The Democrats are looking to change a rule banning hats in Congress to accommodate members who wear religious headwear — and Ivanka Trump is conveniently in support.
"Important rule change for Congress to make..." the first daughter and senior White House advisor tweeted early Monday morning.
Democratic lawmakers are arguing that the longtime ban on hats from the House chamber is outdated. This year, Democrat Ilhan Omar from Minnesota became one of the first Muslim-American women ever elected to Congress, along with Michigan's Rashida Tlaib, and the first Somali-American.
Omar, who would also be the first member of Congress to wear a headscarf, co-authored the proposal along with Democratic Leader Nancy Pelosi and incoming Rules Chairman Jim McGovern. Omar was born in Somalia and came to the U.S. as a refugee.
Once again, Ivanka's message smacks of paying lip service to women's empowerment. We can't help but remember that she said nothing when President Donald Trump announced a travel ban on seven Muslim-majority countries — and has not said or done anything about the issue since. Instead, she took this selfie with Jared as the country erupted in protests over the executive order.
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In the grand scheme of skin-care trends, it takes a pretty remarkable ingredient to stay in the limelight for long. Take charcoal, for example: We've already gone through the best products on the market and explained why this is an ingredient that truly deserves a place in your medicine cabinet. But as it turns out, the inky stuff is far from a passing phase. The powerhouse detoxifier is still making its way into new skin-care products — including masks, face wipes, and even toothpaste — every day.
Ahead, we've rounded up the best new products laced with charcoal, plus a few that you might not have heard of before. From a mask that rids skin of oil (without the mess) to a toothbrush that naturally deodorizes, these aren't your average products. Click through our slideshow for 11 reasons to jump on the charcoal bandwagon.
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If you've ever wished there was a reset button for your greasy hair, then pick up this formula, which earned a place as one of our top under-$20 picks for this year's Beauty Innovator Awards. Think of this shampoo like a fancy charcoal-detox drink for your hair (at a way more attractive price): It's packed with charcoal and mint to sop up product buildup from your scalp, and vitamin B5 and antioxidants to put the good stuff back into your hair.
Pantene PRO-V Blends Charcoal Shampoo, $5.99, available at Target
We love a good indie finds and this mask is no exception. The potent combination of Dead Sea mud and rice bran works to suck out impurities, tighten pores, and provide a gentle exfoliation. The formula is highly concentrated, so just a dab will do, even if you want to use it as a spot treatment for a pesky pimple.
Aenon's Exfoliating Face Mask, $20, available at Aenon's
There's a lot to love about this mask: It's free of common skin irritants like SLS (sodium lauryl sulfate), parabens, and silicone, plus it's cruelty-free. But the real allure lies in what it does have: charcoal and mud to absorb oil, salicylic acid to exfoliate, and aloe and chamomile for their soothing properties.
Yes To Tomatoes Detoxifying Charcoal Mud Mask, $15.99, available at Ulta Beauty
These detoxifying cleansing cloths have charcoal powder, black tea, and glycolic acid to clean pores, tone skin, and lightly exfoliate. Use them just like you would a regular face wipe. (And yes, they're pitch-black in color.)
Boscia Black Charcoal Cleansing Cloths, $15, available at Sephora
Why would you want to use charcoal toothpaste, you ask? It naturally kills bad breath and removes stains — in the same way that it pulls impurities from your pores. You can already find charcoal-based toothpastes in most health food-stores, but more and more brands are launching their own formulas. We especially like Carbon6Lab, partly thanks to its minimalist, high-end look.
Carbon6Lab Black Toothpaste, $18.99, available at Carbon6Lab
Not sure you're ready for a mouth full of jet-black toothpaste? Ease in with a charcoal-bristle brush. These work by naturally deodorizing, thanks to bristles that are created with a mix of binchotan charcoal, which is sourced in Japan, and plastic. (Oh, and they're really cute, too.)
Not all charcoal-packed products come in the telltale black color. If you've been avoiding the mess that many masks can create in your bathroom sink, this creamy balm. The mask has charcoal powder to clear pores, plus a mix of sea salt and eggshell powder to buff off dead skin. Plus, it self-heats for a steam-like effect, without the drying typical of at-home steaming.
Tony Moly Egg Pore Blackhead Steam Balm, $14, available at Soko Glam
If you're looking for a gentle way to exfoliate, a konjac sponge laced with charcoal is for you. Made from the root of the konnyaku plant, the natural sponge is gentle enough to use daily — just apply a pump of your cleanser to the sponge and massage it over your face for soft skin without irritation. These don't contain active charcoal, though, so reach for a purifying mask if you want a deeper cleanse.
Julep Konjac Cleansing Sponge, $12, available at Nordstrom
It's no secret that charcoal-based masks can be difficult to remove. If you're looking for a formula that rinses easily, try this one. A mix of activated binchotan charcoal, sulfur, volcanic ash, and alpha-hydroxy acids works to clean pores and exfoliate. The best part is that even after it dries, it washes right off — with no aggressive rubbing (even we were surprised).
Dermalogica Charcoal Rescue Masque, $46, available at Dermalogica
Celebrity makeup artist Carissa Ferreri swears by these pore strips: They work just like the brand's classic version, but are enriched with charcoal to help draw out even more oil.
Biore Deep Cleansing Charcoal Pore Strips, $7.29, available at Walgreens
Masking is fun until your hands are covered in Aztec clay and the process becomes more frustrating than restorative. This clay stick totally eliminates all that mess, which is why it's one of our top picks for this year's Beauty Innovator Awards. Just swipe it on your face, then sit back and let the black charcoal formula vacuum out your pores. When you're done, twist the cap back on and toss it in your carry-on or gym bag so you can mask on the go.
Olay Black Charcoal Clay Face Mask Stick , $9.99, available at Target
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While we'd love to spend sweater season with a closet full of striped knits from Ganni and The Elder Statesman, doling out $500 on one sweater — let alone a whole collection — isn't always realistic. So when the temperature drops and living in a cozy knit is all we can muster up in the lewk department, there's a one-stop-shop that has every sweater you could ever want at a price that won't break the bank. In comes H&M.
Our go-to fast-fashion outlet always brings us not-so-boring workwear and an affordable array of outerwear, but if there's one particular fashion item they do best, it's knitwear. From balloon-sleeved pullovers to bundle-up-in turtlenecks, every sweater you need to ride out the chillier months can be found at your friendly neighborhood H&M. So grab a cup of hot choco and fire up some candles — you've got a night of winter shopping ahead of you.
Check out all the best knits that H&M has to offer this sweater season in the 20 under-$150 options ahead.
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In theory, shopping at CVS is supposed to be quick and easy, which is why it's so frustrating when you run in after work just to pick up a bottle of Advil Liqui-Gels and a box of Kleenex, then end up waiting in the checkout line for 20 minutes because apparently everyone else in the neighborhood is also coming down with a cold at the exact same time.
This winter, the smartest way to get CVS' crazy-good deals without the checkout-line headache is to shop online. And we'd recommend clicking over to CVS.com right now, because there's a sweet flash sale going on in the virtual beauty aisle. Today only, when you buy one full-price beauty or personal-care product — be it a rich night cream or Zicam tablets — you can get a second one for free, plus free shipping, when you use the code DAILYFREE at checkout.
Ahead, we're breaking down exactly how we're stocking up, with the best of the fresh new skin-care products that have just landed on the CVS shelves (both online and in stores). From a refreshing green-tea face mist to exfoliating peel-off face masks, find all the best CVS winter skin-care steals, ahead.
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This green tea-infused face mist will be your new desk staple, coming in clutch when the bone-dry heating system is sucking the moisture straight out of your skin.
Garnier Garnier SkinActive Balancing Facial Mist with Green Tea, $8.99, available at CVS
Cleansing with both gentle micellar water and pore-unclogging charcoal used to require two steps — not anymore, thanks to this all-in-one formula that removes even stubborn waterproof makeup.
Biore Biore Charcoal Cleansing Micellar Water, 10 OZ, $6.99, available at CVS
When your skin is feeling super-dry and tired, sometimes a single-use exfoliating face mask complete with kiwi and alpha-hydroxy acids is all you need to restore it to its bright, healthy glory.
Aveeno Aveeno Positively Radiant MaxGlow Peel Off Face Mask, $2.99, available at CVS
We're borderline obsessed with these mess-free mask sticks, which gently exfoliate and refresh skin without ever getting stuck under your nails.
Olay Fresh Reset Pink Mineral Complex Clay Face Mask Stick, $12.99, available at CVS
K-beauty has officially hit the drugstore, and this shimmery peel-off mask is our favorite find yet. Fans are calling it "a miracle in a jar," and a dupe for GlamGlow's much pricer peel-off formula.
Peach Slices Water Crystal Hydrating Shimmer Peel-Off Mask, $9.99, available at CVS
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Have you ever wondered if your favorite celebrities, influencers, or even your friends bought followers on Instagram? You're about to find out. Instagram announced today that it will be taking a huge step to eliminate inauthentic followers, likes, and comments on its platform.
It's not uncommon for influencers to buy followers or using third-party apps to boost their engagement. Instagram believes this negatively impacts users' experiences. If you see someone follow you or engage with your content, you're likely to check them out and do the same. This reciprocity is how third-party apps boost account popularity. Instagram has made attempts to reduce bot activity in the past. One of the more popular services Instagress was shut down by Instagram last year.
If you've ever received an out of place, emoji-only response to one of your photos or been followed and then unfollowed by someone, there's a chance it was a third-party app attempting to increase engagement for that account. "Recently, we've seen accounts use third-party apps to artificially grow their audience," Instagram said in a statement. "Every day people come to Instagram to have real experiences, including genuine interactions. It is our responsibility to ensure these experiences aren't disrupted by inauthentic activity."
The inauthentic follower and engagement purge begins today. Using machine learning, Instagram aims to identify and remove the fake followers, likes, and comments. Accounts identified as using these services will receive an in-app message alerting them that Instagram has removed any likes, followers, and comments given by their account to others. "These third-party apps often gain likes and follows by inauthentically liking and following other posts and accounts. Therefore, some people who don’t use these apps may also potentially see a change in likes and followers if third-party apps engage with the account," an Instagram spokesperson told Refinery29. "It’s important to note we will start removing inauthentic engagement from Monday afternoon on – past activity will not be affected." So, even if you haven't used a third-party app, you could see your follower count, comments, or likes effected because accounts using third-party services might have engaged with you on Instagram.
Instagram's decision is, in part, influenced by the desire to keep the platform secure. Most third-party apps require that you share your password whether the app is just for analyzing your follower base or for helping you increase engagement. The more places you share your password, the less secure your account is. The less secure each individual account is, the less secure Instagram is as a platform.
"We’ve done work in the past to resolve inauthentic interactions on the platform, but this is the first time we are removing inauthentic activity from real accounts and sending an in-app message to the community," explained the Instagram spokesperson. The platform has rid itself of bot accounts in the past, but this more deliberate effort to affect platform interactions in a big way.
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There are few things we find more thrilling than absolutely on-point home collaborations that take elevated brands to accessible and affordable levels — and we hit the decor mashup motherlode with Jonathan Adler's exclusive collection on Amazon. The iconic designer, author, and potter's new line, Now House, debuted on the mega online shopping destination this past October — but today, we can shop the unique decor creations for an even bigger steal.
With Black Friday only a few days away, Amazon is already offering slashed prices on a selection of Adler's goods — from 20% off furniture to artful decorative accents, all deftly crafted in the designer's playful-modern style. It's time to transform your spaces into a Jonathan Adler dream; filled with velvet bed frames, speckled ceramics, sleek pastel bar carts, and so much more. We've lined up the currently on-sale items in addition to a few of our favorites from the collection ahead — so scroll on to shop the discounted fashionable finds and more before they sell out completely.
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The Good: Wooden Cocktail Table The Deal: 20% Off
Now House by Jonathan Adler Josef Cocktail Table, Blonde Wood, $278.4, available at Amazon
The Good: Velvet Storage Ottoman The Deal: 20% Off
Now House by Jonathan Adler Chroma Upholstered Bench with Storage, Teal, $358.4, available at Amazon
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Now House by Jonathan Adler Otto Pedestal Accent Table, Mint, $158.4, available at Amazon
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Now House by Jonathan Adler Josef Console Table, Blonde Wood, $238.4, available at Amazon
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Now House by Jonathan Adler Elemental Coffee and Cocktail Table, Pink, $158.4, available at Amazon
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Now House by Jonathan Adler Loop Upholstered Storage Ottoman, Cannes Silver, $238.4, available at Amazon
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Now House by Jonathan Adler Josef Bedside Table, Blonde Wood, $238.4, available at Amazon
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Now House by Jonathan Adler Matteo Upholstered Chair Accent, Praline, $182.4, available at Amazon
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Now House by Jonathan Adler Josef Side Table, Blonde Wood, $158.4, available at Amazon
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Welcome toMoney Diaries, where we're tackling what might be the last taboo facing modern working women: money. We're asking millennials how they spend their hard-earned money during a seven-day period — and we're tracking every last dollar.
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Today: an accounting controller working in manufacturing who makes $92,000 per year ($202,000 combined with her husband) and spends some of her money this week on tickets to see A Star Is Born.
Occupation: Accounting Controller Industry: Manufacturing Age: 34 Location: Madison, WI MySalary: $92,000 (with a 5% bonus) My Husband's Salary: $110,000 (with a 15% bonus) My Paycheck Amount (Biweekly): $2,014.54 My Husband's Paycheck Amount (Biweekly): $2,632.50
Monthly Expenses House Costs: $494 (We paid off the mortgage this year so this is only for property taxes and homeowner's insurance.) Student Loan Payment: $0 (Student loans are paid off.) Phones: $109 Car Payment: $0 (Both cars are paid off.) Car Insurance: $350 every six months for both cars Internet & Cable: $153 Utilities: ~$150 Gym Membership: $77 Massage Membership: $60 Cleaning Service: $80 (every four weeks) Health Insurance: $181 (HDHP with an HSA, dental, and vision insurance) Netflix: $12
Annual Expenses Roth IRA: $11,000/year (My husband, R., and I both contribute the maximum of $5,500.) HSA: $6,450/year (The maximum contribution in addition to the $450 contributed by my employer.) 401(k): $37,000/year (R. and I both contribute the maximum of $18,500.) Life Insurance: $384 (term policies for both of us) Amazon Prime: $139
Day One
7:30 a.m. — I roll out of bed and find R. updating Mint in the office. We don't really have a budget, but we still track all of our expenses each month. We're both accountants, and we couldn't stop being number nerds if we tried. While R. finishes the updates, I start a pot of coffee, make green smoothies (avocado, banana, frozen pineapple, spinach, kale, cilantro, and almond milk), and fry some eggs. While we eat, we discuss our finances. We just finished paying off our mortgage, so we need to decide where to put our extra cash flow going forward.
10 a.m. — After breakfast, R. heads to our friend's house to check on her dogs and cats while she's out of town for the weekend, and I make a Target run. I switched to SheaMoisture African black soap in March, and it's time to restock. I love that the soap is so inexpensive, lasts for a long time, and makes my combination skin looks better than ever. I can't go to Target without making a lap through the entire store, so in addition to the soap, I end up with a decorative centerpiece and box of Sudafed. $24.25
11:30 a.m. — I call R. to remind him to stop at the wine store to buy a gift card for my aunt. We stayed with her and her husband last month, and they were wonderful hosts, so we want to send a gift with a thank you card to show our appreciation. I heat up some leftover chili for lunch, throw in a load of laundry, and spend the afternoon reading while R. watches college football. My hold list at the library got out of control, and I have a stack of eight books to work through over the next few weeks. $50
5:30 p.m. — R. and I make a cauliflower crust pizza from Costco for dinner before we go to the UW Badger hockey game with some friends. We thought they were going to cancel because they had a baby early last week, but the plans are still a-go. Our friends (and their new adorable baby) meet at our house, and we drive to the game together. They pay for parking since we drove.
8 p.m. — During an intermission in the game, R. finds a new hat ($30) and I buy a soda in a commemorative cup ($11.50). $41.50
9:45 p.m. — The Badgers won! We head home, say goodbye to our friends, and turn in for the night.
Daily Total: $115.75
Day Two
7:30 a.m. — R. makes pancakes for breakfast. I do most of the cooking during the week, and R. likes to make a special Sunday breakfast to show his appreciation.
10 a.m. — Normally R. and I grocery shop together every Sunday morning, but my sister and four-month old nephew are coming to visit today, so R. is on his own for the grocery shopping. He picks up our weekly staples and a few items we need for meals this week (bananas, spinach, kale, red peppers, cucumbers, tomatoes, lentils, eggs, black beans, canned tomatoes, chickpeas, Brussels sprouts, tea, coffee, frozen vegetables, and canned sparkling water). $51.36
11 a.m. — My sister ran into some issues with her carseat and arrives an hour later than expected. R. and I spend some time playing with our nephew. He's starting to get more interactive and fun. Two days in a row with babies triggers my internal debate about having a baby. R. and I are on the fence about parenthood — I enjoy babies, and R. is great with kids, but we aren't sure if we want to go down that path. The older I get, the more pressure I feel to make a definitive decision, and the more conflicted I feel about it.
12 p.m. — R. heads to the office to catch up on some work. My sister, nephew, and I head to a sushi restaurant for lunch. We share four rolls and split a Sapporo. I'm pleasantly surprised to learn that the restaurant has lunch specials on Sundays. Because my sister drove to visit, I pick up the tab. After lunch, we do some shopping, but I don't buy anything. $39.07
2:30 p.m. — After my sister leaves, I throw in a load of laundry and turn on an episode of the Dr. Death podcast to listen to while I meal prep. I start a batch of lentil burrito bowls in the Instant Pot, make a batch of homemade hummus, and chop up a bunch of veggies (carrots, peppers, and cucumbers) for snacking during the week. After everything is prepped and individually packaged, I feel like I'm playing Tetris trying to fit everything in the fridge.
4 p.m. — I head to the gym for my normal Sunday night Body Pump class. R. heads out on a bike ride.
6 p.m. — R. makes salmon and I roast some Brussels sprouts for dinner. We discuss buying tickets for a concert in March but all the mid-level seats are sold out, so we look at re-sale tickets online and find two. The total price is $307.11 once you factor in the exorbitant processing fees. $307.11
10 p.m. — We watch an episode of Jack Ryan on Amazon and head to bed.
Daily Total: $397.54
Day Three
5:50 a.m. — After my alarm wakes me up, I take a shower and start on breakfast. I start throwing together a green smoothie and realize R. forgot to buy avocados yesterday, so I make the smoothie sans avocado and pour myself a bowl of muesli. R. wakes up as I am finishing my morning routine. I throw a burrito bowl, a sparkling water, and an apple in my reusable lunch bag and turn on an episode of The Daily podcast to listen to on my drive to work.
7:30 a.m. — After I heat up some water for a cup of tea, I start my day by catching up on emails from this weekend. We're in the middle of the 2019 financial planning and budgeting process, so it will be a busy week.
12 p.m. — I reheat the burrito bowl in the break room and bring the food back to my desk. While I'm eating, I surf the internet and catch up on the news. Then I get outside for a quick 10-minute loop around our building. It's a nice way to get some sun and reenergize for the afternoon.
5:45 p.m. — On my way home from work , I stop at the gas station to fill up ($33.65) and at the grocery store to pick up avocados, a head of cauliflower, two bags of pretzels (they're on sale for $1 a bag), and a bottle of red wine ($19.29). $52.94
7 p.m. — R. calls and tells me our friends invited us over to watch the football game at their house. I have a headache, so I skip out, but R. heads over for the game. He stops at the liquor store to buy a six-pack of beer on the way. $7.37
9:30 p.m. — After a dinner of pretzels and veggies with hummus and a glass of wine, I spend the rest of the evening reading and then go to bed early. R. gets home after I fall asleep. He doesn't want to wake me up, so he sleeps in our guest bedroom.
Daily Total: $60.31
Day Four
6 a.m. — While I eat breakfast (smoothie and muesli), I do my daily French and Spanish lessons on the Duolingo app. I took French in high school, so I thought it would be fun to relearn, and the Spanish will be helpful for when I go to Mexico soon. I finish getting ready, pack my lunch, and drive to work.
9 a.m. — I woke up a few times last night, so the caffeine from my morning tea is not cutting it today, and I buy a cup of coffee. $1.04
12 p.m. — Lunch is the same as yesterday, but today's weather isn't great, so I don't go for a walk. My older sister texts me a screenshot of my niece's class photo. She looks adorable.
3:45 p.m. — I meet with my boss to discuss a potential work trip abroad. I usually travel twice a year, but this trip will be longer because we have some new financial regulations and software updates to implement. Work travel is not glamorous, and I'm not looking forward to a full week of it. After the meeting, I book my flight. ($851 expensed)
6 p.m. — I wrap up my work and head home. I planned to return two books to the library on the way home, but I realize I forgot to throw them in the car this morning. I'll have to go tomorrow instead.
6:45 p.m. — I make some harissa marinade and defrost a pack of chicken thighs. I throw the marinating chicken in the fridge while I head to the gym. I missed the class I usually attend on Tuesday nights, so today's workout is a 3.5 mile run on the treadmill.
8 p.m. — R. gets home from work as I am pulling the chicken out of the oven. We catch up on our days over dinner. His work has been stressful lately, and he vents about the recent issues.
10 p.m. — We watch an episode of Frasier on Netflix before bed. We've watched every episode of Frasier multiple times — it is one of my all-time favorite shows.
Daily Total: $1.04
Day Five
5:50 a.m. — Why do I wake up at this ungodly hour? I look at R. snoozing away next to me and wish I had his morning routine. I shake up my smoothie routine and make a chocolate peanut butter smoothie with chocolate protein powder, peanut butter powder, a frozen banana, and almond milk.
7:30 a.m. — I have a morning conference call with my international colleagues that starts at 7:30, so I rush into the office and run directly to the conference room.
12 p.m. — Lunch is leftover harissa chicken and vegetables. I usually plan our meals so that we have enough leftovers for lunch. The fewer times I need to cook during the week, the better! It's sunny today, so I get outside for a lap around the building.
5 p.m. — My boss wants to discuss pay increases for my staff. The company is making some changes, and these conversations can be hard, but I need to be an advocate for my staff.
6 p.m. — I bought some tinted moisturizer at Ulta last week. I've been trying to reduce my makeup usage, and the moisturizer is supposed to replace my regular foundation. But apparently I'm not confident enough to pull off the minimal coverage look, so I return the moisturizer to Ulta and buy my normal foundation. The net cost is $12.16. $12.16
6:40 p.m. — I have my library books today, but not enough time to stop at the library. I rush from Ulta to the gym for my core strength and conditioning class. In the middle of class, I realize my tank top is inside out. I roll over the bottom few inches so the tag is covered and hope that nobody else notices. I've gone to the gym in inside-out clothing more times than I care to admit, so you'd think I would be more observant by now.
7:30 p.m. — I snack on some chopped peppers and carrots while putting together chickpea and cauliflower tikka masala. R. has a late night, so I eat dinner by myself. After I pack up the leftovers, I do some online shopping for two upcoming baby showers. I know eight pregnant women right now, so I'm a baby shower pro at this point. I review the registries (side note – why do so many baby shower registries include lotion?) and order swaddle blankets, a hooded towel, and a book from one mom-to-be's Target registry. The other registry is pretty limited, so I'll pick up a Target gift card before the shower. $52.93
10:30 p.m. — R. gets home as I'm getting ready for bed. He needs some time to decompress, so we watch an episode of Last Week Tonight with John Oliver before heading to bed.
Daily Total: $65.09
Day Six
6:30 a.m. — I'm attending a conference with my coworker today, so I don't need to make breakfast or pack a lunch. I download some Planet Money podcast episodes for the drive. There's nothing like an economics podcast to get me in the right mood for a day of financial reporting and tax updates.
7:45 a.m. — I arrive at the conference and find my coworker. We grab some breakfast (bagels, fruit, and coffee) and take our seats.
11:30 a.m. — We get through the morning sessions and break for lunch. I chose the vegan option (butternut squash ravioli) because I'm lactose intolerant, and I don't want to risk a miserable afternoon if I accidentally eat dairy. After lunch, we walk around the sponsor booths, and I restock my supply of free pens and chip clips (score!).
4:30 p.m. — On my way home, I stop at an open house for a new development in town. R. and I just paid off our mortgage, so we're not looking to buy a new house right now, but a lot of our friends are upgrading to bigger, nicer houses, and it's fun to imagine doing the same. Instead, I remind myself of our financial goals and get some ideas for upgrades we can do to the house we own.
5:30 p.m. — After the open house, I finally make it to the library. Despite having a sizable stack of books to read, I cannot resist the Buzz books section. I find a couple of recommendations from my book club ( The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo and Where the Crawdads Sing). After the library, I head to the gym for a 3.5 mile run on the treadmill.
7:30 p.m. — R. is home from work, and we have leftover chickpea tikka masala and talk about our days. After dinner, he shows me a Kickstarter campaign for a beer brewing machine he's interested in. He invested in a different Kickstarter home brewing machine a few years ago and still hasn't received the product, but he is feeling confident about this new one, so he pulls the trigger ($387). We've spent almost $1,000 between these two machines, so I hope at least one will come through! $387
10 p.m. — We watch the most recent episode of The Good Place and then head to bed.
Daily Total: $387
Day Seven
5:50 a.m. — I turn off the alarm and comfort myself with the fact that today is Friday. It's back to the normal routine with a green smoothie and muesli for breakfast.
10:30 a.m. — It has been a busy morning. I make myself a second cup of tea and snag a donut that someone brought in.
12 p.m. — Lunch is leftover chickpea tikka masala. While I'm eating, I look up movie showtimes. R. and I want to see A Star Is Born, and this is a good chance to check out the new movie theater in town. I text R. to confirm, and book two tickets for the 6:45 showing. $23
2:30 p.m. — I spend the afternoon meeting with some department managers to review budgeted expenses for 2019. The department managers submit a preliminary budget, and I help them make the adjustments so that the overall company budget is reasonable. My company is doing really well right now, but we still need to be fiscally responsible.
5 p.m. — R. and I plan to get dinner before the movie, so I head home early.
6:15 p.m. — R. was delayed at work, so he just gets home now. Fortunately, the theater brews beer onsite and serves food. We head to the theater, order two beers (IPA for R. and Oktoberfest for me) and two burgers, and settle in for the movie. R. is a huge Gaga fan, and the movie does not disappoint. $42.09
10 p.m. — After the movie we head home and go to bed. I'm at the age where my favorite Friday nights include an early bedtime.
Daily Total: $65.09
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Well, Queen Elizabeth II certainly has a lot of opinions on what Meghan Markle should wear now that the Duchess of Sussex has officially joined the matriarch's royal family (and is now expecting a child with Prince Harry). If you thought it was funny Her Royal Highness requires Markle and her sister-in-law Kate Middleton to never wear wedges in her presence, then you won't believe the Queen's thoughts on the former Suits ' star's wedding dress.
According to the Daily Mail, insiders close to the Royal Family say the Queen was surprised Markle chose such "a white wedding dress," considering she's a divorcee. Markle was married to TV producer Trevor Engelson from 2011 to 2013. In 2002, the Queen and the Church of England, which revised its policy on divorce and remarriage as a part of the General Synod in 2002 — meaning Markle was free to wed Prince Harry last May in a Clare Waight Keller of Givenchy custom dress. That's not the only way the new royal is shaking things up.
"Meghan is being told she needs to start dressing less like a Hollywood star and more like a Royal," a source from one of the fashion teams which has visited Kensington Palace told the website on Sunday. Markle has broken royal fashion rules before: when she wore a tuxedo sans tights to a Hamilton performance, and when she didn't wear a hat during a trip to Runcorn, Cheshire, in June with the Queen. Royal protocol stipulates that if the Queen is wearing a hat, then Meghan also needs to be wearing a hat. Both incidents are said to have caused the Queen to raise an eyebrow about her granddaughter-in-law, despite their warm relationship. It wouldn't be the first time the Queen threw someone a little shade.
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Ten percent off on Black Friday? Meh, you can keep it. Because when Ulta Beauty — a retailer already famous for its killer sales — does Black Friday deals, it's the stuff of discount legend. The brand announced today the details of this year's offerings, and true to form, it does not disappoint. It all commences just as we've digested our turkey: online at 5 p.m. central time on Thursday and in-store at 6 p.m. the same day.
Among the brands featured: IT Cosmetics, Anastasia Beverly Hills, Proactiv, Tarte, and more, with many products and gift sets available at just half the price. What's more, for online shoppers who spend $60 or more, the beauty emporium is also throwing in a very giftable laser-cut makeup bag in either gold or silver and filled with nine Ulta Beauty products.
There's a lot to love, but in the interest of sparing our bank accounts and honing in on the biggest deals available, we combed through the sale's offerings and picked the very best. From hair tools that practically never go on sale to a luxurious makeup brush available at 75% off, click ahead to check out all our picks.
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A splash of pink was added to this limited edition packaging just for the holidays. But even better is the mascara's flexible plastic brush that defines baby lashes for a natural look.
Tarte Maneater Mascara, $10, available at Ulta Beauty
This compact of four highlighters — comprised of shades that work on a spectrum of skin tones — has nearly a perfect five-star rating on Ulta Beauty.
Anastasia Beverly Hills Sun Dipped Glow Kit, $24, available at Ulta Beauty
Fourteen Soft Matte Lip Cream and Butter Gloss lip shades, six powder eyeshadows, and four highlighter are hidden in this sweet advent calendar that will have you trying new looks all next year.
NYX Cosmetics Sugar Trip Advent Calendar, $29.99, available at Ulta Beauty
The cutest way to get serious about exfoliation? Tis cleansing brush kit, which comes with ProctivMD Deep Cleansing Face Wash and three separate brush heads (bristle, charcoal, and silicone) for various degrees of deep cleaning.
Proactiv Hello Kitty Brush Kit, $49, available at Ulta Beauty
Our editors love this leave-in spray for parched, over-processed curls. Score the instant hydrator — or any other product by the brand — for half the price during the sale's buy one, get one offer.
Not Your Mother's Royal Honey & Kalahari Desert MelonLeave-In Conditioner, $4.49, available at Ulta Beauty
There's no better time to try the orange eyeshadow craze sweeping Hollywood than now — especially when an all-you-need palette to do the job is half off.
Urban Decay Naked Petite Heat Eyeshadow Palette, $15, available at Ulta Beauty
What do you get when you combine an ergonomic, ultra-smooth handle with densely-packed, micro-fine brush fibers that feel downright silky on the skin? The foundation brush everyone keeps talking about. Grab it this weekend for an unheard of 75% off.
It Cosmetics Velvet Luxe Plush Foundation Brush #304, $10, available at Ulta Beauty
Don't tell anyone, but we'll be carrying one or two of these sets around in our tote this season. Whenever a random coworker, distant cousin, or friend of a friend unexpectedly whips out a gift, we'll counter with this chic (but cheap) collection of neutrals.
Ulta Marshmallow Magic 4 Pc Nail Collection, $2.99, available at Ulta Beauty
Beachwaver Beachwaver Pro 1.25, $159, available at Ulta Beauty
We're convinced multi-masking is one of the best coping mechanisms for long flights and longer family dinners. Grab this variety pack of seven different masks (or anything else by The Body Shop) for 40% off during Ulta's sale.
The Body Shop Multi-Mask Trial Set, $8.4, available at Ulta Beauty
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About an hour ago, the dude in my life left on recon to Malibu. His mission: Try to drive into the seaside canyon where we’ve lived for three years to see whether our neighborhood is still a neighborhood. Like many others in town, we bailed Friday morning when flames from the Woolsey Fire began to peek over the ridge from Mulholland Highway. And like many others, we’ve been waiting to see what’s left of our home and community.
The waiting sucks. It's been a nasty cocktail of regret (why didn’t I grab a bra?), worry, resignation, and dumb hope. But past donating to the LAFD Foundation, it feels like all we can do is wait until those damned Santa Ana winds die down, the fire is contained, and roads officially open again. Today, beauty brands are showing us otherwise. While the fires still burn, three makeup and skin care makers have sprung into action, offering to donate the proceeds of their sales to aid California wildfire relief.
It feels good to see the beauty community rally when it matters most. It feels good to be given something proactive to do. And it feels vital to direct attention away from the headlines that focus on the rescued Ferraris and the hiring of private firefighters. The reality is, there are loads of average, working-class folks who live in the cities where the Woodley and Hill fires have hit. What’s more, these headline-grabbing blazes dwarf in comparison to the Camp Fire in Butte County — now the deadliest and most destructive wildfire in California History, according to The New York Times. In short, there are a lot of people who are going to need a lot of help. So shop the brands ahead, spread the word, or contribute in another way: it's the least and most we can do.
Osea founder Jenefer Palmer is a longtime Malibu resident who lost her home (and former Osea HQ) in the Woodley fire this week. "It was a magical little cottage where our parents were married, we grew up, and where Osea was born — our truest source of inspiration," she shared in an heartbreaking and inspiring Instagram post. "Our Mom has always told us that Osea is taking us on a journey and we are simply meant to follow its path. This hasn’t always made sense, but today it makes more sense than ever; we are certain the path is to now help our community."
In yesterday's post, the brand pledged to give 100% of profits generated from any Osea purchase made through tonight to support other victims of the Woolsey fire.
OSEA Gigartina Therapy Bath, $48, available at OSEA
Today, the purchase of a Beautyblender makeup sponge, foundation, or any other of the brand's products will do a lot more than smooth out the look of your skin. The SoCal-based brand announced today that is will match all proceeds from sales made on its site and donate the cash to The California Community Foundation Wildfire Relief Fund, which helps those who have lost housing or suffered physical or mental health problems as a result of wildfires.
"I live in the West Hills area and I have witnessed firsthand the devastation this has caused to the community," Beautyblender founder Rea Ann Silva told Refinery29 earlier today. "I am so grateful to be safe with my family and I want to help keep other families safe as well."
Beautyblender Beautyblender Sapphire, $20, available at beautyblender
Thrive Causemetics is already set up to give product donations and financial support to organizations that support women and their families, animal welfare, and environmental stewardship. But on November 14, the brand will expand its mission by donate all profits from the day's sales to organizations supporting those affected by California wildfires, including the American Red Cross, Baby2Baby , the Human Society of Ventura County, and the Los Angeles Fire Department Foundation.
Don't need a re-up on the brand's bestselling mascara? Share this Instagram post anytime before November 27, 2018 and tag #ThriveCausemetics to kickstart a $5 donation from the company to wildfire relief partners.
Thrive Causemetics Liquid Lash Extensions Mascara, $24, available at Thrive Causemetics
To help those affected by the deadly California wildfires, Oakland-based E.l.f. Cosmetics will donate 10% of profits from its own e-commerce sales to the American Red Cross. At press time, the brand confirmed that sales have already raised more than $10,000 for the effort. To help boost that figure, shop the site through November 20 at 11:59 p.m. PT.
e.l.f. Cosmetics Need It Nude Eyeshadow Palette, $10, available at e.l.f. Cosmetics
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'Tis the season for toggling between the internet's best pie recipes and Black Friday deals on your favorite device, so we weren't exactly surprised when Google reported electronics among the most searched products online this month. But among it is a more puzzling one: Dr. Brandt Do Not Age (DNA) With Dr. Brandt Time Reversing Cream, a $132 moisturizer that saw a 1000% surge in search as of late with those in D.C., New York, California, New Jersey, and Minnesota driving the spike. We’ve already raved about the brand’s Do Not Age Neck Cream from the line, but of all the covetable beauty products on the market, why was this cream (launched in 2013, no less) one of the hottest products on the internet all of a sudden? We got our hands on a jar to find out.
Like its sudden spike in online popularity, this cream itself is full of surprises. To start, the scent is derived from essential oils (not perfume-y fragrances found in many other pricey moisturizers), with a botanically true lavender that aligns more with the “clean” beauty products on our shelf.
Then, another unexpected twist discovered upon application: though its texture feels mega-rich — almost like an overnight mask — the formula melted into our combination skin like a lightweight serum might. That is, it left no greasy residue and no extra effort was required to work it into the skin. Somehow, the cream didn’t prove too robust for our never-not-oily T-zone (perhaps due to the light exfoliating properties of glycolic acid inside?). Instead, we noticed a boost in hydration and bounce immediately after applying thanks to ingredients like ceramides, triglycerides, shea butter, and macadamia seed oil.
But a day cream’s worth isn’t proven on its ability to hydrate and plump the skin alone. For our money, it must allow an additional sunscreen to easily soak into skin and for makeup to be applied without piling or flaking throughout the day. This one passed both tests without a hiccup.
One of DNA’s big calling cards is a proprietary, algae-derived complex, which is thought to hinder the natural production of skin cell proteins associated with aging skin. Is this moisturizer actually working to reduce fine lines that appear when we smile? Hard to say. But for now, as our suddenly softer, happier skin faces the dead of winter, we certainly see what the hype is about.
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In Refinery29's Sweet Digs, we take a look inside the sometimes small, sometimes spacious homes of millennial women. Today, in partnership with Venmo, freelance creative Bianca Valle shows off her one-bedroom apartment located in New York City's Chinatown.
It's no secret that size is a prevailing issue for most New York City apartments. But for freelance creative Bianca Valle, that’s one thing she doesn’t have to worry about. The New Yorker lives in a one-bedroom unit in the heart of Chinatown, paying only $1,500 for a space that has no trouble housing all her modern, artisanal decor. Above, check out her Sweet Digs and all their personality, from the original ceramic pots in her surprisingly large Manhattan kitchen to the only chair in her entire apartment, which she snagged by splitting the cost with her mom through the Venmo card and the Venmo app. Meanwhile, we’ll be over here pretending we don’t live in a shoebox.
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Ever woken up horrified after an intense sex dream involving someone you hate in real life? Me too. Which is why I asked Refinery29 readers to send me the sex dreams that still keep them up at night — so I could speak to a dream interpreter and find out what's really going on.
Before we get into the dreams themselves, it’s worth mentioning that there’s still a lot we don’t know about dreams. In one camp, we have experts claiming that they are nothing more than images randomly spat out at you for eight hours; that REM, the stage of sleep where you’re most likely to dream, runs off the ebb and flow of neurotransmitters, and that dreams are just the brain’s way of dealing with these random firings. And in the other camp, we have folks such as the interpreter I spoke to for this piece, Hilda Burke, a therapist and life coach in the U.K., who see them as operating one level below our consciousness.
“During our waking hours, we have the 'id' which says, ‘I want’, ‘I’m hungry’, ‘I want sex’, ‘I want comfort’, ‘I want warmth’ — it’s an animal drive,” Burke explains. "Then the 'ego' is what we think of ourselves: ‘I'm funny’, ‘I have a dark sense of humor’. And our 'superego' is the part of us that says ‘I should’ — such as ‘I should work hard’ or ‘I shouldn’t have dreams about having sex with that person.’ When we are asleep, it’s just the subconscious, it’s the bit that’s under all that and the id can be there: the desires and wants. It tends to be the level below.”
Burke still believes that some dreams are meaningless images being sorted out by your brain, and that figuring out whether or not your dreams are trying to tell you something is very much dependent on context. Same with sex dreams — if you’re dreaming about sex with your ex, that doesn’t necessarily mean you want to bone them in real life. But if you’re dreaming about sex with your ex and waking up with an urge to go back out with them or masturbate over them, then it’s clear what your brain is trying to tell you.
“Having sex [in a dream] can mean many things,” Burke tells me. “It can be an energy exchange whereby you want a quality that that person has. And it depends how you feel about sex; some people see it as pure pleasure, or wanting to feel desired. For others it can mean security and stability. Or it can mean love. There are so many reasons for people having sex, and it’s the same in dreams. That will all play out. The mind will throw metaphors up, and those metaphors are usually in their crudest form which, often, involves sex.”
Ahead, see Burke's take on the dreams of four R29 readers — plus one of my own.
“I always have sexdreams with people who, when I wake up, I’m like, 'Whaaaaat? I don’t [like] any of them!' But I feel real weird seeing them the next day because what if this is my brain saying I [like] them? I have a boyfriend!”
Whether it’s your boss, a colleague, that weirdo at the bus stop or — gasp — someone who is not your very nice boyfriend, waking up to find you’ve boned someone you don’t want to bone is alarming. Even if it’s just a dream.
“If that person was my client, I’d be interested in what the person they’re dreaming about represents to them,” says Burke. “If, say, it’s a boss who is a very confident person, who stands up for themselves and gets their point across, and you’re having sex with that boss, there could be an element of something you want about that person. You want an aspect of their personality.”
What a relief: You're not hot for your boss, after all. What’s more, you can examine how you feel when you wake up to figure out if this is a meaningful dream or just an example of your brain sorting through random images.
“If you’re obsessed by it in the waking hours, either disgusted or excited, then it’s awakening something,” says Burke. “But if it’s a case of ‘shove it off and have a laugh about it’ then it’s probably not that. The energy of what you wake up with, the feelings and emotions, are quite telling as well as to whether it has a deeper meaning.”
“ If you tell anyone who I am I will murder you, but I occasionally dream that I’m having sex and that person BECOMES MY PARENTS. I am scared of what this means.”
This really skeeves people out and deserves a category of its own, because dreaming you are having sex with your parents is, socially, a whole other kind of wrong.
“It’s interesting when it’s taboo like this. Dreams are separate from our superego, the part of your brain that says you shouldn’t do or think certain things,” explains Burke. “When we sleep, we don’t have those boundaries, so it can be interesting what emerges. Something like this is a powerful image, and the psyche will be serving this powerful metaphor up for a reason. It’s perhaps trying to draw attention to something to do with your parents, not sexual, but certainly something. Are your parents active parents? Are you dreaming about an estranged parent? Do you want to be closer to your parents, and your mind is just boiling that down to its crudest form?”
Uncomfortable to think about, yes. Burke also suggests that perhaps something is being suppressed in order to keep the relationship operating smoothly. Again, it’s not necessarily sex-based!
“Have a look at the dream as a whole, too, for clues. When did you have this dream, what was going on that day? The day before? Sometimes when you do that, you’ll realize, ‘Actually it was Saturday, and I had lunch with my mom!’ so there’s nothing unusual there, that’s why she popped up!”
“ Sometimes I dream that I’ve witnessed a sexual assault and I don’t do anything about it. It’s horrible.”
“The worst dream I ever had was when I had sex with someone against their will. I can’t remember who it was — the face kept changing — but I woke up feeling really ashamed."
As with the previous examples, dreaming about sexual assault or violence doesn’t mean you want to experience it. Or that if you saw someone being raped, you wouldn’t do anything to help.
“Witnessing sexual violence and not doing anything sounds like a standard anxiety dream,” says Burke. “You want to stop a disaster from happening, but you’re immobile. Sort of like when you try to run away from someone but you can’t in the dream. It’s less a sexual dream and more an anxiety dream.”
Being a sexual aggressor in a dream sounds awful, but again, it doesn't mean that's something you'd do in real life. It’s probably more about control, Burke says.
“Being an aggressor depends… it could be a power game, about feeling like you’re in control,” Burke explains. “Do you feel like you don’t have a voice at work? Are you being trodden down in any area of your life? A dream like that would make sense as a balancing dream, as in dream fantasies, people often turn the tables. It’s a crude image of taking control as, in real life, you don’t want to do that! It can challenge us, we can feel bad, we don’t see ourselves as being sexual aggressors, but, in the dream world, metaphors are crude. In the real world you may just want to start being a 'yes person', and start speaking up more. That dream is saying, 'Look, you can do it! You can take control!' Despite the disturbing nature of the image.”
This explanation may also apply if the situation is reversed — that is, if you’re dreaming about being sexually assaulted (without having experienced anything of the kind in the past). Feeling out of control or like you’re being taken advantage of in real life could manifest itself as a dream whereby you're subjected to some sort of sexual violence.
“ I sometimes dream that I want to masturbate but I literally can’t find anything to help me, and I wake up incredibly frustrated.”
Just thinking about this makes me feel frustrated — but it’s pretty common. Whether you finish, don’t finish, or sort of half get there, this one is largely dependent on how you feel about masturbation generally.
“It goes back to our waking life,” Burke says. “Some people feel like they shouldn’t be sexual, that sex is dirty and masturbation isn’t something they should do. If, in a dream, you can get sexual satisfaction, and you can’t orgasm in the day, this shows there isn’t a problem physically, and that it’s the person having a problem with their own sexuality that stops them having sexual pleasure.
“If the dream is troubling a person, I’d be interested in their waking attitude towards masturbation versus sex with another person. What’s going on with them could also have been passed down to them; they might not have any obvious issues, but were told growing up that [masturbation] was bad or evil. That can sometimes be there. You think you’ve got one attitude, but there’s something older that you can’t see, that may still be lingering!”
"Last night I had a dream about shagging a fox, what does this mean?"
Okay, now me. I couldn't resist asking Burke why I had sex with a fox in a dream back in 2014 (June, to be precise; I know this because my diary entry opened with, 'Last night I dreamt I fucked a fox, what's wrong with me'). Bearing in mind I don’t have a thing for animals.
“It could be that you always thought the creature was elegant and calm and you love that particular species,” she says, somewhat kindly. “You’ve taboo-ified something, because it has an important meaning for you. Don’t worry about it! You’re not going to have sex with an animal. So I’d step back and look at the animal: What does it mean to you? Did you have a pet once that was taken away from you and it signified the end of your childhood, and you found the transition really difficult? Having sex with that animal just means you want to go back to that time.”
I’ve never had a pet fox. I did really enjoy The Animals of Farthing Wood, though, and I do look back on ages 4 through to 10 as my golden years.
Burke adds: “Having sex with an animal in a dream might make you a bit concerned, when actually you just want to get as close as you possibly can to a time, or a place, so your brain sorts that out as sex. Your dream presents it, again, in a crude and attention-grabbing way, so it’s done its job!”
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The trick to gifting a music fanatic is giving them something that enhances their music experience, because trying to get them music they'll like is incredibly difficult. Luckily, it takes a lot of stuff to have an amazing experience listening to music. Ahead we have suggestions to make listening to and loving music better for any and all music lovers in your life. But especially the hard to shop for ones!
A true music completest likes to have everything, so the deep music nerd in your life should love this box set of every recording released by Stax, the iconic Memphis label, in the pivotal year of 1968. That's 120 songs and a 56-page accompanying book that includes some of the most seminal songs in the history of music, from Otis Redding's "(Sittin' On) The Dock of the Bay" to The Staple Singers' "The Ghetto" to Isaac Hayes' "Precious Precious."
Amazon Stax '68: A Memphis Story, $49.01, available at Amazon
What's the point of knowing a lot about music if you can't show off all your knowledge? For the music nerd who has everything and knows everything, this card game will either delight them or teach them how much they still have to learn. Either way, it's a rocking way to spend a night.
Uncommon Goods Music IQ Party Game, $20, available at Uncommon Goods
Some people need to take their music with them everywhere. For those music fans, get the Wonderboom. It's waterproof and it floats, so it can go in the shower, a muddy field at a music festival, or around the pool with ease.
Ultimate Ears Ultimate Ears Wonderboom Speaker, $360, available at Ultimate Ears
Everything old is new again, including the classic Victrola record player. For the love of all things retro, this gorgeous design is a great centerpiece (and player) for their record collection. The coolest part? These Victrola brand players are made by Innovative Technologies, one of the cutting edge tech companies in record players. So this bad boy comes with all the bells and whistles you want in 2018 with a hardcore 1918 look.
Victrola Victrola 6-in-1 Wood Bluetooth Record Player, $149.99, available at Victrola
Own your very own glimpse into the history of music with a print from the Rock Archives. All the prints are authentic, and their gift shop offers framed selections of all sorts of photos from their collections.
Rock Archive Framed Print: Bob Dylan by Don Hunstein, $150, available at Rock Archive
If the music lover in your life likes to wake up with music but thinks the the audio and design of the classic alarm clock is horrid, get them this retro-style alarm that comes with a USB port built in. Not only can they pick their own music, they can wake up to it, too.
L.L. Bean Moonbeam Alarm Clock with USB Port, $44.95, available at L.L. Bean
For the music lover who already has enough: make a donation in their name to MusiCares, the charity run by the Recording Academy (er, the Grammys). The fund covers a wide range of financial, medical, and personal emergencies for musicians as needed and runs public service campaigns to improve the health and welfare of the music community.
Everyone knows synths should not be purchased, but built with your own two hands. For the music lover who enjoys a mental puzzle, get them this cute little set that will allow them to build three different synths. All they need to make them work are batteries and wi-fi. When they finish, they'll have serious DIY cred. And some new synths!
Uncommon Goods DIY Synth Kit, $40, available at Uncommon Goods
For a music lover, the $10 headphones at the drug store will not do. Heck, even the earbuds that come with your iPhone aren't the best quality. No, a music fanatic will want to upgrade, and Bose has made a gorgeous pair of earbuds so they can take crystal-clear music with them on a walk, on the subway, or wherever they go.
Bose Bose SoundTrue Ultra In-Ear Headphones , $94.95, available at Amazon
Already got a turntable to play those vinyl LPs on? Then you need a vinyl stabilizer. It will help smooth out the creaks and wobbles in older vinyl to deliver an even more warm, perfect sound.
Sou'Laes Audio Vinyl Stabilizer , $74.95, available at Amazon
Wrensilva's stunning limited edition Black Tiger stereo console is something for the music lover who wants what everyone else hasn't got. It's a pricey splurge, but there are also only 100 of them being made. This ebony colored cabinet made from American Oak is so not something everyone will have.
Wrensilva Black Tiger LTD Edition Stereo Console, $3599, available at Wrensilva
The Boss, Bruce Springsteen, collaborated with the Hard Rock Cafe to create a limited edition line with proceeds going to the charity WhyHunger’s work to invest in grassroots solutions to hunger and poverty worldwide. Do something good and give this tee. Or, if that's not his style, Springsteen created a hat and a pin as well.
Hard Rock Cafe Mens Bruce Springsteen Sig Series 36 Tee, $29.5, available at Hard Rock Cafe
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I see London, I see France, I see a damn good deal on underpants. Black Friday is quickly approaching and it never fails to live up to the hype. With tons of amazing deals and discounts, most of which you can now shop directly from your phone, it's the most wonderful time of the year to stock up. But where others may be making more frivolous purchases, think about how good you’ll feel if you walk away with the most underrated Cyber Week purchase of all — new underwear.
From briefs to bikinis, there are tons of styles expected to be available for discounted prices come the shopping holiday. Plan to give your underwear drawer a total refresh or pick up a few sets for your friends or siblings as stocking stuffers. Ahead you’ll find some of the best undies deals happening this weekend from sultry, lace styles to period-friendly picks that you won't want to miss out on.
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Palm reading is often dismissed as a parlor trick or a fortune-teller's cash cow. But palmistry, to use the practice's official term, is actually a very old form of divination. More personal than tarot reading or rune casting, and more variable than one's birth chart, a thorough palm reading can reveal what you've possessed within you since birth and what may lie ahead for you.
Like any esoteric practice, palmistry has many different forms and can be very complicated — more so than your average reading might let on. A longer, more in-depth palm reading might address finger proportions and lengths, which can tell the reader about specific facets of your personality, and the mounts of the hand, which are an entire subsection of palmistry on their own.
For our purposes today, we're sticking to the basics, which means the palm's major and minor lines. If even that feels daunting, don't worry — Christine Lenihan, who practices palmistry in Salem, MA, tells Refinery29 that anybody can learn to read the lines in your friends' hands, but you'll have to rely more on your intuition the deeper you get into palmistry. As palm reader and psychic Fahrusha tells Refinery29, "It helps to be psychic."
Whether your psychic abilities are strong or could use some honing, click through for a beginner's guide to reading palms.
The Life Line
As the first of the three major lines, your life line is a big deal. It indicates your health and the path your life will take. But, contrary to popular belief, it does not dictate when you'll die.
Fahrusha even says that she won't mention it if she notices that a client has an especially short life line, since that will only distract them from her actual interpretation of the line. "Most people are not prepared to hear that," she says. Fahrusha adds that, although the life line doesn't move around the palm, it can grow longer or change its shape, depending on how you change your approach to health.
What to look for: This line's depth determines the ease with which you'll go through life: Upward branches in the line mean positive changes or recovery, while downward ones might suggest negative changes to come. A complete break in the line could mean an accident or a sudden, massive change.
Illustrated by Abbie Winters.
The Head Line
This is yet another major line, and it's actually considered the most important line within Chinese palmistry. Simply put, your head line (also known as your wisdom line) represents all things mental – your intelligence, intuition, the strength of your will, and Lenihan says it can even show how you receive and react to information.
There are a few general features to note before you get into the nitty gritty of this line. Waves imply creativity, while a single curve indicates idealism and curiosity. A completely straight line may suggest meticulousness and practicality — but it could also reveal a materialistic streak.
What to look for: The head line's length indicates how you approach decisions and actions (longer lines will be more methodical thinkers while shorter lines probably belong to more impulsive thinkers). A deeper line means you have a great memory, while a faint line means you might struggle to focus. Breaks could mean forthcoming mental strife.
Illustrated by Abbie Winters.
The Heart Line
Also known as the love line, the heart line is the last of the major lines in palmistry. Many believe this line only predicts your romantic love life, but Lenihan says that it can actually reveal how you deal with your emotions and how you approach all matters of the heart, whether with a significant other, friend, or family member.
This line can start below your index finger or middle finger — and yes, this placement matters. A heart line that starts under the index finger foretells of a satisfying (but selective) approach to love, while one that starts beneath the middle finger might mean you're selfish or even insatiable when it comes to love and affection.
What to look for: A deeper line implies you invest a lot of time, meaning, and thought into your loving relationships, while a faint line means you're more aloof or uninterested in love. Forks reveal your ability to balance emotions and logic; a strong curve means you're comfortable expressing your feelings; and — this one's important — breaks do not indicate break-ups, but rather, emotional issues within yourself.
Illustrated by Abbie Winters.
The Relationship Line
Much like your heart line, this line (or, depending on the hand, lines) should not be read exclusively for romantic relationships. In general, this line reflects how you handle commitment — not how many committed relationships you'll have.
Farhusha says that certain systems of palmistry refer to this line as the "soulmate line" or "marriage line," but those descriptions lead to deterministic interpretations, which, as we've said before, aren't very dependable. "A person can get another soulmate line on the side of their hand sometimes if they change certain things about themselves," she says. A line in your palm can give you hints about your future relationships, but it's certainly not the final word.
What to look for: A deeper, longer line indicates that you enjoy long-term commitments; a fainter or shorter line means you may experience your share of on-again, off-again relationships.
Illustrated by Abbie Winters.
The Fate Line
This line is a little tricky — some believe it never changes (and thus, call it the "destiny line"), while others, Fahrusha included, will tell you that it can very easily change throughout your life. Either way, it represents what may influence your path in life, from your career to your personal choices to your ancestry.
Lenihan says to watch out for sensations in this area of the palm: "Right before you change your job, or you're thinking about changing your job, the middle of your hand is going to get pretty itchy," right around your fate line. Keep an eye out for the urge to scratch.
What to look for: Breaks will indicate bad luck or major losses; a double line may indicate a particularly successful career.
Illustrated by Abbie Winters.
The Health Line
Although you should watch your life line for your overall health, the health line can indicate what you're like as a healer.
You're more likely to have a visible health line if you're supportive or a natural caretaker — people in healing or service professions will probably have a clearer line, too.
What to look for: Breaks can mean an ill loved one or an illness in yourself; a frayed line represents an illness come and gone.
Illustrated by Abbie Winters.
The Simian Line
Lenihan says that this line occurs when "the love line and the head line actually connect." In other words, it's pretty rare, which makes sense, given its significance.
People with Simian lines have a hard time separating their emotions from their actions or decisions. Lenihan says that the presence of a Simian line could suggest a controlling personality, particularly in relationships.
What to look for: If this line appears on both hands, Simian qualities may be more pronounced.
Illustrated by Abbie Winters.
The Bracelet Lines
These lines (which, yes, technically do not appear on the palm) reveal the balance between your physical, mental, and spiritual self. Most people have three bracelet lines, though some may have four (a fourth line means you may have a very long life).
Lenihan said she pays closer attention to the bracelet lines in women, as the first line can sometimes indicate the state of your gynecological health. If she notices a break, gap, or branch in the line, then "they really should be going to the doctor."
What to look for: Solid, deep lines suggest a prosperous and healthy life ahead; missing lines (fewer than three) could indicate poor health or grave circumstances approaching.
Illustrated by Abbie Winters.
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Four hours into an Intro to Drag Makeup class held in the basement of the Kryolan makeup store in Greenwich Village, 22-year-old Connor Martin reached his breaking point.
He had been instructed to use a product called Pros-Aide, a sticky substance professional drag queens use to glue down their eyebrow hair so they can paint a more exaggerated brow on top, but it kept clumping. "I have oatmeal where my eyebrows were," Martin said, miserably. The class's teacher, professional makeup artist Derek Medina, offered encouragement: "As long as it looks good at a distance in the dark, then you're good."
"I'm going to have a meltdown," Martin announced to the room. "Has anyone ever cried here?"
While regular attendees of this particular class vary, on a Tuesday in early October, the group was comprised of eight people: two professional makeup artists, one actor looking to understand drag makeup for a role, and five drag fanatics who have had minimal to no experience with drag themselves.
Medina demonstrates drag contouring techniques to the class.Photographed by Amanda PicotteDigna, the model for Kryolan's class, shows off her finished drag makeup.Photographed by Amanda Picotte
This level of interest, especially from people who aren't professional drag queens themselves, didn't exist 10 years ago. "I’ve been doing [makeup] for almost 20 years, and the first thing that most women used to tell me when they sat in my chair was, 'I don’t want to look like a drag queen,'" Medina says. "They don’t say that now. Now they’re saying, 'Yes I want to be highlighted, contoured. Bake me. I want two and three pairs of lashes.'"
Thanks to the ever-broadening popularity of RuPaul's Drag Race, drag queens and the makeup they typically wear has hit a pivotal moment. Things like contouring and highlighting, which are essential to the drag aesthetic, are now a part of the mainstream. These days, as Medina implied, one pair of lashes just isn't enough, and many of his clients favor an intentionally dramatic overall transformation of the face.
That's largely why Tomomi Sano and Ana Carolina Betti, both professional makeup artists with no drag queen clients as of yet, signed up for the course. They've seen the intrigue around this kind of makeup on platforms like Instagram and YouTube, and know that having "drag makeup" as a skill could get them more clients.
But the goal for many other attendees of this class was far more personal. As Medina announced when the day began, this is where so-called "baby drag queens," some of whom are so amateur that they haven't even landed on a drag name, learn how to be taken seriously. That's exactly what Mo Ismail, a 25-year-old CVS pharmacy tech who's gone out a handful of times as Shawna Dontelle, was after. "I’ve never had someone teach me," Ismail says. "All I saw was what was on RuPaul's Drag Race and YouTube tutorials. With performing, I’m a perfectionist: I want to make the crowd roar. And to be great, I have to get this makeup down."
For 28-year-old Manhattan-based attorney David Bethea, this class represented a milestone. A longtime lover of drag ever since he came out at 22, he's frequented drag nights at bars and binge-watched every season of Drag Race with his husband. Four years ago, he promised himself that for his 30th birthday he'd have a huge drag bash, which he'd attend in full drag himself. "I plan on looking fierce, but I just have to figure out what that means," Bethea says. "My friends and even husband say that I don’t have a face for drag, but I was like, Well, maybe it’ll be possible that they paint me pretty."
The seven-hour class was cut up into sections. For the first hour and a half, Medina completed a start-to-finish drag look on the model, a drag queen named Digna. Even as a professional, it took 30 minutes for Medina to mask one of Digna's eyebrows. It took another 30 minutes to contour half her face. With each new product and technique, the students would quickly scribble down tips in their notebooks (Bethea filled up more than four pages in the first hour), and got up out of their chairs to capture pictures with their phones.
Tomomi Sano takes a picture of the model, Digna, to refer to as she recreated the look.Photographed by Amanda Picotte.
After Medina put the finishing touches on one half of Digna's face, leaving her with candy-red lips and four pairs of lashes, he announced that it was time for the students to recreate the look on themselves at the Old Hollywood-style vanities at each of their stations.
While Bethea admitted that he had never put makeup on himself before, people like Jackie Ivers, 24, and Nicholas Lord, 25, were more experienced. The couple, who married this summer, had first done drag together last year at Drag Con in New York City, and both had landed on names: Jackie O'Nasty and Sally Holes, a naughty nod to Sally Bowles from Cabaret.
"Drag makeup is so elaborate and so difficult and so hard to start doing," Lord said before putting on makeup himself. "I don’t want anything too elaborate. Right now, I could go into a club and not feel like a total amateur, but I want people to take me seriously as a queen rather than a boy playing with makeup."
The eight students attempted to follow Medina's sequence, starting with brows, moving onto contour and powder, blending, and then having a bit of fun with eyeshadow and lipstick if time allowed.
Trey Gerrald, an actor in NYC, signed up for the class to prepare for a role.Photographed by Amanda PicotteTomomi Sano, a NYC makeup artist, enrolled in the course to expand her skill set.Photographed by Amanda Picotte
Trey Gerrald, a 32-year-old actor, immediately found that his background in theater gave him an edge. This month, he starts rehearsals for the play With Bells On, in which he plays a drag queen named Natasha, and so he attended the class in an effort to figure out how, exactly, Natasha should look. "In the play, Natasha is on her way to a Christmas pageant, so she’s on a budget and she wants to be very glamorous," Gerrald said, while brushing his blush way, way up on his cheekbones. "I've done makeup tests for the stage, but never anything like this."
Regardless of experience, there were mishaps around the room. Bethea attempted to blend his contour with a tissue. Ismail painted his face entirely the wrong shade. Gerrald drew his brows far too high. Martin found he was allergic to something in the makeup, so tears continuously rolled down his face.
Nevertheless, Medina did his best to flutter around the room, going from person to person to address their specific concerns and insecurities. "Drag makeup is an extension of your personality," he assured them. "You wear as much or as little of it as you see fit."
David Bethea trying to draw on the perfect brow Photographed by Amanda PicotteConnor Martin putting the final touches on his lookPhotographed by Amanda Picotte
Six hours in, and that affirmation was taken to heart by the students, who finally stopped trying to copy Medina's "perfect" drag makeup, and instead moved on to creating something they loved. Maybe their brows were too high, and maybe their lips were too bright, but each of them landed on a look that felt true to them — whether that was a 1930s jazz singer or a brash redhead. And really, that's what drag is all about.
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We love Barbra Streisand. What's not to love, really? Just like our voice assistant, she can seemingly do it all. She's a prodigious singer (ICYMI, her latest album Walls is out now), multi-award-winning actress, composer, author, political activist, and filmmaker. That's right: In case you forgot, she's racked up quite an impressive list of credits as a director and producer in Hollywood — but her success hasn't come without a fight.
In the latest episode of El Rey Network 's The Director's Chair — a series of specials featuring some of the industry's most prolific directors — filmmaker (and the network's founder) Robert Rodriguez sits down with the icon herself to discuss her nearly-35-year career behind the camera. They got to talking about why Streisand fell in love with movies in the first place, what it was really like in the '80s being one of the only women in the very male-dominated directing space (spoiler alert: it took a hell of a lot of perseverance), and her hopes for the future of film. To hear all about her journey, press play just above.
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The wait is finally over - America's favorite unofficial holiday has finally landed. The Friday after Thanksgiving never fails to see thousands of people in their Turkey induced comas lining outside of store fronts at 5 a.m., fingers furiously typing in credit card numbers, and bank accounts slowly depleting as retailers announce their mega mark-ups for the national sale day. Seasoned sale shoppers can expect this year to be no different.
If there's one thing we've learned over the years, it's that Black Friday sales never really wait until Black Friday. Itching to get a good discountbefore you consume mass amounts of stuffing? Nordstrom, Amazon, and Target are here to help you out with that.
Good things come to those who wait, however. Even if you don't have to wait as long as November 23. Ahead, we're putting together an ever evolving list of the best Black Friday sales (and the best Cyber Monday sales) to study, bookmark, and shop.
So enough chit-chat, we know you just came here to barrel through a list of discounts. Without further ado, our annual A to Z guide to Black Friday's best fashion sales.
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& Other Stories Dates: 11/23 - 11/24 Sale: 20% off everything Promo Code: None
& Other Stories Double Breasted Velvet Blazer, $129, available at & Other Stories
& Other Stories High Waisted Velvet Pants, $99, available at & Other Stories
11 Honoré Dates: 11/23 - 1/3 Sale: VIP early access to exclusive designer styles available for up to 70% off retail price Promo Code: Sign up for VIP access on 11honore.com to receive exclusive link to shop
Dates: 11/26 - 1/3 Sale: General public access to exclusive designer styles available for up to 70% off retail price Promo Code: None
Brandon Maxwell Ribbed Double Lapel Jacket, $1097.5, available at 11 Honore
Brandon Maxwell Wide Leg Pants, $497.5, available at 11 HonorePhoto Courtesy of 11 Honoré.
3x1 Dates: 11/23 - 11/25 Sale: Take an additional 20% off sale items; 50% off spring, summer, and pre-fall styles Promo Code: BFSALE
3x1 W4 Adeline Split Flare Leia, $137.5, available at 3x1Photo Courtesy of 3x1.
Alala Dates: 11/21 Sale: 30% off site-wide; 40% off $500+, 50% off $1000+ Promo Code: BLACKOUT18
Alala Stance Hoodie, $145, available at AlalaPhoto Courtesy of Alala.
Alternative Apparel Dates: 11/22 - 11/25 Sale: 30% off site-wide Promo Code: THANKS30
Alternative Apparel Champ Eco-Teddy Sweatshirt, $58, available at Alternative ApparelPhoto Courtesy of Alternative Apparel.
Anine Bing Dates: 11/17 - 11/22; 11/23 - 11/26 Sale: Up to 70% off; Up to 70% off sale + classic styles added Promo Code: None
Anine Bing Rosemary Silk Slip, $499, available at Anine BingPhoto Courtesy of Anine Bing.
Freya Mini Poppy Round Leather Bag, $650, available at FreyaPhoto Courtesy of Freya.
Genuine People Dates: 11/19 - 11/26 Sale: 30% off site-wide Promo Code: TAKE30
Genuine People Belted Wool Wrap Coat, $395, available at Genuine PeoplePhoto Courtesy of Genuine People.
Gola Dates: 11/23 - 11/27 Sale: 20% off site-wide Promo Code: None
Gola Coaster Satin Neon, $65, available at GolaPhoto Courtesy of Gola.
Gorjana Dates: 11/22 - 11/24 Sale: Spend $100 get $20 off; spend $150 get $50 off; spend $250 get $100 off Promo Code: None
Gorjana Compass Coin Necklace, $15, available at GorjanaPhoto Courtesy of Gorjana.
Hat Attack Dates: 11/21 - 11/28 Sale: 20% off site-wide; Excluding Made in the USA styles Promo Code: None
Hat Attack Wicker Small Basket, $104, available at Hat AttackPhoto Courtesy of Hat Attack.
Herschel Supply Dates: 11/23 Sale: $10 off orders of $70+; $30 off orders of $120+; $50 off orders of $160+ Promo Code: None
Herschel Supply Co. Sherpa Vest, $129.99, available at Herschel Supply CoPhoto Courtesy of Herschel.
Jeu Illimite Dates: 11/22 - 11/26 (9p.m. EST) Sale: 40% off site-wide Promo Code: BFCM40
Jeu Illimité Vino High-Waisted Trouser, $210, available at Jeu IllimitéPhoto Courtesy of Jeu Illimité.
Keds Dates: 11/20 - 11/27 Sale: 30% off full priced orders; 20% off sale; free gift with purchase Promo Code: None
Keds IWD Triple Shimmer, $24.95, available at KedsPhoto Courtesy of Keds.
Koral Dates: 11/20 - 11/25 Sale: Up to 60% off SALE Promo Code: None
Koral Pump Pullover, $87, available at KoralPhoto Courtesy of Koral.
Kurt Lyle Dates: 11/23 - 11/26 Sale: 25% off site-wide; a signed print from George and Raphael Greaves of Printed Goods for all orders over $300 Promo Code: ART25
Rachel Antonoff Margaret Tea Dress, $328, available at Kurt LylePhoto Courtesy of Kurt Lyle.
TOMS Leather Waterproof Summit Boots, $149.94, available at TOMSPhoto Courtesy of Toms.
Topshop Dates: 11/21 - 11/26 Sale: Up to 50% off Promo Code: None
Topshop Colour Block Puffer Jacket, $68, available at Topshop
Veda Dates: 11/20 - 11/27 Sale: 25% off all black leather items; Leather scrunchie gift with orders over $500; A portion of all Veda sales will be donated to the Womens Prison Association Promo Code: BLACKLEATHERFRIDAY
VEDA Jayne Smooth Jacket, $998, available at VEDAPhoto Courtesy of Veda.
Vereverto Mini Macta , $441, available at VerevertoPhoto Courtesy of Vereverto.
Westward Leaning Dates: 11/20 - 11/27 Sale: 40% off all custom sunglasses; 40% off the brand’s Custom Gift Set, that includes a gift card for one pair of custom sunglasses and an extra signature soft case Promo Code: None
Westward Leaning Matte Taupe w/ Orchid Tint Lens, $165, available at Westward LeaningPhoto Courtesy of Westward Leaning.
The future of beauty is here — and you’re invited. Check out the rest of our 2018Refinery29 Beauty Innovator Awardswinners for a full look at the products, brands, and people that are breaking the rules and redefining beauty standards, one lipstick at a time.
We're six weeks away from ending 2018, and there are still a few ambitious goals we’re considering rolling over into next year (along with the rest of our flexible spending): Marie Kondo’ing our lives, cutting out sugar, and having 10 grand saved up in the bank just aren't the kinds of things you can accomplish in a month and a half.
But one thing we can confidently cross off our end-of-year to-do list? Getting to know all the best hair, skin, and makeup launches Ulta Beauty had to offer these past 12 months. There were plenty of products in the beauty aisle that truly earned their bragging rights: Among the Ulta elite were inclusive foundation releases (we're looking at you, Flesh Beauty), hair masks that turn your bathroom into a five-star salon (or at least the next best thing), and brow pens that'll save you a couple thousand on microblading.
But what kind of friends would we be if we didn't put you on to the good stuff? Ahead, you'll find the cream of the Ulta crop — including some of our Beauty Innovator Awards winners — to pick up before 2018 becomes a #TBT.
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Replicating J.Lo's glow doesn't require a trip to Ibiza and a glam squad. Just blend a few dots of this on your cheekbones or into your foundation to create a luminous glow that doesn't look greasy.
L'Oréal True Match Lumi Glow Amour Glow Boosting Drops, $14.99, available at Ulta Beauty
Gone are the days of slicing and dicing your legs while you shave. This under-$20 razor seamlessly shaves in both directions (yes, you read that right) for a smooth, flawless shave — without the blood and band-aids.
Schick Intuition f.a.b. Razor Kit, $12.59, available at Ulta Beauty
A moisturizer that really loves you won't make your skin feel smothered (unless you're into that kind of thing). This one has a featherweight jelly formula that disappears into all skin types without feeling thick or heavy.
Clinique Dramatically Different Hydrating Jelly, $28, available at Ulta Beauty
Consider this spray putty a zhuzh in a can. It delivers grit, touchable hold, and volume to flat hair with just one spritz, without getting your hands dirty.
Fatboy Online Only Spray Putty, $28, available at Ulta Beauty
This mask is like a pair of designer sunglasses for your hair: It protects your color from fading and UV rays, thanks to red algae and marine technology, and leaves strands feeling insanely soft and expensive-looking.
The One By Frederic Fekkai The Brilliant One Vibrance-Boosting Mask, $42, available at Ulta Beauty
This isn't like a regular hair mousse — it's a multitasking hair mousse that won't make your curls feel crunchy or flaky. Instead, it detangles, defines, moisturizes, and treats your curls at the same damn time.
Marc Anthony Strictly Curls 7-in-1 Treatment Foam, $8.99, available at Ulta Beauty
We often associate cream eyeliner with the word smudgy, a.k.a. not ideal when you need your makeup to last through holiday parties. This pot goes against the grain, though, with a formula that's opaque, silky, crease-proof, and won't vanish by the end of the night.
NYX Professional Makeup Holographic Halo Cream Eyeliner, $10.99, available at Ulta Beauty
Full-coverage foundation can be cute and easy — just look at this chubby tube. It's tiny enough to fit in your palm and blend in with your fingers, no hassle and brushes necessary.
Flesh Beauty Firm Flesh Thickstick Foundation, $18, available at Ulta Beauty
Bouncy texture and creamy metallic pigment are just two of the reasons why this shadow duo won big this year. Oh, and this rich purple hue that we'll gladly paint on our lids any time, any place.
Stila Vivid & Vibrant Eyeshadow Duo, $20, available at Ulta Beauty
Dry lips are the biggest trade-off when you're searching for a lipstick that lasts forever. Thankfully, you don't have to sacrifice moisture for long-lasting color when you're wearing this formula, which has nourishing vitamin E to hydrate your skin.
Physicians Formula Healthy Lip Velvet Liquid Lipstick, $6.99, available at Ulta Beauty
In this unsuspecting pot is a no-frills, no-B.S. cream that's like a pep talk for your dark circles. The formula both hydrates and depuffs, and contains brightening vitamin C to make you look like you weren't up binging The Bodyguard all night.
Olay Eyes Brightening Eye Cream, $29.99, available at Ulta Beauty
When you need to escape from life's responsibilities (or if winter just has your face feeling dry as hell), put on this hydrogel mask for 30 minutes and chill. The hyaluronic acid will leave skin looking — and feeling — smoother and more hydrated by the time you peel it off.
Neutrogena Hydro Boost Hydrating Hydrogel Mask, $2.99, available at Ulta Beauty
So you want microbladed eyebrows but don't want to spend microblading money — don't. Get this multi-pronged brow pen which creates fine hair-like strokes that look so real, you'll have everyone fooled.
Maybelline TattooStudio Brow Tint Pen, $9.99, available at Ulta Beauty
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