So, if you need an affirmation that you will come out the other end of this a better, more confident person, watch Eilis immigrate from Ireland to 1950s New York.

Photo: Fox Searchlight Pictures/Photofest.

Celeste & Jesse Forever (2002)
They say you should marry your best friend. But what if you marry that person only to realize that you're better off as, well, best friends? This movie explores that heartbreaking grey area between a friendship and a relationship. Watch it. Cry a lot. Feel better about your breakup.

Photo: Moviestore/REX/Shutterstock.

Chinatown(1974)

Watching Jack Nicholson’s bandaged gumshoe roam through Roman Polanski’s bleak depiction of postwar Los Angeles is just as depressing as it sounds. This classic neo-noir — in which the rich get richer, the disenfranchised drown, and corruption is rampant — is a staunch reminder that the world we live in is a scary, scary place.

Photo: Courtesy of Paramount Pictures.

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind(2004)

Have you ever wished you’d never met the person who broke your heart? In Charlie Kaufman’s oddball romance, Joel Barrish (Jim Carrey) has that wish granted via a mysterious procedure in which the memories of his ex-girlfriend (Kate Winslet) are erased. It’s only then that he realizes the love they shared was worth the loss, but simultaneously, we are destined to repeat our same mistakes — no matter how good our intentions may be. Sometimes, love is just not enough.

Photo: Snap Stills/REX/Shutterstock.

Blue Valentine(2010)

Derek Cianfrance's autopsy of a relationship-gone-bad is a staunch reminder that all things fall apart. Please forgive us for our doom-and-gloom perspective, but after watching Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams trade gut-punch after gut-punch as a couple caught in a downward spiral, we're sure you'll agree. Relationships. Are. Hard.

Photo: Snap Stills/REX/Shutterstock.

Breaking the Waves (1996)

We don't normally turn to chronic pessimist Lars von Trier for tales of redemption, but in this mesmerizing tearjerker, he puts Emily Watson's fragile, young Bess through an emotional firestorm before bringing her back via a spiritual epiphany that will stay with you for days, months, and years.

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Legally Blonde(2001)

There is one major takeaway from Legally Blonde: The best revenge is busting your ass to challenge yourself, meeting your goals, exploring new ventures, and not changing who you are in the process. So, you know, do that.

Photo: Courtesy of Metro Goldwyn-Meyer.

War of the Roses(1989)

No, this isn't about pre-Tudor England, but about a couple with a seemingly perfect marriage that begins to fall apart. Michael Douglas and Kathleen Turner bitterly turn on one another and harness their possessions, pets, and, um, chandeliers to destroy the other. Spoiler alert: It works, and it is darkly, morbidly hilarious.

Photo: Courtesy of 20th Century Fox.

How Stella Got Her Groove Back(1998)

Terry McMillan's life-affirming tale of a middle-aged divorcée (Angela Bassett) who (what else?) gets her groove back is the kind of movie that will convince you that sometimes the grass really is greener on the other side. Especially when the other side is made up of a wise-cracking Whoopi Goldberg, the sun-drenched island of Jamaica, and Taye Diggs with his shirt off.

Photo: 20th Century Fox.

To Wong Foo, Thanks For Everything, Julie Newmar(1995)

While this movie has no real romance (Chi-Chi's fling hardly counts), the lesson is powerful: You are who you are, and grace, class, and a sense of goodness are the best ways to be fabulous. That, and a "Say Anything Hat Day."

Photo: Courtesy of Universal Pictures.

Up(2009)

The opening montage of Pixar's modern classic is admittedly one of the most devastating sequences ever put on film. But, after our curmudgeonly widower develops an unlikely friendship with a pudgy Boy Scout, our faith in humanity is restored.

Photo: Courtesy of Walt Disney Studios.

Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone(2001)

Thematically, this is a story about beginnings. Just think about what a magical journey Harry (and film fans) have ahead of them. Let's all take the opportunity to start again.

Photo: Courtesy of Warner Bros.

Chasing Amy(1997)

Ben Affleck's Holden ends the movie by actually bargaining with his best friend and his girlfriend, offering a pretty stupid solution for all of the tension between them. And, the thing is, you can't persuade anyone — especially yourself — to accept the one you love.

Photo: Moviestore Collection/REX/Shutterstock.

Waitress(2007)

This poignant tale of redemption features Keri Russell as a stuck-in-neutral baker who finds new life in the form of a handsome doctor (Nathan Fillion) and a bun in the oven. No, not the kind that's cream-filled, but the kind that takes nine months to be done.

Photo: Courtesy of Fox Searchlight.

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