To celebrate the end of what feels like a lifetime of costume planning and kickstart the whirlwind of holiday-themed cocktails that is November and December, we recommend you lean into retail therapy the gift-giving season. And if you're a faithful Amazon shopper, this year it's going to be easier than ever to get your shopping done.
That's because starting today — well before the Thanksgiving cyber rush — you can snag the best Black Friday deals on Amazon. Our favorite e-retailer just dropped all the early bird holiday goods, along with expertly curated gift guides across electronics, fashion, home — and everyone's favorite category — beauty.
From jade rollers and techie flossers to magnifying vanity mirrors and brush sets, we rounded up the best of Amazon's Black Friday beauty deals that you don't have to wait to shop, ahead. And to make the deal even sweeter, Amazon is making holiday shipping free for all customers — with no minimum order amount, even if you're not a Prime member.
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Ten percent off on Black Friday? Meh, you can keep it. Because when Ulta Beauty — a retailer already famous for its killer sales — does Black Friday deals, it's the stuff of discount legend. The brand announced today the details of this year's offerings, and true to form, it does not disappoint. It all commences just as we've digested our turkey: online at 5 p.m. central time on Thursday and in-store at 6 p.m. the same day.
Among the brands featured: IT Cosmetics, Anastasia Beverly Hills, Proactiv, Tarte, and more, with many products and gift sets available at just half the price. What's more, for online shoppers who spend $60 or more, the beauty emporium is also throwing in a very giftable laser-cut makeup bag in either gold or silver and filled with nine Ulta Beauty products.
There's a lot to love, but in the interest of sparing our bank accounts and honing in on the biggest deals available, we combed through the sale's offerings and picked the very best. From hair tools that practically never go on sale to a luxurious makeup brush available at 75% off, click ahead to check out all our picks.
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Yeah, yeah — we've heard it all: "Whoever said laughter is the best medicine has never tried shopping;" "shopping is cheaper than a psychiatrist;" "life isn't perfect but your outfit can be;" etc., etc. While we could argue both sides of all of those points, we'll simply agree that, yes, retail therapy is a pretty good form of self-love. But, particularly during the holidays, buying gifts for others feels just as good, if not better, than treating oneself. Don't believe us? Try it. And when it comes to people who are notoriously difficult to shop for — ahem, men — try East Dane. It's like killing ten birds with one stone; you'll find a gift for every man here.
In short: East Dane is Shopbop 's brother, of sorts. Back in 2013, the Amazon-owned e-tailer opened its mens's counterpart that sells contemporary menswear and competitors like Mr. Porter and Nordstrom Men's have been shook ever since. When it comes to prices, its spectrum of designers is vast: Carhartt WIP, Prada, J. Crew, Versace, Levi's — the list goes on and on. But most importantly, it's Amazon Prime-eligible, which means fast shipping and free returns.
Since it's that time of year(cough, Black Friday), East Dane is offering some pretty sweet sales, so we figured now was a good time to let you know that the guy who claims he "already has everything" could actually use a little more. Like, a multicolored universal adapter, a crisp, apple red cashmere beanie, a luxury bath robe (all of which, by the way, you can find in the slideshow ahead). If you're not sold yet, click on. Good gifts await.
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Whenever I hear beauty editors raving about a new treatment, the first thing I ask (not always out loud) is: Does it work on dark skin? While the answer is yes for many lasers and skin-care products, having more melanin always means you have to proceed with caution — one wrong turn with a laser can lead to a dark spot that can take months or years to erase.
So when everyone in the beauty industry started microblading, which is semi-permanent tattooing to fill in brows, I was definitely interested. When I wear makeup, I spend 15 minutes just perfecting my arches. And while I don’t have the energy to do that routine every day, if I ever get caught in a photo without doing them, I just look so... naked.
But as a rule, I don’t sign up for anything unless I see visual proof that it works on brown skin. So, I went to Instagram to hunt for brow tattoos on Black women and, let me tell you, the images were as sparse as my natural eyebrow hairs. But then I heard that Serena Williams and Jackie Aina get their brows microbladed by Piret Aava (a.k.a. The Eyebrow Doctor) in New York City. After scrolling through her feed, I noticed several women of color — and in all the photos, their brows looked immaculate and natural. That’s when I decided to get my first tattoo — on my face.
While the numbing cream took effect, Aava answered a few of my burning questions about microblading on dark skin. She explained that the process is exactly the same as it is for any other skin tone, but there are certain things you need to know about picking pigments before that first stroke. And in case you're wondering, I love my brand-new brows. Ahead, I'm breaking down everything you need to know if you're considering the procedure yourself.
Picking the right person is crucial.
Please don’t go to a tattoo artist to get your brows done. First of all, the tools and ink are completely different for microblading. The pigments are less concentrated than tattoo ink, and they come specially mixed to coordinate with brow colors. Using the wrong ink can make brows turn strange colors, like green.
You also want to make sure the person you are going to has experience with darker skin (remember my Instagram research?). Make sure to ask your brow specialist for photos of their clients, especially photos taken after the brows have healed. “Look at before-and-after pictures and look at healed results because that is what you’re actually going to be walking around with,” says Aava. “They look nice and sharp and beautiful and full right away, but the stroke expands a little bit — especially if your skin is oily. If the strokes are too close together, you are going to have solid block eyebrow.”
Never, never get black ink.
It’s instinct to go for the darkest ink option when working on dark skin, but Aava says that’s a big mistake because black looks gray once it heals. Instead, Aava matches her pigments to the natural color of her clients' brows, and her darkest shade option is ebony brown. If you want your brows to be lighter or darker than the hair you currently have, make sure to get your natural hairs bleached or dyed before your microblading appointment.
Another important part of picking the right pigment color for brows is the undertones of the skin. “If you have yellow undertones, I use pigment with cooler tones. If you have a lot of blue in the skin, I use warmer tones,” says Aava. “Some people are right in the middle, so I can’t really tell, but I always tend to use cooler tones because no one wants an orange eyebrow.”
Ask for a touch-up session.
In about four to six weeks when your brows have healed, it’s good practice to get a touch-up. For me, my brows looked a bit ashy after the scabs fell away, and I had a few spots where the color didn’t take at all, which left my brows looking a little splotchy. At my touch-up, Aava added a couple drops of warmth to counteract the cool tone and filled in the holes.
Aava says that different people metabolize pigment differently, which can lead to brows looking warmer or cooler once they heal. “It’s a foreign object in your skin and your body is trying to get rid of it,” says Aava. This means that your brows can look a little green or orange after they heal, and it also means that the pigment can disappear faster for some (in general, microblading lasts about 1-3 years).
Hyperpigmentation can happen — here’s how to prevent it.
Aava says that while hyperpigmentation can happen, it’s not something she worries about too much because it would occur underneath the brow hair. Dermatologist Mona Gohara, MD, says using sunscreen on your brows once they’ve healed can help with hyperpigmentation. “Any time you do anything on brown skin, there is potential for hyperpigmentation," she says. "So it’s important to do it in the right hands, and have really good sun protection afterwards."
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When I was 23, I had a one-night stand that lasted five years. I went on a ski trip with three school friends; all of us were single and two of us had recently been dumped. We sang All Saints' "Never Ever" on the ski lift by day and danced on tables in bars by night. On the penultimate night, I saw someone I liked the look of and, with a lot of courage thanks to alcohol, sashayed over in my ski pants. I don’t think we’d even exchanged names by the time we kissed.
All four of us on the trip slept with someone that night, which called for a brief strategy meeting about how to fit these boys into our already cramped one bedroom chalet. My friend took the bedroom, I took the sofa bed, another selflessly accepted the boot room, and the last stayed out. The following morning, I gave the guy my number (I don’t think he’d asked for it) and we vaguely agreed to meet up back in London.
Three years later, we were on a plane to a new continent to start a new life. By then we were sharing a flat, a social group, and were deeply embedded in each other’s family lives. I felt unsure at various points in the relationship but, whenever the thought crossed my mind, we’d have a really nice day together. We never had that "conversation chemistry" where you just want to talk all night, which for whatever reason was my idea of "true love" at the time, but the relationship was loving and relaxing, and the attraction remained strong. I think I was always trying to get something more from him, and I sort of thought it might go wrong when we moved away, with no friends or family to fill in the gaps. 18 months later, after nearly five years, I behaved badly and ended the relationship in a drawn-out way that I regret because I couldn’t decide what I wanted.
He was angry for a long time after the break-up, which was three years ago now, and I fully expected him to say no when I emailed and asked if he’d answer 29 highly personal questions about our relationship for an article. And I fully expected his answers to be brutal, if by some chance he said yes. But it seems I underestimated him, in more ways than one.
1. Describe the night we met…
I can't — I was too hammered. It was in a bar in the French Alps. I had been to a dangerous rum place beforehand and I remember kissing you inappropriately against a wall.
2. What did you think of me at the beginning?
I didn't understand you at all. I remember thinking you were cool and mysterious to the point where you seemed otherworldly. I had this idea, that's impossible to explain, that you didn't shower – it wasn't a hygiene thing at all but because you were so serene, I just couldn’t imagine you doing normal things...nope, it is actually impossible to explain.
3. When do you think we were happiest together?
Probably in the middle two-and-a-half years of the relationship and when we lived together. I thought I was set for life.
4. What's your favorite memory of me?
Spooning in bed every night — there was nowhere I'd rather have been. Also, that time you fell over when we were running for something (lol).
5. When did it start to go wrong?
When we moved overseas at very different points in our careers — you were finishing something and I was just starting something. Suddenly it was just us — no family, no friends, no work — and that was a big strain on everything.
6. Why do you think, ultimately, that we broke up?
I failed to support you properly during a family crisis and afterwards when you were stressed. Sometime after that, you started talking regularly to two other guys (I think you were basically having emotional affairs with them) and lied to me about it. We muddled along for a while and then you made us go on a break, slept with one of the guys and then made us get back together. You never let me back in emotionally after that and we broke up properly a month or two later. I probably did some awful things, like tell your best mate's sister she was boring, but that is how I remember it.
7. Describe the day that we broke up...
We arranged to meet in a park, but my phone had run out of battery. So I just wandered around with a Magnum (white), not desperate to find you because I knew what was coming. Eventually, we sat on the grass and talked, and then said goodbye. I didn't know what to do after that because I had no home in London, so I leaned up against a tree and cried, and then cycled back to where I was staying in a daze. I haven't been back to that park.
8. How long did it take you to "get over" me / the break-up?
Some of it was quick and some of it will always be there (I don't think I'm ever going to be like, "Remember when we broke up – that was lol") but the simple answer is about 18 months.
9. How do you feel about me now?
I'm at peace with everything. I don't want to be best mates but that would be true for any ex of many years. I think there's too much water under the bridge and I'm not convinced that kind of friendship would be healthy. But I wish you health, wealth, happiness and many dogs.
10. What was I like as a girlfriend?
Overall, you were great. You could be very cold and distant, and I often felt I was playing second fiddle to your family (fair), friends (sometimes fair), or work (nahhh). But I loved you very much, trusted you completely and don't remember ever feeling actually pissed off — irritated, maybe — with you in five years. You were great fun, funny and always up for stuff, and your friends and family were cool. I was convinced we would spend our lives together. We were a solid couple.
11. What were my best traits as a person?
Sense of humor; loyal to family and friends; kind; hardworking; conscientious; generous; animal-loving.
12. What were my worst traits?
Starting "deep" conversations at 11.30 p.m. on weeknights; never sticking to anything you said in the deep conversations anyway; taking work too seriously; not being able to be alone; aggressive driving.
13. What do you think was unique about our relationship?
I felt like you knew me better than I knew myself, which seemed rare.
14. What did you learn about women from going out with me?
Everything! I don't think I knew anything about real women before we met.
15. What did you learn in general, going out with me?
I learned a lot about what kind of work/life balance I wanted to strike from watching you work too hard and get too stressed. And about how I wanted certain family dynamics to work.
16. What do you think I learned from going out with you?
I felt like it was my mission to teach you that being as happy and stress-free as possible is way more important than being a massive success. I'm not sure I managed it.
17. What do you think we lacked in our sex life?
Do you think stuff was lacking? I think the sex was always good even when everything else was collapsing, but I suppose you can always be more communicative and adventurous in sex.
18. How many times did you seriously think about cheating on me?
I don't know. I never plotted to cheat on you or got close to it (the closest I came was groping someone when paralytically drunk, which was mortifying, but I don't honestly count that as "thinking").
19. If we hadn’t broken up when we did, do you think the relationship would have lasted?
I'm not sure. Of course we could have kept going if we'd both really worked at it but I'm not sure we'd have been as happy as we had been, all things said and done.
20. Do you think you were a good boyfriend?
For the first six months or so, no — I was an unthinking moron — but when it got serious I think I was. I really tried to be, anyway.
21. If you could go back, what would you have done differently in the relationship?
I would have fully supported you during the aforementioned family crisis and the aftermath. And joined a gym, built up my upper body and hit your current boyfriend with a stick.
22. What did you do differently in your next relationship after me?
I have tried to talk less nonsense and be less annoying, and be more thoughtful and supportive when necessary. I've also never made my current girlfriend go to bed at 10 p.m. because I have a Sunday League football game at 2 p.m. the next day.
23. What did you tell your girlfriend after me, about me and our relationship?
I had a small rant about you and why we broke up on the night bus once, which I slightly regret. But, really, nothing much because she's never asked.
24. Who would you say put more effort into the relationship, you or me?
In its death throes, definitely me. Before that, I think you edged it.
25. How did your family react to the break-up?
They were upset but I'm from a big family and they've seen it all before, so I can't say they were heartbroken or anything.
26. How did your friends react?
I think a few of them were upset/disappointed but you've stayed in touch with those ones and I'm sure they knew that would be possible.
27. Describe a typical day in our life at age 35 if we had stayed together…
We'd be living in the countryside or a leafy suburb, likely doing the same job because we have the same profession, and with a dog and a cat who are best friends. And some babies. I'd wake up early, walk the dog, work from home and have dinner ready for you when you came back from some cool event. We'd drink a glass of wine outside or watch TV by the fire (depending on whether it was spring/summer or autumn/winter).
28. Do you still think I’m a nice person?
Yes of course mate. I mean you're not Jesus or Harry Kane – you made mistakes. But so did I.
29. What do you feel when you see me now?
It's comfortable and a little bit exciting, like putting on your winter coat and finding $20 in the pocket. It can also get a little uncomfortable after a while, like the sun has just come out again.
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There are few things we find more thrilling than absolutely on-point home collaborations that take elevated brands to accessible and affordable levels — and we hit the decor mashup motherlode with Jonathan Adler's exclusive collection on Amazon. The iconic designer, author, and potter's new line, Now House, debuted on the mega online shopping destination this past October — but today, we can shop the unique decor creations for an even bigger steal.
For Black Friday, Amazon is offering slashed prices on a selection of Adler's goods — with up to 30% off furniture to artful decorative accents, all deftly crafted in the designer's playful-modern style. It's time to transform your spaces into a Jonathan Adler dream; filled with velvet bed frames, speckled ceramics, sleek pastel bar carts, and so much more. We've lined up the currently on-sale items in addition to a few of our favorites from the collection ahead — so scroll on to shop the discounted fashionable finds and more before they sell out completely.
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Clothing and tech aren't the only highly sought after items on sale this weekend for Black Friday and Cyber Monday. Airlines are putting out their own deals on flights that you won't want to miss out on.
If you're looking for an opportunity to buy a cheap ticket back home, to your favorite vacation spot, or to somewhere completely new, today is the day. A lot of these sales include dream destinations around the world such as Milan, Singapore, London, and Johannesburg. It may have seemed like a stretch before, but you might want to start planning that 2019 dream vacation after all.
Here are several that we've rounded up to get you started.
If you download Expedia 's app, go to their website for coupon codes, and then use the app to book your next trip, you can get a coupon for $100 off on select flights.
Emirates is offering exciting economy deals on tickets to a number of vacation-worthy cities such as Milan, Athens, and Singapore. The sale goes until November 24. You can find the full list here.
For fares starting at $773, you can get an extra $500 off Premium Economy Class with Cathay Pacific. For U.S. Economy Class fares as low as $593, you can save up to 60% off from now until November 27. All you have to do is use the promo code: "HOLIDAY."
Starting today and ending on Cyber Monday, you can get up to 15% off on "all restrictive fares on long-haul routes, excluding flexible fares" on Norwegian. It only applies to flights from the United States and Canada, but you can go just about anywhere. Just make sure your travel dates are between December 3, 2018 and March 31, 2019, excluding dates from December 17, 2018 and January 6, 2019.
As part of its Gratitude Sale, South African Airways is offering $699 round-trip tickets from New York and Washington D.C. to Johannesburg from now until November 27. You can also get round-trip fares from New York or Washington D.C. to Capetown for $759.
Fly with Virgin Atlantic and get a discount of £100 for economy flights and £150 for premium or first class flights. This deal is valid on all new package holidays departing between December 1, 2018 and October 31, 2019 as long as you book between November 24 through November 26.
Delta is offering deals on fares to Europe and Australia now through November 25. Tickets start at $659 for Europe. See all their deals here.
Fly with Scandinavian Airlines between January 8 and May 16 and get round-trip tickets from the United States and Europe starting at $399 as long as you book between now and Cyber Monday.
Wow is right. Wow Air 's "Purple Friday" deal is $69 one-way flights from Chicago, Pittsburgh, Boston, St. Louis, and Los Angeles to Iceland. Yes, you read that right. It's only $69 one day. For $99, you can fly from those same cities to Amerstdam, Brussels, Dublin, London, or Frankfurt. It's good for travel between November 2018 and April 2019 as long as you book by midnight on November 25.
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There's nothing better than finding a true one-stop-shop — especially one that won't break the bank. Why do you think we love Target so much? Or Zara? We're a generation that seeks convenience. So discovering one outlet that sells every blazer, perfume, necklace and winter hat we've been trying and failing to find all season is a miracle. That's what & Other Stories is for us. The Stockholm atelier beloved by fashion girls from Paris to Los Angeles has all of that and more. But if there's one item they excel in most, it has to be boots — and if there's one time to buy them, it's today at 20% off.
From that platform Chelsea boot to wear day in and day out to statement knee-high boots that'll pair perfectly with the holiday dress you just snagged at an early Black Friday sale, they're all being sold right now at & Other Stories. So before you spend $500+ on a pair of boots or settle for something meh, take a look at the 18 boots ahead.
Hint: Don't wait on scoring your one perfect pair. With today's Black Friday deal of 20% the whole site, you're going to want to jump into your new boots.
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It's November, which means scrolling through curated gift guides is as habitual as reaching for a sugar cookie when 3 p.m. hits. To switch things up from the highly-specific lists that break down the best gifts from Target or what to get your dad based on his star sign — both of which are pretty damn clutch — we've decided to make it more personal. Because everyone knows that the best gifts come from the heart.
Ahead, we're breaking down the full list of beauty-related gifts our R29 editors are actually wrapping in ribbon and giving our loved ones this year. Warning: If you're a mom, little sister, or SO of our team, stop here or you might ruin the surprise. Everyone else, go ahead and scroll through for our picks and you just might find that elusive gift you were looking for.
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Sometimes when you see a 20% off sale, you think: Eh, I'll be fine skipping this one because how much am I really saving. That is, unless we're talking about Glossier. Emily Weiss and Co. only post sales once a year, so this is your only chance to refill your Boy Brow and Lash Slick mascara for the cheap. And that's as good a reason as any to throw all your sale hesitation (and hard-earned cash) out the pale-pink penthouse showroom window.
From Black Friday through Cyber Monday — Friday, November 23 to Monday, November 26 — Glossier will be offering its only sale of the year. The deal: 20% off everything, both in stores and online.
This only happens once a year, so we suggest stocking up on everything you need for yourself, your little sister's stocking, and your best friend's Secret Santa gift while you can walk away with some savings. If you're not sure where to begin, scroll through to see our seven Glossier must-haves.
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While you’re probably already hip to how great Amazon is for purchasing inexpensive electronics and other everyday essentials, we’re not so sure you knew how awesome the website’s home decor selection could be. Believe it or not, the site we all know and love for its cheap well…just about everything also features a surprising assortment of affordable and design-forward home goods. That’s right, the next time you’re stocking up on socks or your favorite discontinued lipstick, you can just as easily throw a fab apartment furnishing in the mix to meet the free shipping minimum, too.
However, as with any large conglomerate, separating the good stuff from the basic can be almost as tricky as staying on budget. Lucky for us, we have Canopy, Amazon’s beautifully curated housewares boutique, to look to for interior guidance. In an effort to scope out all the very best products, we scoured both sites and rounded up some of the coolest — and most economical — home accents that Amazon has to offer. Scroll ahead for the fairly priced decorative items that you can order from the privacy of your own home (pants optional).
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The moment our shopping savvy selves have been training for all year has finally come: Amazon’s Black Friday sales are here. But before barreling directly t0 the site and rapidly scrolling through every deal of the day, take heed since the sale offerings are unsurprisingly massive. Navigating through the heaps of B.S. (quantity does not always equate to quality) to find the true gems may take a helping hand, one we're ready to outreach.
Where Amazon's Black Friday blowout trumps all others is its large scope of products you've actually been wanting to buy. Now's your opportunity to buy those big ticket items from a water flosser to a queen mattress, an electric potato peeler, or even a laptop that boasts a one terabyte hard drive. And since it's a bit of chore to get through it all, we also added in some delightful gift ideas that we happened on the way.
Buckle up and turn on your 1-Click ordering. Ahead are all of the Amazon deals you absolutely can't pass up.
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Black Friday is here! Bust out the holiday wishlists, make yourself some cocoa, and get to shopping. Even the stores that don't traditionally take part in the post-Thanksgiving festivities are joining in, and Zara is no exception.
For today only, you can get 30% off everything at Zara in-store and online. Yes, everything. Stock up on cozy winter accessories, plush sweaters, and metallic statement pieces for all those holiday parties you think are far off but will sneak up on you in no time. It might not be Black Friday per se, but this discount makes it one of the more enticing Black Friday fashion sales. Who knows, you might not even need Cyber Monday after all the great shopping you'll get done today.
To get you started, we've rounded up some of our favorite picks.
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"I'm so excited to go shopping for a new body balm for my cracking skin!" said no one ever. The sad reality about this time of year is the buzz of browsing for a chunky sweater or rad new boots is always tempered with the B.S. we have to put up with when taking care of all that skin we're now forced to cover.
Staying on top of dry skin before it gets chapped and irritated — or worse, triggers eczema or scaly dry patches — is half the battle, so our beauty team has already started making body-care swaps in anticipation of freezing temps and dry office heat. Think of it as just as necessary as swapping in wool socks or breathable layers; it's not sexy, but if you don't prepare, you're going to be wishing you had.
From cure-all balms to flake-annihilating scrubs, our beauty team is sharing the products we use to combat the cold, ahead.
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Welcome toMoney Diaries, where we're tackling what might be the last taboo facing modern working women: money. We're asking millennials how they spend their hard-earned money during a seven-day period — and we're tracking every last dollar.
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Today, as part ofYour Spending In Your State: a project manager working in policy who makes $55,000 per year and spends some of her money this week on croissants.
Monthly Expenses Rent: $800 (My half of the rent for a three-bedroom apartment that I live in with my boyfriend.) Student Loan Payment: $0 (Thank you, Dad and Mom!) Utilities: ~$50-$125 Internet: $30 Cell Phone: $117 (my half of the plan with my boyfriend) Car Insurance: $100 for my half Joint Account with my Boyfriend: $500 (We use this money to pay off our credit card, which we use to pay for our joint expenses.) Roth IRA: $515 Investment Account: $300 ACLU Donation: $20 Union Of Concerned Scientists: $25 Planned Parenthood: $25 Netflix: $0 (I use my mom's account.) Savings: ~$1,000-$1,500
Annual Expenses Amazon Prime: $50 for my half
Day One
7 a.m. — Wake up and scroll social media. Then I shower, put on clothes, and make two eggs and a piece of peanut butter, banana, and cinnamon sugar toast for breakfast. Kiss my boyfriend, N., goodbye and ride my bike to work.
8:30 a.m. — Get to the office. I'm working on a statewide scholarship and research project, so I have to go to a few schools today. I Lyft to one high school ($5.89) and then call an Uber to another one and back ($28.59). ($34.48 expensed)
12 p.m. — Impromptu apple tasting with my coworkers. One of my coworkers has only ever eaten Fuji (!) and I told her Honeycrisp is the best apple variety (don't @ me). Another coworker from Vermont thinks McIntosh is the best. So I brought a Honeycrisp apple and another coworker brought McIntosh, and we're have a tasting with more coworkers. We all agree the McIntosh is too mealy. My coworkers ask me to go to Panera with them, but I decline because I brought a lunch (for once)! I heat up the food I brought from home (sautéed potatoes, roasted Brussels sprouts, and braised beef) and watch a Drew Gooden YouTube video at my desk. N. texts me that he just got off the phone with a recruiter, and it went well! Yay! He just quit his job, and he's been on the lookout for a new one.
2:15 p.m. — Ride my bike to class, which is about half a mile away. As part of my job, I get to take one class per semester for free! I get other student perks at the university, like a free gym membership and free Adobe software, too.
4 p.m. — Ride the two miles home. We had a guest speaker in class today who founded a startup, and I'm feeling super inspired! I spend the next three hours revamping my résumé on Adobe Illustrator instead of writing a paper for class.
7 p.m. — N. wants some attention, and we're getting hungry. I was going to cook, but…Jamaican sounds so tasty right now! We order one small oxtail plate for me and one large oxtail plate for N. I treat because I'm feeling magnanimous, and I'm getting paid tomorrow. We hang out and wait for the delivery. $37.25
7:30 p.m. — The food is here!! We watch an Australian TV show called Rake on Netflix and eat the takeout in bed, saving half for later. After dinner, we heat up a piece of apple pie I made from scratch over the weekend. Pies are the only dessert I bake, and I don't do it very often because they're so much work. This is a delicious pie, and I'm already planning on making another next week. Then I keep editing my résumé while N. works on a coding tutorial.
10 p.m. — Switch to reading a book my mom got me for my birthday last month: Killing Commendatore by Haruki Murakami. He is my favorite author for sure. I've read all his novels, and I'm trying to savor this book, hehe. I read for 30 minutes and then it's bedtime!
Daily Total: $37.25
Day Two
6:30 a.m. — Alarm gets me up. I do some scrolling on Reddit before I get up. N. is randomly awake (he's not usually up this early) and wants cuddles, but I tell him I have to workout this morning. I do a kettlebell workout on YouTube. BodyFit by Amy is great! Then I take a shower and get ready. I have a mini skincare routine that includes Paula's Choice RESIST Super Antioxidant Serum, Hada Labo Skin Plumping Cream, and La Roche Posay Sunscreen. I've tried adding more products, but I find I can't stick to a routine that's longer than three steps, haha. Breakfast is two fried eggs and peanut butter, banana, and cinnamon sugar toast. I eat while reading my Murakami book.
8:15 a.m. — I ride my bike 2.5 miles to work. It's a cold morning and even with my gloves, my fingers hurt so bad.
8:30 a.m. — It turns out to be a busy day. Our program grew 20% overnight (probably because the deadline to sign up is today). This is great, because it means we can help more low-income students get into college, but it's also very stressful for me and my team! I also have to work on a discussion paper for my class that's due by 2 p.m. My job allows me to work on homework during work hours as long as I get my other work done (as the class is technically part of my job). This morning, we also have a team meeting.
11 a.m. — I eat a snack of beef jerky and power through my paper, taking breaks to keep up with work emails and other miscellaneous time-sensitive work tasks.
1 p.m. — I finish my paper! Then I eat my leftover Jamaican food at my desk. I don't really like eating at my desk, but today is busy. I take a short break, though, and watch a Drew Gooden YouTube video about the Olsen twins as I eat.
5 p.m. — Finally done with work! Ride my bike 2.5 miles back home. When I get there, N. is cooking dinner and listening to music. We listen to an EP that our favorite group just put out. We get super excited because we're seeing them next week, so we dance around in our office to their new music to “practice” for the concert.
6:10 p.m. — Eat dinner that N. made: baked chicken, sautéed potatoes, and cauliflower. It's simple, but tasty! We finish with a piece of pie each — the last two pieces :( — and watch an episode of Rake. Cleaver Greene is really an asshole.
8 p.m. — N. wants to get some work done, so I go on my phone and read more Killing Commendatore. I forgot today was payday, and I'm very happy when I realize it. I don't really like getting paid once a month — it's annoying for budgeting — but money is money! I make plans with friends to go dancing on Saturday night.
9:30 p.m. — Hang out a lil with N. and then go to sleep.
Daily Total: $0
Day Three
6:30 a.m. — Wake up and do some work. The program enrollment period closed last night, and I want to make sure everything went smoothly.
7:30 a.m. — I get ready to go for a run, since I'm going into work late today (I have a laser hair removal appointment at 9), when N. wakes up and asks me if we can do a kettlebell workout together. BodyFit by Amy it is! I use our 25-pound kettlebell, and N. uses the 35-pound one. We take turns taking showers afterwards because our shower isn't very big, and we can't both fit.
8:45 a.m. — N. drives me to my laser hair removal appointment. He drives me to places a lot — I don't really like driving, and he loves it. We split car insurance and gas, and it works for us. If ever he doesn't feel like driving, which isn't too often, I take the bus or ride my bike. Today, I get my upper lip hair and cheek hair done. The upper lip hurts a lot this time. I already prepaid for six sessions with a Groupon for $235, so I don't pay for this session.
9:30 a.m. — Dunkin' Donuts drive-through for breakfast sandwiches! It's $7.54 for two sandwiches (turkey sausage, egg, and cheese on an English muffin for me, and a bacon, egg, and cheese on a croissant and a coffee for N.), but I only pay for my sandwich. We eat the sandwiches on the way to my work. $3.54
1 p.m. — Eat lunch with coworkers — leftovers from last night.
2:15 p.m. — Walk to class. The subject material is interesting today, but the heat is blasting and the instructor is boring (he isn't our regular one), which means I struggle to pay attention.
3:45 p.m. — Get out of class five minutes early and go to a cafe near campus, where I get a small soy iced chai tea and a piece of vegan banana bread. I tip $1. I do my reading for my discussion section as I eat my snack. $8.29
4:10 p.m. — Walk to the Health Center on campus and get this season's flu shot. It's free for students. Then I walk to my discussion section.
6:10 p.m. — N. picks me up. We quickly grab broccolini we bought from the grocery store last week and head over to N.'s siblings' place (his brother and sister live together) for dinner.
10 p.m. — After a night of yummy food (N.'s sister cooked a Laotian rice dish), fun company, and more than an hour of playing charades, N. and I head home. When we go to bed, I have trouble falling asleep. I'm thankful tomorrow is Friday.
Daily Total: $11.83
Day Four
6:30 a.m. — Alarm wakes me. I'm very tired and try going back to sleep, but no can do. I was going to go for a run but it's still dark outside, so I wait until it gets lighter. I leave for my run at 7:06 a.m., and it turns out to be the worst three miles ever. I felt so bad I had to walk up a hill. Probably because of the lack of sleep and the flu shot? Oh well, I'm happy I did it.
8:15 a.m. — After showering, getting ready, making a breakfast of leftovers to take to work (potatoes, cauliflower, Brussels sprouts, and ground beef — I love leftovers for breakfast!), and kissing N. goodbye, I run to the bus stop.
8:19 a.m. — And the bus is late. Classic RIPTA. Luckily I didn't run far — the bus stop is basically on my street. When it arrives, I get on the bus and ride to work. (Bus fare is covered by my university.)
12 p.m. — Free Chinese food for lunch at work today. There's veggie lo mein full of mushrooms, which I'm into. It's a coworker's birthday, too, so there are also donuts! I sit with my coworkers and eat. The "best apple variety" topic of conversation comes up again. Honeycrisp is the clear winner among the office.
5:45 p.m. — Still at work, working on a report that we need to finish before we leave the office tonight. I snack on a donut.
7 p.m. — Finally finish the report (first draft) and send it to the boss. Some coworkers and I leave work to go to bar on campus to celebrate our coworker's birthday. I buy a tequila sour ($4) and some popcorn for the table ($3), and tip $3. $10
8 p.m. — Getting hungry, so I go to a ramen place near campus with two coworkers. I get shio ramen, and it's delicious. $21.50
9 p.m. — I miss my bus home and decide to walk 2.5 miles home and talk to one of my close friends on the phone. It takes me about an hour. When I get home, N. and I get into an argument. We need some space, so I go to bed while he works in the office.
Daily Total: $31.50
Day Five
7 a.m. — Wake up and make myself a breakfast of two slices of peanut butter, banana, and cinnamon sugar toast. I spend the morning doing dishes and laundry, cleaning the toilet, and reading Killing Commendatore.
12 p.m. — Run three miles and almost die again. I'm not sure what's going on here, but I feel as though I may be getting sick. When I get home, I shower and eat a lunch of leftovers — a chicken thigh, potatoes, and carrots.
2:10 p.m. — Have a long talk with N. about our relationship. It's hard, but I think we're working towards a better place. He's pretty introverted, and I'm pretty extroverted, so sometimes we clash about social things.
5:30 p.m. — N. and I get hungry and decide to order pizza from our local spot. Medium mushroom pizza for me, buffalo chicken calzone for him. We split the cost and watch some more Rake while we munch. $12.81
8:34 p.m. — N. drops me off at my friend's house on his way to visit his mom in Boston. He's going to to stay there overnight. We kiss goodbye!
9 p.m. — My friend and I walk to the liquor store across the street from her house, and I buy one of my favorite beers: Lost Nation Gose. $11.22
9:20 p.m. — Our other friend arrives, and we all hang out and catch up while we get ready. I drink two beers and take two shots over an hour and a half. Then we Lyft to the bar! I pay. When we get to the bar, it's almost empty. We decide to hit up a nearby pizza spot. $7.45
11:45 p.m. — After spending an inordinate amount of time in Pizza Queen taking pictures, we go back to the bar. The amount of people has quadrupled. We stay until closing, dancing the entire time. I love to dance, and I especially love to dance for free!
1 a.m. — Walk back a mile to my friend's house, and then I Lyft home from there. $7.66
2 a.m. — In bed and missing N.! I had a great time with my friends, though. I think I can feel a sore throat coming on. It's also freezing. I put on another sweater and fall asleep.
Daily Total: $39.14
Day Six
8 a.m. — Wake up. Ugh. I feel terrible, and I'm definitely sick. I have a headache and a sore throat. I need more sleep but I can't go to sleep right now. Oh well, time for a big breakfast. I fry three eggs and make peanut butter, banana, and cinnamon sugar toast. I read Killing Commendatore as I eat and make sure to drink OJ, too!
9:15 a.m. — Feeling sorry for myself, I do some online shopping. After consulting with N. about a coat, I buy almost $175 worth of neutral-toned winter clothes (two sweaters, two pairs of pants, and one coat) from Uniqlo. I need new winter clothes, and what the hell, I just got paid. $174.50
12:15 p.m. — Eat my leftover mushroom pizza for lunch — yum!
12:53 p.m. — My friend comes over, and we walk several blocks from my house to a nearby coffee shop and bakery that has the best croissants. I buy two butter croissants (one for me and one for N.) and a chamomile mint tea for my scratchy throat. My friend gets a butter croissant and a cold apple cider. It's a really nice day, so we walk back to my house and eat our pastries on my balcony. It's so nice to sit in the sun, and I'm feeling a lot better. $9.07
2:15 p.m. — N. gets back, and all three of us head for a walk in the park. We end up walking for an hour, and it's lovely, barring the fact that I step in dog poop.
4:45 p.m. — We drop my friend off at her house and head to our favorite Jamaican restaurant for, you guessed it, oxtail. It's so much cheaper to pick up than get it delivered like we did earlier this week. My half is $10.30, and we eat at home. We need groceries, so I place an order online for a Peapod delivery ($134.60), including enough Honeycrisp apples to bake an apple pie! I schedule the delivery for two mornings from now. Exhausted, I fall asleep around 7 p.m. $144.90
Daily Total: $328.47
Day Seven
6:20 a.m. — Wake up feeling better, but still stuffy. Decide to lay off the workout I usually do on Monday mornings and take my time getting ready. I make myself breakfast of two slices of peanut butter, banana, and cinnamon sugar toast. (We're out of eggs!) Then I walk to the bus stop and read my book on the bus.
8:26 a.m. — Work, work, work.
10:30 a.m. — Feeling extra hungry, so I heat up a small plate of leftover veggie lo mein from the work fridge and eat it at my desk.
12:30 p.m. — Order a soup and salad on Panera's app and walk with my coworker to go pick it up. She has some interesting girlfriend/friend drama she fills me in on. We eat our food back in the office. $9.69
4:50 p.m. — N. picks me up from work, and we head home. He tells me he got gas this weekend, so I pay him for half of it ($14.83). He's feeling pretty sick, so he wants to rest. I do a kettlebell workout and then cook rib-eye steak, sautéed potatoes, and broccolini for dinner. We eat and hang out. $14.83
10 p.m. — Go to sleep thinking about the concert we're going to in two days. I'm so excited!!
Daily Total: $24.52
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