In a perfect world, you'd be able to get every single person on your list the most thoughtful, memorable gift money can buy. But alas, in the real world, you're probably living on a budget — however vast or tight that may be. So while the holiday season can be all merry and jolly, it can also put a major strain on your bank account. Between scooping up presents for your entire extended family, all of your favorite coworkers, and everyone in between, you might feel like, come January 1, your funds are in a deep dive toward the negatives.
Fortunately, there are plenty of adorable gift ideas that fit every budget, whether you're dipping into your savings or already hit the holiday-bonus jackpot. From $5 stocking stuffers to big-ticket items, we've rounded up 100 of the absolute best presents for whatever you're looking to spend — all guaranteed to make the gift-getters in your life feel over the moon.
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The finish line is in sight, stargazers: The final Mercury retrograde of 2018, which began on November 16, will come to an end next Thursday, December 6. Those of you with major holiday plans later this month can breathe a (small) sigh of relief that they won't be directly affected by Mercury's backspin, but the messenger planet has one more trick up its sleeve before it goes direct for good this month.
This weekend, Mercury's reverse motion will take it from rambunctious Sagittarius to sly Scorpio, setting off a serious change in tone for this retrograde's last week.
As anyone who has ever interacted with Sags and Scorps already knows, these signs are, er, quite different, despite being right next to each other on the Wheel of the Zodiac. Where the former is outgoing and enthusiastic, the latter tends to be private and intensely thoughtful — it's fair to reason that the effect Mercury retrograde has on our lives can be pretty different depending on which sign it's visiting. As astrologer Susan Miller writes on her site Astrology Zone, we need only look at Sagittarius and Scorpio's respective ruling elements to understand just how different the influence will feel to us.
Up until this weekend, the current Mercury retrograde has been in fire sign Sagittarius, and when this planetary retrograde expresses itself through this volatile element, you can expect short tempers and overblown reactions to abound. The upshot of a fire sign hosting Mercury retrograde is that our passions and creative drives are lit up, too, so we stand a pretty good chance at finding an innovative solution to whatever problems come our way.
As of this Sunday, however, we may take a turn for the introspective as Mercury glides into water sign Scorp. Miller writes that you're better off acting based on your instincts, rather than attacking challenges with logic, when Mercury retrograde occurs in a water sign. So, if you hit a rough patch with a friend or face a difficult decision before Mercury goes direct next Thursday, listen to what that little voice in your head is trying to tell you — that's where you'll probably find your solution.
Luckily, we won't experience another Mercury retrograde until March 2019. With any luck, 2018 will end on a relatively quiet, miscommunication-free note — as long as we can make it through next week with some Scorpionic grace and self-preservation.
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When it comes to holiday shopping, sometimes all you need is a little push. And there's no push quite like seeing the words “low stock” next to a price tag that gets you to finally pull the trigger on that gift you’ve been eyeing for a special someone. As if holiday shopping weren't tough enough, we can do without the added stress of losing out on the perfect gift. Unfortunately, we can’t resolve your own procrastination (we’re not magicians!), but we can remind you what a lot of other people are shopping for.
From our experience, gift shopping is all about striking a balance between what the giftee wants and what they would never buy themselves. It's the stuff that sits in their wishlists and their carts because they can't take the leap to make the purchase. So be the great friend that takes the leap for them by taking the leap yourself. Here’s hoping that this is the push you need to grab all of your loved ones' gifts, before they sell out.
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Up next in sweater innovations: open back sweaters. They may seem unintuitive — a piece of clothing created to keep you toasty in the coldest months has a gaping hole in the back? — but we’re slowly coming to appreciate all the layering possibilities of backless sweaters. Use them as a window to subtly showcase another top or as an opportunity to show off a little skin, even when it's chilly.
In the ever-evolving experimentation of making sweaters more exciting, open back sweaters (also referred to as reversible cardigans) are on the come up. They're already available in all shapes and sizes from a thin or thick rib knit to cable knit or intarsia varieties. So ditch that striped sweater you've been keeping in your cart and head straight for this cozy new trend instead.
Click through for ten open back sweaters that give your back some breathing room.
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Whether it’s the smell of just-baked ginger cookies that takes you back to your grandmother's kitchen or a whiff of an aftershave that reminds you vividly of a teenage kiss, the time-traveling potential of fragrance can stop you in your tracks — and as we approach the dark days of winter, scent is a powerful force in mentally transporting you back to the happy, sunnier times of summer. Catch a sniff of a tropical flower like hibiscus (the hero scent in Soap & Glory's new Call Of Fruity ™ range) and you’ll find yourself miraculously on a faraway tropical island.
Smell and memory are intrinsically linked unlike any of our other senses. Fragrance expert Roja Dove explains that this is because smell is processed in the olfactory organ, which is located in the most primitive part of our brain. "Scent, the oldest sense, was developed for survival — to search for food, escape danger, and to find a mate," Dove says. This means our olfactory organ, essentially millions of nerves, has an impressive ability to recall scents we have previously encountered. "As the olfactory message enters the brain, it passes the area where cognitive recognition occurs and a positive or negative association is formed," continues Dove. "When we encounter the same odors again, it will stimulate the most primitive parts of our subconscious, triggering an association that we generally refer to as a memory."
This is why we can often feel floored by these flashback moments. "Odors work like a cat burglar," explains Dove. "They intrude unannounced into our minds and soul, and when revisited, they unlock the floodgates of memories and emotions, leaving a profound imprint in our mind." However, when we use scent to our advantage, it can be positively influential. "Scents themselves have positive associations and make us feel safe, secure, happy, and well."
This is where the joy of fragrance comes in. The right choice can dramatically alter your mood; for instance, citrus and fruit aromas are known for their revitalizing abilities. "These notes inject life and boost vitality," Dove adds. "Think about the effect of someone peeling an orange in a stuffy train carriage — it instantly recharges the stale, stagnant air."
While you might think fragrance is only for perfume, we can also dial up its power via our body- and skin-care rituals. As winter draws in and crawling out of bed proves even more problematic, a ritual including scented products can wake you up and instill that summer feeling to set the tone for a brighter day ahead. Zingy bergamot orange is your best bet when looking for an energizing scent. "You smell citrus notes further up the nose, which means these materials do quite literally lift you up," Dove tells Refinery29. "Bergamot is the most enjoyable citrus note to be energized by as it doesn’t have an acidic or sour edge." When it's combined with tropical notes like melon or hibiscus, in your shower gel for example, it becomes a place that reminds you of your favorite summer memories — from sandy beaches to happy-hour cocktails. Try Soap & Glory's Call Of Fruity Bubbles In Paradise Refreshing Body Wash™ to instantly feel like you’re on island time.
Much like our clearer, sunnier outlook on life, our skin tends to fare better in summer, too. As the cold and dehydrating winter weather arrives, so do roughness, pesky dry patches, and lackluster skin. In order to emulate that smooth and glowing summer skin, it pays to amp up your body-care routine when the temperature cools. Start with an exfoliating scrub like Soap & Glory’s Call Of Fruity Summer Scrubbin’ Cooling Body Scrub™, which buffs away dead skin cells using coconut shell and pink jojoba balls, leaving your skin ready for the next step.
Post-shower and scrub, lock in moisture and that summer aura by covering yourself in a scented moisturizer. Ingredients like coconut oil, cocoa butter, and aloe extract will help hydrate and soothe in equal measure, while remedying dry, cracked winter skin in next to no time. Soap & Glory’s Call Of Fruity No Woman No Dry Hydrating Body Butter™ offers all this in one tub.
For those midday moments when you’d give anything for a magic carpet to whisk you from your computer screen to the lounge chair, use fragrance as a form of escapism. Keep an on-the-go hand cream like Soap & Glory's Call Of Fruity Hand Food™ in your work locker or handbag for a spot of deskside dreaming.
While our body- and skin-care routines may alter during summer and winter, the mood-boosting abilities of these self-care rituals shouldn't be underrated. After all, as Dove puts it: "Scent can be likened to a bunch of keys. When revisited, they unlock the floodgates." And as the days get shorter and darker, it’s reassuring to know that the feel-good summer vibe is just a shower away.
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From Barbie dolls to baby showers to modern-day millennials to Janelle Monáe videos, the color pink has long had a fan base that's diverse and ever-changing. Right now Hollywood is showing the color some love with stars like Julia Roberts, Kylie Jenner, Amber Rose, and Halsey all dyeing their hair shades like baby, flamingo, and even neon Post-it pink.
Although it seems like a great shade for someone just starting to tinker with hair dye, there are a few things to keep in mind if you're looking to channel your inner Jem. This isn't a shade that can go on just anyone, as hairstylist Lewis Pallett, who just dyed Suki Waterhouse 's hair pink, told us. "Brunettes and dark blondes will get a completely different shade of pink compared to people with light or bleached blonde, and dark brown may not get any difference at all," Pallett says.
And so if you do have darker hair, a brighter, bolder pink would be an easier color to achieve as opposed to a pastel. Also, since it can be hard to get exactly the shade you want, it is vital to pay attention to how long you're keeping that dye on. "When dealing with color, there’s really no set time for how long to leave it on," Chris Appleton, who dyed Kylie Jenner's hair pink in September, says. "You need to watch it, wipe some off the hair to see what’s going on underneath, and keep checking until you get the desired color... Less is more, especially with frosted colors."
To keep your preferred pink shade vibrant, Appleton recommends using a sulfate-free shampoo as well. If you're careful with all these steps, you'll undoubtedly be left with a hair color that makes you look equal parts chic and daring. See how your favorite celebs are rocking this hue, ahead.
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Eyeliner can be the saving grace of the time-strapped. A quick swipe and you've got a statement makeup look that takes no time to create. But liner is also notoriously finicky — who hasn't accidentally wiped their eye only to smudge that practiced flick? Suddenly, your perfectly defined gaze is looking more raccoon than ravishing.
Fortunately, there is a fix for this problem: long-wear liner. These stay-put pens, pots, and pencils grab tight to your lid and hold on for dear life. They're so good, you might find your only issue is how the hell to get them off. (Hint: We love a good cleansing oil for this particular task.)
Ahead, the eyeliners you can trust to stay in place — no matter what you throw at them.
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Is there anything more ceremonious than dragging a matchstick across a rough sandpaper-lined box, dipping the running flame to a fresh candle wick, and breathing in your favorite holiday scent? It's that smell — fresh balsam (like breathing in a pine tree) or the sticky sweet smell of a pipping hot cinnamon roll (the kind you crave on a chilly Sunday morning) — that truly kick-starts the season.
And now, you can get the jar you love — the jumbo, 3-wick variety — for just $8.95. This Saturday, December 1, is National Candle Day across America and Bath & Body Works is dropping a one-day sale to celebrate. When you shop the sale online or in stores, you'll get any extra-large Bath & Body Works candle for under $9, which is a major steal considering that these bad boys typically retail for $24.50.
Ahead, we have all the new, holiday-scented candles we're buying this weekend. And we recommend shopping the sale hard — grab a candle for your mailman and yoga instructor, too — because National Candle Day only comes around once a year.
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On her sophomore album, The Pains of Growing, Alessia Cara, now aged 22, looks into the abyss of some of life’s scariest moments and sets them to upbeat songs.
On the album’s debut single, “Growing Pains,” Cara (this year’s Best New Artist Grammy winner) struggles ostensibly with growing up and all the attendant, anguished self-awareness (“I cry / more than I want to admit but I can't lie / to myself, to anyone / cause phoning it in isn’t any fun”). On “7 Days,” Cara offers an update to the infamous “What If God Were One of Us” examining the idea that God has turned his back on everyone, blaming Instagram fame and television for humanity’s undoing. Life on tour (and reruns of Friends) make up “Wherever I Live,” while disillusionment with an unclear cause is the focus of “All We Know.” And there is a breakup; the toxic relationship looms large over every other song on the album, including “Trust My Lonely.”
There’s a lot of pain to explore here, along with some growth for Cara, who wrote all the lyrics on this album herself. At times, this leads her to something extraordinary, like “Out of Love,” where Cara examines the push and pull in relationships with piano balladry reminiscent of Alicia Keys. Less successful is the silly pop fluff of “Nintendo Game,” where she contextualizes a relationship as a showdown. Overall, the album follows an upbeat pop sound that belies the bleak themes it explores.
This doesn’t always work. While Cara is brave to bare her soul with such rawness– and it feels like a genuine attempt to connect with listeners – she encounters some trouble communicating musically. The evolution is necessary for every artist, and Cara’s early teenaged success has granted her a measure of freedom to explore. Now that she’s ventured even further out emotionally, the next phase would seem to be stepping further out into the world of more experimental music production.
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If we're lucky, most of us have at least one friend that is there with us through everything: someone who is just as game to tolerate our incessant workshopping of dating-app openers and complaints about work drama as they are to celebrate our promotions and finally getting over our exes. And while a festive holiday candle is always a solid gift, our ride or dies deserve a little something extra for all that love and care they give us 365 days a year.
That's why we've curated this list of 13 extravagant (or, at the very least, extravagant- feeling) gifts to give your BFF this holiday season: from a plush Turkish cotton robe to Ferrero Rocher® luxurious gold-wrapped fine hazelnut chocolate. Click through to check out our favorite posh presents for that friend who always goes above and beyond. It's time to finally give back.
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Let's just say it: Sticking to a budget while traveling is extremely difficult. Not only are flights and lodging pricey, but activity fees, cabs, and on-the-go meals can add up quickly. And don't even get us started on stuff like exchange rates and foreign transaction fees. But just because we're watching our bank accounts doesn't mean we're cool with missing out on seeing the world.
There are plenty of small strategies you can implement while traveling that will help save dough without ruining the fun and spontaneity of being in a new place. In some cases, it might even make your experience feel more authentic. We asked four bona fide travel experts — women whose passport stamps inspire serious FOMO — to share their strategies for saving money on everything from flights to food. Read on to hear what they had to say.
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Hot tools can do a number on your hair — and that's true no matter your texture, affinity for trying new colors, or the season. That's why leave-in conditioners are a godsend, particularly for natural, curly, and color-treated strands, because they can help save you from a world of damage.
While liquid formulations typically get a bad rap during colder months because they can harden (making hair brittle and prone to breakage), they're perfect for the more hospitable seasons — so, whenever it's not freezing cold outside. And while the handy product won't make your overall routine any less time-consuming, by making your hair more manageable, it will making getting out the door in the morning that much easier.
Keep reading to see pro and staff picks for the leave-in conditioners and treatments that leave our locks soft as can be.
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Special counsel Robert Mueller is investigating Ivanka and Donald Trump Jr.'s role in attempting to build a Trump Tower skyscraper in Moscow, according to a Yahoo! News report.
The news was confirmed on Thursday when Michael Cohen, President Trump's former attorney, pleaded guilty to lying about the proposed deal to Congress. Multiple sources confirmed to Yahoo that Ivanka, a senior White House advisor, and Don Jr., the president's oldest son, worked on the project. A "separate source familiar with the investigation" said Mueller had asked questions about their work.
In Mueller's charging documents against Cohen, Cohen reportedly lied that he had "briefed family members" of Trump's who worked at the Trump Organization about the building project. Both Ivanka and Don. Jr. were then executives at the organization; Ivanka has given up her role since joining the White House.
The duo reportedly ended their efforts in 2013, and their efforts were separate from Cohen's. "They were not looking at any other deals after that," the source said. They were, however, aware of Cohen's efforts. "Michael was looking at that deal. Don and Ivanka knew about it and Don testified to the Senate Judiciary Committee that he was peripherally aware of it," the source said. "That’s why we’re so perplexed Cohen would lie about briefing them, because no one’s ever disputed that they knew he was looking at it."
Trump never actually built a skyscraper in Moscow, but he did try for many years.
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Welcome toMoney Diaries, where we're tackling what might be the last taboo facing modern working women: money. We're asking millennials how they spend their hard-earned money during a seven-day period — and we're tracking every last dollar.
Today: a freelance writer working in media who makes $130,000 per year and spends some of her money this week on Perrier.
Occupation: Freelance Writer Industry: Media Age: 38 Location: Idaho Falls, ID Salary: $130,000 Paycheck Amount: I don't really have a typical paycheck. I invoice at the end of each month, and then the clients pay based on their net 15 or 30 status. My income doesn't vary a whole lot, though. It usually fluctuates between about $8,500 and $12,000 a month.
Monthly Expenses Rent: $1,095 (I rent a 2,400-square-foot home that I live in with my son.) Utilities: $120 Federal Student Loan Consolidation: $219 Gym Membership: $149 (But I'm seriously reconsidering this now that I'm back to full-time freelance.) Hulu: $11.99 Spotify Family: $14.99 Netflix: $9.99 Internet: $113 Car Insurance: $167 for two cars (for me and my son) plus renter's insurance Life Insurance: $40 Health Insurance: $347 (Bought on the state exchange, just for me, since my son is on his dad's insurance.) My Son's 529 Plan: $400 IRA: $458 Travel Fund: $350 (I keep it in a taxable investment account.) Short-Term Emergency Savings: $200 (I use a tiered strategy where after it reaches a certain level, the excess goes into a taxable investment account for long-term emergency savings.) Allowance For My Son: $150 House Cleaner: $240 Lawn Care: $200
Day One
2:30 p.m. — My friend comes over with tools to help shore up our house's sagging deck. I don't want to pay to re-do the deck because I live in a rental, but I do want to be able to use it. My friend figures out how to reattach a support and takes care of it. I Venmo him the money to cover the tools and the short amount of time he spent making it happen. $50
6 p.m. — A load of firewood I ordered is delivered. Last winter, I discovered that using the fireplace throughout the winter could save me a substantial amount of money each month. So this year to prepare I ordered a full cord of wood. The guys deliver the wood, and I ask them to stack it. They charge $15 on top of the cost of wood and delivery ($250), and I'm pleased enough with their speediness that I add a little extra as a tip ($35). $300
Daily Total: $350
Day Two
12:30 p.m. — It's been a busy morning with two client calls and some work. However, my good friend is leaving tomorrow for a few weeks, so I make time for lunch — my treat. We head to a new downtown Indian restaurant and order dishes to share. He gets a beer, but I need to stay on top of my game so I don't drink. I'm chair of a county political party, and I need to hustle to get ready for tonight's event headlining our gubernatorial candidate and featuring other local candidates. $32.56
2:15 p.m. — I need a few things for tonight's event, so I head to Walmart. I don't usually shop there, but I need to find supplies fast, and the locally-owned craft store is on the other side of town. I buy some cute buckets with chalkboards for candidate donations, and a liquid chalk pen to write on them. I also grab some general office supplies, including paper for the campaign HQ printer and some sticker name tags, just in case candidates want to identify themselves. I decide to consider the purchase an "in kind" donation to the party. $53.20
Daily Total: $85.76
Day Three
2:30 p.m. — I wear lash extensions, and today is my day for a fill. We do a partial fill because I just had a full fill last week, but I'm going out of town soon, and my aesthetician also has a trip coming up. We worked it out so that I could do a partial fill this week and then come back for my regular appointment just before my conference so the lashes will last through her trip as well as mine. The cost is $25 plus tip. $32
2:55 p.m. — My son calls to tell me that the car has stopped working. He managed to make it to a friend's house, but can't get any further. He's had trouble with it since we took it in for tire rod end replacements, and we had planned to take it to a mechanic after school. He asks me to bring radiator fluid since it's dry. I stop at the store on my way to his friend's house to grab what we need. $15.83
3:35 p.m. — There's something wrong with the radiator (or hose, or head gasket, or thermostat), so we fill the radiator and head towards the mechanic, my son driving his car. It gives out three-quarters of the way to the shop in the middle of the road. A stranger helps us push it to a gas station and I call a tow, which doesn't arrive for 40 minutes. I buy us junk food at the gas station so we can bond over hardship. I get myself a frozen coffee drink, and he chooses an iced tea. We split a brownie and a bag of gummy bears while waiting. $7.63
4:50 p.m. — Time to pay the tow bill. I'm not thrilled that it cost $75 to tow the car a mile, but I didn't want to risk the car breaking down again and again as we tried to get it to the mechanic. We leave my son's car, get into mine, and head home. $75
6:30 p.m. — My son is safely at home, eating leftovers and FaceTiming with his father, sharing tales of the harrowing afternoon. I, however, drive 30 minutes to the state fair to volunteer at the party's booth. I get settled in with my boothmate and then announce that I'm going to grab dinner. I get a bottle of water for $2, pay $8 for a turkey sandwich made with thick slices of homemade bread, and leave $2 in the tip jar. $12
Daily Total: $142.46
Day Four
12 p.m. — It's manicure day! I get a 45-minute mini-spa gel manicure. I really felt like I needed the self-care after yesterday. $37.50
1:50 p.m. — I'm starving — I haven't eaten all day because I had a packed morning before heading to the salon. I stop at my favorite downtown sandwich stop on my way to campaign HQ, where I need to take care of a few political things. I get a bottle of water for $1 and the lunch special (BLT with avocado on wheat, and a bag of salt and vinegar chips) for $10.95. I leave a $2 tip. $13.95
7:30 p.m. — A friend and his wife surprise me and show up to check out our political HQ as I'm closing up. They invite me to visit a cool little print shop a couple blocks away. We head over. The print shop features a 130-year-old hand press. The owner shows us how it works, and I decide to buy some handmade and hand-colored cards. They're expensive, but I love them because they'll go great with special occasion gifts for close friends and family. $75
9 p.m. — After leaving the print shop, my friends say they want to try the new Indian restaurant. I've already eaten there this week, but agree to go with them because I figure I can try something new on the menu, and we haven't had a good talk for a while. It's my turn to pick up the tab, so I pay for dinner, but they leave the tip. $63.82
Daily Total: $190.27
Day Five
1:30 p.m. — It's the first Friday of the month, so I meet with my county political party executive committee. I'm running late due to client work and giving an interview to a publication. We meet at a downtown bagel place, but because I'm late, I wait until after the meeting to grab lunch. I get turkey and provolone on a bagel and spring for a bottle of Perrier. The meal costs $10.75, and I leave a $2 tip. $12.75
4:30 p.m. — I have another shift at the fair booth, and this time my son and his friends are hitching a ride so they can go to the fair. On the way home to pick them up, I stop to fill up the car with gas. No one wants to be stranded on the side of the freeway with three teenage boys. $40
5 p.m. — Just before my son's friends arrive, I hand him a $20 bill. It's meant for food at the fair. He has to pay for his own rides and merch, but I'll make sure he's fed. Later, he uses part of the money to bring me a funnel cake at the booth. $20
7:30 p.m. — After a while at the booth, I'm bored and hungry. I take my turn to go get food. I spend $4 on a frozen strawberry lemonade and $6 on a corn dog. I leave $2 in the tip jar. As I walk back, I realize I've been slacking this week. I've been so busy with campaign stuff, work, and car-related crises that I haven't been to the gym — and I've done a lot more eating away from home than I usually do. $12
Daily Total: $84.75
Day Six
2 p.m. — After a political lunch event (that the party paid for), my son and I head to the grocery store. We've got our meal plan for next week and the needed ingredients, and we're both determined to avoid a week like what we've just had. We buy mostly produce, since the fish, pasta, and other entrée-related items we need are already at home. He's running low on the lightly-flavored water he drinks instead of soda, so we stock up. $84.73
3:15 p.m. — I check my email and see that my credit card has been charged for tomorrow's dairy delivery. Our milk, cheese, and eggs are on their way! $26.75
4:45 p.m. — My son and I decide to go to the local symphony's concert in the park. It's a free concert, but we decide to top off our week of bad eating with a stop to get fast food. We go through the drive-through and then eat our food at the park. $11.36
6:45 p.m. — After the concert, we realize we forgot to get dessert for tomorrow's dinner with my parents, so it's back to the store on the way home. My son selects brownies and then asks if we can get a couple of California rolls. No surprise — the fast food has left a growing and active teenager empty within two hours. I buy him grocery-store sushi, which he inhales in the car before we even get home. $15.54
10:30 p.m. — After we get home, my son announces that his friends are waiting for him online, so he heads downstairs to play his MMORPG. I receive a text from a friend inviting me out for a drink. I've got nothing else going on, so I meet her and her husband at a local wine bar. I have two glasses of wine and leave a tip after we shut the place down. (Yes, this is a drinking establishment that closes by 10 p.m. on a Saturday night.) I briefly consider heading to the pub, but it's been a long week so I just go home and go to bed. $23
Daily Total: $161.38
Day Seven
10:15 a.m. — I get up and realize that I need a few items for my home office, including a new mouse and some sticky notes. I've also promised my son that I'll get him a digital to analog converter as part of his gift for his upcoming birthday, so I go ahead and order those items online. $30.97
Daily Total: $30.97
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Heading home for the holidays is a wonderful tradition, if only for the fact that you can ease your style to maximum comfort. It’s “suburban street style,” if you will — and we’re very much down with a uniform based around leggings, boxy sweatshirts, and supportive dad kicks. Luckily, these are also the same elements that make for comfortable travel, which means your transit clothes can double down as hometown pieces, too.
Ahead, we pulled together four outfit ideas that are lazy-chic and friends-and-family-ready using Cuddl Duds base layers (available at QVC), made of ultra soft and stretch technology fibers, as inspiration. Whether you’re taking the red-eye across the country or road-tripping a few states away, these easy ensembles are primed for winter travel and guaranteed to keep you warm and toasty throughout your entire journey.
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The Starbucks holiday menu. Dinner at your in-laws'. John Mayer. Facial exfoliation. Sure, these things seem straightforward enough at first, but man, do they become infinitely more complicated once you get a little closer.
The first three don't exactly come with instruction manuals, but luckily, that last one can be understood with a little help from a dermatologist — like Beverly Hills-based doc Ava Shamban, MD. Dr. Shamban tells us that the simple step of exfoliating the skin can do a lot for your routine. "Exfoliation addresses both irregular texture from erratic cell turnover, eliminates debris and dead skin cells, and creates a smoother skin surface for better penetration of actives, more effective hydration, and an easier makeup application," she says. Nothing not to like there.
But when we get into the when and how of exfoliation, a few more questions arise. Though regular exfoliation may seem more urgent during sticky summers, when you can practically feel your sweat-clogged pores, Dr. Shamban tells us it's vital to sweep away dead skin cells no matter what the weather. "Skin cell turnover may become sluggish in the winter," she says. "With a boost from exfoliation, cells are kept vibrant."
Then there's the matter of frequency: Some skin types benefit from a strong dose of alpha- or beta-hydroxy acids every other day, while others are better suited for a light, gentle physical exfoliant just once or twice a week. So where do you fall on the exfoliation spectrum? The experts break it down, ahead.
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In a perfect world, you'd be able to get every single person on your list the most thoughtful, memorable gift money can buy. But alas, in the real world, you're probably living on a budget — however vast or tight that may be. So while the holiday season can be all merry and jolly, it can also put a major strain on your bank account. Between scooping up presents for your entire extended family, all of your favorite coworkers, and everyone in between, you might feel like, come January 1, your funds are in a deep dive toward the negatives.
Fortunately, there are plenty of adorable gift ideas that fit every budget, whether you're dipping into your savings or already hit the holiday-bonus jackpot. From $5 stocking stuffers to big-ticket items, we've rounded up 100 of the absolute best presents for whatever you're looking to spend — all guaranteed to make the gift-getters in your life feel over the moon.
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The finish line is in sight, stargazers: The final Mercury retrograde of 2018, which began on November 16, will come to an end next Thursday, December 6. Those of you with major holiday plans later this month can breathe a (small) sigh of relief that they won't be directly affected by Mercury's backspin, but the messenger planet has one more trick up its sleeve before it goes direct for good this month.
This weekend, Mercury's reverse motion will take it from rambunctious Sagittarius to sly Scorpio, setting off a serious change in tone for this retrograde's last week.
As anyone who has ever interacted with Sags and Scorps already knows, these signs are, er, quite different, despite being right next to each other on the Wheel of the Zodiac. Where the former is outgoing and enthusiastic, the latter tends to be private and intensely thoughtful — it's fair to reason that the effect Mercury retrograde has on our lives can be pretty different depending on which sign it's visiting. As astrologer Susan Miller writes on her site Astrology Zone, we need only look at Sagittarius and Scorpio's respective ruling elements to understand just how different the influence will feel to us.
Up until this weekend, the current Mercury retrograde has been in fire sign Sagittarius, and when this planetary retrograde expresses itself through this volatile element, you can expect short tempers and overblown reactions to abound. The upshot of a fire sign hosting Mercury retrograde is that our passions and creative drives are lit up, too, so we stand a pretty good chance at finding an innovative solution to whatever problems come our way.
As of this Sunday, however, we may take a turn for the introspective as Mercury glides into water sign Scorp. Miller writes that you're better off acting based on your instincts, rather than attacking challenges with logic, when Mercury retrograde occurs in a water sign. So, if you hit a rough patch with a friend or face a difficult decision before Mercury goes direct next Thursday, listen to what that little voice in your head is trying to tell you — that's where you'll probably find your solution.
Luckily, we won't experience another Mercury retrograde until March 2019. With any luck, 2018 will end on a relatively quiet, miscommunication-free note — as long as we can make it through next week with some Scorpionic grace and self-preservation.
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When it comes to holiday shopping, sometimes all you need is a little push. And there's no push quite like seeing the words “low stock” next to a price tag that gets you to finally pull the trigger on that gift you’ve been eyeing for a special someone. As if holiday shopping weren't tough enough, we can do without the added stress of losing out on the perfect gift. Unfortunately, we can’t resolve your own procrastination (we’re not magicians!), but we can remind you what a lot of other people are shopping for.
From our experience, gift shopping is all about striking a balance between what the giftee wants and what they would never buy themselves. It's the stuff that sits in their wishlists and their carts because they can't take the leap to make the purchase. So be the great friend that takes the leap for them by taking the leap yourself. Here’s hoping that this is the push you need to grab all of your loved ones' gifts, before they sell out.
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The future of beauty is here — and you’re invited. Check out the rest of our 2018Refinery29 Beauty Innovator Awardswinners for a full look at the products, brands, and people that are breaking the rules and redefining beauty standards, one lipstick at a time.
A look back at our Amazon shopping history from the past year would reveal a lot of things about our personal spending habits we’d rather not share. Let's just say that our tastes are... varied, with three-tiered lasagna pans (thanks, Oprah), human-sized body pillows, and tech gadgets among our most treasured discoveries — not to mention a ton of new beauty products.
As much as we tried to stick to our 2018 resolution to stop spending like we're Rockefellers, the hair, skin, and makeup loot that hit the retailer was just too good to pass up. And what kind of friends would we be if we didn't try everything out first, to help you determine what to One-Click Order and what to ditch? Ahead, you'll find all the Amazon buys that salvaged bad hair days, made our skin glow, and got us lots of compliments — along with our other Beauty Innovator Award winners — to upgrade your collection before a new wave of products arrives in 2019.
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