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Is Travis Scott Wearing Kanye West's Old Céline Blouse?

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Those of us following the Instagram account @oldceline aren't the only ones still mourning the Phoebe Philo era of Celine. Travis Scott appears to also have thoughts about Hedi Slimane's debut at Celine, too. That, or he just raided his de facto brother-in-law Kanye West's closet.

'Ye, of course, has a well-documented love for the designer, as any die-hard Yeezy or Philo stan knows, dating back to 2010. That's when he first rapped on the opening track of his critically-acclaimed album My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy. In the song “Dark Fantasy," the future Yeezy designer shouts out Céline, saying: “And my bitch in that new Phoebe Philo.”

West also credits Philo with ushering in a new era of fast-fashion, making us all “New Slaves,” quoting his own track from the 2013 Yeezus LP. In a now-infamous interview with BBC One’s Zane Lowe, West explained: “You can have on a Zara pant, right? And a girl walks in with the Céline version, and you feel like shit. That is the problem. I'm talkin' about us, the new slaves, the people who love fashion. I'm talking about us, you know? 'Cause I'm a slave to it. I love it. I love it!”

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West first shared his Philo-philia in 2011 at Coachella, where he wore a silk Celine blouse from that year's collection. Cut to Travis Scott wearing what appears to be West's shirt on Instagram in 2018. On Sunday, the younger rapper posted two photos of himself wearing the silk women's blouse captioned "cactus" and "305 to the elbow," respectively. When 'Ye wore the shirt, he styled it with jeans, a few gold chains, and a wrist full of colorful bracelets. Scott put his spin on the top with a diamond chain, jeans, and Supreme Nike x Comme des Garçons Air Force 1 sneakers.

If Scott is actually digging in West's archives, what are the odds the Stormi Jenner's father will try 'Ye's "Japanese-style" sandals? Hey, Virgil Abloh like them.

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Every Amazon Product To Add To Your Cart This Week

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It's no secret that Amazon owns our shopping habits. So much so, it's become our go-to for everything from a 10 pack of Pocky sticks to designer dresses, sending us down a rabbit hole that results in a cart full of items we hadn't planned on purchasing. If you can think of it, Amazon probably has it.

But coming across more unique and worthy finds, like a novelty plant holder or a new pair of heels, isn't as easy a task. Too many products, so little time. So, we're doing the grunt work and digging through the deepest reaches of Amazon for the best goodies around. Tech, beauty, fashion, wellness, home; there's not one category we're excluding from our search.

From the most buzz-worthy eyeliners on the market to affordable furniture that only looks expensive, our editors are rounding up the best Amazon has to offer. Even better, we're bringing you a brand spanking new list of items, every week. Check back here each Monday for the latest round of Amazon available products you'll want to add to cart, sans the toilet paper.

Be sure to shop our brand new Amazon storefront, updated daily with new and unique finds.

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Beauty
Hello's whitening toothpaste is a concoction that uses natural activated charcoal to eliminate as many surface stains as possible.



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You can catch us soaking in these bath salts that help soothe our body and our soul. Namaste.



Herbivore Botanicals Dead Sea Bath Salts, $18, available at Amazon

This lightweight moisturizer targets your pores and helps to reduce their appearance to give your skin a more smooth and matte finish.



Korres Pomegranate Moisturising and Balancing Cream-Gel, $34, available at Amazon

There aren't too many places you can get this good of a deal on Sunday Riley products, so take it while you can get it!



Sunday Riley Game Changer Kit, $112, available at Amazon

Half the battle of conquering chapped lips is investing in a good chapstick. The other half is making sure you have an effective lip treatment on hand.



Sara Happ The Sweet Clay Lip Mask, $32, available at Amazon

Home
If we were ever to describe a chair as "handsome," now would be the time.



Ariel Cali Modern Mid-century Accent Black Armchair, $109, available at Amazon

These terracotta measuring bowls match perfectly with our recent obsession with succulents currently taking over our kitchen (and living room...and bedroom...).



Now Designs Glazed Terracotta Nesting Prep Bowls - Set of Three, $14.99, available at Amazon

Add a little friend to your work desk or guest bathroom. This cactus shaped diffuser fills your space with a fruity floral scent while looking cute as a button.



Round A’round Cactus Room Scents 100ml + Refill 80ml, $32, available at Amazon

With animal prints back on trend, try using a statement making leopard print rug as the centerpiece for your living room.



Erin Gates by Momeni Acadia Collection Cheetah Faux Hide Area, $158.71, available at Amazon

Start off on your new green thumb journey with an indoor plant that's easy to care for.



Costa Farms Ficus Lyrata - Fiddle-leaf Fig, $29.97, available at Amazon

Fashion
Add a little extra flair to your muted fall wardrobe with an electric blue boot.



The Fix Becca Pointed Toe Sock Boot, $48.51, available at Amazon

My new motto: One can never have too many cozy sweaters.



Jason Maxwell Long Sleeve Mock Neck Pullover Tunic Sweater, $21.99, available at Amazon

Faux fur cuffs are an easy (and cheap!) way to add some extra elegance to an otherwise basic coat or sweater.



Simplicity Winter Faux Fur Short Wrist Cuff Warmers, $9.99, available at Amazon

If the rain won't go away, we'll just have to face it head on.



Lauren Ralph Lauren Women's Tally Rain Boot, $52.17, available at Amazon

Suit up in this chic matching set available for less than $200.



ENGLISH FACTORY Double Breasted Jacket, $123, available at Amazon

ENGLISH FACTORY High Waist Plaid Pants, $58.1, available at Amazon

Lifestyle
Make getting in those requisite 8 glasses of water a day easier with a water bottle that tracks your water intake and emits a pretty glow to remind you to stay hydrated.



Hidrate Spark Smart Water Bottle, $44.95, available at Amazon

Getting moving in a pair of leggings that will actually be comfortable for your body. This plus-size pair allows you to "build your own" leggings with a wide range of sizes, inseams, and waistband styles so you'll actually enjoy putting them on.



Core 10 ‘Build Your Own’ Yoga Pant Full-length Legging, $56, available at Amazon

Winter is coming. Which means we're looking for anything that will help keep those seasonal blues at bay. Pick up one of these light therapy tablets to trick your mind into thinking you've gotten enough vitamin D for the day.



Verilux HappyLight Touch LED Light Therapy Tablet, $99.95, available at Amazon

A new space saving method for storing your meds - be it daily or just for an extended trip.



Zwish 7 Day Stackable Pill Organizer, $8.99, available at Amazon

Pocket that spa day budget because now you can bring the spa home to you. This portable pop-up infrared sauna comes with an interior seat for maximum comfort.



Serenelife Portable Infrared Home Spa, $189.99, available at Amazon

Tech
Recently featured in Oprah's list of her favorite things for 2018. Keep yourself safe with this GPS tracker and panic button that attaches right to your phone.



Kantana Safety Arc: The Personal Security System, $99.99, available at Amazon

Beat the system! This little gadget allows you to use your headphones while charging your phone.



MPWHYL Headphone/Charger Splitter, $11.98, available at Amazon

Go green. These timer outlets can be adjusted to varying time settings that will automatically shut off the outlet off when it's done.



Century Indoor 24-hour Mechanical Outlet Timer, 3 Prong, 2-Pack, $11.99, available at Amazon

Why buy yourself a boring phone stand when you can get one that's an upside down cat?



Decole: Concombre Adorable Animal Smartphone Stand, $19.98, available at Amazon

Add a chic touch of to your workspace with a PC friendly rose gold keyboard and mouse set.



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Facebook Went Down Today — & Twitter Has The Best Reactions

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If you are a Facebook user, you may have noticed that the site went down earlier today. And though, as of 2:30 p.m., the social media site seems to be back up and running, the topic is still trending on Twitter.

Facebook has yet to release a statement outlining what exactly happened, but for a window of time this morning and early afternoon the social media site displayed an error message for some users that read: "Sorry, something went wrong. We're working on it and we'll get it fixed as soon as we can."

Refinery29 reached out for comment and a Facebook spokesperson said: "Earlier today, a routine test caused users to have trouble accessing or posting to all Facebook services including WhatsApp and Instagram. We quickly investigated and restored access for everyone. We’re sorry for the inconvenience."

In true Twitter fashion, users got the hashtag #FacebookDown to achieve trending status worldwide. Reactions to the outage were mixed; some were indifferent, others were freaking out. No matter how one was feeling, though, it's clear that during and following the outage, Twitter provided the perfect platform to gripe about and poke fun at the social media giant's mishap.

This story is developing. We will update this story as more information becomes available.

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When It Comes To Gender, Oslo Grace Is A Runway Shapeshifter

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When transgender models began walking the runways — back in the '80s, mind you — they walked with confidence, like any other model, but they walked in stealth mode. The fashion industry had not yet embraced the reckoning we're witnessing today, which meant that transgender models who revealed their gender identity, or were "outed," did so at the risk of losing their careers. Thanks to a new wave of transgender pioneers, however, the modeling industry is changing. But the gender conversation is vast, and genders themselves are more polysyllabic than ever — so what about all the others?

Enter: Oslo Grace, the 21-year old, Californian model who happens to be non-binary transgender. Fun fact: After a bad rugby accident in school derailed athletic ambitions, Grace took up modeling as a hobby. Today, they straddle both the male and female boards of their agency and walk both men's and women's runways. In their own words, being transgender and non-binary means they consider themselves "the ultimate mix of a boy and a girl." Grace's big break was the fall 2018 Gucci show where they carried a baby dragon down the runway (yes, you read that right). And, after last Fashion Month, which saw them walk every show from Armani to Courrèges and more, their star continues to rise.

But the industry remains ill-equipped to confront other genders on the spectrum. Grace, along with many others, frequently experiences misgendering on set and off (which is easy to avoid, if industry makes the effort to brush up on gender terminology) and has to do most of the legwork when it comes to educating those around them. In the interview below, Grace opens up about fashion's gender renaissance, why they aren't hard-pressed to settle on one gender, and how the industry can cater to models who don't always see themselves in a designer's vision. Oh, and they had something to say about that Victoria's Secret interview, too.

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In your own words, what does being transgender non-binary mean?
OG: "Transgender is the big umbrella that I'd consider myself under. And that's where my gender identity doesn't match up perfectly with my sex assigned at birth. Ultimately, how that manifests is ... a childhood that was incredible but also filled with a lot of clear examples of what I now can point out as blatant gender dysphoria that I just didn't have the vocabulary to describe when I was that young.

"Non-binary is sort of an umbrella term underneath transgender that means I'm somewhere in between the binary of a girl and a boy. I feel like I am a mix of the two, which makes me non-binary."

How is it decided which castings you go to and which runways you walk?
OG: "Within each agency I belong to, I'm signed to both their men's and women's boards. For each men's and women's board in an agency, there are men's and women's bookers. So, let's say, around 12pm my women's booker will email me so I know that I have to wear the women's casting attire, and then I'll get an email from my men's booker at 1pm saying that I have to show up for a men's casting, so that's sort of how that manifests into an actual job.

"But yes, I usually present very binary on the runway because runways aren't usually non-binary. But I present more masculine in my day-to-day."

Does that ever make you feel dysphoric?
OG: "Yes. In the beginning, I had incredible amounts of crippling dysphoria every time I had to wear a dress at a shoot or on a runway, but I did it knowing that, eventually, I'd be able to choose my jobs (which would end up being more masculine). But along the way, I was actually able to get more comfortable with my femininity and that's why it's not as much of an issue anymore. Through this, I'm still exploring and experiencing my genders."

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How do you feel about male and female boards at agencies in terms of labels?
OG: "I actually find it sort of gratifying that I'm able to disturb both boards because it shows me that kids like me have the opportunity to somehow disrupt the system even though we're subscribed to the system. So, even though I'm modeling and it's a binary world, it's just almost funny to me how that translates into mixing that up to where the fashion industry maybe isn't comfortable with it or used to it yet."

What's your experience like off the runway?
OG: "You really have to develop thick skin. I'm constantly misgendered in the workplace and it is still something that I really have to learn how to deal with. But other models are usually very kind. It's moreso the older people in the technical jobs. I've worked with some incredible makeup artists and hair stylists but those are usually the people that give me the hardest time, or quiz me on my gender, or say, 'Hey, didn't you walk a men's show this morning? Why are you a woman now?' It's a lot of misgendering — point blank."

So, how can the fashion industry do better?
OG: "It can happen in a bunch of different ways. Most recently, I've been trying to figure out my own way of confronting people about my pronouns that's in a gentle, affirming, and encouraging way instead of in an abrasive way. We could have call sheets that have gender neutral pronouns on them and how to do it, models with name tags and their pronouns, not hiring transgender model just because they're transgender and hiring them more than once (and not for diversity points) — just stuff like that."

What are your thoughts on the recent comments made by Victoria's Secret's chief marketing officer of L Brands, its parent company, Ed Razek?
OG: "The use of 'transsexual' shows how outdated and uneducated the vocabulary of some people can be. But honestly, I wasn't surprised. I hate to say that but Victoria's Secret has been one thing for a very long time and I don't know if it's gonna change. I sort of think the avenue to that, though, is education. It's the only avenue I've seen to push someone who isn't with it, who isn't aware of us, or doesn't know we aren't something to be fetishized or put to the side.

"We are people like everyone else. It's a shame that this person thinks we can't be seen in that light because we definitely can. But ultimately, we're going to have to go at this from the ground up. That's why people like me and others in the industry are trying to infiltrate it and then talk about our identities so we can change these bigger corporations."

Do you find it's easier to model without bringing up your gender identity, i.e. in stealth, at the start of your career and then start to spread that message later?
OG: "That is how I've done it, from the beginning but it's more a comfort thing for me. I don't think you can be more or less successful when you talk about your identity or don't. I do sit in my cis-passing privilege for both genders quite comfortably. I'm not, and never have been, completely comfortable voicing my gender identity online or in interviews because everyone has a different level of comfort with that.

"But when you do speak out, you are quickly put into a box, as ironic as that is. You become a niche model and I have been trying to avoid that just so I can infiltrate the cis, binary fashion industry as much as I can."

To that point, what do you say to those people who might ask why you want to be a part of that space anyway, as opposed to creating a new one? Especially since cis and binary people haven't been accepting of non-binary people until recent?
OG: "We don't want to normalize being transgender, but we want to normalize our existence. And to do that, we have to learn to build bridges with the cis community. Trying to branch off is a beautiful thing but I think trying to burn bridges with them and face them in a way that is defiant, I agree with, too, but ultimately: if we want to make a change within our everyday society, we need some warriors to go in there and try and fuck shit up."

So, what's next?
OG: "I'm going to continue my work as a high-fashion model. That's a level that I've wanted to put myself on since the beginning and I've been fortunate so far that it's worked out. I'm going to take a few months to continue working, but also to prioritize my physical transition — which is very exciting to me but also daunting, as every trans person can relate to — and just staying true to myself. That's what I try to tell every trans and non-binary person when they're starting a platform or business: You have to be yourself because you can't let anyone dictate your voice. That's not going to get you anywhere and you're eventually going to sell yourself out."

Welcome to MyIdentity. The road to owning your identity is rarely easy. In this yearlong program, we will celebrate that journey and explore how the choices we make on the outside reflect what we're feeling on the inside — and the important role fashion and beauty play in helping people find and express who they are.

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We don't always realize it, but our hair affects our mood way more than we think. After finding out that only one in 10 women claims to feel like she has consistent good-hair days, R29's resident host Lucie Fink set out to see how changing up her styling routine would impact the way she feels. Does bringing her hair up and out of her face make her more productive at work? Will glittery space buns make her suddenly more spontaneous? Can a cool fishtail braid make her feel any more adventurous? Watch how she transforms her hair — and minimizes damage with Pantene 's Repair & Protect collection — throughout the week, just below.

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This Dr. Pimple Popper Holiday Merch Is The Perfect Gag Gift

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Chances are you remember the first time you were introduced to the phenomenon that is live-action pimple popping. You know, that moment when your friend, co-worker, cousin, or cool sister-in-law pulled up Dr. Pimple Popper's YouTube page, squealing: "Oh my gosh, you have to see this." Now, Dr. Sandra Lee and her pus-spewing videos are a household name, with a TLC television show, a pimple-popping board game, and an upcoming holiday special.

Dr. Lee is also expanding her pimple empire to cover merchandise. That's right, the world's most entertaining dermatologist just dropped a full line of official Dr. Pimple Popper-branded holiday gifts, and they make the perfect stocking stuffers for any fan. Whether it's a shot glass gag gift or a pro-approved extraction tool kit, find the perfect present for any popaholic in your life, ahead.

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This Dr. Pimple Popper tool kit comes with a stainless steel comedone extractor and medical-grade blackhead tweezers, zipped into a handy canvas pouch.



Dr. Pimple Popper "99 Problems" Toolkit, $42, available at Dr. Pimple Popper

If you're looking for an easy way to annoy your sister, squeeze your feet up on either side of her head and pretend to be popping her pimples with your toes.



Dr. Pimple Popper Pimple Poppin' Socks, $20, available at Dr. Pimple Popper

With this shot glass set, you can make a proper drinking game out of Dr. Pimple Popper's holiday special.



Dr. Pimple Popper Popaholic Shot Glass Set, $15, available at Dr. Pimple Popper

If your mom trolls for new Dr. Pimple Popper content while sipping her morning coffee, she should probably have a proper mug to match.



Dr. Pimple Popper "I'd Rather Be Watching Dr. Pimple Popper" Mug, $20, available at Dr. Pimple Popper

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The Hidden Gems Section On Wayfair Is Holiday Gifting Goals

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Many dread the holidays due to gifting apprehension. And while we understand the worry that surrounds savvy budgeting and perfect purchases, we actually find the upcoming season to be the most liberating of all shopping occasions. Where gifting on other special days (like birthdays or V-Day) can call for particular goods sharply pre-groomed by recipients, during the holidays these strict shopping wheels come off. Meaning we get a creative license back on our buys.

In the spirit of embracing the season ahead as a festive gifting free-for-all, we tapped a unique shopping source for inspiration: Wayfair's Hidden Gems. Much to our delights, the mega online home store contains a page dedicated solely to a slew of surprising and affordable finds. From whimsical kitchen gadgets to decor, furniture, and even goodies for furry friends, we pulled out the best giftable buys from the eclectic selection ahead. Instead of getting caught up in strict lists this season, scroll on to shop the hidden gems that your nearest and dearest won't know they needed until they open (and love) them.

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The Gift: Mini Cotton Candy Machine

Why We Love It: Our childhood dreams of running away and joining the circus — that, tbh, spilled over into adulthood — are now a sweet, kitchen countertop reality.



Nostalgia Vintage Hard and Sugar-Free Candy Cotton Candy Maker, $30.65, available at Wayfair

The Gift: Cacti Shaker Set

Why We Love It: Kitschy, but in the trendiest way — the succulent-lovers in your life will adore a set of these cute green seasoners.



Global Amici Cactus Salt & Pepper Shaker Set, $13.99, available at Wayfair

The Gift: Peace Sign Wall Hook

Why We Love It: Keep track of keys in peace — and, with a splash of modern sculptural style.



Interior Illusions Peace Sign Wall Hook, $40.99, available at Wayfair

The Gift: Metallic Pouf

Why We Love It: A chic conversation piece that statement-making pals can covet — move it from bedroom to living room for a pop of sleek, space-age style.



Zingz & Thingz Pouf, $102.99, available at Wayfair

The Gift: Gilded Turtle Tray

Why We Love It: Glamorous giftees won't know what hit them with a good that's a trifecta of fashion, function, and funky — fill this ample accent tray with everything from fruit to jewelry, remotes, and even keys.



Bay Isle Home Garvey Decorative Bowl, $47.99, available at Wayfair

The Gift: Soft-Serve Ice Cream Machine

Why We Love It: If the recipient of this childhood nostalgia-dream gift doesn't weep with gratitude, then we've got heated words for them...



Cuisinart Mix It In Soft Serve 1.5 qt. Ice Cream Maker, $69.59, available at Wayfair

The Gift: Acrylic Jewelry Hand

Why We Love It: This gift makes other jewelry holders pale in comparison with it's flashy neon color and statement meta-shape — it's an '80s style dream.



Evideco Eve Countertop Jewelry Holder and Organizer Hand, $16.98, available at Wayfair

The Gift: Chic Pet Tent

Why We Love It: Our beloved furry friends deserve chic home decor treatment, too — and this stylish sleeper pitches that tent.



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The Gift: Mod Vase Set

Why We Love It: This colorful set of sculptural vases are the ideal surprise for an artful friend with a taste for floral arrangements (and the '60s).



Langley Street 5 Piece Blue/Green/Brown/Gray Vase Set, $57.99, available at Wayfair

The Gift: Marquee Mustache

Why We Love It: Must-(you even)-ache us that question? This vintage-style marquee sign is a playful accent for hanging indoors or out.



17 Stories Moustache Marquee Sign, $88.99, available at Wayfair

The Gift: Quesadilla Maker

Why We Love It: For friends and family who understand that quesadillas deserve their own food group, this convenient gadget is here to support them.



Hamilton Beach Quesadilla Maker, $21.37, available at Wayfair

The Gift: Multi-Accessory Stand

Why We Love It: What looks slender and stylish actually packs a powerful, multi-function punch — this golden stand is structured to hold a wide range of accessories from rings to necklaces with stylish ease.



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I Got The Latest It Girl Hair Color — & Here's How It Looks

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Beauty with Mi, hosted by Refinery29's beauty writer Mi-Anne Chan, explores the coolest new trends, treatments, products, and subcultures in the beauty world. Never miss an episode by subscribing here.

As soon as I decided to bleach my hair last year, people started warning me that once I did, I'd never want to go back to black. Since then, I've been three different colors: pink, purple, and now, blue. It sounds fun, but I have the breakage to show for it, from little wispies around my face to short strands through my crown and plenty of dry ends. But for the most part, my hair is healthy — or at least as healthy as double-processed hair can be.

It turns out, that first warning is proving to be very true. So much so, my colorful hair has become a huge part of my identity. I like to think of it as a built-in accessory that makes me feel confident and put together, whether I'm all dolled up or just rolling out of bed.

My colorist Madison at Spoke & Weal does an incredible job minimizing damage to my hair, but it's the at-home work that can mean the difference between a straw-like feel and a soft, healthy one, no matter your natural texture. After dying my lilac hair blue last month, I really looked at my hair care routine, throwing out all the lackluster products I'd been trying, and just sticking to things I know actually work. You can watch the full transformation above, then stick around for my updated hair routine in the second half of the video.

Pureology Strength Cure Shampoo, $28.50, available at Ulta Beauty; Pureology Strength Cure Conditioner, $30.50, available at Ulta Beauty; Olaplex No. 4 Bond Maintenance Shampoo, $28, available at Sephora; Olaplex No. 5 Bond Maintenance Conditioner, $28, available at Sephora; Olaplex No. 3 Hair Perfector, $28, available at Sephora; Gisou Honey-Infused Hair Mask, $68, available at Revolve; Ohii Magic Hair Wand, $12, available at Urban Outfitters.

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Stop Overlooking The One Item Of Clothing You Actually Wear The Most

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When asked what item we wear the most, we rarely realize that above our trusty puffer jackets and vintage jeans, the real answer is probably our pajamas. And when we're in something that often (every night, lazy Sundays), it may be time to start giving it the attention it deserves. In plain speak: Ditch the worn-out college tee and ramp it up with a matching two-piece set.

We're debunking the idea that "staying in" is synonymous with "dressing down," which means replacing those stretched-out elastic bottoms with super-soft silk pants, cute camisoles, and oversized button-ups. Home hang-out time is the perfect excuse to dress for yourself, so we've found 16, dare we say sophisticated, pajamas to wear on and off of your couch. These sets are equal parts cozy and flattering — so much so you'll have a hard time convincing yourself to take them off.

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Trump's Body Language Reveals How He Feels About Journalists, Especially Women Of Color

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President Trump has never made his contempt for the press a secret. In recent weeks, as the country has seen multiple mass shootings, a groundbreaking midterm election, and devastating wildfires, the president has used his platform to hammer home his belief that the greatest threat facing America is the "Fake News Media, the true Enemy of the People."

At a press conference last Wednesday, after the midterm election results revealed that Republicans would maintain control of the U.S. Senate but lose their majority in the House of Representatives, Trump spoke with reporters for nearly 90 minutes. In that time he told a Black journalist that her question about white nationalism was "so racist" and used the body of a young female intern as a weapon to take away the microphone from CNN's Jim Acosta.

On Friday, while giving an address on the south lawn of the White House, Trump stayed on message, telling another journalist that her question about Robert Mueller was "stupid." In a tweet, MSNBC political analyst Joy Reid pointed out this was the third Black female journalist he'd berated in 48 hours.

We asked Dr. Jack Brown, a body language and emotional intelligence expert, as well as a physician, to break down some of Trump's most recent interactions with the press so we can further understand the president's behavior. Dr. Brown explained that body language analysis can be a useful tool for countering our own personal confirmation bias of a "familiar" person, such as President Trump.

"Using nonverbal tells is an objectivity tool — a way of checking our own opinions when, as human beings, we are inherently biased," he told Refinery29.

Ahead, Dr. Brown analyzes Trump's latest spars with journalists.

Context: In a press conference following the midterm elections (and just hours before he would announce the resignation of Attorney General Jeff Sessions), Trump got into a heated exchange with CNN's Jim Acosta when the journalist asked about Russian interference in the 2016 election. Trump pointed at Acosta and told him, "You are a rude, terrible person. You shouldn't be working for CNN."

Dr. Brown notes that as the president gestured for an intern to take away Acosta's microphone, it's also significant that Trump himself stepped back from the podium.

"This demonstrates a short temper — for, among other things, the most powerful man in the world felt the need (on home turf, no less, for this is the East Room of the White House) to walk away from the lectern. While this did result in Jim Acosta acquiescing, Trump's action here was symptomatic of [his] diminished impulse control."

Speaking of the interaction between Acosta and the intern, Dr. Brown addressed the fact that Sarah Huckabee Sanders released doctored video footage of the incident. Specifically it was altered to make it appear like Acosta moved his left forearm down quicker than he actually did.

"Note that Acosta's hand is open, not closed; it only touched the intern because she encroached into his personal space (technically when it's this close, it's termed, 'intimate space'). His voice never gets aggressive," noted Dr. Brown.

Context: Later on in the same press conference, Trump responded to PBS Newshour journalist Yamiche Alcindor's question regarding whether the president's recent rhetoric might embolden white nationalists, by telling her, "That's such a racist question."

Dr. Brown explained, "When he said this, you'll note the president points with his index finger at Ms. Alcindor. This is an aggressive and offensive gesture across all cultures on every continent. Yet, if we look closer, we see Mr. Trump is not extending his arm. In fact, it's retracted with his forearm and his upper arm pulled back in what is a considerably beta and significantly feminine configuration.

"The fact that a portion of this body language is alpha and aggressive, but another portion is beta and feminine, indicates that Trump has emotional dissonance. Part of his psyche wants to insult — and he certainly does — while another portion of it is intimidated by the question. Notice he also asks three times in succession, 'Why do I have my highest poll numbers with African-Americans?' (Which is a false claim — they are historically low versus other presidents.) Trump can't think of a good answer, so he stalls with rhetorical-false questions — and he insults."

Context: Before departing on a trip to France on Friday, November 9, Trump took questions from reporters on the South Lawn of the White House. CNN correspondent Abby Phillip asked whether Matt Whitaker, the acting attorney general, would be involved in the Mueller investigation.

He responded, "What a stupid question that is. What a stupid question. But I watch you a lot. You ask a lot of stupid questions."

Dr. Brown wrote, "Just after Abby Phillip asks, 'Do you want him to rein in Robert Mueller?' , Trump closes his eyes, tilts his head to his right, and clearly displays contempt. This contempt expression is centered on his left mouth corner, the tightening of the area above his upper lip and below his nose (a.k.a. the 'mustache region'), along with the (mild) flaring of his left nostril.

"His closed eyelids, as well as the tilting of his head, while not required for a contempt display, here both act as contempt amplifiers. Two seconds later, Trump displays what is known as a lip curl (his upper lip flaring out slightly) as he says the word, 'is.' A lip curl signals hubris, braggadocio, and/or bravado. Listen carefully, for Trump tends to have a slight lisp when displaying the lip-curl signal (a nonverbal tell he often exemplifies).

"Trump responds with a 'finger-point-hand-chop' as he says, 'You ask a lot of...' When verbally responding to a question in this manner, it's a subconscious affirmation that what was asked (in this case, 'Do you want him to rein in Robert Mueller?') is, in fact, true."

Context: Still on the South Lawn, Trump addressed his earlier interaction with Jim Acosta. He used this as an opportunity to lash out at other journalists, including April Ryan, one of the few Black female White House reporters.

"You talk about somebody that’s a loser; she doesn’t know what the hell she’s doing. She gets publicity, and then she gets a pay raise or a contract with, I think, CNN. But she’s very nasty. And she shouldn’t be. She shouldn’t be. You’ve got to treat the White House and the office of the presidency with respect."

Here, Trump's words speak for themselves, but Dr. Brown picked up on a different moment during the South Lawn gathering that he found particularly interesting from a nonverbal communication standpoint. As the president continued to discuss Matt Whitaker, Jeff Sessions, and Robert Mueller, he made a very unusual gesture.

"At 3:46, as he says, '...a man who worked for Sessions,' Trump very clearly gestures with his right hand, and as if he were Christian clergy giving a sermon — traces the sign of the cross... Make no mistake, the president deliberately displayed this very clear sequence of gestures. Trump has never exhibited this unmistakable and classic Christian behavior in public since he announced his candidacy on June 16th, 2015...

"President Trump used a traditional Christian crossing gesture on the South Lawn of the White House Friday while voicing his praise for Matt Whitaker as acting attorney general. This maneuver was a deliberate and conscious act. In this context, such crossing is pseudo-religious, and indeed, it's cult-engendering. Trump either perceives himself as a religious figure, or he wants his followers to view himself as God-like (or both)."

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The fall collections have spoken and it looks like fleece is the word this season. We can't quite remember the last time we got excited over the teddy-like sweaters, save for when they made up half of our college uniform.

Traditionally, the fuzzy popcorn-like material has belonged to photos from the '90s, all of upstate New York, avid hikers, and the many Manhattan dwelling bros that grace the feed of @midtownuniform. But after NYFW indie darling Sandy Liang debuted her line-up of fun fleeces (which even Gigi Hadid can't get enough of), the fashion world has been decidedly hooked.

The fleece frenzy has only caught fire since then. Donni's line of fleeces have shown up on every the grid of every other Insta influencer, Outdoor Voices & Everlane launched their own fleece centered collections, and Reformation is now a regular Patagonia stockist.

If you haven't yet, give into the sporty, textured look this fall. The prints and colors are so free-flowing you'll forget about the ho-hum, plain black fleeces of yore. Whether you opt for the classic route with a Patagonia pick or adventurously delve in to the streetwear friendly Columbia x Opening Ceremony collab, let this cozy trend take over your fall closet.

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There's a lot that feels counterintuitive about shampooing your hair with a chunky scrub. To start, the heavy oils used in some formulas seem as if they'd leave any texture a greasy mess — and we haven't even mentioned how odd it is to massage big ol' salty granules into your scalp. But stick with us here, because when properly formulated, hair scrubs actually do and feel quite the opposite.

For one, chunks of salt or sugar quickly disintegrate with a rinse of warm water (rather than getting wedged between stands or feeling overly gritty). And thanks to some smart concocting, oil-based options work to hydrate ends without leaving hair looking like an oil slick.

There's even more at work here, according to stylist Derek Yuen, whose celebrity clients include Constance Wu. "These scrubs are an amazing way to detox and purify the scalp leaving it in a better condition to promote healthier hair growth," he says. "They will help lift dry skin and remove any type of buildup from the hair."

Impressive, yes, but here's what really sold us: After trying a handful of options, we found these exfoliating shampoos work wonders to lift hair at the roots and add overall body without making hair feel squeaky clean. Because some formulas can be drying, Yuen suggests those with medium and thick hair look for ingredients like coconut oil, while stylist Michael Dueñas advises those with C3 and C4 curls limit scrubs to just the scalp. See a few of our favorites, ahead.

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Most shampoo scrubs rely on the abrasion of sugar or salt to deeply cleanse, but this one taps activated charcoal and diamond powder instead. The resulting gel-like formula is much easier to apply than chunkier formulations and works into a satisfying lather like traditional shampoo. But our favorite takeaway came two days after a wash, when a grease-free scalp allowed us to skip our normal dousing with dry shampoo.



Kenra Professional Platinum Deep Detox Scrub, $28, available at Ulta Beauty

We wondered if this fine-grit formula was even working when it didn't lather like a traditional shampoo, but it ended up pulling off the coolest trick. Though billed as a pre-shampoo treatment, it managed to simultaneously deep clean the scalp and somehow leave ends conditioned when used alone, negating the need for a separate conditioner.



Miriam Quevedo Extreme Caviar Exfoliating Scrub Scalp , $50, available at SpaceNK

Stylist Christophe Robin invented the scrub shampoo category with this OG release. Designed to take down itchiness for those with a sensitive scalp and lift residue product after coloring hair, it combines the moisturizing agents of a conditioner and gentle exfoliating power of sea salt.



Christophe Robin Cleansing Purifying Scrub With Sea Salt, $53, available at Christophe Robin

We weren't sure how this thick paste would work in a shampooing scenario, but after warming it up in our hands, it lathered on our scalp just fine. The charcoal and coconut oil-charged formula got our roots squeaky clean while lengths and ends combed through easily post-shower.



SheaMoisture Exfoliating Hair Mud, $11.49, available at Ulta Beauty

This creamy shampoo treatment taps pink salt, rose hips oil, and moringa oil to cleanse the hair and scalp of product buildup. It not only gave us pumped-up volume at the root, but the peppermint, spearmint, and rosemary leaf essential oils enlivened our senses during a painfully early AM shower.



goop G.Tox Himalayan Salt Scalp Scrub Shampoo, $42, available at goop

This lightly lathering scrub shampoo includes exfoliating salicylic acid and oil-absorbing kaolin clay to do the detox thing. But it also packs hydrating emollients to keep hair from looking like straw.



R+Co Crown Scalp Scrub, $38, available at Bluemercury

Ouai devotees know founder Jen Atkin does not mess around when it comes to scenting her products — and this scalp and body scrub is no different. We could have sworn someone dropped off a delivery of fragrant white flowers while we were in the stall, but vacay vibes aside, the head-to-toe cleanser delivered noticeable lift to at our roots.



Ouai Scalp & Body Scrub, $38, available at Sephora

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Velvet. Wool. Fringe. Tulle. If you haven't already jumped on the latest fashion bandwagon, buckle up, because crazy-cool textures like these are about to take over your wardrobe in full force this season. The eye-catching fabrics instantly elevate any standard silhouette (why wear black skinny jeans when you can wear a leather iteration?), plus these are the kinds of styles that feel just as amazing on as they look.

So for all of you tactile trendsetters out there, we've rounded up 10 of our most-wanted night-out essentials from H&M that are proving playful textures are here to stay for the holidays and beyond. From fringe-adorned boots that'll set you apart in a sea of black stilettos to the formal velvet jumpsuit that'll make any LBD feel like old news, click through for all of the pieces making us look and feel like a million bucks.

Make a menswear move on your next night out with a satin-lined, suit-inspired coat.



H&M Tuxedo-collared Coat, $59.99, available at H&M

Consider a bead-embroidered sweater your new wear-wherever holiday knit.



H&M Bead-embroidered Sweater, $39.99, available at H&M

Add a skip (and a swoosh!) to every step with fringe-lined, knee-high boots like these.



H&M Boots with Fringe, $79.98, available at H&M

Nope, it's never too late to add a red velvet dress to your party-ready rotation.



H&M Velour Dress, $12.99, available at H&M

A lace-detail midi-skirt with tons of volume is ideal for any dance floor.



H&M Skirt with Lace, $49.99, available at H&M

The trendy belt bag gets a holiday makeover with this velvet iteration.



H&M Oval Belt Bag, $17.98, available at H&M

LBD who? Consider a sleeveless jumpsuit your new go-to attire for any upcoming party on your cal.



H&M Sleeveless Jumpsuit, $49.99, available at H&M

With its draped neckline, thin spaghetti straps, and gold shimmer fabric, this is the going-out top of our disco dreams.



H&M Glittery Top, $5.99, available at H&M

Not a dress kind of girl? Style a festive vibe on your own terms with shiny leather black pants, instead.



H&M Skinny High Jeans, $24.99, available at H&M

A velvet, long-sleeve dress feels super soft on — and you can't go wrong with a cool, mustardy hue.



H&M Velour Dress, $17.98, available at H&M

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When Raf Simons rebranded Calvin Klein Collection to Calvin Klein 205W39NYC, there was a noticeable shift, both in the mindset of the line as well as in the clothing. One of the styles that has now become synonymous with the brand is the square-toe boot, a silhouette that's finally seeing the trickle down effect. In the continuous life cycle of fashion, the runway shoe has filtered through our favorite fast fashion shops and can now be found everywhere from Net-a-Porter to Amazon.

Your standard black ankle boots, those made of this season’s it-print, snakeskin, and even western-inspired styles have adapted this trending silhouette. We're not opposed since we've been eagerly awaiting a new boot shape after tiring of last year's sock boot. Plus, there's something about that cute that adds a bit of a vintage flair, meaning they'll pair well with everything you already own. Mix them with some straight-leg denim, a pleated midi skirt, or even cropped trousers.

Not sure where to start? We’ve rounded up 15 of our favorite square-toe styles that we can’t stop dreaming about.

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With the chilly winter weather starting to settle in, it’s now a requirement, not an optional fall privilege, to bundle up before you go about your day. Hats, scarves, gloves; they're no longer something you can leave behind so the ones we choose to wear might as well be as stylish as possible. Ever since the introduction of the smartphone, gloves are a bit more of a hassle to wear when you’re constantly taking them on and off to check your messages. While one solution has been the emergence of "touchscreen friendly" gloves, their effectiveness has proven to be hit or miss. So we're turning towards a simpler solution — fingerless gloves.

Luckily for us, fingerless gloves have evolved far beyond the ones John Bender wore in The Breakfast Club. Not only do they come in more options than motorcycle-ready leather, they're kind of chic. There's still a slight masculine edge to them — they haven't completely lost their grungy edge — but they also come adorned in feminine details like pom-poms and faux fur accents.

If you goal this winter is to be able to scroll through Instagram while still keeping warm, check out these 14 pairs of fingerless gloves. They're guaranteed to make your winter a little more bearable.

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Wearing Prints Brought Me Closer To My Mother & The Real Me

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I grew up in the South — North Carolina to be exact – but I never exactly fit the stereotype of a Southern Belle. From an early age, I owned too much black for that. But I did own my fair share of clothing that could be described as the "southern look": think floral tops, cowboy boots, belts, flannel shirts, and jean shorts. But, primarily, think above-the-knee printed dresses paired with my previously mentioned cowboy boots to football games and class, with pumps to church and brunch, and with strappy sandals or heels for hanging out with friends. Growing up, I was taught a printed dress was the most versatile and essential piece of clothing, and with the right accessories, it could take you from a tailgate to the theatre.

Slowly, those print dresses were replaced with more structured, solid pieces of clothing, primarily in black. It wasn't an overnight change. My dorm room closet was filled with print dresses freshman year of college, but by graduation, many of them had been discarded. There was a direct correlation between the number of days left until I moved to New York and the decreasing number of prints in my wardrobe. I still had a few trusty pieces when I moved to my first apartment in Chinatown, but over the last six years and moves to apartments further and further uptown, they were replaced by solid color dresses in black, grey, navy, pink, red, and burgundy.

There were a few reasons for this: I felt like I needed to look "adult," and somewhere along the way decided that meant leaving prints behind. I think I wanted to stop associating myself with where I was from. I was also buying into the lie that curvy women are told, that wearing prints will make them look larger. (Plus-size women, to reiterate, this is a LIE. Everyone looks good in prints, and they come in so many different iterations.)

By my mid-20s, getting dressed wasn't fun anymore. I didn't feel like myself every morning — until I remembered the potential power of the right pieces of clothing. I wasn't taking risks, and my closet didn't really reflect me. This is when I started embracing being plus-size and finding clothing that really worked for me instead of wearing whatever I could fit in from regular stores. I integrated colors and different cuts back into my repertoire and started to find my fashion identity again. I still didn't buy any prints.

Why? Back then, I had a rigid idea of what an adult that had it all figured out looked like— and I never saw myself wearing prints in that fantasy future. Yet, I was surrounded by "adults" (honestly, the older I get, the less sure I am what that word means) who not only wore prints but dominated in them daily. In fact, most of the stylish and very accomplished women in my life wear prints regularly. Refinery29's Global-Editor-in-Chief and co-founder, Christene Barberich, has a collection of beautiful printed dresses that I covet. Our Senior Feature Writer, Connie Wang, has one of the most eccentric and cool collections of prints I've ever seen. She is the antithesis to prints being paired with pearls and cowboy boots to football games. And, then there’s my mom, one of the most stylish and creative people I know, who has a distinct look full of abstract prints in teals and purples. Any piece of her clothing could be framed and hung on a beach house wall – ironic, since she’s not a beach person.

My mom desperately wanted me to wear prints. Every joint shopping trip, she would pick out some printed tops and tell me how great they’d look on me. She would send me texts with printed skirts and ask me if I liked them. In person, I looked at her like she was crazy and shook my head. I ignored her texts altogether. I love my mom. She’s one of my favorite people on the planet, and undoubtedly my biggest cheerleader, but I didn’t understand her obsession with dressing me in prints.

My late 20s have been both wonderful and horrible. I grew up more between the ages of 26 and 28 then I did all of my early 20s. Somewhere between the death of two close friends, the 2016 election, making my first big purchases without parental help, and climbing the corporate ladder, I experienced the moment that arguably makes you an adult: the realization that there is no such thing as an adult who has it all figured out. Every adult guesses and hopes it works. Every adult goes to sleep at night knowing they didn't complete half of their to-do list. Every adult wakes up in the morning and just tries to do their best.

That realization is lonely. It made me appreciate the adults in my life more — especially my mom. It's impressive, truly, that parents are able to convince their kids they know what's going on all the time. Or ever, really. It was after this moment of recognition that, I finally reached for a print again. I was home with my mom shopping, having just returned from a funeral, and she picked out a floral to show me. It wasn't a floral that you would imagine on grandma's sofa, but a big, demanding floral on a black background. This time, finally, I said yes.

At the time, I thought I said yes because I wanted to make my mom happy. Because it felt like home and security. In mourning, I needed nostalgia. But, soon thereafter, I bought more. I bought printed tops, skirts, and dresses. They weren't the same prints of my childhood — think less Lilly Pulitzer and more stripes, polka dots, grids, and florals on black or dark backgrounds. Prints that I paired with pencil skirts, skinny jeans, and knee-high boots.

Recently, I had a big presentation at work and I wasn't sure what to wear. After rejecting three or four outfits and running out of time before I needed to start my commute, I heard a voice — my overly confident 16-year-old self, to be honest — saying "wear a printed dress, it works for any occasion." It worked.

No, I'm not the fantasy adult I once envisioned. I will always be a combination of where I came from (florals, included), I will always be my mother’s daughter, and I will probably always be working toward the idea of "adult" I have in my head. Honestly, adulthood is messier than I thought it would be, but I wake up in the morning determined to do the best I can. In prints.

Welcome to MyIdentity. The road to owning your identity is rarely easy. In this yearlong program, we will celebrate that journey and explore how the choices we make on the outside reflect what we’re feeling on the insideand the important role fashion and beauty play in helping people find and express who they are.

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When designer Christopher Kane sent his fall 2018 collection down the runway back in February, he sparked conversation at a time – post-#MeToo, post-Time's Up – when talking about sex and sexuality felt tricky.

Inspired by The Joy of Sex: A Gourmet Guide To Lovemaking, an erotic manual first published in 1972, Kane's show explored varying notions of sex, from provocative fabrics like leather, lace and marabou feathers to the dress that rounded off the show, featuring an explicit line drawing from the manual.

"I first came across the book in my college library around 16 years ago," Kane tells Refinery29. "Years passed, and I have always looked into the world of human behavior and science and nature as a source of reference. I have done so many collections based on sex: resort 2014, 'Sex Education' (spring 204), life drawings made into lovers lace (fall 2015). My love of drawing made me remember the famous book that contains the most beautiful life studies by the artist Chris Foss of lovemaking. They serve a purpose and really educate you in the art of being a better lover."

While sex most certainly sells, the piece that emerged triumphant from Kane's collection is his 'More Joy' slogan T-shirt. "I thought it was a very powerful statement, and it has surpassed its original connection to the sex manual," Kane explains. "It’s became my daily mantra. Don’t we all need a little more joy in our lives?"

If Dior's We Should All Be Feminists tee ruled 2017, then Kane's ruled 2018. Worn by everyone from off-duty models to Susie Lau and Julia Restoin Roitfeld, the joyful call-to-arms is a reflection of how we're all seeking a little more positivity. We asked the designer what and who brings him joy, and why we need it more than ever in 2018.

What has been the most joyful time in your life?
Christopher Kane:
"I’m generally a happy person. Showtime is always a real high, and after any show you feel so much relief and joy at the idea of closure and pride to have accomplished another collection."

What are three things that always bring you joy?
CK:
"My family and friends. My dog, Bruce Tito. Working in the studio with my sister Tammy and an amazing team around me."

If we're struggling to find it, how can we experience more joy in our lives?
CK:
"I think today we are so involved in everyone else's business, thanks to social media opening our eyes to others, that we need to focus on ourselves more and stop comparing ourselves to everyone. I also find traveling to other parts of the world, especially places that have a completely opposite way of life to me, helps to really ground me and prove how lucky I am."

Which song or album brings you joy?
CK:
"I really love the gospel singer Mahalia Jackson and her version of 'Just A Closer Walk With Thee' is truly a remarkable song and it gets me every time."

What is something that brings you joy but shouldn't?
CK:
"Lots of things, but at the moment I’m enjoying being back in the gym and working out. Endorphins from the workouts are giving me a new lease of life."

How does fashion bring you joy?
CK:
"Fashion is full of surprises so it always keeps me on my toes – that's the fun part."

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Frequent visitors and the born-and-bred alike know that New York City is known for a lot of major firsts, like the first bank-issued credit cards, the first teddy bear — even the first plate of eggs Benedict was served in the kitchen at the now-shuttered Waldorf Astoria.

And in addition to being the original home to our favorite brunch entrée, New York is also the birthplace of the very first nail salon in the U.S. Fast forward 140 years, and the city is home to more than a thousand of them. And while we can all appreciate giving ourselves a good DIY mani while binge-watching The Office, let’s be honest: Nail care is one beauty ritual that most people are happy to outsource.

To avoid the potential staph infections and design booklets of bad nail art, ahead are the go-to spots worth a standing appointment. Whether you're looking for one-of-a-kind designs or a simple gel manicure, these are the best New York nail salons to try today.

Akiko Nails
Into intricate nail art? Look no further than this LES nail shop. Here, nail artists borrow traditional Japanese techniques to create, well, anything you want. Not feeling so inspired? No problem: You can check out the gallery here or simply brainstorm with your technician, as the shop specializes in hundreds of designs.

Akiko Nails, 137 Rivington St. (near Norfolk St.); 646-841-6721.

Photo: Courtesy ofr Akiko Nails.

Bed Of Nails
This Harlem nail salon is arguably the neighborhood’s most posh; owner Candice Idehen, who’s tended to models’ nails at global fashion weeks, has stocked her spot with premium lacquers from the likes of Chanel, Deborah Lippmann, Tom Ford, and Essie. When she’s not on set for magazines such as Bazaar and Vogue, Idehen still takes appointments at her salon. It might not be a bad idea to become one of her regulars before word gets all the way out.

Bed of Nails, 2272 Adam Clayton Powell Jr. Boulevard (between West 133rd and West 134th); 212-694-2200.

Photo: Courtesy of Bed Of Nails.

Bisou
Looking for a one-of-a-kind nail art experience? Make an appointment at Soho's Bisou. It's the en vogue nail art haven cranking out original designs you haven't seen all over Instagram.

Bisou Nail Art Atelier, 6 Spring Street; 347-330-3477.

Photo Courtesy of Vogue.

Chillhouse
Ever wish you could grab a cappuccino to sip on during your mani or follow up that gel nail art with a massage? Chillhouse makes it all possible. With an extensive service menu and an Instagram-worthy aesthetic, this newer favorite has it all — with a matcha latte on the side.

Chillhouse, 149 Essex Street; 646-678-3501.

Delacqua Salon
It's not cheap, but if you're looking for indulgence, this Brooklyn salon — which looks like a hipster tattoo parlor set in the Victorian era — is your spot. A popular service is the non-acrylic manicure using LNC gel, with some add-on 3-D nail art for drama.

Delacqua Salon and Spa, 2027 86th Street (between Bay 26th and Bay 25th Streets), Brooklyn; 718-266-1233.

Photo: Courtesy of Yelp.

Essie Flagship Salon
Situated inside Samuel Shriqui is nail legend Essie Weingarten's first-ever salon. Choose from over 300 of the brand's iconic shades (everything from Ballet Slippers to Mint Candy Apple) and sink into one of the oversized, lush leather chairs, which are just as colorful as the polish itself. It's a designer home for a household beauty name.

Essie Flagship Salon, 35 East 65th Street (between Madison and Park); 212-472-6805.

Photo: Courtesy of Essie Flagship Salon.

Green Nail Salon

This Brooklyn spa (that's only steps away from the L) specializes in one thing: affordable nail art. The experience won't be as glamorous as it might be in a boutique spot in uptown Manhattan, but walking away with a rad manicure that doesn't immediately trigger buyer's remorse is definitely worth considering when your budget is tight and your cuticles are overgrown.

Green Nail Salon, 354 Graham Ave Brooklyn; 718-218-8985.

Hortūs Nailworks
An appointment for one of this LES mainstay's totally indulgent — and blissfully affordable — manicure or pedicure treatments will have you feeling like you just came back from one of those spa retreats Gisele gets to take. Listen to smooth jazz, sip cocktails during Hortūs Happy Hour (11 a.m. - 4 p.m., Monday through Wednesday), and talk it out with Jane, the owner, who might be one of the sweetest people you'll ever meet.

Hortūs Nailworks, 210 Forsyth Street (between Stanton and East Houston); 917-475-1558.

Photo: Courtesy of Hortus Nailworks.

Jin Soon Natural Hand & Foot Salon
Nail artist Jin Soon is a mainstay backstage at fashion week, where she consistently whips up gorgeous nail looks that quickly become trends. But her salon, of which there are multiple locations across NYC, is definitely a more low-key experience. The spot is known for its luxe add-ons, like a flower-petal foot soak, to give you a seriously relaxing spa experience.

Jin Soon Natural Hand & Foot Salon, multiple locations.

Photo: Courtesy of Jin Soon Natural Hand & Food Salon.

Local Honey
This Brooklyn salon does it all — nails, lash extensions, brows, waxing, and more — making it a one-stop shop for all things beauty in Bushwick. Your options are unlimited, from nail art to a simple "quickie" manicure or pedicure. Bonus? The prices are super competitive.

Local Honey, 53 Irving Ave. (at Troutman St.), Brooklyn; 347-404-6139.

Marie Nails
The artists here make sure every manicure is photo-worthy and perfect down to the last detail, but we suggest booking an appointment far in advance — it seems the secret is out.

Marie Nails, 155 Prince Street; 646-370-4170.

Photo: Via @marienails/Instagram.

The Nail Boutique
Dying to try acrylic but never had the guts? The Nail Boutique has the liquid courage you need — we mean nail polish, of course. This boutique spa manages to be glitzy without forsaking cleanliness or professionalism. Their chief mission: to make you feel fabulous.

The Nail Boutique, 983 Fulton Street, Brooklyn; 718-636-2024.

Nail+Spa Sakura
Sisters Yumiko and Fumiko Kano have a long history of successful nail salons: The duo owned three spots in Japan before launching stateside, where they opened their first spa on the Upper East Side in 2007. Next came their serene Lower East Side haunt, which boasts a relaxing, sophisticated interior and a meticulous staff.

Nail+Spa Sakura, 35 East 1st Street (between First and Second avenues); 212-387-9161.

Photo: Courtesy of NAIL+SPA Sakura.

Oh, My Nails!
If you're looking to splurge for a special occasion, consider a visit to Oh, My Nails. Run by nail artist MoMo — the woman behind Beyoncé's manicures — you can always expect to leave the salon with the kind of nail art you won't see on anyone else. Gel mani addicts will also appreciate the fact that Oh, My Nails! uses CalGel, a relatively less-damaging, chip-free, gel polish that doesn't smell nearly as nauseating as others. Just make sure you call ahead: They do not take walk-ins.

Oh, My Nails, 273 E 10th St; 646-590-4700.

Paintbox
So maybe you’re interested in nail art, but you don’t want your thumbnails to have 3D dinosaurs playing ping-pong while a Precious Moments kitten pounces on your pinky. That’s where Paintbox comes in. The spacious studio features a menu of chic seasonal designs all dreamed up by celebrity manicurist and creative director Julie Kandalec. A host of smart touches (complimentary beverages, iPhone charging stations) has quickly placed this spot among the city’s best beautifiers.

Paintbox, 17 Crosby Street (between Grand and Howard); 212-219-2412.

Paintbucket
If you take the nail art options from Paintbox, mix it with the cool-girl vibe of Chillhouse, then stick it in Brooklyn, you'll get Paintbucket. Already boasting an extensive lookbook, a relaxing space to spend a Sunday afternoon, and free bubbly, this salon is located just far enough away from the busy streets of Williamsburg that the low-key spot is still a bit of a secret. Though, we have a feeling that won't be the case for long...

Paintbucket, 204 Wythe Ave. Brooklyn; 347-987-4700.

Pau Hana
If you still think of everything south of Williamsburg as a no man's land, then avail yourself of this teeny-tiny nail salon in one of Brooklyn's most charming neighborhoods. The Hawaiian-themed decor is kitschy in the best way, and they have numerous organic polish options on offer, as well as your Essie and OPI favorites. Just be sure to book a chair well in advance — walk-ins are accepted and the seats fill up fast.

Pau Hana, 235 Court St. (at Baltic St.), Brooklyn; 347-223-4224.

ph7
This tiny salon is decked out in minimal decor, packed with non-toxic nail polish from floor to ceiling, and stocked with organic herbal tea. If you haven't already noticed, this salon boasts a mission statement that includes eco-friendly services, organic essential oil hand massages, and handcrafted wood furniture that looks like something Aidan Shaw made on SATC — with low-key vibes to match. A gel manicure won't cost you more than $50 and walk-ins are totally okay (although appointments are appreciated).

ph7, 227 Grand St. (between Driggs and Roebling), Brooklyn; 718-218-8586.

Primp & Polish
No, this isn’t the cheapest spot in Brooklyn, and we’re not crazy about having to pay $4 more for Dior or Chanel lacquer. But we’re letting that go because of these three words: outdoor pedicure garden, where you can stretch out while your feet are massaged, your hangnails are removed, and your toenails are painted to a glossy shine. No need to worry about inclement weather, either — the patio is covered, so you can get groomed come rain, shine, or whatever crazy stuff Mother Nature throws at us next.

Primp & Polish, 172 Bedford Avenue (between North 7th and North 8th), Brooklyn; 718-384-3555.

Red Door Salon & Spa
If treating yourself to a luxurious mani/pedi appointment at Elizabeth Arden's famous salon (Marilyn Monroe was a patron) is wrong, then who wants to be right? For your first visit, consider the Escape service, which offers a 10-minute hand and arm massage in addition to the hour-long treatment.

Red Door Salon & Spa, 663 Fifth Avenue at 52nd Street; 212-546-0200.

Photo: Courtesy of Red Door Salon & Spa.

RounGe NYC
If Cardi B didn't have a personal nail artist already on call, we could envision her stopping by this salon any time she came back to the city. The hotspot imports techniques, styles, and equipment directly from Japan and employs a team of skilled artists for the bedazzled designs you never knew you needed. But be forewarned: One manicure can take upwards of three hours. (In this video, R29 beauty host Mi-Anne gets a Sailor Moon-inspired set.)

RounGe NYC, 201 E 23rd Street; 646-707-3504.

Sundays Nail Studio
Highlighting the industrial architecture the city is known for, this Flatiron nail studio brings a down-to-earth vibe to the typical NYC salon. Somewhere between Southern California and Scandinavian style, the hidden gem is a minimalist's oasis — and not just because of the earthy interior design.

Founder Amy Ling Lin was determined to create a studio that provided safer nail care for clients without all the frills, but packed with plenty of wellness benefits. Aside from her own nail polish line (called Sundays, of course) — which is non-toxic, cruelty free, and vegan — Lin's salon also offers guided-meditation manicures for anyone looking for some R&R from the busy city.

Sundays Nail Studio, 51 E. 25th St.; 646-998-5711.

Sweet Lily Natural Nail Spa
Sweet Lily's nail philosophy is consciousness: The spa actively avoids the use of harsh chemicals, instead opting for safe, natural, yet still effective products. All of the hand and foot exfoliants are made on site, and the spa exclusively uses Zoya polishes, which are free of formaldehyde, DBP, toluene, or camphor. Treat yourself both vanity-wise and health-wise.

Sweet Lily Natural Nail Spa, 222 West Broadway (between White and Franklin streets); 212-925-5441.

Photo: Courtesy of Sweet Lily.

Tenoverten
Better show up 10 minutes early for your mani/pedi — you’ll want the extra time to pore over Tenoverten’s massive selection of polish colors. Along with its excellent house brand of five-free lacquers, the salon has the latest hues from the likes of RGB, NARS, Essie, and Dior. As for the services themselves, the cheerful technicians and their obsession with cleanliness are top-notch.

Tenoverten, multiple locations.

Valley Nails
Dream it up, and chances are good that Valley can make it happen on your nails. Since 2006, this downtown salon has been decorating nails with everything from Degas to Warhol, The Hunger Games to Grumpy Cat — and, if you bring in an inspiration photo, your manicurist will be more than happy to translate it to your nails.

Valley Nails, multiple locations.

Photo: Courtesy of Valley Nails.

Van Court Studio
Looking for something natural and chic downtown? This non-toxic spa is for you. All of Van Court's polish options are five-, seven-, or nine-free (think: LVX, Floss Gloss, Deborah Lippmann, and more) and its creams and oils are natural and often organic. Did we mention that you can book an appointment in your home? Think Seamless for manicures.

Van Court Studio, 90 Water St. (near Gouverneur Lane); 212-509-2222.

Photo: Courtesy of Van Court Studio.

Vanity Projects
It’s not quite a gallery, exactly, but this space is so much more than a nail salon. Here, founder Rita de Alencar Pinto fuses two of her professional interests — fine-art curation and nail art — into a high-concept mani/pedi studio. Video-art installations play on the walls, while the “residency” calendar features a rotating roster of well-known nail artists such as Masako Sasaki and Jessica Washick.

Vanity Projects, 99 Chrystie Street, 2F (between Grand and Hester); 646-410-2928.

Yukie Beauty Spa
A hidden gem just east of Central Park — right above the yellow Serafina awnings, for the uptown natives — Yukie Beauty Spa brings the elegance and sculpture of trendy Japanese nail art to an old-school Fifth Avenue studio, decorated with dark brown leather recliners and low hanging chandeliers. If you're looking to dip your fingers into the world of 3D nail art, this is the place to do it.

Yuki Beauty Spa, 40 East 58th St, 2nd Floor (between Madison and Park Avenues); 212-702‐9660.

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Of all the beauty woes we're struggling with, scalp issues are certainly among the least glamorous. While it’s a bit of an awkward subject — because things like dandruff have long been taboo — a lot of people suffer from scalp flare-ups. And these somewhat embarrassing issues are not only problematic in the dry, winter months, but through sweaty summer days, too.

We assure you that scalp problems are nothing to be embarrassed about. There’s a slew of solutions to soothe itchy dryness, greasy product build-up, and the flaking and irritation that tend to follow. To prove it, we tapped Stephen D. Pullan, a trichologist at the Philip Kingsley Clinic, to give us the lowdown on exactly how to alleviate these uncomfortable issues.

Ahead, seven tips for saving your scalp — whether you’re suffering from a little sunburnt irritation or a wet-looking muck of product buildup. Click through to find an answer to your dandruff dilemmas.

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1. Exfoliate
Just like our bodies need a good slough to remove dead skin once in a while, our scalps need that exfoliation as well — sans the scrub, though. Instead, Pullan suggests using an intensive exfoliating scalp mask once or twice a week to reduce flakiness, counteract buildup, and soothe irritation.



Kiehl's Deep Micro-Exfoliating Scalp Treatment, $20, available at Kiehl'sPhoto: Via Kiehl's.

Love using dry shampoo every morning? Then you know that your hair can quickly turn heavy and greasy from the powder buildup on your scalp. If you're feeling extra oily, sub out your normal shampoo for a clarifying scalp scrub, like this fancy sea salt paste from Christophe Robin. You'll step out of the shower with an squeaky clean scalp and lighter hair.



Christophe Robin Christophe Robin Cleansing Purifying Scrub with Sea Sal, $53, available at Birchbox

Rebalancing your hair's pH is the first step in fixing a dry scalp and this apple cider vinegar scrub will do just that. Bonus: Not only does it help your scalp retain moisture and buff away dead skin cells, it also won't strip color if you just got new highlights last week.



dpHUE Apple Cider Vinegar Scalp Scrub (9 oz.), $38, available at DermStore

2. Try A Tonic
To keep redness and flakes at bay, apply a leave-in tonic post-shampoo. “After cleansing the scalp thoroughly, it can help to apply a toner directly to areas of the scalp that you’d like to target most,” says Pullan. “A tonic permeates deeply, which offers long-lasting relief.” Opt for calming ingredients, such as glycerin and aloe.



Philip Kingsley Flaky Scalp Toner, $36, available at Philip KingsleyPhoto: Via Philip Kingsley.

With a cooling blend of peppermint and spearmint oil to reduce scalp itchiness and tea tree oil to lessen irritation and inflammation, this treatment hydrates the scalp. Just massage a few drops onto your roots after shampooing, and you'll offset the flakes that have yet to arrive.



Briogeo Scalp Revival Charcoal + Tea Tree Scalp Treatment, $31.47, available at Amazon

3. Use A Therapeutic Shampoo
Whether your scalp issues are mild or severe, it’s always best to steer clear of shampoos with harsh irritants and fragrances. Pullan recommends a therapeutic shampoo with coal tar. (Neutrogena's is the gold standard.) While it may sound like a scary ingredient, the FDA has deemed under-5% concentrations in OTC products safe for use. “Tar is something we add when treating excessively itchy or flaky scalps,” says Pullan. Other ingredients common in scalp-soothing shampoos include zinc, salicylic acid, and tea-tree oil.



Neutrogena Neutrogena T\u002F Sal Therapeutic Shampoo Scalp Build-Up Control, $7.99, available at walgreens.comPhoto: Via Neutrogena.

4. Start From The Inside
Pullan stresses the importance of treating scalp problems through hydrating and eating nutrient-rich foods, in addition to topical treatments. “When we’re evaluating patients, we always tell them to drink tons of water and eat foods such as avocado, salmon, nuts, and anything containing essential omega-3 oils,” he says. That's all good and fine — but for the girl on the go, there are always capsules.



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If you can't be bothered with shipping and handling, there are fish oil supplements you can find right at your local Sephora.



Hum Omega The Great Supplements, $30, available at Sephora

5. Oil Up
Applying skin-loving oils directly to the scalp can be extremely beneficial in combating dryness and soothing irritation. Coconut and jojoba oils both contain anti-inflammatory and anti-fungal properties, while olive oil expertly conditions with squalene, a naturally derived lipid used to protect and lubricate the skin.



desert essense No7 Restore & Renew Face & Neck Multi Action Serum, $9.99, available at walgreens.comPhoto: Via Desert Essence.

6. Apply Conditioner Strategically
Go ahead, apply your favorite conditioner liberally from the mid-lengths to the ends of your strands, but resist the urge to massage it into your scalp — it will only do harm, Pullan tells us. “Conditioner is meant to moisturize hair, not skin,” he says. “It will clog the pores in your scalp and cause further issues with buildup.”



Carol's Daughter Monoi Repairing Conditioner, $22, available at Carol's DaughterPhoto: Via Carol's Daughter.

7. See A Doctor If You Need To

If you’ve tried it all and your scalp issues persist or worsen, it may be time to see a dermatologist about getting a steroid or cortisone treatment — or even an antibiotic. What’s not normal? Bleeding, excessive buildup, and scabbing. Make the appointment sooner rather than later to assuage this painful problem.

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Easy Ways To Live On The Cheap, According To 10 Millennial Women

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Holiday season approacheth, which means food, family, and over-spending. So as part of Operation: Holiday Bank Account Damage Control, we asked you, our readers, to give us your best savings hacks, from buying LaCroix in bulk to using only a few tablespoons of laundry detergent instead of the full cup. Whether you bring an avocado in your purse so you don't have to pay extra to add it to your takeout salad, or split a Netflix membership between five of your friends — we don't judge, we just want to save, too!

Ahead, 10 millennial women share their best cheap living hacks for saving on food, transportation, beauty, travel, and everything in between.

Name: Alexis
Age: 23
Location: San Diego, CA
Salary: $36,000

"I keep apples, a box of oatmeal, and peanut butter in my desk so I'm not tempted to spend money on food at work. I also avoid buying alcohol with meals out. It can double your bill in no time!

"When I see a good deal on any kind of meat, I buy a bunch of it, so I'll have plenty until it goes on sale again. I also plan my meals around what produce is on sale at the grocery store. If I have a $20 bill, I will go out of my way not to break it, and when I'm tempted by small purchases I ask myself: 'Is this worth breaking my $20?' It almost never is."

Name: MJ
Age: 31
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
Salary: $31,000

"I love to use makeup and skincare from high-end stores like Sephora. If it's something that comes in a squeeze bottle, I cut it in half with kitchen scissors when it's almost gone. It sounds crazy, but you'd be amazed by how much is still left!"

Name: Tania
Age: 24
Location: Washington, D.C.
Salary: $46,000

"My office building has a great pay-by-the-pound deli bar, so I bring in a Tupperware of rice from home and just buy a quarter serving of a delicious side to mix in. I save money by bringing my own cheap (and heavy) staple, and buy a light serving of the delicious chicken that’s too complicated for me to bother making!"

Name: Sara
Age: 28
Location: Santa Rosa, CA
Income: $18/hour

"My husband and I have worked as resident managers for the last three years. This means our rent is free, since we work as on-site employees. Since I also have a full-time job, this allows me to save a significant portion of my income."

Name: Ariel
Age: 27
Location: Austin, TX
Salary: $30,000

"1) Avoid bottled water at all costs! My city has great tap water, but the old piping in my apartment gives it a terrible taste. Instead of wasting money on bottled water, I take a couple of reusable 2L water bottles with me to work, and I fill them up at the filtered water fountain before leaving for the day. Voila! Free clean water and zero plastic waste!

2) Air dry your clothes whenever possible. Dryers eat up a lot of energy and are totally unnecessary, especially if you live in a sunny place. Throw the clothes on a cheap clothes rack outside, and they'll be just as dry in a couple of hours. And laundry detergent? Most people use way too much! You only need a couple of tablespoons at most, not an entire cup. Reduce your laundry detergent consumption and pocket the savings instead.

3) Think outside the box for cheap date ideas. Take a walk in a park, volunteer at a beach clean-up event, attend a free outdoor concert — there are so many things you can do! Getting coffee or drinks is nice and all, but some of my favorite dates I've been on were totally free. Plus, I think they're a great way to gauge a person's personality and potential compatibility. I'm an active, outdoorsy person. If I suggest something like taking a hike, and the other person balks at the idea, I know they're probably not the one for me."

Name: Rachel
Age: 23
Location: Newport Beach, CA
Salary: $92,000

"I travel every week for work (both flying and driving), and I hate spending money on bottled water. If I forget a refillable one, I always go to Starbucks and buy a $2 bagel or snack and ask for a water cup instead of paying $3 for a bottle."

Name: Kaye
Age: 32
Location: San Francisco, CA
Salary: $215,000 plus approximately $125,000 in stock and bonuses

"1) Sign up for Scott's Cheap Flights to get real time notifications about cheap airfare because I fly internationally every year. I've flown to Europe roundtrip for as low as $350 from SF!

2) Learn how to make avocado toast and all the egg dishes you like so you don't have to go to brunch, wait in line for half an hour, and spend $30 on something that literally takes 10 minutes and $5 to make at home.

3) Costco for cheap gas. And buy LaCroix at Costco — much cheaper at $7 for a 24-pack instead of $6 for 12.

4) Camelcamelcamel.com to get notifications on price drops on Amazon products.

5) Hoard some of the free fruit that your office may provide — I hardly ever buy fruit now.

6) For services that I want to use for just the trial period, I make sure to either turn auto-renew off when I sign up or make a calendar reminder to cancel them."

Name: Dallas
Age: 29
Location: Dallas, TX
Salary: $58,000

"I sell on Mercari to chip away at my medical school debt. I've been doing it for about a year, and when I was at my height of selling, I was making $800/month selling stuff from around my house that I've accumulated. I literally don't buy anything new — just go around and list/sell things that I don't use. It adds up and has been a great way to take some pressure off of me financially."

Name: Nathalie
Age: 26
Location: Montreal, Canada
Salary: $ 50,000

"I always check for coupons when shopping online, and I pay with a cash-back credit card. I also check tagged Instagram photos of brands to find influencer discounts, which often works!"

Name: Bri
Age: 29
Location: Vancouver, Canada
Salary: $52,000

"Once a week, I challenge myself to cook with whatever I have on hand. It’s a great way to get creative while cooking and use up what's in my pantry."

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